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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Is there some reason my messages just get deleted, something wrong with my profile or the wording of the message? Am I not supposed to be nice in the message or are the women on this site looking for raunchy rather than nice? All I ask is a reply, even if it's just to say their not interested.  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I'm the female of a couple, looking to play as a couple or alone. I realise I'm not inundated with messages like some but it still seems incredibly rude to simply delete. X |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
Firstly any reason you've posted this twice?
With regards to your profile though, it's confusing at best, misleading at worst. In places it reads like a single female profile, in others like a couple and in others like a single guy.
You then have the stats breakdown, that adds to the confusion with the blank male half of the details.
The conclusion I'd draw, and suspect a lot of people would, is that this is actually a single guy hoping to get lucky by duping people into a meet, only for his "other half" to get a mystery illness on the day, or something similar. My utmost apologies if that's not the case, but it may explain the lack of response you're getting.
If you're a genuine couple, I'd suggest starting over and re-writing so it reads like a couples profile.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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But you have something in your profile telling people not to be offended if you delete, so i dont understand why you are offended when someone does it to you, |
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"I'm the female of a couple, looking to play as a couple or alone. I realise I'm not inundated with messages like some but it still seems incredibly rude to simply delete. X"
It's not, it's a way of telling you they are not interested.
Your profile and thread here makes me think you are a single bloke. |
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"Firstly any reason you've posted this twice?
With regards to your profile though, it's confusing at best, misleading at worst. In places it reads like a single female profile, in others like a couple and in others like a single guy.
You then have the stats breakdown, that adds to the confusion with the blank male half of the details.
The conclusion I'd draw, and suspect a lot of people would, is that this is actually a single guy hoping to get lucky by duping people into a meet, only for his "other half" to get a mystery illness on the day, or something similar. My utmost apologies if that's not the case, but it may explain the lack of response you're getting.
If you're a genuine couple, I'd suggest starting over and re-writing so it reads like a couples profile. "
Totally this......very confusing profile |
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"I get that, and I can understand if you're being harassed or someone offends you, but it only takes two seconds to politely decline. X"
No, it doesn't and the only people on these forums that moan consistently about not getting replies are men. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Thank you for your response. I really do appreciate the feedback. I'm trying to get across in the profile that I'm the female of a couple, happy to play alone and possible as a threesome. I'll work on the wording. Re posting twice... Just me learning to use the forum, didn't mean to post it twice.  |
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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago
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"I'm the female of a couple, looking to play as a couple or alone. I realise I'm not inundated with messages like some but it still seems incredibly rude to simply delete. X"
Your profile says the male may play but no details of him. Sorry you'd just get a thanks but no thanks from us.
Even if it's a no I do reply, I understand how you see a no reply as rude but the rules say ppl don't have to reply. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There are too many rude people on here who don't reply to my messages!
It's not rude not to reply.
Some ladies and couples get hundreds of messages a day so it simply isn't possible for them to reply to everyone. If you don't get a response, you should assume they aren't interested. If you're getting a lot of "no-replies" then you should consider your profile and the messages you send. Are they giving the right message? Are you standing out from the thousands of other guys on here?
From the site FAQ found at the bottom of the first pg on the mob site.
PTU xxx |
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"I'm the female of a couple, looking to play as a couple or alone. I realise I'm not inundated with messages like some but it still seems incredibly rude to simply delete. X"
I get your point but say if they get 50-100 messages a day. Would you expect them to reply to everyone?. |
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