Just curious to know has anyone ever caught and STI's while swinging. This is one of the main reasons why my wife doesnt want to go to a swingers party as she doesnt want to end up catching something. I know guys can wear condoms but if they have sex with a women full of something then he goes and sticks his tool into her then she can catch it that way. Would really hate for this to happen |
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over a year ago
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She doesn't have to shag all the blokes at the party 
The risks are always going to be there but if you stick to your usual selection criteria you should be ok  |
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By *adcowWoman
over a year ago
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using different condoms with each different playmates for penetration and oral cuts the risks to minimum. dental dams also available. and of course tell her to use her senses- if it smells or doesn't look right |
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get checked regular and never had anything
but then do you really think anyone would admit to catching something on an open forum?
risks are inherant in life, best thing you can do is be extra vigilant and make sure you are safe above all else |
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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago
North of The Wall - youll need your vest |
"I think you're ok as long as you don't bareback"
No you are not 
If a guy is using a condom that goes from one woman to another he might be safe - the woman certainly wouldnt... |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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actually if I had caught something I would have no problem admitting it... it breaks down the stigma attached to STI's.
a course of antibiotics hopefully will cure it.
on gay sites, some people declare their HIV status, which is commendable. |
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Well firstly its not only swingers that go to parties who may have STI's, its anyone, anywhere. Just as you are looking at people and thinking, do they have anything, they are thinking exactly the same of you. Protect yourself with a condom if you are worried, and that goes for whilst at a party, a club or at home if you have more intimate meets.
Most people I know ensure a change of condom for each partner.
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" I know guys can wear condoms but if they have sex with a women full of something then he goes and sticks his tool into her then she can catch it that way. Would really hate for this to happen "
You make it sound like men walk around parties shoving their 'tools' into the very next pussy they bump into. It doesn't happen like that at all. Sure, at greedy girl nights a lady will get a lot of 'attention' from the men but it's down to her, or you as her partner, to ensure each guy is wearing a fresh condom that YOU have supplied and watched him open it and put it on.
If more than one woman is present and a guy tries to switch from one to the other without changing condoms then that is down to you to suggest he changes or he doesn't play.
We can all minimise the risks of catching an STI so that you'd be incredibly unlucky to contract something, but if someone isn't vigillant then that risk climbs higher and ever higher.
I've been swinging for nearly a decade and never caught anything, and that isn't down to pure luck. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Been on the scene nearly thirty years
Have regular checks and have never caught anything xx 
WOW!! you been swinging since you were a baby!!!! "
I was 17 when i got dragged kicking and screaming onta the scene lol
Was through my bi side at a local sauna and was taken home by a guy to "perform" in front of his wife
They were swingers or wife swappers back then lol
And slowly got introduced ta the scene through their mates and so on
Till the tinternet and swingin sites xxxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Just curious to know has anyone ever caught and STI's while swinging. This is one of the main reasons why my wife doesnt want to go to a swingers party as she doesnt want to end up catching something. I know guys can wear condoms but if they have sex with a women full of something then he goes and sticks his tool into her then she can catch it that way. Would really hate for this to happen "
You are not going to get anyone to admit to it on here as it would be meet suicide! Nobody really wants to meet someone who they may catch a dose from and people will all say they have never caught anything. |
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