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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

Am a decorator so a lot of the time am in a house on my own so if am horny well cocks out

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Nope I think it would be frowned upon.

I've never actually had the urge to at work.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Sorry to sound prudish but I wouldn't disrespect someone else's home by doing that, and you'd be fired if it was my home. I'd much rather you got on with the work I'd be paying you for.

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By *.Watford-AmericanMan  over a year ago

St Albans / Bournemouth

With my job i very much doubt that i could do it on the job

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Sorry to sound prudish but I wouldn't disrespect someone else's home by doing that, and you'd be fired if it was my home. I'd much rather you got on with the work I'd be paying you for. "

From what I see on here it's a common occurrence.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Sorry to sound prudish but I wouldn't disrespect someone else's home by doing that, and you'd be fired if it was my home. I'd much rather you got on with the work I'd be paying you for. "

I know a few who would phone the police

Seriously you are putting yourself in jeopardy of going on the sex offenders list if you do.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Sorry to sound prudish but I wouldn't disrespect someone else's home by doing that, and you'd be fired if it was my home. I'd much rather you got on with the work I'd be paying you for.

I know a few who would phone the police

Seriously you are putting yourself in jeopardy of going on the sex offenders list if you do."

PS that was for OP and not poster I qouted

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

God you are all going of your head lol ...i do go to the toilet with the door shut and I am tidy not at it all the time occasionally

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"God you are all going of your head lol ...i do go to the toilet with the door shut and I am tidy not at it all the time occasionally "

I'm not going 'off my head'.

It's irrelevant how tidy you are at it if someone is paying you to decorate. They're not paying you to wank yourself blind.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"God you are all going of your head lol ...i do go to the toilet with the door shut and I am tidy not at it all the time occasionally "

you're a grown man ,not a teenager!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

This made me laugh

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"God you are all going of your head lol ...i do go to the toilet with the door shut and I am tidy not at it all the time occasionally "

I'm sure you are careful and tidy but I'd be rather perturbed if I knew my decorator or any other guy was wanking in my house !

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"This made me laugh"

And me now. I'm going to turn up unexpectedly next time I have a decorator in!

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By *chammer1Man  over a year ago

Darlington

I sacked a guy for having a wank. He was sacked for using company internet for porn. Now work on my own in my office and doors lock so the urge has been there but would not want to be hypercrit.

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple  over a year ago

Halifax


"Sorry to sound prudish but I wouldn't disrespect someone else's home by doing that, and you'd be fired if it was my home. I'd much rather you got on with the work I'd be paying you for. "

This deffo ,I can hold off whilst I do a shift too.

Miss

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Any tradesman that wanks in my house will do well to get out with a functioning ball cock!!

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By *exmadscotMan  over a year ago

alloa


"I sacked a guy for having a wank. He was sacked for using company internet for porn. Now work on my own in my office and doors lock so the urge has been there but would not want to be hypercrit."

what's a hyper crit?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Am a decorator so a lot of the time am in a house on my own so if am horny well cocks out "

I had a decorator in to redo my bedroom ceiling white. Told him I was going out for an hour. Came back just as he finished the job and made his excuses to leave.

Later that night I went to put my washing away only to find faint white fingerprints on my black knickers Creeped me right out.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Am a decorator so a lot of the time am in a house on my own so if am horny well cocks out

I had a decorator in to redo my bedroom ceiling white. Told him I was going out for an hour. Came back just as he finished the job and made his excuses to leave.

Later that night I went to put my washing away only to find faint white fingerprints on my black knickers Creeped me right out."

Did he at least finish the painting?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Hes probably going through the underwear drawer too

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Am a decorator so a lot of the time am in a house on my own so if am horny well cocks out "

do you steal dirty knickers out of laundry baskets, too?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I work for myself... many a video call has been had with shirt and tie on without trousers

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I would never leave a person in the house on their own, never know what they get upto

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I would never leave a person in the house on their own, never know what they get upto"

ditto

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

So am the only 1 then ..sounds like am going to hell for doing this ..i must be a really bad man av done it on holiday as well ..God I wish i hadn't said that their will be crowds of folk marching down the street's with lanterns a blaze going to hang draw and quarter me ...lol

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Am a decorator so a lot of the time am in a house on my own so if am horny well cocks out

I had a decorator in to redo my bedroom ceiling white. Told him I was going out for an hour. Came back just as he finished the job and made his excuses to leave.

Later that night I went to put my washing away only to find faint white fingerprints on my black knickers Creeped me right out.

Did he at least finish the painting? "

Lol... yes he did. But I would've preferred he didn't paint my knickers

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"So am the only 1 then ..sounds like am going to hell for doing this ..i must be a really bad man av done it on holiday as well ..God I wish i hadn't said that their will be crowds of folk marching down the street's with lanterns a blaze going to hang draw and quarter me ...lol "

Some ppl have secruity camera's installed so beware could be rogue traders bbc tv visiting you while you jerk off Iin national tv

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Not me!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Sometimes

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By *100Man  over a year ago

Essex

I used to wank at work I think we all did as our tool maker had every porno ever printed under his bench you couldn't walk past the tool room without piping in for a peek

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By *rgasmo22Man  over a year ago

wexford

cant leave you out on your own here mate..im guilty of it as well.so were both goin to hell..lol

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Shame on you all for trying to shame somebody on such a sexually liberated site like fabs

Shame

SHAME

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Shame on you all for trying to shame somebody on such a sexually liberated site like fabs

Shame

SHAME"

So you think that sort of behaviour's acceptable in a clients home?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I can confirm that I have NEVER had a wank at work.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I can confirm that I have NEVER had a wank at work."

Are you sure? You sound unsure!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Dodgy ground, I've had a quick wank in the office loos, but a clients house is a bit much!

A mate of mine works for a large company and they work in peoples homes. In a team meeting they asked people to not masturbate or steel items of clothing from clients homes. A guy had been sacked.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

47

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By *rinking-in-laCouple  over a year ago

Bristol


"God you are all going of your head lol ...i do go to the toilet with the door shut and I am tidy not at it all the time occasionally

I'm not going 'off my head'.

It's irrelevant how tidy you are at it if someone is paying you to decorate. They're not paying you to wank yourself blind. "

You appear to be relying on hyperbole and exageration to support an otherwise shakey point.

A worker is entitled to a break, if they choose to spend that break doing a legal thing in a discreet and tidy fashion, what difference does that make?

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By *rinking-in-laCouple  over a year ago

Bristol


"Dodgy ground, I've had a quick wank in the office loos, but a clients house is a bit much!

A mate of mine works for a large company and they work in peoples homes. In a team meeting they asked people to not masturbate or steel items of clothing from clients homes. A guy had been sacked.

"

There is a difference between the two activities.

One is illegal and one is not if done discreetly and cleanly.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Yeah. Most recently this morning.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Lord help me choose which one to throw into the burning abyss for their sins ..

Help me lord, channel your divine morality thru your servant

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"God you are all going of your head lol ...i do go to the toilet with the door shut and I am tidy not at it all the time occasionally

I'm not going 'off my head'.

It's irrelevant how tidy you are at it if someone is paying you to decorate. They're not paying you to wank yourself blind.

You appear to be relying on hyperbole and exageration to support an otherwise shakey point.

A worker is entitled to a break, if they choose to spend that break doing a legal thing in a discreet and tidy fashion, what difference does that make?"

.

This one you say lord.. But I like him

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Shame on you all for trying to shame somebody on such a sexually liberated site like fabs

Shame

SHAME

So you think that sort of behaviour's acceptable in a clients home? "

.

Please lord please

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

That's not what a client means when they say whitewash my walls please.....

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

We have security webcams in our house so anyone doing it here would soon be found out and dealt with.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"We have security webcams in our house so anyone doing it here would soon be found out and dealt with. "
.

Many hands make light work

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"We have security webcams in our house so anyone doing it here would soon be found out and dealt with. "

Define "dealt with"

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"God you are all going of your head lol ...i do go to the toilet with the door shut and I am tidy not at it all the time occasionally

I'm not going 'off my head'.

It's irrelevant how tidy you are at it if someone is paying you to decorate. They're not paying you to wank yourself blind.

You appear to be relying on hyperbole and exageration to support an otherwise shakey point.

A worker is entitled to a break, if they choose to spend that break doing a legal thing in a discreet and tidy fashion, what difference does that make?"

still completely unacceptable in someone else's home..

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By *ophieslutTV/TS  over a year ago

Central

Not got time for it

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By *lmostthereMan  over a year ago

Southampton

If only I could make the time.

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By *verysmileMan  over a year ago

Canterbury

I don't wank at work.....but some of the bosses are wankers

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By *opsy RogersWoman  over a year ago

London

When at work, I'd barely have time to drink or wee in my 13 hour shift for the NHS.

I worked.

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By *yrdwomanWoman  over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I have no problem if a workman has such a lack of self control he can't go a few hours without a wank. However, he's not doing on my time, so he can do it on his lunch break. In his van.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I know a few workmen that wank on the job...tbh I would rather that than them go for a shit sometimes...how the hell do ya make such a mess when you are not unwell??

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I have no problem if a workman has such a lack of self control he can't go a few hours without a wank. However, he's not doing on my time, so he can do it on his lunch break. In his van."
.

His time is actually his own, your not technically employing him.

There are no lunch breaks, he's free to come and go as and when he pleases unless it's written in a contract?

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By *yrdwomanWoman  over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"I have no problem if a workman has such a lack of self control he can't go a few hours without a wank. However, he's not doing on my time, so he can do it on his lunch break. In his van..

His time is actually his own, your not technically employing him.

There are no lunch breaks, he's free to come and go as and when he pleases unless it's written in a contract?"

If I'm paying him to do a job, then I'd expect him to do that job. I don't mind if he finishes at 3.30pm so he can go home and wank himself bloody, as long as he's done a good job.

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By *uxom redCouple  over a year ago

Shrewsbury

Good god no environmental health and food hygiene to think of.

Let alone safe guarding.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I have no problem if a workman has such a lack of self control he can't go a few hours without a wank. However, he's not doing on my time, so he can do it on his lunch break. In his van..

His time is actually his own, your not technically employing him.

There are no lunch breaks, he's free to come and go as and when he pleases unless it's written in a contract?

If I'm paying him to do a job, then I'd expect him to do that job. I don't mind if he finishes at 3.30pm so he can go home and wank himself bloody, as long as he's done a good job."

.

I expect the unexpected that nobody suspects or could reasonably expect.

Like wanking workmen

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

Hahaha av starred something hear eh ...some of the comments are brilliant some really funny and some over the top about how bad I am ...thanks the wanking decorator hahaha

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By *htcMan  over a year ago

MK

never would do at work.

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By *rinking-in-laCouple  over a year ago

Bristol


"God you are all going of your head lol ...i do go to the toilet with the door shut and I am tidy not at it all the time occasionally

I'm not going 'off my head'.

It's irrelevant how tidy you are at it if someone is paying you to decorate. They're not paying you to wank yourself blind.

You appear to be relying on hyperbole and exageration to support an otherwise shakey point.

A worker is entitled to a break, if they choose to spend that break doing a legal thing in a discreet and tidy fashion, what difference does that make?

still completely unacceptable in someone else's home.."

Ok. Everyone is entitled to their values.

What harm does it do if done with respect and all necessary discretion?

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By *lor2Woman  over a year ago

London

Guilty as well...

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Shame on you all for trying to shame somebody on such a sexually liberated site like fabs

Shame

SHAME

So you think that sort of behaviour's acceptable in a clients home? "

What is acceptable on a site like fabs, do you draw the line at sharing your wife but oi no wanking at work that's bad, lol use your noggin

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By *unky monkeyMan  over a year ago

in the night garden

Oh dear. Anyone else just realised the consistency of wall paper paste and seamen are very similar?

Explains a lot now that I think.

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By *arehamMan  over a year ago

handforth

I have in the past when I did work.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"God you are all going of your head lol ...i do go to the toilet with the door shut and I am tidy not at it all the time occasionally

I'm not going 'off my head'.

It's irrelevant how tidy you are at it if someone is paying you to decorate. They're not paying you to wank yourself blind.

You appear to be relying on hyperbole and exageration to support an otherwise shakey point.

A worker is entitled to a break, if they choose to spend that break doing a legal thing in a discreet and tidy fashion, what difference does that make?

still completely unacceptable in someone else's home..

Ok. Everyone is entitled to their values.

What harm does it do if done with respect and all necessary discretion?"

I think it would prove that they have no values or respect.

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By *a Fee VerteWoman  over a year ago

Limbo


"Shame on you all for trying to shame somebody on such a sexually liberated site like fabs

Shame

SHAME

So you think that sort of behaviour's acceptable in a clients home?

What is acceptable on a site like fabs, do you draw the line at sharing your wife but oi no wanking at work that's bad, lol use your noggin"

Why don't *you* 'use your noggin' and consider that men who 'share their wife' (!) do so, notwithstanding the fact that their wife isn't actually their property, in full knowledge of what their wife is doing and with no disrespect or creepiness involved ?!? There's no correlation whatsoever with behaving completely selfishly.

I would go absolutely fucking ballistic if someone I'd employed to do a job of work in my *home* - which is supposed to be my sanctuary, the place where I feel safe - was found to be wanking there. I don't give a damn how discreet or 'tidy' he was about it, he has no business doing something like that, without my permission, in the place where me and my family live. What if his efforts to be 'tidy' weren't quite thorough enough? - doesn't bear thinking about. It has fuck all to do with me being a so-called prude and everything to do with showing basic respect and consideration towards others.

I'm sick and tired of the attitudes of *some* people here who seem to equate and/or confuse sexual liberation with doing whatever the hell you want, whenever and wherever you want, providing it's sex related, and sod the effect on anyone else.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Shame on you all for trying to shame somebody on such a sexually liberated site like fabs

Shame

SHAME

So you think that sort of behaviour's acceptable in a clients home?

What is acceptable on a site like fabs, do you draw the line at sharing your wife but oi no wanking at work that's bad, lol use your noggin

Why don't *you* 'use your noggin' and consider that men who 'share their wife' (!) do so, notwithstanding the fact that their wife isn't actually their property, in full knowledge of what their wife is doing and with no disrespect or creepiness involved ?!? There's no correlation whatsoever with behaving completely selfishly.

I would go absolutely fucking ballistic if someone I'd employed to do a job of work in my *home* - which is supposed to be my sanctuary, the place where I feel safe - was found to be wanking there. I don't give a damn how discreet or 'tidy' he was about it, he has no business doing something like that, without my permission, in the place where me and my family live. What if his efforts to be 'tidy' weren't quite thorough enough? - doesn't bear thinking about. It has fuck all to do with me being a so-called prude and everything to do with showing basic respect and consideration towards others.

I'm sick and tired of the attitudes of *some* people here who seem to equate and/or confuse sexual liberation with doing whatever the hell you want, whenever and wherever you want, providing it's sex related, and sod the effect on anyone else. "

Well said

Couldn't agree more

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Shame on you all for trying to shame somebody on such a sexually liberated site like fabs

Shame

SHAME

So you think that sort of behaviour's acceptable in a clients home?

What is acceptable on a site like fabs, do you draw the line at sharing your wife but oi no wanking at work that's bad, lol use your noggin

Why don't *you* 'use your noggin' and consider that men who 'share their wife' (!) do so, notwithstanding the fact that their wife isn't actually their property, in full knowledge of what their wife is doing and with no disrespect or creepiness involved ?!? There's no correlation whatsoever with behaving completely selfishly.

I would go absolutely fucking ballistic if someone I'd employed to do a job of work in my *home* - which is supposed to be my sanctuary, the place where I feel safe - was found to be wanking there. I don't give a damn how discreet or 'tidy' he was about it, he has no business doing something like that, without my permission, in the place where me and my family live. What if his efforts to be 'tidy' weren't quite thorough enough? - doesn't bear thinking about. It has fuck all to do with me being a so-called prude and everything to do with showing basic respect and consideration towards others.

I'm sick and tired of the attitudes of *some* people here who seem to equate and/or confuse sexual liberation with doing whatever the hell you want, whenever and wherever you want, providing it's sex related, and sod the effect on anyone else. "

Well said. You said it far better than i could. I agree with what you said

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Shame on you all for trying to shame somebody on such a sexually liberated site like fabs

Shame

SHAME

So you think that sort of behaviour's acceptable in a clients home?

What is acceptable on a site like fabs, do you draw the line at sharing your wife but oi no wanking at work that's bad, lol use your noggin

Why don't *you* 'use your noggin' and consider that men who 'share their wife' (!) do so, notwithstanding the fact that their wife isn't actually their property, in full knowledge of what their wife is doing and with no disrespect or creepiness involved ?!? There's no correlation whatsoever with behaving completely selfishly.

I would go absolutely fucking ballistic if someone I'd employed to do a job of work in my *home* - which is supposed to be my sanctuary, the place where I feel safe - was found to be wanking there. I don't give a damn how discreet or 'tidy' he was about it, he has no business doing something like that, without my permission, in the place where me and my family live. What if his efforts to be 'tidy' weren't quite thorough enough? - doesn't bear thinking about. It has fuck all to do with me being a so-called prude and everything to do with showing basic respect and consideration towards others.

I'm sick and tired of the attitudes of *some* people here who seem to equate and/or confuse sexual liberation with doing whatever the hell you want, whenever and wherever you want, providing it's sex related, and sod the effect on anyone else. "

After all your paragraphs I still think your talking shit girl, and the couples to of course your wife isn't property but I've seen with my two eyes couples wank off and eat another mans creampie out of his own missus, don't tell me about creepy. you speak of tidy, respect and permission I don't need anyone's permission to wank in private be it be my room or your bathroom

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

When did wanking become a thing everyone has to be ok with before you do it?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Wanking is fine. However if i have paid someone to do some work in my private home then i dont think its ok. It shows a lack of respect and imaturity. Save the wanking until you are home.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Never wanked at work. I'm in an office.

I have had sex here though

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"When did wanking become a thing everyone has to be ok with before you do it? "

Well seeing as the original post was about wanking in someone's home that your supposed to be working in then no it's not ok. What part of respect the person who's employing you to do a job don't you understand?

If I pay someone to paint my house and come home to find them wanking instead of working, theyre sacked and I'll their reputation.

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By *a Fee VerteWoman  over a year ago

Limbo


"Shame on you all for trying to shame somebody on such a sexually liberated site like fabs

Shame

SHAME

So you think that sort of behaviour's acceptable in a clients home?

What is acceptable on a site like fabs, do you draw the line at sharing your wife but oi no wanking at work that's bad, lol use your noggin

Why don't *you* 'use your noggin' and consider that men who 'share their wife' (!) do so, notwithstanding the fact that their wife isn't actually their property, in full knowledge of what their wife is doing and with no disrespect or creepiness involved ?!? There's no correlation whatsoever with behaving completely selfishly.

I would go absolutely fucking ballistic if someone I'd employed to do a job of work in my *home* - which is supposed to be my sanctuary, the place where I feel safe - was found to be wanking there. I don't give a damn how discreet or 'tidy' he was about it, he has no business doing something like that, without my permission, in the place where me and my family live. What if his efforts to be 'tidy' weren't quite thorough enough? - doesn't bear thinking about. It has fuck all to do with me being a so-called prude and everything to do with showing basic respect and consideration towards others.

I'm sick and tired of the attitudes of *some* people here who seem to equate and/or confuse sexual liberation with doing whatever the hell you want, whenever and wherever you want, providing it's sex related, and sod the effect on anyone else.

After all your paragraphs I still think your talking shit girl, and the couples to of course your wife isn't property but I've seen with my two eyes couples wank off and eat another mans creampie out of his own missus, don't tell me about creepy. you speak of tidy, respect and permission I don't need anyone's permission to wank in private be it be my room or your bathroom "

You can think whatever you want but the fact you think it's okay to call me 'girl' speaks volumes about your arrogant attitude. I won't lower myself to retaliate in kind because I don't want a forum ban and I'm trying to be adult here.

You are still completely missing the point. *Whatever* a couple choose to do, like the scenario you described, is with the full knowledge and consent of everyone concerned. That's *not* creepy therefore, even if it's not to your taste. A relative stranger wanking in my bathroom *is* creepy and disrespectful, and if I'd allowed someone to use it, it would not be with my permission to do that. The arrogance of someone who sneers that they don't need my permission to do something like that in a private home astounds me. I really do wonder at some of the so-called adults here ....

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Women!!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Is there anything they couldn't go ballistic about

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By *rinking-in-laCouple  over a year ago

Bristol


"God you are all going of your head lol ...i do go to the toilet with the door shut and I am tidy not at it all the time occasionally

I'm not going 'off my head'.

It's irrelevant how tidy you are at it if someone is paying you to decorate. They're not paying you to wank yourself blind.

You appear to be relying on hyperbole and exageration to support an otherwise shakey point.

A worker is entitled to a break, if they choose to spend that break doing a legal thing in a discreet and tidy fashion, what difference does that make?

still completely unacceptable in someone else's home..

Ok. Everyone is entitled to their values.

What harm does it do if done with respect and all necessary discretion?

I think it would prove that they have no values or respect."

But what harm does it do to anyone else? Given no one will know, nothing will be broken or diminished in value or functionality.

I know it is contrary to your values, that has been made clear. But what has not been made clear is the harm it does if there is no evidence due to good care and discretion and the person is not charging you money for the time.

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By *emini ManMan  over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"God you are all going of your head lol ...i do go to the toilet with the door shut and I am tidy not at it all the time occasionally

I'm not going 'off my head'.

It's irrelevant how tidy you are at it if someone is paying you to decorate. They're not paying you to wank yourself blind.

You appear to be relying on hyperbole and exageration to support an otherwise shakey point.

A worker is entitled to a break, if they choose to spend that break doing a legal thing in a discreet and tidy fashion, what difference does that make?

still completely unacceptable in someone else's home..

Ok. Everyone is entitled to their values.

What harm does it do if done with respect and all necessary discretion?

I think it would prove that they have no values or respect.

But what harm does it do to anyone else? Given no one will know, nothing will be broken or diminished in value or functionality.

I know it is contrary to your values, that has been made clear. But what has not been made clear is the harm it does if there is no evidence due to good care and discretion and the person is not charging you money for the time."

It's very easy to claim "if no-one knows what's the harm" but it's the inferred disrespect of trust that someone has put in you to respect their property, regardless of whether they know or not. Not only that disrespect of of trust of someone that is paying you for a job of work, not a wank for Gods sake!!

And to the earlier poster that derogatarily suggested "women" would go "ballistic" over anything...I'm not a woman and would go equally balistic if I thought a tradesperson (regardless of gender) had disrespected my property by conducting any kind of sexual act in it whilst in my employ.

Yes, it's entirely possible that I would never know if the person had been "tidy" but the fact there are people posting here that even think it's ok speaks volumes about what some think is acceptable behaviour!!

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By *rinking-in-laCouple  over a year ago

Bristol


"God you are all going of your head lol ...i do go to the toilet with the door shut and I am tidy not at it all the time occasionally

I'm not going 'off my head'.

It's irrelevant how tidy you are at it if someone is paying you to decorate. They're not paying you to wank yourself blind.

You appear to be relying on hyperbole and exageration to support an otherwise shakey point.

A worker is entitled to a break, if they choose to spend that break doing a legal thing in a discreet and tidy fashion, what difference does that make?

still completely unacceptable in someone else's home..

Ok. Everyone is entitled to their values.

What harm does it do if done with respect and all necessary discretion?

I think it would prove that they have no values or respect.

But what harm does it do to anyone else? Given no one will know, nothing will be broken or diminished in value or functionality.

I know it is contrary to your values, that has been made clear. But what has not been made clear is the harm it does if there is no evidence due to good care and discretion and the person is not charging you money for the time.

It's very easy to claim "if no-one knows what's the harm" but it's the inferred disrespect of trust that someone has put in you to respect their property, regardless of whether they know or not. Not only that disrespect of of trust of someone that is paying you for a job of work, not a wank for Gods sake!!

And to the earlier poster that derogatarily suggested "women" would go "ballistic" over anything...I'm not a woman and would go equally balistic if I thought a tradesperson (regardless of gender) had disrespected my property by conducting any kind of sexual act in it whilst in my employ.

Yes, it's entirely possible that I would never know if the person had been "tidy" but the fact there are people posting here that even think it's ok speaks volumes about what some think is acceptable behaviour!!"

So there is no harm.

You don't know about it. You are thus fine, viz, there has been no harm done. The person's respect for you has nothing to do with it. Respect stops people harming others, if, as you have demonstrated, no harm is brought, there is no diminishing of respect.

You are seemingly failing to separate the third party aspect of this discussion whereby we the viewer have a dramatic irony over the householder knowing what has come to pass. In reality no one knows and the perpetrator does not treat the householder any differently.

The harm question is not a matter of opinion. It is an empirical measure.

For what it's worth, I agree that it is unsavoury and I am not for the idea at all.

But I am prepared to acknowledge the illogical stance and lack of sense in the argument against it.

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By *emini ManMan  over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"

For what it's worth, I agree that it is unsavoury and I am not for the idea at all.

"

The key to all this is right there, it's unsavoury and as such is disrespectful regardless of whether the householder knows or not!!

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By *rinking-in-laCouple  over a year ago

Bristol


"

For what it's worth, I agree that it is unsavoury and I am not for the idea at all.

The key to all this is right there, it's unsavoury and as such is disrespectful regardless of whether the householder knows or not!!"

That's not what I am asking though. I am trying to get an idea of what harm is done save that stuff which we have invented intellectually to be offended about.

It's worth going over these things because if we can create fewer reasons to be offended then we are more resilient and successful in life.

Offence is a failure to emotionally deal with something. If you can learn to deal then you have a happier existence.

Thus if we cannot find any actual harm, maybe we need to start asking ourselves if we would be better off not really caring, or if getting upset about it is a logical or sensible response?

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By *emini ManMan  over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"

For what it's worth, I agree that it is unsavoury and I am not for the idea at all.

The key to all this is right there, it's unsavoury and as such is disrespectful regardless of whether the householder knows or not!!

That's not what I am asking though. I am trying to get an idea of what harm is done save that stuff which we have invented intellectually to be offended about.

It's worth going over these things because if we can create fewer reasons to be offended then we are more resilient and successful in life.

Offence is a failure to emotionally deal with something. If you can learn to deal then you have a happier existence.

Thus if we cannot find any actual harm, maybe we need to start asking ourselves if we would be better off not really caring, or if getting upset about it is a logical or sensible response?"

If we don't "know" something we can't possibly care about it or get upset about it, what people (myself included) are railing against here is the fact that there are posters on this thread who think it's an ok thing to do, it's that simple.

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By *rinking-in-laCouple  over a year ago

Bristol


"

For what it's worth, I agree that it is unsavoury and I am not for the idea at all.

The key to all this is right there, it's unsavoury and as such is disrespectful regardless of whether the householder knows or not!!

That's not what I am asking though. I am trying to get an idea of what harm is done save that stuff which we have invented intellectually to be offended about.

It's worth going over these things because if we can create fewer reasons to be offended then we are more resilient and successful in life.

Offence is a failure to emotionally deal with something. If you can learn to deal then you have a happier existence.

Thus if we cannot find any actual harm, maybe we need to start asking ourselves if we would be better off not really caring, or if getting upset about it is a logical or sensible response?

If we don't "know" something we can't possibly care about it or get upset about it, what people (myself included) are railing against here is the fact that there are posters on this thread who think it's an ok thing to do, it's that simple."

If there is no harm, why is it not ok?

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By *yrdwomanWoman  over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"

For what it's worth, I agree that it is unsavoury and I am not for the idea at all.

The key to all this is right there, it's unsavoury and as such is disrespectful regardless of whether the householder knows or not!!

That's not what I am asking though. I am trying to get an idea of what harm is done save that stuff which we have invented intellectually to be offended about.

It's worth going over these things because if we can create fewer reasons to be offended then we are more resilient and successful in life.

Offence is a failure to emotionally deal with something. If you can learn to deal then you have a happier existence.

Thus if we cannot find any actual harm, maybe we need to start asking ourselves if we would be better off not really caring, or if getting upset about it is a logical or sensible response?"

I wouldn't take offence at anyone wanking. I take offence at them doing it in MY house.

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By *ondon-guy68Man  over a year ago

London

No and if you white wash my ceiling with it I'll rub your nose in it...

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By *rinking-in-laCouple  over a year ago

Bristol


"

For what it's worth, I agree that it is unsavoury and I am not for the idea at all.

The key to all this is right there, it's unsavoury and as such is disrespectful regardless of whether the householder knows or not!!

That's not what I am asking though. I am trying to get an idea of what harm is done save that stuff which we have invented intellectually to be offended about.

It's worth going over these things because if we can create fewer reasons to be offended then we are more resilient and successful in life.

Offence is a failure to emotionally deal with something. If you can learn to deal then you have a happier existence.

Thus if we cannot find any actual harm, maybe we need to start asking ourselves if we would be better off not really caring, or if getting upset about it is a logical or sensible response?

I wouldn't take offence at anyone wanking. I take offence at them doing it in MY house."

Why? It harms you or yours in no way. You don't even know.

Why are you taking offence at something you know nothing about? How can you take offence at it? You don't know about it.

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By *yrdwomanWoman  over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"

For what it's worth, I agree that it is unsavoury and I am not for the idea at all.

The key to all this is right there, it's unsavoury and as such is disrespectful regardless of whether the householder knows or not!!

That's not what I am asking though. I am trying to get an idea of what harm is done save that stuff which we have invented intellectually to be offended about.

It's worth going over these things because if we can create fewer reasons to be offended then we are more resilient and successful in life.

Offence is a failure to emotionally deal with something. If you can learn to deal then you have a happier existence.

Thus if we cannot find any actual harm, maybe we need to start asking ourselves if we would be better off not really caring, or if getting upset about it is a logical or sensible response?

I wouldn't take offence at anyone wanking. I take offence at them doing it in MY house.

Why? It harms you or yours in no way. You don't even know.

Why are you taking offence at something you know nothing about? How can you take offence at it? You don't know about it."

I know the OP does it.

I just don't know why people can't wait to do it in their own home. Is it the thrill? The fact they might get caught? The disrespect for someone elses home?

I understand the point you are trying to make, but if I want to be offended at behaviour that someone else has demonstrated without even thinking it might be disrespectful, then that's my inclination.

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By *rinking-in-laCouple  over a year ago

Bristol


"

For what it's worth, I agree that it is unsavoury and I am not for the idea at all.

The key to all this is right there, it's unsavoury and as such is disrespectful regardless of whether the householder knows or not!!

That's not what I am asking though. I am trying to get an idea of what harm is done save that stuff which we have invented intellectually to be offended about.

It's worth going over these things because if we can create fewer reasons to be offended then we are more resilient and successful in life.

Offence is a failure to emotionally deal with something. If you can learn to deal then you have a happier existence.

Thus if we cannot find any actual harm, maybe we need to start asking ourselves if we would be better off not really caring, or if getting upset about it is a logical or sensible response?

I wouldn't take offence at anyone wanking. I take offence at them doing it in MY house.

Why? It harms you or yours in no way. You don't even know.

Why are you taking offence at something you know nothing about? How can you take offence at it? You don't know about it.

I know the OP does it.

I just don't know why people can't wait to do it in their own home. Is it the thrill? The fact they might get caught? The disrespect for someone elses home?

I understand the point you are trying to make, but if I want to be offended at behaviour that someone else has demonstrated without even thinking it might be disrespectful, then that's my inclination. "

Yes but can you not see how ill advised it is to lower your happiness levels over something that we have all acknowledged causes no damage?

It is a fair comment to make that being so keen to become unhappy against all logical evidence is a deleterious act both to yourself and society, and whilst obviously your prerogative, it is also emminently criticisable and demonstrably a bad idea.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"God you are all going of your head lol ...i do go to the toilet with the door shut and I am tidy not at it all the time occasionally

I'm not going 'off my head'.

It's irrelevant how tidy you are at it if someone is paying you to decorate. They're not paying you to wank yourself blind.

You appear to be relying on hyperbole and exageration to support an otherwise shakey point.

A worker is entitled to a break, if they choose to spend that break doing a legal thing in a discreet and tidy fashion, what difference does that make?

still completely unacceptable in someone else's home..

Ok. Everyone is entitled to their values.

What harm does it do if done with respect and all necessary discretion?

I think it would prove that they have no values or respect.

But what harm does it do to anyone else? Given no one will know, nothing will be broken or diminished in value or functionality.

I know it is contrary to your values, that has been made clear. But what has not been made clear is the harm it does if there is no evidence due to good care and discretion and the person is not charging you money for the time."

Its a lack of respect.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"God you are all going of your head lol ...i do go to the toilet with the door shut and I am tidy not at it all the time occasionally

I'm not going 'off my head'.

It's irrelevant how tidy you are at it if someone is paying you to decorate. They're not paying you to wank yourself blind.

You appear to be relying on hyperbole and exageration to support an otherwise shakey point.

A worker is entitled to a break, if they choose to spend that break doing a legal thing in a discreet and tidy fashion, what difference does that make?

still completely unacceptable in someone else's home..

Ok. Everyone is entitled to their values.

What harm does it do if done with respect and all necessary discretion?

I think it would prove that they have no values or respect.

But what harm does it do to anyone else? Given no one will know, nothing will be broken or diminished in value or functionality.

I know it is contrary to your values, that has been made clear. But what has not been made clear is the harm it does if there is no evidence due to good care and discretion and the person is not charging you money for the time.

It's very easy to claim "if no-one knows what's the harm" but it's the inferred disrespect of trust that someone has put in you to respect their property, regardless of whether they know or not. Not only that disrespect of of trust of someone that is paying you for a job of work, not a wank for Gods sake!!

And to the earlier poster that derogatarily suggested "women" would go "ballistic" over anything...I'm not a woman and would go equally balistic if I thought a tradesperson (regardless of gender) had disrespected my property by conducting any kind of sexual act in it whilst in my employ.

Yes, it's entirely possible that I would never know if the person had been "tidy" but the fact there are people posting here that even think it's ok speaks volumes about what some think is acceptable behaviour!!"

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By *yrdwomanWoman  over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"

For what it's worth, I agree that it is unsavoury and I am not for the idea at all.

The key to all this is right there, it's unsavoury and as such is disrespectful regardless of whether the householder knows or not!!

That's not what I am asking though. I am trying to get an idea of what harm is done save that stuff which we have invented intellectually to be offended about.

It's worth going over these things because if we can create fewer reasons to be offended then we are more resilient and successful in life.

Offence is a failure to emotionally deal with something. If you can learn to deal then you have a happier existence.

Thus if we cannot find any actual harm, maybe we need to start asking ourselves if we would be better off not really caring, or if getting upset about it is a logical or sensible response?

I wouldn't take offence at anyone wanking. I take offence at them doing it in MY house.

Why? It harms you or yours in no way. You don't even know.

Why are you taking offence at something you know nothing about? How can you take offence at it? You don't know about it.

I know the OP does it.

I just don't know why people can't wait to do it in their own home. Is it the thrill? The fact they might get caught? The disrespect for someone elses home?

I understand the point you are trying to make, but if I want to be offended at behaviour that someone else has demonstrated without even thinking it might be disrespectful, then that's my inclination.

Yes but can you not see how ill advised it is to lower your happiness levels over something that we have all acknowledged causes no damage?

It is a fair comment to make that being so keen to become unhappy against all logical evidence is a deleterious act both to yourself and society, and whilst obviously your prerogative, it is also emminently criticisable and demonstrably a bad idea. "

Don't worry, I'm not planning on committing seppuku about it. I was stating an opinion that's as valid as anyone else's on here.

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By *aveandSue1Couple  over a year ago

Doncaster


"Am a decorator so a lot of the time am in a house on my own so if am horny well cocks out "

OP, I bet you really really wish you'd never started this don't you?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"

For what it's worth, I agree that it is unsavoury and I am not for the idea at all.

The key to all this is right there, it's unsavoury and as such is disrespectful regardless of whether the householder knows or not!!

That's not what I am asking though. I am trying to get an idea of what harm is done save that stuff which we have invented intellectually to be offended about.

It's worth going over these things because if we can create fewer reasons to be offended then we are more resilient and successful in life.

Offence is a failure to emotionally deal with something. If you can learn to deal then you have a happier existence.

Thus if we cannot find any actual harm, maybe we need to start asking ourselves if we would be better off not really caring, or if getting upset about it is a logical or sensible response?

I wouldn't take offence at anyone wanking. I take offence at them doing it in MY house.

Why? It harms you or yours in no way. You don't even know.

Why are you taking offence at something you know nothing about? How can you take offence at it? You don't know about it.

I know the OP does it.

I just don't know why people can't wait to do it in their own home. Is it the thrill? The fact they might get caught? The disrespect for someone elses home?

I understand the point you are trying to make, but if I want to be offended at behaviour that someone else has demonstrated without even thinking it might be disrespectful, then that's my inclination.

Yes but can you not see how ill advised it is to lower your happiness levels over something that we have all acknowledged causes no damage?

It is a fair comment to make that being so keen to become unhappy against all logical evidence is a deleterious act both to yourself and society, and whilst obviously your prerogative, it is also emminently criticisable and demonstrably a bad idea. "

Im not unhappy. Im very happy.

The situation wouldnt happen for me anyway as we never leave workmen alone in the house and we have security webcams.

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By *rank n BettyCouple  over a year ago

Not meeting

We have sacked people for doing this. Gross misconduct

JG

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By *rinking-in-laCouple  over a year ago

Bristol


"

For what it's worth, I agree that it is unsavoury and I am not for the idea at all.

The key to all this is right there, it's unsavoury and as such is disrespectful regardless of whether the householder knows or not!!

That's not what I am asking though. I am trying to get an idea of what harm is done save that stuff which we have invented intellectually to be offended about.

It's worth going over these things because if we can create fewer reasons to be offended then we are more resilient and successful in life.

Offence is a failure to emotionally deal with something. If you can learn to deal then you have a happier existence.

Thus if we cannot find any actual harm, maybe we need to start asking ourselves if we would be better off not really caring, or if getting upset about it is a logical or sensible response?

I wouldn't take offence at anyone wanking. I take offence at them doing it in MY house.

Why? It harms you or yours in no way. You don't even know.

Why are you taking offence at something you know nothing about? How can you take offence at it? You don't know about it.

I know the OP does it.

I just don't know why people can't wait to do it in their own home. Is it the thrill? The fact they might get caught? The disrespect for someone elses home?

I understand the point you are trying to make, but if I want to be offended at behaviour that someone else has demonstrated without even thinking it might be disrespectful, then that's my inclination.

Yes but can you not see how ill advised it is to lower your happiness levels over something that we have all acknowledged causes no damage?

It is a fair comment to make that being so keen to become unhappy against all logical evidence is a deleterious act both to yourself and society, and whilst obviously your prerogative, it is also emminently criticisable and demonstrably a bad idea.

Don't worry, I'm not planning on committing seppuku about it. I was stating an opinion that's as valid as anyone else's on here."

Don't be defensive. It is possible to look at a situation, realise that you may be wrong and change your opinion. That's how evidence based arguments work.

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By *icolerobbieCouple  over a year ago

walsall


"

For what it's worth, I agree that it is unsavoury and I am not for the idea at all.

The key to all this is right there, it's unsavoury and as such is disrespectful regardless of whether the householder knows or not!!

That's not what I am asking though. I am trying to get an idea of what harm is done save that stuff which we have invented intellectually to be offended about.

It's worth going over these things because if we can create fewer reasons to be offended then we are more resilient and successful in life.

Offence is a failure to emotionally deal with something. If you can learn to deal then you have a happier existence.

Thus if we cannot find any actual harm, maybe we need to start asking ourselves if we would be better off not really caring, or if getting upset about it is a logical or sensible response?

I wouldn't take offence at anyone wanking. I take offence at them doing it in MY house.

Why? It harms you or yours in no way. You don't even know.

Why are you taking offence at something you know nothing about? How can you take offence at it? You don't know about it.

I know the OP does it.

I just don't know why people can't wait to do it in their own home. Is it the thrill? The fact they might get caught? The disrespect for someone elses home?

I understand the point you are trying to make, but if I want to be offended at behaviour that someone else has demonstrated without even thinking it might be disrespectful, then that's my inclination.

Yes but can you not see how ill advised it is to lower your happiness levels over something that we have all acknowledged causes no damage?

It is a fair comment to make that being so keen to become unhappy against all logical evidence is a deleterious act both to yourself and society, and whilst obviously your prerogative, it is also emminently criticisable and demonstrably a bad idea.

Im not unhappy. Im very happy.

The situation wouldnt happen for me anyway as we never leave workmen alone in the house and we have security webcams."

You have security webcams in your toilet / bathroom? Now that is creepy....

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"

For what it's worth, I agree that it is unsavoury and I am not for the idea at all.

The key to all this is right there, it's unsavoury and as such is disrespectful regardless of whether the householder knows or not!!

That's not what I am asking though. I am trying to get an idea of what harm is done save that stuff which we have invented intellectually to be offended about.

It's worth going over these things because if we can create fewer reasons to be offended then we are more resilient and successful in life.

Offence is a failure to emotionally deal with something. If you can learn to deal then you have a happier existence.

Thus if we cannot find any actual harm, maybe we need to start asking ourselves if we would be better off not really caring, or if getting upset about it is a logical or sensible response?

I wouldn't take offence at anyone wanking. I take offence at them doing it in MY house.

Why? It harms you or yours in no way. You don't even know.

Why are you taking offence at something you know nothing about? How can you take offence at it? You don't know about it.

I know the OP does it.

I just don't know why people can't wait to do it in their own home. Is it the thrill? The fact they might get caught? The disrespect for someone elses home?

I understand the point you are trying to make, but if I want to be offended at behaviour that someone else has demonstrated without even thinking it might be disrespectful, then that's my inclination.

Yes but can you not see how ill advised it is to lower your happiness levels over something that we have all acknowledged causes no damage?

It is a fair comment to make that being so keen to become unhappy against all logical evidence is a deleterious act both to yourself and society, and whilst obviously your prerogative, it is also emminently criticisable and demonstrably a bad idea.

Im not unhappy. Im very happy.

The situation wouldnt happen for me anyway as we never leave workmen alone in the house and we have security webcams.

You have security webcams in your toilet / bathroom? Now that is creepy.... "

Not in the bathroom. Workmen dont use the bathroom.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

It's a swingers site for God sake I never judge anyone on hear no matter how weird their sexual preference ..people said i could be arrested..sacked.. am disrespectful..get a grip some of you on hear so judgmental..av had a lot of private messages saying they have done the same and good on them

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By *imiUKMan  over a year ago

Hereford

I work with livestock. I think wanking at work is at best, frowned upon by society....

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Well that escalated quickly...

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By *yrdwomanWoman  over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


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For what it's worth, I agree that it is unsavoury and I am not for the idea at all.

The key to all this is right there, it's unsavoury and as such is disrespectful regardless of whether the householder knows or not!!

That's not what I am asking though. I am trying to get an idea of what harm is done save that stuff which we have invented intellectually to be offended about.

It's worth going over these things because if we can create fewer reasons to be offended then we are more resilient and successful in life.

Offence is a failure to emotionally deal with something. If you can learn to deal then you have a happier existence.

Thus if we cannot find any actual harm, maybe we need to start asking ourselves if we would be better off not really caring, or if getting upset about it is a logical or sensible response?

I wouldn't take offence at anyone wanking. I take offence at them doing it in MY house.

Why? It harms you or yours in no way. You don't even know.

Why are you taking offence at something you know nothing about? How can you take offence at it? You don't know about it.

I know the OP does it.

I just don't know why people can't wait to do it in their own home. Is it the thrill? The fact they might get caught? The disrespect for someone elses home?

I understand the point you are trying to make, but if I want to be offended at behaviour that someone else has demonstrated without even thinking it might be disrespectful, then that's my inclination.

Yes but can you not see how ill advised it is to lower your happiness levels over something that we have all acknowledged causes no damage?

It is a fair comment to make that being so keen to become unhappy against all logical evidence is a deleterious act both to yourself and society, and whilst obviously your prerogative, it is also emminently criticisable and demonstrably a bad idea.

Don't worry, I'm not planning on committing seppuku about it. I was stating an opinion that's as valid as anyone else's on here.

Don't be defensive. It is possible to look at a situation, realise that you may be wrong and change your opinion. That's how evidence based arguments work."

Who's being defensive? I'm just disagreeing with you.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"av had a lot of private messages saying they have done the same and good on them "

Good on them for violating someone's privacy and wanking in their house?

Oooooooook.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I work with livestock. I think wanking at work is at best, frowned upon by society.... "

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By *weetChariotMan  over a year ago

High Wycombe

In an office full of men, 8 of them, ... Errrr no.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"It's a swingers site for God sake I never judge anyone on hear no matter how weird their sexual preference ..people said i could be arrested..sacked.. am disrespectful..get a grip some of you on hear so judgmental..av had a lot of private messages saying they have done the same and good on them "

Well thank goodness we are all different and have different values.

Yes you are correct, it is a swingers site but im not sure what wanking in a house where you are being paid to work, has to do with swinging !

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By *im_66Woman  over a year ago

Bradford


"God you are all going of your head lol ...i do go to the toilet with the door shut and I am tidy not at it all the time occasionally

I'm not going 'off my head'.

It's irrelevant how tidy you are at it if someone is paying you to decorate. They're not paying you to wank yourself blind.

You appear to be relying on hyperbole and exageration to support an otherwise shakey point.

A worker is entitled to a break, if they choose to spend that break doing a legal thing in a discreet and tidy fashion, what difference does that make?

still completely unacceptable in someone else's home..

Ok. Everyone is entitled to their values.

What harm does it do if done with respect and all necessary discretion?"

YOU. ARE. IN. SOMEONE. ELSE'S. HOME.

Wtf is wrong with you people???

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By *inky-MinxWoman  over a year ago

Grantham


"So am the only 1 then ..sounds like am going to hell for doing this ..i must be a really bad man av done it on holiday as well ..God I wish i hadn't said that their will be crowds of folk marching down the street's with lanterns a blaze going to hang draw and quarter me ...lol "

You're not that important so no need to blow it out of proportion.

Your clients trust you and you disrespect that. I'd not be impressed.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Out of interest has this thread gone the way you anticipated?

I hope you use wallpaper glue and not save money by making your own!

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By *emini ManMan  over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


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If we don't "know" something we can't possibly care about it or get upset about it, what people (myself included) are railing against here is the fact that there are posters on this thread who think it's an ok thing to do, it's that simple.

If there is no harm, why is it not ok?"

Who said there is no harm?!

It's at best disrespectful, and as demonstrated by several posters here it's though acceptable behaviour by some - all of which is harmful in itself regardless of whether you know it's happened or not. The fact that some even think it's funny or daring is even worse still.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Am a decorator so a lot of the time am in a house on my own so if am horny well cocks out "

when you need wallpaper paste pronto! that's dedication that is...

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By *emini ManMan  over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"It's a swingers site for God sake I never judge anyone on hear no matter how weird their sexual preference ..people said i could be arrested..sacked.. am disrespectful..get a grip some of you on hear so judgmental..av had a lot of private messages saying they have done the same and good on them "

Let me guess, all of the private messages (if you've even had any) have been from males? And ones just as deluded as you if they think wanking in someone elses home is any kind of acceptable.

There's nothing judgemental about finding the sort of behaviour you describe as anything other than distasteful!!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"It's a swingers site for God sake I never judge anyone on hear no matter how weird their sexual preference ..people said i could be arrested..sacked.. am disrespectful..get a grip some of you on hear so judgmental..av had a lot of private messages saying they have done the same and good on them "
a

swinging site is different from a 'wank at my house while i pay you to work' site...the difference is very very subtle but if you squint, you'll see it

i'm a sick bastard at times but always with permission

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I work from home so I guess technically....

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I work with a load of wankers

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By *enmidsguyMan  over a year ago

birmingham

Yes I have felt the urge and actually given in to it. Gone in to the toilet and spent a few minutes alone with my fantasies

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Nope, no need to

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Am a decorator so a lot of the time am in a house on my own so if am horny well cocks out "

. You do?

'I've finished your wall, it will take a while to dry".

"What am I doing? Erm, I never had an extension pole to reach the ceiling!"

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I sacked a guy for having a wank. He was sacked for using company internet for porn. Now work on my own in my office and doors lock so the urge has been there but would not want to be hypercrit.

what's a hyper crit?"

Hyper-crit' - Someone who quickly and frantically searches threads to pick people up on bad spelling.

I made this up.

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