"Chat then arrange meet them either don't turn up or just delete there profile or just stop talking after you have arranged a meet with them "
We have no issues with this. You could block Newbies and anyone who's not verified... that may help.
Cal |
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"Why so many timewasters on here do they get kicks out of it 
Define a time waster?
Cal"
Come on!!!! I don't think the guy needs to define anything. You're just wasting his time. |
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Sites full of fakes and fantasists. They probably get some sexual gratification from it. I can spot them a mile away and swerve them. Sad really...gotta feel sorry for them I suppose. |
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I'm sure there are many people join sites like this whose motivation lacks confidence or the respectful commitment to following through any arrangement they agree too ....
But there is no enforceable solution to the frustration and inconvenience their behaviour causes.....
So for me it seems best to concentrate on our own behaviour rather than publically expose ourselves as victims of repeated failure.....  |
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"Chat then arrange meet them either don't turn up or just delete there profile or just stop talking after you have arranged a meet with them
We have no issues with this. You could block Newbies and anyone who's not verified... that may help.
Cal"
this ^^^^
we also block people with no public pics... infact its virtually impossible to contact us lol |
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"Why so many timewasters on here do they get kicks out of it "
some do yes its a bodily function for some at the time it needs scratching on the day of the meet maybe it doesn't |
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We have blocked newbies, non site supporters, no public photograps, unverified, groups which we are not interested in, age which is outside of our preference
We don't get time-wasters. Just some single men who cannot read. We simply delete their message and block them
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Top tips posted by those above. I'd add to always have an agreed plan for how your communication will be undertaken closer to the meet, involving both sides.
This way it helps to signify that something's going wrong before the last minute.
Obviously profile deletions can happen but I imagine that fewer long standing users delete their profiles than newer users - hence why filtering out newer or unverified users etc in the first place is wise. |
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