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Fussy people

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

It seems so many people have so much criteria about a bit ov fun essentially.its a shagging site lol,anyone agree,or is it really like buyng a perfect diamond lol,i do like this forum alot though,free space to air feelings xx

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By *thwalescplCouple over a year ago

brecon

Its a swinging site, not Instashag.

Don't worry about how others run their profiles and swinging, just concentrate on your own.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I have to be attracted to someone to have sex with them, and I find it difficult to find people that I fancy enough to let them into my body.

If that makes me fussy then so be it.

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By *rincess peachWoman over a year ago

shits creek

"I have to be attracted to someone to have sex with them, and I find it difficult to find people that I fancy enough to let them into my body.

If that makes me fussy then so be it.

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By *imiUKMan over a year ago

Hereford

Unashamedly fussy here, ta.

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By *inky-MinxWoman over a year ago

Grantham

Yes it's a swinging site not a shag site.

And guess what, us women are allowed to choose who we meet, hang out with and sleep with.

We don't have to meet men just because we think they do

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By *iss.RedWoman over a year ago

somewhere

"Unashamedly fussy here, ta. "

Ditto

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It's good to be fussy then you get the standard your looking for instead of settling for anything

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By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
Forum Mod

East Sussex

I'm one of those fussy people.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I have to be attracted to someone to have sex with them, and I find it difficult to find people that I fancy enough to let them into my body.

If that makes me fussy then so be it.

Got to go with this. Of course I've had no luck whatsoever on here....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Nothing wrong with being fussy...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

THIS IS NOT A SHAGGING SITE.

Geez, how many times

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By *s_macWoman over a year ago

Traffic land

"I have to be attracted to someone to have sex with them, and I find it difficult to find people that I fancy enough to let them into my body.

If that makes me fussy then so be it.

Spot on!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Hey if any ladies are willing to lower their standards, hit me up!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm fussy and happy

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I have to be attracted to someone to have sex with them, and I find it difficult to find people that I fancy enough to let them into my body.

If that makes me fussy then so be it.

Spot on!

Yes!

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By *ce WingerMan over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

"Yes it's a swinging site not a shag site.

And guess what, us women are allowed to choose who we meet, hang out with and sleep with.

We don't have to meet men just because we think they do

Same applies to men as well though, just cos you've got bewbies and a split arse don't mean we're gonna be fawning all over you

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yes.

I'm personally attracted to depth and intelligence.

Without those qualities, sex is empty and pointless, for me. You could be the best lover in the world, and I'd still rather read my book, of an evening.

Don't rubbish women for knowing what they want and sticking to it. It's called having standards, and integrity, not fussiness.

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By *inky-MinxWoman over a year ago

Grantham

"Yes it's a swinging site not a shag site.

And guess what, us women are allowed to choose who we meet, hang out with and sleep with.

We don't have to meet men just because we think they do

Same applies to men as well though, just cos you've got bewbies and a split arse don't mean we're gonna be fawning all over you

Of course, but when have you seen me whining about men being fussy?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Fussy as fuck about who I let inside me

How awful

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

It is a fuk site,pure and simple,if people want to choose,great,but definately alot ov snobbery on here !!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Yes it's a swinging site not a shag site.

And guess what, us women are allowed to choose who we meet, hang out with and sleep with.

We don't have to meet men just because we think they do

Same applies to men as well though, just cos you've got bewbies and a split arse don't mean we're gonna be fawning all over you

I opened an account with no photos. I think you'll find that men DO fawn all over women, even when they can't see their 'bewbies and a split arse'.

The word 'woman' and a pulse, is all it takes.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm not fussy but I only fuck those I'm attracted to.

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By *rincess peachWoman over a year ago

shits creek

"It is a fuk site,pure and simple,if people want to choose,great,but definately alot ov snobbery on here !!

Hahhahahahahaaaaa, I'm tickled because if that is your attitude then this is probably the most interaction you've had on this site since you joined! Snobbery

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"THIS IS NOT A SHAGGING SITE.

Geez, how many times "

No matter how many times questions are asked there's no call for rudeness. Or were you never a newbie?

PTU xxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Ov course people like wat they like,but people are here for sex not chess pmsl

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By *oiluvfunMan over a year ago

Penrith

"I have to be attracted to someone to have sex with them, and I find it difficult to find people that I fancy enough to let them into my body.

If that makes me fussy then so be it.

I usually know within the first 5 minutes of meeting them, so yes, brand me 'fussy' too

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It is a fuk site,pure and simple,if people want to choose,great,but definately alot ov snobbery on here !!

How is only wanting to sleep someone that you fancy snobbery?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Freedom ov speech??

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By *ovely CummingsWoman over a year ago

Peaky Nipples

"Unashamedly fussy here, ta.

Ditto"

Is there such a thing as

Double-Ditto??

Well there is now!

Being choosy over who puts themself self inside me is my prerogative thanks

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It is a fuk site,pure and simple,if people want to choose,great,but definately alot ov snobbery on here !!

It's not snobbery. There's far more men on here then women so I'm afraid you boys have to work for your dinner.

PTU xxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

But a womans clock runs down sooner ??

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Unashamedly fussy here, ta.

Ditto

Is there such a thing as

Double-Ditto??

Well there is now!

Being choosy over who puts themself self inside me is my prerogative thanks

I misread double-ditto

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By *ina75Woman over a year ago

Stone

My body is mine. I get to choose who is allowed near it.

I am not ashamed to say that I have had more than a few sex partners over the years but every single one of them was chosen by me because they fitted my idea of attractive.

I know what I like and I am not just a hole or a goal.

If you can't handle the rejection try looking elsewhere.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I have to be attracted to someone to have sex with them, and I find it difficult to find people that I fancy enough to let them into my body.

If that makes me fussy then so be it.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"But a womans clock runs down sooner ??"

And...?

Most women aren't on here to conceive before their 'clock runs down.'

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Yes it's a swinging site not a shag site.

And guess what, us women are allowed to choose who we meet, hang out with and sleep with.

We don't have to meet men just because we think they do

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By *imiUKMan over a year ago

Hereford

"But a womans clock runs down sooner ??"

Taxiiiiiiiiii

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By *ce WingerMan over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

"Yes it's a swinging site not a shag site.

And guess what, us women are allowed to choose who we meet, hang out with and sleep with.

We don't have to meet men just because we think they do

Same applies to men as well though, just cos you've got bewbies and a split arse don't mean we're gonna be fawning all over you

I opened an account with no photos. I think you'll find that men DO fawn all over women, even when they can't see their 'bewbies and a split arse'.

The word 'woman' and a pulse, is all it takes.

Sorry, I fell into the trap of generalising all men on here

Everyone has their own strategies and opinions of course, but I am not one to pander to the pussy

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By *sGivesWoodWoman over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"But a womans clock runs down sooner ??"

Meaning what exactly?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It is a fuk site,pure and simple,if people want to choose,great,but definately alot ov snobbery on here !!

Hahhahahahahaaaaa, I'm tickled because if that is your attitude then this is probably the most interaction you've had on this site since you joined! Snobbery

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"But a womans clock runs down sooner ??"

Here to enjoy sex with attractive men not uggos and not here to procreate so that sounds completely ignorant for most women on here

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By *sGivesWoodWoman over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"It seems so many people have so much criteria about a bit ov fun essentially.its a shagging site lol,anyone agree,or is it really like buyng a perfect diamond lol,i do like this forum alot though,free space to air feelings xx

Good luck with finding a lady to accompany you to your club meet by the way!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Op when my clock runs out has nothing to do with my activities on here.

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By *yldstyleWoman over a year ago

A world of my own

Fussy,judgemental and not willing to compromise here. I've been told more than once I've no right to be as I'm nothing special. My response was that they shouldn't then be questioning my decision.

I don't care what others do or how they use this site. I'm here for me.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It is a fuk site,pure and simple,if people want to choose,great,but definately alot ov snobbery on here !!

How is only wanting to sleep someone that you fancy snobbery?

Because they dont want to sleep with him of course

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By *owdyboy 890Man over a year ago

Country West

"But a womans clock runs down sooner ??

Meaning what exactly?

Must have taken an hour out of a woman's clock hehe xx

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By *emini ManMan over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

OP you are seriously deluded if you think this is a "fuk site" (your spelling not mine!!) - yes people do arrange to meet others from here, and yes some of those meets do end up with those people having sex, BUT it doesn't mean that people aren't discerning and choose carefully who they want to sleep with based on a whole raft of criteria, including all the usual things like attraction, intelligence, personality etc.

If that's snobbery then I'm a complete snob and proudly so!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Oh dear I had hoped this would be a joke but the op is actually serious

There's so many levels of hypocrisy on here at times. If a woman exercises her right to choose who she engages in sexual activity with, on the basis of attraction and mutual respect then she is accused of snobbery and being overly fussy.

If a woman decides to again exercise her right to meet a large quantity of men she is then criticised, often by the same men, as not being fussy enough, and branded a slut.

Hopefully the op can pick up on a theme....we have a CHOICE what we do with our bodies. I suggest you do some homework on the swinging lifestyle and how this differs to a shagging site as you wrongly class this as. This is Fab Swingers not Fab Shaggers

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By *ophieslutTV/TS over a year ago

Central

Define what you mean by fussy op.

I've different criteria for people I'll date, marry or just shag but they relate to my tastes and needs.

I'm guessing that few here shag pretty much any one who offers

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By *SAchickWoman over a year ago

Hillside desolate

"It is a fuk site,pure and simple,if people want to choose,great,but definately alot ov snobbery on here !!

Wait a minute... We are allowed to choose? No fucking way???

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Snorrrrrr

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By *unandbuckCouple over a year ago

Sheffield

OP do you have no criteria then? Just shag anybody?

Why shouldn't other people choose to have sex with people they find physically and mentally attracted to?

MrB

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Snorrrrrr

You are so on the wrong site

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By *emini ManMan over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

"Snorrrrrr

Think this and your other posts tell us all we need to know

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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people have likes and dislikes is all sometimes they are Ott but just move onto next they won't mind

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Snorrrrrr

Think this and your other posts tell us all we need to know

Yes, especially as he PM'd me to say "yawn"

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Yes it's a swinging site not a shag site.

And guess what, us women are allowed to choose who we meet, hang out with and sleep with.

We don't have to meet men just because we think they do

And you shouldn't have to explain this

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By *urvymamaWoman over a year ago

Doncaster

I'd say your attitude is the real issue OP especially if it comes across in messages as it has in your post here

Sincerely signed

Fab snob

(Aka fussy bitch)

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We defo have to have a physical attraction and mental stimulation tops it off nicely

Defo wouldn't shag someone for the sake of it

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By *risky_MareWoman over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"Yes.

I'm personally attracted to depth and intelligence.

Without those qualities, sex is empty and pointless, for me. You could be the best lover in the world, and I'd still rather read my book, of an evening.

Don't rubbish women for knowing what they want and sticking to it. It's called having standards, and integrity, not fussiness."

This.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

i dont have sex with just anyone and i have to be in the mood

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Get me viral

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Snorrrrrr

Think this and your other posts tell us all we need to know

Yes, especially as he PM'd me to say "yawn""

Awwwww I thought I was special.

xxx

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By *rjpinkMan over a year ago

winterfell

I'm picky about everything else so i suppose finding a sex opponent is no different.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I have to fancy a fella if I'm going to get naked with him

Being on this site doesn't mean free sex for all. There has to be a connection

Hope this helps

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By *orum TrollWoman over a year ago

•+• Access Denied •+•

what do you mean by bit ov[sic] fun also?

most women want good sex and that's why they are fussy.

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By *nfinitylandMan over a year ago

Leicester

Why I wouldn't say I'm particularly fussy I do have to be attracted to the woman, women get hounded here I can imagine? So I wouldn't take it too personally if she doesn't want to sleep with you! Is males have plenty of competition haha... plus an attitude like that won't help your situation.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By *risky_MareWoman over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

And people keep saying 'This is not a fuk site...' but even if it WAS such a thing (whatever such a thing is) I doubt there is a site on earth where women 'fuk' men they are not attracted to, or everyone who asks......

I think the only women who do that are are the ones who need to be paid for it

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Ov course it helps,its true,my comment is about the nit pickers,we are all lonely here,people who are satified dont join sites like this,sorry for the therapy dudes xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Ov course it helps,its true,my comment is about the nit pickers,we are all lonely here,people who are satified dont join sites like this,sorry for the therapy dudes xx

Someone give him the Fab manual

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By *risky_MareWoman over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"Ov course it helps,its true,my comment is about the nit pickers,we are all lonely here,people who are satified dont join sites like this,sorry for the therapy dudes xx

Someone give him the Fab manual "

Cue some happily married swinging couples.....

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

People who dont need to shag about to fix there inner loneliness arnt here folks,iam,i admit it ??

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By *nfinitylandMan over a year ago

Leicester

"Ov course it helps,its true,my comment is about the nit pickers,we are all lonely here,people who are satified dont join sites like this,sorry for the therapy dudes xx

Someone give him the Fab manual "

Can I get a copy too? Thanks

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"People who dont need to shag about to fix there inner loneliness arnt here folks,iam,i admit it ??"

I think even if fab was explained lreooedky to you, you still wouldn't get it.

Maybe try some alternative sites. Fab SWINGERS doesn't seem to be for you

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Ov course it helps,its true,my comment is about the nit pickers,we are all lonely here,people who are satified dont join sites like this,sorry for the therapy dudes xx

Someone give him the Fab manual

Can I get a copy too? Thanks

I don't think you need one as badly

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm fussy and proud of it

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

I speak english !

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By *urvymamaWoman over a year ago

Doncaster

"People who dont need to shag about to fix there inner loneliness arnt here folks,iam,i admit it ??"

Just because unhappiness and loneliness are clearly your reason for being here doesn't mean they're everyone else's

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I have to be attracted to someone to have sex with them, and I find it difficult to find people that I fancy enough to let them into my body.

If that makes me fussy then so be it.

Spot on

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Hey if any ladies are willing to lower their standards, hit me up!

This! Lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"People who dont need to shag about to fix there inner loneliness arnt here folks,iam,i admit it ??

Just because unhappiness and loneliness are clearly your reason for being here doesn't mean they're everyone else's "

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Night night,thks everyone for ur help,peace,im out X

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By *atEvolutionCouple over a year ago

atlantisEVOLUTION. Stoke. HOT WIVES Sat 01

My version of swinging goes something like this . . .

. . . Meet you.

. . . Get to know you.

. . . See if I fancy you.

. . . See if I want to swing with you.

. . . anything else just wouldn't be swinging!

Cat X

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"People who dont need to shag about to fix there inner loneliness arnt here folks,iam,i admit it ??"

I'm not lonely, nor do I shag about.

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By *enmidsguyMan over a year ago

birmingham

"I have to be attracted to someone to have sex with them, and I find it difficult to find people that I fancy enough to let them into my body.

If that makes me fussy then so be it.

I think Fab gives a lady lots of choices and why would she meet a guy she's not attracted to? I know I wouldn't meet with out attraction

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If I only wanted something to fill my cunt I'd use a dildo.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Ov course people like wat they like,but people are here for sex not chess pmsl"

Swinging isn't just about sex though. And yup.. picky here too

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It is a fuk site,pure and simple,if people want to choose,great,but definately alot ov snobbery on here !!

What a douche.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"And people keep saying 'This is not a fuk site...' but even if it WAS such a thing (whatever such a thing is) I doubt there is a site on earth where women 'fuk' men they are not attracted to, or everyone who asks......

I think the only women who do that are are the ones who need to be paid for it

I don't think anyone's gonna fuck the OP either, after this thread.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Ov course it helps,its true,my comment is about the nit pickers,we are all lonely here,people who are satified dont join sites like this,sorry for the therapy dudes xx

Im here because im a kinky fucker and its helped me find someone i fancy that i can be kinky with sooo yeah go swivel

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By *nfinitylandMan over a year ago

Leicester

I think the only women who do that are are the ones who need to be paid for it

I don't think anyone's gonna fuck the OP either, after this thread."

I really hope he gets some though, could change how he sees women if he gets a bit of nasty

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By *rincess peachWoman over a year ago

shits creek

I think the only women who do that are are the ones who need to be paid for it

I don't think anyone's gonna fuck the OP either, after this thread.

I really hope he gets some though, could change how he sees women if he gets a bit of nasty

If you read his veri's he's had some... social from 1 woman, rudeys from men

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm just astounded at his 'if people want to choose, great'.

No, I'll just fuck anyone who asks then, ok?!

What a mindset to have.

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By *risky_MareWoman over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"I'm just astounded at his 'if people want to choose, great'.

No, I'll just fuck anyone who asks then, ok?!

What a mindset to have. "

He doesn't give a damn who he shags - why should the women!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Ov course people like wat they like,but people are here for sex not chess pmsl"

I couldn't give a monkey's arse who sits across a chess board from me; but I'm picky as heck about who gets near my fandango.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'm just astounded at his 'if people want to choose, great'.

No, I'll just fuck anyone who asks then, ok?!

What a mindset to have.

He doesn't give a damn who he shags - why should the women!!

I think he's more into men, as Peach just pointed out! Might be cause he's having no luck with women though?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Ov course people like wat they like,but people are here for sex not chess pmsl

I couldn't give a monkey's arse who sits across a chess board from me; but I'm picky as heck about who gets near my fandango. "
are you now dont suppose I could ever be considered ,please I said please

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Bring back the keys in a bowl days I say fs.

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By *nfinitylandMan over a year ago

Leicester

Unrelated but I can't stand the word udders when referencing boobs. Maybe because boobs are sexy and cows udders not so much

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By *rincess peachWoman over a year ago

shits creek

"Ov course people like wat they like,but people are here for sex not chess pmsl

I couldn't give a monkey's arse who sits across a chess board from me; but I'm picky as heck about who gets near my fandango. "

I've been tittering at fandango for quite a while now

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By *L RogueMan over a year ago

London

Has to be attraction or what's the point?

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By *illupMan over a year ago

Stoke-on-Trent

"Unashamedly fussy here, ta. "
Absolutely agree..rather have nowt that bad

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By *risky_MareWoman over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"Bring back the keys in a bowl days I say fs."

I think that's why so many men come here with the notion that the women will fuck anyone.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm fussy, and I make no excuse for it. There has to be some 'chemistry' and attraction, or its a non-starter. And if that costs me in potential meets, then so be it.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Unashamedly fussy here, ta.

Ditto"

Likewise.

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By *ilthyDebaucheryWoman over a year ago

Oswestry

It's called having standards!

My body's a temple

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

The site is how the individual wants to use it..You can meet members,or just chat to members..certainly dont use fab as a shagging site which it is not..Met some great people,and made some great long term friends..which i wouldnt have if i hadnt have joined..

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By *ficouldMan over a year ago

a quandary, could you change my mind?

Fussy?

Discerning

Selective

Particular

Yes indeed I am.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Nah I'm not fussy - anybody will do

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By *dam_TinaCouple over a year ago

Hampshire

"I speak english !"

But you write bollocks

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I speak english !

But you write bollocks"

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Why wouldn't I be fussy about who gets to put their penis in my vagina?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I like diamonds in the rough. You find people here that you like. It's up to each other if you have sex.

Does that sound fussy to you op?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

The OP sounds a little desperate if you ask me. Just because you pay your £5 that doesn't entitle you to a shag/fuk or any other way you want to put it. Women have a choice. Not just a choice of who they meet, but also who they interact with. I am under no illusion that 99% of the women here wouldn't choose me as a sexual partner, but that is life fella. And no disrespect to the ladies here but there are some here that I wouldn't choose, that's why it's called CHOICE. But I guess for you negative attention is better than none

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By *a Fee VerteWoman over a year ago

Limbo

Whatever is the point of threads like these?

Do any of us fussy types ever reconsider our pernickety ways? - No

Does anyone ever offer the poor entitled OP a sympathy shag? - No

Does the OP feel better for having ranted? - Probably not

In fact the only possible benefit this thread might provide is to confirm - if any confirmation is needed - exactly *why* it's good to be fussy

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

The mentality of some men on this site embarrasses me at times

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By *ecretlyASoftieWoman over a year ago

Hull but travel regularly

"Freedom ov speech??"

*of

Anyone who writes like this gets nowhere with me. Yeah I'm a snob and I'm cool with my choice. Tick tick my clock ran down writing this message too

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I have to be attracted to someone to have sex with them, and I find it difficult to find people that I fancy enough to let them into my body.

If that makes me fussy then so be it.

Totally agree with you there, we must be fussy then I guess.xxx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Yes it's a swinging site not a shag site.

And guess what, us women are allowed to choose who we meet, hang out with and sleep with.

We don't have to meet men just because we think they do

Well said. Far too many guys think women should just meet them and fuck them... Seriously? This site is whatever anyone wants and chooses it to be.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

I'm not fussy I'll shag anyone that ask's,it is just a sex site afterall!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We're all to our own OP, remember you can't please everyone. People are here for various reasons, there is only a very small percentile on fab who actually swing........ the remainder are nuttas! Welcome to the world of fab

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I have to be attracted to someone to have sex with them, and I find it difficult to find people that I fancy enough to let them into my body.

If that makes me fussy then so be it.

Agreed

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By *itmanAndHerrCouple over a year ago

st helens

I don't think we're fussy. We just like to fuck people we find attractive. Whether that's personality or looks or if we're lucky, both.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Wow i awake to see my thread still blasting.i can only assume ive hit a very raw nerve very close to the truth,ahh bless xx

and its really satifying to see so many getting defensive.we cum here cause were lonely folks looking for a buzz,simple as !!!suffering addictive issues.but heh,no ones pefect,acceptance is the key

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"People who dont need to shag about to fix there inner loneliness arnt here folks,iam,i admit it ??"

If I was lonely, I would seek a long term relationship.

If I seek an adrenalin rush, I go to Alton Towers, and get on the rides of 'my choice'.

If I am hungry, I go to the supermarket or take outs, and purchase foods of 'my choice'.

If I want clothes, I go to the shops, and buy clothes of 'my choice'.

If I want sex, I come on here and meet men, of 'my choice'.

Not rocket science is it

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman over a year ago

evesham

"Wow i awake to see my thread still blasting.i can only assume ive hit a very raw nerve very close to the truth,ahh bless xx

and its really satifying to see so many getting defensive.we cum here cause were lonely folks looking for a buzz,simple as !!!suffering addictive issues.but heh,no ones pefect,acceptance is the key

Still doesn't mean we have to fuck those we don't like. Kinda need to get over yourself fella. Shane cis you look quite nice but this thread has done you no favours.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Nah I'm not fussy - anybody will do

"
ha

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

This place is different things to different people OP. There are those that will meet anyone, just as there are those that have a set preference. There are others that are just here for the forums. It's what they want for themselves and you just have to find the likeminded ones for you.

Did I say "just"

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Im going for the thread record !

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman over a year ago

evesham

"Im going for the thread record !"

You do realise it shuts at 175 lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"This place is different things to different people OP. There are those that will meet anyone, just as there are those that have a set preference. There are others that are just here for the forums. It's what they want for themselves and you just have to find the likeminded ones for you.

Did I say "just"

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yes 4 times overuse of that word is .........just ridiculous

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Wow i awake to see my thread still blasting.i can only assume ive hit a very raw nerve very close to the truth,ahh bless xx

and its really satifying to see so many getting defensive.we cum here cause were lonely folks looking for a buzz,simple as !!!suffering addictive issues.but heh,no ones pefect,acceptance is the key

Actually, we see one sad, lonely man, whinging he can't get a shag

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Did I say "just"

yes 4 times overuse of that word is .........just ridiculous"

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By *dam_TinaCouple over a year ago

Hampshire

"Im going for the thread record !"

Of most ridiculous opinion ? It's definitely up there but it's got some stiff competition.....ooh, er missus.

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By *arry247Couple over a year ago

Wakefield

"Its a swinging site, not Instashag.

Don't worry about how others run their profiles and swinging, just concentrate on your own."

Is it a swinging site?

In the good old days of wife swap parties we did not have to be attracted to the person we shagged it was the keys in the bowl and you took pot luck.

Many modern "swingers" seem to be looking for dates rather than swinging partners.

However we do agree it is up to everyone how they run their profiles and swinging.

We just think it is a shame that many do not understand the concept of swinging, though it is alive and well in clubs.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Wow i awake to see my thread still blasting.i can only assume ive hit a very raw nerve very close to the truth,ahh bless xx

and its really satifying to see so many getting defensive.we cum here cause were lonely folks looking for a buzz,simple as !!!suffering addictive issues.but heh,no ones pefect,acceptance is the key

Not in the slightest bit lonely. I came on here to satisfy my bi side and have lots of sex with sassy, sexy, fun females.

You may have come here to resolve some issues of loneliness and addictive tendencies but with tens of thousands of members; it's unlikely we all joined for a common reason.

Deal with your own challenges first before trying to second guess or accuse others, you'll find it a much more freeing experience when you do.

However, if you need a quick fix fuck, may I suggest a brothel.

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By *iss.HoneyWoman over a year ago

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I am a fussy eater.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Wow i awake to see my thread still blasting.i can only assume ive hit a very raw nerve very close to the truth,ahh bless xx

and its really satifying to see so many getting defensive.we cum here cause were lonely folks looking for a buzz,simple as !!!suffering addictive issues.but heh,no ones pefect,acceptance is the key

Actually, we see one sad, lonely man, whinging he can't get a shag

"
not too sure where you got that analogy from ,some do get over zealous with their profile write ups that's a fact and until you meet someone you dont actually know them and most people pick their partner in anything whether its sex a relationship or just a friend based on their personality

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'll shag anyone that asks.

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By *urvymamaWoman over a year ago

Doncaster

"Wow i awake to see my thread still blasting.i can only assume ive hit a very raw nerve very close to the truth,ahh bless xx

and its really satifying to see so many getting defensive.we cum here cause were lonely folks looking for a buzz,simple as !!!suffering addictive issues.but heh,no ones pefect,acceptance is the key

so accept the opinion of the masses that are disagreeing with you then if that's the key

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By *iss_tressWoman over a year ago

London

"My body is mine. I get to choose who is allowed near it.

I am not ashamed to say that I have had more than a few sex partners over the years but every single one of them was chosen by me because they fitted my idea of attractive.

I know what I like and I am not just a hole or a goal.

If you can't handle the rejection try looking elsewhere. "

In a nutshell!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Wow i awake to see my thread still blasting.i can only assume ive hit a very raw nerve very close to the truth,ahh bless xx

and its really satifying to see so many getting defensive.we cum here cause were lonely folks looking for a buzz,simple as !!!suffering addictive issues.but heh,no ones pefect,acceptance is the key

Close to what truth?

And I assure you, I'm not lonely - I just enjoy lots of sex. I'm sorry if you are a lonely person.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'll shag anyone that asks.

Morning

FAF?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Its a swinging site, not Instashag.

Don't worry about how others run their profiles and swinging, just concentrate on your own.

Is it a swinging site?

In the good old days of wife swap parties we did not have to be attracted to the person we shagged it was the keys in the bowl and you took pot luck.

Many modern "swingers" seem to be looking for dates rather than swinging partners.

However we do agree it is up to everyone how they run their profiles and swinging.

We just think it is a shame that many do not understand the concept of swinging, though it is alive and well in clubs."

Yes, and then lots of women realised that they didn't have to fuck men they found unattractive. And lots of men have realised that too!

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By *iss.HoneyWoman over a year ago

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There are those with criteria they stick to and there are those who don't

I personally have to find someone visually appealing to want to 'shag' then. Shallow....perhaps but I doubt my vagina would be in agreeance for just a quick what with anyone despite this being a 'shagging' site.

I was always under the impression it was a little more than that. I will now endeavour to 'shag' all of my friends on here.

Be ready people...some of you may need lube.

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By *unkym34Man over a year ago

London

I have to be attracted to some one to want to engage with them. That attraction can be on a lot of deferent levels. I love the female form I'm so many different viarities but the little chap just won't stand to attention for everyone. For those that know me I love being filthy on cam for any lady with a nice smile lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I have to be attracted to someone to have sex with them, and I find it difficult to find people that I fancy enough to let them into my body.

If that makes me fussy then so be it.

Yes I agree as I feel that you have too be attracted and feel a connection with someone.

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By *unkym34Man over a year ago

London

There are those with criteria they stick to and there are those who don't

I was always under the impression it was a little more than that. I will now endeavour to 'shag' all of my friends on here.

Be ready people...some of you may need lube.

"
is jumping on your friend list asap lol this could be my lucky day

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Wow i awake to see my thread still blasting.i can only assume ive hit a very raw nerve very close to the truth,ahh bless xx

and its really satifying to see so many getting defensive.we cum here cause were lonely folks looking for a buzz,simple as !!!suffering addictive issues.but heh,no ones pefect,acceptance is the key

Actually, we see one sad, lonely man, whinging he can't get a shag

not too sure where you got that analogy from ,some do get over zealous with their profile write ups that's a fact and until you meet someone you dont actually know them and most people pick their partner in anything whether its sex a relationship or just a friend based on their personality "

I was responding to the 'specific post', hence 'reply and quote'. The mention of lonliness and addictive issues. His issue is he is lonely, not ours. Nothing to do with defending his ideas of over zealous profiles 'in this particular quote'

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By *iss.HoneyWoman over a year ago

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By *iss_tressWoman over a year ago

London

"Has to be attraction or what's the point?

For some, as long as the balls are emptied the crack of dawn will do.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Wow i awake to see my thread still blasting.i can only assume ive hit a very raw nerve very close to the truth,ahh bless xx

and its really satifying to see so many getting defensive.we cum here cause were lonely folks looking for a buzz,simple as !!!suffering addictive issues.but heh,no ones pefect,acceptance is the key

Actually, we see one sad, lonely man, whinging he can't get a shag

"
aaaah right you didnt quote that part of what he had said earlier but you've deleted that now ,ok I see what you mean now quite right why anyone would be lonely in a world with billions of people in it bemuses me but some are ,to come here to cure loneliness an odd thought I suppose but could work I meet many people doing this and I'm far from lonely ha

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By *iss_tressWoman over a year ago

London

"Whatever is the point of threads like these?

Do any of us fussy types ever reconsider our pernickety ways? - No

Does anyone ever offer the poor entitled OP a sympathy shag? - No

Does the OP feel better for having ranted? - Probably not

In fact the only possible benefit this thread might provide is to confirm - if any confirmation is needed - exactly *why* it's good to be fussy

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Wow i awake to see my thread still blasting.i can only assume ive hit a very raw nerve very close to the truth,ahh bless xx

and its really satifying to see so many getting defensive.we cum here cause were lonely folks looking for a buzz,simple as !!!suffering addictive issues.but heh,no ones pefect,acceptance is the key

Actually, we see one sad, lonely man, whinging he can't get a shag

aaaah right you didnt quote that part of what he had said earlier but you've deleted that now ,ok I see what you mean now quite right why anyone would be lonely in a world with billions of people in it bemuses me but some are ,to come here to cure loneliness an odd thought I suppose but could work I meet many people doing this and I'm far from lonely ha "

I did 'reply and qoute' to the post you jumped on

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We're not fussy, but we like what we like.

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By *loppsyWoman over a year ago

marlow

"We're not fussy, but we like what we like.

This

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By *eavenscentitCouple over a year ago

barnstaple

Come on ladiez lay down and open those legs !

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"And guess what, us women are allowed to choose who we meet, hang out with and sleep with."

This applies only to women, does it ? How strange !

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'll shag anyone that asks.

How many PMs so far?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'll be as fussy as I like, after all it's my body x

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville

Fussy like a bi guy who won't meet single guys you mean ?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Wow i awake to see my thread still blasting.i can only assume ive hit a very raw nerve very close to the truth,ahh bless xx

and its really satifying to see so many getting defensive.we cum here cause were lonely folks looking for a buzz,simple as !!!suffering addictive issues.but heh,no ones pefect,acceptance is the key

Actually, we see one sad, lonely man, whinging he can't get a shag

I did 'reply and qoute' to the post you jumped on

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hehe did you now we will never know you've deleted it now x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Wow i awake to see my thread still blasting.i can only assume ive hit a very raw nerve very close to the truth,ahh bless xx

and its really satifying to see so many getting defensive.we cum here cause were lonely folks looking for a buzz,simple as !!!suffering addictive issues.but heh,no ones pefect,acceptance is the key

Actually, we see one sad, lonely man, whinging he can't get a shag

I did 'reply and qoute' to the post you jumped on

hehe did you now we will never know you've deleted it now x"

That was a different reply to a different post that I deleted. The post that you jumped on, and won't admit you mis-quoted, WAS reply and quoted

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'll shag anyone that asks.

I am asking lol x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Wow i awake to see my thread still blasting.i can only assume ive hit a very raw nerve very close to the truth,ahh bless xx

and its really satifying to see so many getting defensive.we cum here cause were lonely folks looking for a buzz,simple as !!!suffering addictive issues.but heh,no ones pefect,acceptance is the key

Actually, we see one sad, lonely man, whinging he can't get a shag

I did 'reply and qoute' to the post you jumped on

hehe did you now we will never know you've deleted it now x

That was a different reply to a different post that I deleted. The post that you jumped on, and won't admit you mis-quoted, WAS reply and quoted

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hehe if you say so x

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Can any fans pls invite me as friend,my inbox is red hot,thks xxx it would help,havent got time to read ur posts,but thks....its the thought that counts

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"THIS IS NOT A SHAGGING SITE.

Geez, how many times "

To some people THIS IS A SHAGGING SITE, we all join for different reasons you know

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

People are entitled to be 'fussy' however some profiles are completely deluded and unrealistic about their expectations

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yes it's a swinging site but that's doesn't mean I'm here to f##k anyone and everyone. Just because I'm on a site like this doesn't mean I should lower my standards. Like in the real life my standards are and the same on here. For me I have to be both physically and mentally attracted to a person and get to know them, and make sure they are the same with me before I go any further with them.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

"THIS IS NOT A SHAGGING SITE.

Geez, how many times

To some people THIS IS A SHAGGING SITE, we all join for different reasons you know

That's what it is to me!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I have to be attracted to someone to have sex with them, and I find it difficult to find people that I fancy enough to let them into my body.

If that makes me fussy then so be it.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm fussy. Been a member for about 20 months, yet contacted probably less than a dozen people, in that time. Even fuglies have standards.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

this!!!

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By *lirty Rachel CDTV/TS over a year ago

Yarm

Which bit of NorthYorkshire Yvaine?

I could help your brain with some more Neil Gaiman!

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By *uxom redCouple over a year ago

Shrewsbury

"Wow i awake to see my thread still blasting.i can only assume ive hit a very raw nerve very close to the truth,ahh bless xx

and its really satifying to see so many getting defensive.we cum here cause were lonely folks looking for a buzz,simple as !!!suffering addictive issues.but heh,no ones pefect,acceptance is the key

Speak for yourself. Neither of us are lonely or stuffing from addictive issues.

I like see with women, women who I find attractive and I get on with.

If that makes me,us fussy I am.

Your post op sounds like your not getting the 'easy' shags you thought you would so you call people fussy.

Unfortunately your attitude would put many a women off.

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By *arry247Couple over a year ago

Wakefield

"Its a swinging site, not Instashag.

Don't worry about how others run their profiles and swinging, just concentrate on your own.

Is it a swinging site?

In the good old days of wife swap parties we did not have to be attracted to the person we shagged it was the keys in the bowl and you took pot luck.

Many modern "swingers" seem to be looking for dates rather than swinging partners.

However we do agree it is up to everyone how they run their profiles and swinging.

We just think it is a shame that many do not understand the concept of swinging, though it is alive and well in clubs.

Yes, and then lots of women realised that they didn't have to fuck men they found unattractive. And lots of men have realised that too!

Rubbish, the women in those days knew full well they did not have to fuck anyone. They did however realise there was an added thrill of the unknown when at such meets.

In a similar way the men could be chosen (and it was more often than not the men being chosen rather then the women) by someone they did not find attractive.

Many today do not understand what the dynamics of sex in those days were.

They don’t understand that it was virtually compulsory that a woman/girl had to say no when approached by a man/boy for sex.

They had to be persuaded to engage in sex even when the women/girl herself was dying to jump into bed with him.

People today think such women were coerced or forced into sex but really it was just a game that was expected to be played by society.

In some ways this is reflected today by the numbers who demand a social meet first.

We suspect many do this as they think if they don't their friends will think they are easy t=rather than liberated

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