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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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And it wasn't in the slightest bit nasty, but they respond with a bitchy remark.....
Do you turn on bitch mode yourself and fire back to them, or just ignore the feckers? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"And it wasn't in the slightest bit nasty, but they respond with a bitchy remark.....
Do you turn on bitch mode yourself and fire back to them, or just ignore the feckers?"
Hell-yeah,,,,  |
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By *rjpinkMan
over a year ago
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"Found it on the forums people can be right arsey!! I've only ever been nice. But it does try my patience when someone gets shitty for no reason.
FAF?  "
Faf... enlighten me.. my abbreviation skills are not my finest asset |
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"And it wasn't in the slightest bit nasty, but they respond with a bitchy remark.....
Do you turn on bitch mode yourself and fire back to them, or just ignore the feckers?"
Hmmmm but saying that I know an ignore is a no but it's still polite to reply to a forum mate |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Sometimes an innocent remark sounds good/funny in your head but doesn't translate well to someone else "
Indeed. A lot of people think they have great banter, but just manage to rub us up in the wrong way. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Found it on the forums people can be right arsey!! I've only ever been nice. But it does try my patience when someone gets shitty for no reason.
FAF?
Faf... enlighten me.. my abbreviation skills are not my finest asset"
Fit as Fuck I think? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Found it on the forums people can be right arsey!! I've only ever been nice. But it does try my patience when someone gets shitty for no reason.
FAF?
Faf... enlighten me.. my abbreviation skills are not my finest asset
Fit as Fuck I think?"
Fancy a fuck? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Found it on the forums people can be right arsey!! I've only ever been nice. But it does try my patience when someone gets shitty for no reason.
FAF?
Faf... enlighten me.. my abbreviation skills are not my finest asset
Fit as Fuck I think?"
Fancy a fuck  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"And it wasn't in the slightest bit nasty, but they respond with a bitchy remark.....
Do you turn on bitch mode yourself and fire back to them, or just ignore the feckers?"
Ignore them, don't let yourself be lowered to their level.  |
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"Found it on the forums people can be right arsey!! I've only ever been nice. But it does try my patience when someone gets shitty for no reason.
FAF?
Faf... enlighten me.. my abbreviation skills are not my finest asset"
You have plenty of others |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Found it on the forums people can be right arsey!! I've only ever been nice. But it does try my patience when someone gets shitty for no reason.
FAF?
Faf... enlighten me.. my abbreviation skills are not my finest asset
Fit as Fuck I think?
Fancy a fuck? "
Sure lol |
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By *FFB69Woman
over a year ago
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"Sometimes an innocent remark sounds good/funny in your head but doesn't translate well to someone else
Indeed. A lot of people think they have great banter, but just manage to rub us up in the wrong way. "
This. Or if it's a message that clearly shows they havent bothered to read my profile.
Maybe their remark wasn't bitchy and you've taken it that way? Works both ways. |
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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago
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"And it wasn't in the slightest bit nasty, but they respond with a bitchy remark.....
Do you turn on bitch mode yourself and fire back to them, or just ignore the feckers?"
there is a universal truth fella in the world misery tries to spread misery , so bearing that in mind 90 percent of the time when someone makes a bitchy comment i understand the reason behind it , which is that they are a person leading a miserable life trying to spread the misery around hence their response . |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"And it wasn't in the slightest bit nasty, but they respond with a bitchy remark.....
Do you turn on bitch mode yourself and fire back to them, or just ignore the feckers?
there is a universal truth fella in the world misery tries to spread misery , so bearing that in mind 90 percent of the time when someone makes a bitchy comment i understand the reason behind it , which is that they are a person leading a miserable life trying to spread the misery around hence their response ."
Very true, I'm a firm believer in karma. |
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By *cott89Man
over a year ago
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if your nice and their a bitch leave it at that, this site isnt about making enemies and there are plenty of lovely people out there dont waste your time with the nasty ones when the nice ones deserve it more |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"if your nice and their a bitch leave it at that, this site isnt about making enemies and there are plenty of lovely people out there dont waste your time with the nasty ones when the nice ones deserve it more "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Delete block and mumble something about people being such uptight so and so's....
However it's a rarity in my experience as most of you fabsters are generally lovely people |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hi, I read ladies/couples profiles and write what I consider to me to be a nice introductory messages relating it to their profile and it is very annoying when it just gets deleted without even a polite no thanks... but hey ho.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Op did you read her profile before messaging? If you do not live within her distance range, then I'm not surprised she was annoyed. She could of replied much more politely though I agree.
No one likes time wasting and you may of been one of so many to of wasted her time that day.
Just to add people can see where you're located without even opening your message. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hi, I read ladies/couples profiles and write what I consider to me to be a nice introductory messages relating it to their profile and it is very annoying when it just gets deleted without even a polite no thanks... but hey ho.."
If there is no attraction then what's the point in wasting your time and their own? Im sure you wouldnt of messaged if you found no attraction towards them?
In fairness site rules do say deleted messages means no interested and everyone is to take them as such.
Fab is only hard work if you take it to heart. Just shrug it off and move on. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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This has only ever happened once to me, message was sent to a couple, I got quite an abusive response, I can only assume it was the male half who had sent the message and was having a bad day, I just deleted it. |
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