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After reading a post where somebody gave advice saying as long as you love each other...
I wondered what love means or is. In my experience love is or means different things to different people. So I'm looking for the definitive definition of love. As I think I've been in love with 3 people during my life and the live always fizzled out after a number of years.
So what is love!!? |
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"After reading a post where somebody gave advice saying as long as you love each other...
I wondered what love means or is. In my experience love is or means different things to different people. So I'm looking for the definitive definition of love. As I think I've been in love with 3 people during my life and the live always fizzled out after a number of years.
So what is love!!?"
In my experience..... A myth |
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"After reading a post where somebody gave advice saying as long as you love each other...
I wondered what love means or is. In my experience love is or means different things to different people. So I'm looking for the definitive definition of love. As I think I've been in love with 3 people during my life and the live always fizzled out after a number of years.
So what is love!!?
In my experience..... A myth "
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"Hadaway?
Feelings where I would lay down my life for someone. I would do anything within my realms of possibility to make that persons life happy. "
Sorry. I should have said something cynical or amusing poking fun at those that are in love. I can't, we all want love don't we?
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"Hadaway?
Feelings where I would lay down my life for someone. I would do anything within my realms of possibility to make that persons life happy. "
Song now on repeat in my head.... I currently know what hate is lol |
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"Hadaway?
Feelings where I would lay down my life for someone. I would do anything within my realms of possibility to make that persons life happy. "
That's what it means to me. But I had a FWB who said my definition was foolish and refused to admit she was in love with me. However threatened suicide when I thought it best we stopped sleeping together and just be friends. She said we couldn't just be friends  |
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"Hadaway?
Feelings where I would lay down my life for someone. I would do anything within my realms of possibility to make that persons life happy.
Song now on repeat in my head.... I currently know what hate is lol "
Haha. Did you sing the title of the thread as well ? |
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"Hadaway?
Feelings where I would lay down my life for someone. I would do anything within my realms of possibility to make that persons life happy.
That's what it means to me. But I had a FWB who said my definition was foolish and refused to admit she was in love with me. However threatened suicide when I thought it best we stopped sleeping together and just be friends. She said we couldn't just be friends "
Damn. That's not love, I wouldn't commit suicide for someone. I said I'd give my life for someone, there's a difference.
I wouldn't want someone to admit either, if they loved me, I'd know. |
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When you can't stop thinking about someone, think of little things to make them happy, feel safe and happy in their arms and would lay down and die for them.
I've had that once in my life |
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You can't see it with your eyes,
Hold it in your hand.
But like the wind, it covers our land,
Strong enough to move the heart of any man,
This thing called love.
It can lift you up,
Never let you down,
Take your world and turn it all around,
Ever since time, nothing's ever been found,
That's stronger than love.  |
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Does anybody love anyone anyway? (One for 80s pop lovers - brought to youby Forever FM ....timeless classics every day)
For the serious record, love is the best and worst thing, the hardest to find the easiest to lose... |
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"Hadaway?
Feelings where I would lay down my life for someone. I would do anything within my realms of possibility to make that persons life happy.
That's what it means to me. But I had a FWB who said my definition was foolish and refused to admit she was in love with me. However threatened suicide when I thought it best we stopped sleeping together and just be friends. She said we couldn't just be friends "
She sounds slightly unhinged! As many different definitions of love as there are people, and very difficult to behave rationally when you're in it |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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"Hadaway?
Feelings where I would lay down my life for someone. I would do anything within my realms of possibility to make that persons life happy.
That's what it means to me. But I had a FWB who said my definition was foolish and refused to admit she was in love with me. However threatened suicide when I thought it best we stopped sleeping together and just be friends. She said we couldn't just be friends "
There are many people who wouldn't be able to carry on being friends after the other chose to end a FB/FWB relationship that has nothing to do with love.
I have never enjoyed being in love as it has always led to pain for me (due to the quality of guy I chose to fall in love with). I was in love with the idea of being in love, and found out pretty sharpish that some men out there capitalise on that.
Also not sure why Love is symbolised by the heart, when it always gave me stomach ache. |
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Have to disagree with a lot of the descriptions of love. It doesn't hurt, doesn't have to die and can be forever.
Need two people on the same page, completely open and honest and willing to put in the effort  |
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"I heard it was a crazy little thing
My penis must be love then. 
Ah I'm glad you have found ha'penis"
It may look like a ha'penis now, but it turns into a full one when the mood takes it |
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Am I allowed to say I don't know? I know I love my children and would fight to the death for them but as for that kinda love...I don't know.
That must mean I've never been in love right? If I had been surely I would know.  |
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"Its this thing you cant put into words .. It just lives in your heart and never go away .
That definitely doesn't qualify as a definitive definition.  "
You can't define it/put it into words that others understand |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum |
"Am I allowed to say I don't know? I know I love my children and would fight to the death for them but as for that kinda love...I don't know.
That must mean I've never been in love right? If I had been surely I would know. "
I was once told that I loved no-one but myself and my daughter. My reply was 'so?' Familial love is different to romantic love but much more satisfying. |
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"Am I allowed to say I don't know? I know I love my children and would fight to the death for them but as for that kinda love...I don't know.
That must mean I've never been in love right? If I had been surely I would know.
I was once told that I loved no-one but myself and my daughter. My reply was 'so?' Familial love is different to romantic love but much more satisfying."
It's a wonderful feeling and one which can overwhelm.
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"Hadaway?
Feelings where I would lay down my life for someone. I would do anything within my realms of possibility to make that persons life happy.
Song now on repeat in my head.... I currently know what hate is lol "
I didn't realise it was a song. Feel too scared to listen to it though. I might not like it and get it repeating in my head too  |
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Reminded me of a favourite poem. The definition of Love:
As lines, so loves oblique may well
Themselves in every angle greet;
But ours so truly parallel,
Though infinite, can never meet.
To me love is selfless. |
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It's that heart fluttering warm contentment feeling you get when thinking of that person. Knowing that if they hurt you do too. Being able to be yourself and let them see your vulnerable side and they still want you despite of your flaws.
Knowing that they would die first before anyone or anything could harm you. Oh god this is all so soppy for a Sunday morning. It's indescribable but you know if you're in love x |
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"Hadaway?
Feelings where I would lay down my life for someone. I would do anything within my realms of possibility to make that persons life happy.
That's what it means to me. But I had a FWB who said my definition was foolish and refused to admit she was in love with me. However threatened suicide when I thought it best we stopped sleeping together and just be friends. She said we couldn't just be friends
Damn. That's not love, I wouldn't commit suicide for someone. I said I'd give my life for someone, there's a difference.
I wouldn't want someone to admit either, if they loved me, I'd know. "
I didn't want her to love me. We had fantastic regular sex and that's all I wanted. She has a family and I've got kids. So it was all undercover. But she fell in love and started making commitment demands. But wouldn't admit she had fallen in love..... I had to end it. |
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"Am I allowed to say I don't know? I know I love my children and would fight to the death for them but as for that kinda love...I don't know.
That must mean I've never been in love right? If I had been surely I would know. "
Same here. I thought I was. But each time I got to know them in depth I fell out of love. I think I was in love with the concept of them |
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"When you can't stop thinking about someone, think of little things to make them happy, feel safe and happy in their arms and would lay down and die for them.
I've had that once in my life "
So this stuff of it being everlasting is fake then right? |
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In my view, the only lasting, unconditional love is between parents and children. Romantic love is a different thing. There is also the general, all-inclusive love of one's fellow man which is different again. |
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"Hadaway?
Feelings where I would lay down my life for someone. I would do anything within my realms of possibility to make that persons life happy.
That's what it means to me. But I had a FWB who said my definition was foolish and refused to admit she was in love with me. However threatened suicide when I thought it best we stopped sleeping together and just be friends. She said we couldn't just be friends
Damn. That's not love, I wouldn't commit suicide for someone. I said I'd give my life for someone, there's a difference.
I wouldn't want someone to admit either, if they loved me, I'd know.
I didn't want her to love me. We had fantastic regular sex and that's all I wanted. She has a family and I've got kids. So it was all undercover. But she fell in love and started making commitment demands. But wouldn't admit she had fallen in love..... I had to end it."
Poor you OP. |
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Depends on what type of love you mean.I love our children, I love my parents, I love my good friends, I love my cat.
Mr N and I have been together 37 years. We've had each others back through every one of those years, even when we didn't like each other very much...that's love. |
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"Hadaway?
Feelings where I would lay down my life for someone. I would do anything within my realms of possibility to make that persons life happy.
That's what it means to me. But I had a FWB who said my definition was foolish and refused to admit she was in love with me. However threatened suicide when I thought it best we stopped sleeping together and just be friends. She said we couldn't just be friends
There are many people who wouldn't be able to carry on being friends after the other chose to end a FB/FWB relationship that has nothing to do with love.
I have never enjoyed being in love as it has always led to pain for me (due to the quality of guy I chose to fall in love with). I was in love with the idea of being in love, and found out pretty sharpish that some men out there capitalise on that.
Also not sure why Love is symbolised by the heart, when it always gave me stomach ache."
I do understand that. But we were friends prior and I am always completely and brutally honest. I think it's fucked up when you lie to get into someone knickers |
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"When you can't stop thinking about someone, think of little things to make them happy, feel safe and happy in their arms and would lay down and die for them.
I've had that once in my life
So this stuff of it being everlasting is fake then right?"
I don't think so no. |
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By *arry247Couple
over a year ago
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Love is very similar to infatuation but without the extremes.
There are many forms of love dependant on ones relationship with the other person (i.e. the love of a parent for a child is different from one parent to their spouse).
It is not something that can easily be described but it is that feeling you have when the person it is directed at is at their most annoying and being extremely unreasonable and demanding yet you have no doubt they are the person you want to spend the rest of your life with.
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"Hadaway?
Feelings where I would lay down my life for someone. I would do anything within my realms of possibility to make that persons life happy.
Sorry. I should have said something cynical or amusing poking fun at those that are in love. I can't, we all want love don't we?
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I do, it's amazing when it's good. |
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"Hadaway?
Feelings where I would lay down my life for someone. I would do anything within my realms of possibility to make that persons life happy.
That's what it means to me. But I had a FWB who said my definition was foolish and refused to admit she was in love with me. However threatened suicide when I thought it best we stopped sleeping together and just be friends. She said we couldn't just be friends
Damn. That's not love, I wouldn't commit suicide for someone. I said I'd give my life for someone, there's a difference.
I wouldn't want someone to admit either, if they loved me, I'd know.
I didn't want her to love me. We had fantastic regular sex and that's all I wanted. She has a family and I've got kids. So it was all undercover. But she fell in love and started making commitment demands. But wouldn't admit she had fallen in love..... I had to end it."
Threatening to commit suicide in order to continue a relationship isn't love, it's emotional abuse. |
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"Hadaway?
Feelings where I would lay down my life for someone. I would do anything within my realms of possibility to make that persons life happy.
That's what it means to me. But I had a FWB who said my definition was foolish and refused to admit she was in love with me. However threatened suicide when I thought it best we stopped sleeping together and just be friends. She said we couldn't just be friends
Damn. That's not love, I wouldn't commit suicide for someone. I said I'd give my life for someone, there's a difference.
I wouldn't want someone to admit either, if they loved me, I'd know.
I didn't want her to love me. We had fantastic regular sex and that's all I wanted. She has a family and I've got kids. So it was all undercover. But she fell in love and started making commitment demands. But wouldn't admit she had fallen in love..... I had to end it.
Threatening to commit suicide in order to continue a relationship isn't love, it's emotional abuse."
Yep and obsession. Obsession isn't love either. |
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"Hadaway?
Feelings where I would lay down my life for someone. I would do anything within my realms of possibility to make that persons life happy.
That's what it means to me. But I had a FWB who said my definition was foolish and refused to admit she was in love with me. However threatened suicide when I thought it best we stopped sleeping together and just be friends. She said we couldn't just be friends
Damn. That's not love, I wouldn't commit suicide for someone. I said I'd give my life for someone, there's a difference.
I wouldn't want someone to admit either, if they loved me, I'd know.
I didn't want her to love me. We had fantastic regular sex and that's all I wanted. She has a family and I've got kids. So it was all undercover. But she fell in love and started making commitment demands. But wouldn't admit she had fallen in love..... I had to end it."
Ah. Lust and love are located very close in the brain and we can become confused. She might not have loved you, only she knows the truth. |
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This a really deep one for a Sunday morning !
Love for your parents , siblings , children and pets is one thing and more often than not a given . An instinctive built in love .
But love that is shared as a couple is a completely different ball game . It develops over time and is fuelled by desire , lust , and all manner of emotions not necessarily associated with the above type of love . Of course the initial lust driven desire will develop into compassion , trust , the wanting to keep your partner happy , safe , protected , desired , and so on , if love is true as time goes by .
I liked the bit another couple said about having each other's back even when they didn't like each other at the time . That's love , as is giving the freedom to think and do to your partner . Way too many people try to change their partners perspective on things to their own . To be able to listen and not judge your lovers perspective on things is important .
To share the good times together , and to support each other through the rough times again is vital . To understand that neither one of you is perfect , and you will fuck things up now and again , but you have forgiveness in your heart .
Oh my days I could go on forever !
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"Love is an open door! A fridge door but a door all the same
WTF!!! ROTFL"
The ex and I actually covered this on you tube... and now this has replaced the grating of haddaway.... I don't know much... but I know I'll be stabbing myself with a fork by the end of the thread.  |
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I've never been in love. I've only ever had infatuations with people. I'm cool about that, and aware of it. In the future when I meet him, I expect love to be that person that doesn't give me butterflies; Just calms me, makes me feel like I can be myself and not have to try to impress him. That I can talk to without running out of things to say. That I can be vulnerable with. And he with me. |
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I'm really into the writings and YouTube channel of Alain De Botton - he runs the School of Life on YouTube and just bought his book 'The Course of Love' which is about the calm reality versus what classical literature would have us believe romantic love should be. |
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i carry your heart with me(i carry it in
my heart)i am never without it(anywhere
i go you go,my dear;and whatever is done
by only me is your doing,my darling)
i fear
no fate(for you are my fate,my sweet)i want
no world(for beautiful you are my world,my true)
and it’s you are whatever a moon has always meant
and whatever a sun will always sing is you
here is the deepest secret nobody knows
(here is the root of the root and the bud of the bud
and the sky of the sky of a tree called life;which grows
higher than soul can hope or mind can hide)
and this is the wonder that's keeping the stars apart
i carry your heart(i carry it in my heart)
e.e cummings 
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"I've never been in love. I've only ever had infatuations with people. I'm cool about that, and aware of it. In the future when I meet him, I expect love to be that person that doesn't give me butterflies; Just calms me, makes me feel like I can be myself and not have to try to impress him. That I can talk to without running out of things to say. That I can be vulnerable with. And he with me. "
Yes very much this. |
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"Love is an open door! A fridge door but a door all the same
WTF!!! ROTFL
The ex and I actually covered this on you tube... and now this has replaced the grating of haddaway.... I don't know much... but I know I'll be stabbing myself with a fork by the end of the thread. "
Love is your pictures holy shit awesome x |
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"The Rose"
Some say love, it is a river
That drowns the tender reed.
Some say love, it is a razor
That leaves your soul to bleed.
Some say love, it is a hunger,
An endless aching need.
I say love, it is a flower,
And you its only seed.
It's the heart afraid of breaking
That never learns to dance.
It's the dream afraid of waking
That never takes the chance.
It's the one who won't be taken,
Who cannot seem to give,
And the soul afraid of dyin'
That never learns to live.
When the night has been too lonely
And the road has been too long,
And you think that love is only
For the lucky and the strong,
Just remember in the winter
Far beneath the bitter snows
Lies the seed that with the sun's love
In the spring becomes the rose. |
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"There is no definitive for love it has many contexts I loved my wife I also have love for my children or friends they all differ."
This is how I think love is it comes in different ways. XX |
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"After reading a post where somebody gave advice saying as long as you love each other...
I wondered what love means or is. In my experience love is or means different things to different people. So I'm looking for the definitive definition of love. As I think I've been in love with 3 people during my life and the live always fizzled out after a number of years.
So what is love!!?
In my experience..... A myth "
true. my version of love for my now ex husband differed greatly from the love he felt for me!!! |
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"Am I allowed to say I don't know? I know I love my children and would fight to the death for them but as for that kinda love...I don't know.
That must mean I've never been in love right? If I had been surely I would know. "
I think u can be madly in love but the love for your children is different.. just my opinion |
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"This a really deep one for a Sunday morning !
Love for your parents , siblings , children and pets is one thing and more often than not a given . An instinctive built in love .
But love that is shared as a couple is a completely different ball game . It develops over time and is fuelled by desire , lust , and all manner of emotions not necessarily associated with the above type of love . Of course the initial lust driven desire will develop into compassion , trust , the wanting to keep your partner happy , safe , protected , desired , and so on , if love is true as time goes by .
I liked the bit another couple said about having each other's back even when they didn't like each other at the time . That's love , as is giving the freedom to think and do to your partner . Way too many people try to change their partners perspective on things to their own . To be able to listen and not judge your lovers perspective on things is important .
To share the good times together , and to support each other through the rough times again is vital . To understand that neither one of you is perfect , and you will fuck things up now and again , but you have forgiveness in your heart .
Oh my days I could go on forever !
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"If you find yourself thinking about the other person when they are not around...it's love."
I often think about my next door nieghbour. I can assure you, it's not love. |
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"Love is very similar to infatuation but without the extremes.
There are many forms of love dependant on ones relationship with the other person (i.e. the love of a parent for a child is different from one parent to their spouse).
It is not something that can easily be described but it is that feeling you have when the person it is directed at is at their most annoying and being extremely unreasonable and demanding yet you have no doubt they are the person you want to spend the rest of your life with.
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"Love is simultaneously the best and worst thing that has ever happened to me"
Yeah I get that!
Until you've got your 'happily ever after' love then it just brings a lot of pain in the end! 
#whyi'monfab! |
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"Am I allowed to say I don't know? I know I love my children and would fight to the death for them but as for that kinda love...I don't know.
That must mean I've never been in love right? If I had been surely I would know.
I think u can be madly in love but the love for your children is different.. just my opinion "
Kinda what I was saying.... |
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If love is 'unconditional' or 'everlasting' then why is the divorce rate 43%?
In truth it's a catch all term that enables people to avoid facing up to the truth or dealing with reality.
I watched a programme on domestic violence recently and it was horrendous. When the women were asked why they stayed with the men, they predictably responded that they loved them. What they didn't want to admit is that they hate being alone and their self esteem is low to imagine getting anyone better. |
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"Fuck knows.. id like to experience it one day though
Ive a lot to give to the right guy
Yup. "
Im sick to the teeth of being 2nd best.. i deserve someone who will put me 1st.
Will find him one day
Refuse to be someones dirty little secret.. |
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"Fuck knows.. id like to experience it one day though
Ive a lot to give to the right guy
Yup.
Im sick to the teeth of being 2nd best.. i deserve someone who will put me 1st.
Will find him one day
Refuse to be someones dirty little secret.. "
Someday my Prince will come |
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"Fuck knows.. id like to experience it one day though
Ive a lot to give to the right guy
Yup.
Im sick to the teeth of being 2nd best.. i deserve someone who will put me 1st.
Will find him one day
Refuse to be someones dirty little secret..
Someday my Prince will come "
haha i imagined you singing that as Snow White lolllll |
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"Fuck knows.. id like to experience it one day though
Ive a lot to give to the right guy
Yup.
Im sick to the teeth of being 2nd best.. i deserve someone who will put me 1st.
Will find him one day
Refuse to be someones dirty little secret..
Someday my Prince will come "
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"Fuck knows.. id like to experience it one day though
Ive a lot to give to the right guy
Yup.
Im sick to the teeth of being 2nd best.. i deserve someone who will put me 1st.
Will find him one day
Refuse to be someones dirty little secret..
Someday my Prince will come
haha i imagined you singing that as Snow White lolllll "
I am Snow White |
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"Fuck knows.. id like to experience it one day though
Ive a lot to give to the right guy
Yup.
Im sick to the teeth of being 2nd best.. i deserve someone who will put me 1st.
Will find him one day
Refuse to be someones dirty little secret.. "
Are we talking about true love now?
That's not found easily. That grows. |
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"Fuck knows.. id like to experience it one day though
Ive a lot to give to the right guy
Yup.
Im sick to the teeth of being 2nd best.. i deserve someone who will put me 1st.
Will find him one day
Refuse to be someones dirty little secret..
Someday my Prince will come "
Sounds rude. |
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"Fuck knows.. id like to experience it one day though
Ive a lot to give to the right guy
Yup.
Im sick to the teeth of being 2nd best.. i deserve someone who will put me 1st.
Will find him one day
Refuse to be someones dirty little secret..
Are we talking about true love now?
That's not found easily. That grows. "
Nah bollocks. |
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"Fuck knows.. id like to experience it one day though
Ive a lot to give to the right guy
Yup.
Im sick to the teeth of being 2nd best.. i deserve someone who will put me 1st.
Will find him one day
Refuse to be someones dirty little secret..
Someday my Prince will come
Or queen? "
Maybe I need to be poly |
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"Fuck knows.. id like to experience it one day though
Ive a lot to give to the right guy
Yup.
Im sick to the teeth of being 2nd best.. i deserve someone who will put me 1st.
Will find him one day
Refuse to be someones dirty little secret..
Someday my Prince will come
Or queen?
Maybe I need to be poly "
Yay! |
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"If love is 'unconditional' or 'everlasting' then why is the divorce rate 43%?
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I don't know, but some of those that have divorced may still feel sonf kind of love, I know a few bloke who openly speak they feel something for there fist wives, and will do almost anything for them still.  . Odd but true. |
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"Fuck knows.. id like to experience it one day though
Ive a lot to give to the right guy
Yup.
Im sick to the teeth of being 2nd best.. i deserve someone who will put me 1st.
Will find him one day
Refuse to be someones dirty little secret..
Someday my Prince will come
haha i imagined you singing that as Snow White lolllll
I am Snow White "
So am I! |
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"Fuck knows.. id like to experience it one day though
Ive a lot to give to the right guy
Yup.
Im sick to the teeth of being 2nd best.. i deserve someone who will put me 1st.
Will find him one day
Refuse to be someones dirty little secret..
Are we talking about true love now?
That's not found easily. That grows. "
True love?! Thats just showing off.. i just want the bog standard 'love'..
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"Fuck knows.. id like to experience it one day though
Ive a lot to give to the right guy
Yup.
Im sick to the teeth of being 2nd best.. i deserve someone who will put me 1st.
Will find him one day
Refuse to be someones dirty little secret..
Are we talking about true love now?
That's not found easily. That grows.
Nah bollocks. "
You think you can look for it? |
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"Fuck knows.. id like to experience it one day though
Ive a lot to give to the right guy
Yup.
Im sick to the teeth of being 2nd best.. i deserve someone who will put me 1st.
Will find him one day
Refuse to be someones dirty little secret..
Are we talking about true love now?
That's not found easily. That grows.
True love?! Thats just showing off.. i just want the bog standard 'love'..
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You can find that on here then. |
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True love?! Thats just showing off.. i just want the bog standard 'love'..
You can find that on here then.
Cumming on my face is not 'love'
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True love?! Thats just showing off.. i just want the bog standard 'love'..
You can find that on here then.
Cumming on my face is not 'love'
disclaimer Mister Bee has never cum on my face "
Haha.
Your right. Shagging is not love. That's why I said true love grows. But you want an Fwb? That might be the nearest thing to bog standard.
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Love lives entirely in a realm outside logic. There is no aspect of it which overlaps with the rational mind. So in essence it is an emotional spiritual state that so utterly defies logical understanding that the only definition of it we have is one word... "love" |
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"If love is 'unconditional' or 'everlasting' then why is the divorce rate 43%?
I don't know, but some of those that have divorced may still feel sonf kind of love, I know a few bloke who openly speak they feel something for there fist wives, and will do almost anything for them still. . Odd but true. "
Well words only have meaning if people recognise a common definition otherwise it's the same as a baby just babbling. If people think they love someone they've divorced then i have no idea what love is. |
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"After reading a post where somebody gave advice saying as long as you love each other...
I wondered what love means or is. In my experience love is or means different things to different people. So I'm looking for the definitive definition of love. As I think I've been in love with 3 people during my life and the live always fizzled out after a number of years.
So what is love!!?"
An incurable disease that strikes without warning with symptoms that wreak devastation upon your soul and has all the addiction of crack. |
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"If love is 'unconditional' or 'everlasting' then why is the divorce rate 43%?
I don't know, but some of those that have divorced may still feel sonf kind of love, I know a few bloke who openly speak they feel something for there fist wives, and will do almost anything for them still. . Odd but true.
Well words only have meaning if people recognise a common definition otherwise it's the same as a baby just babbling. If people think they love someone they've divorced then i have no idea what love is. "
I can understand that for some past loves - I gave them a gift and I have never taken it back. |
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"After reading a post where somebody gave advice saying as long as you love each other...
I wondered what love means or is. In my experience love is or means different things to different people. So I'm looking for the definitive definition of love. As I think I've been in love with 3 people during my life and the live always fizzled out after a number of years.
So what is love!!?
In my experience..... A myth "
In my experience....... the mytheth. Thorry about the lithp. |
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