"They are exes for a reason "
Indeed! 
I don't play mind games, or give off the wrong signals. Always think there's something lacking in those that hold on to exes. They're an ego boost when needed for some.
I'll talk to my ex about the kids: nothing more. |
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"depends whats classed as getting back lol a call over cos your horny .doesnt mean your getting back .just a bit of fun"
Occasionally one of my ex's suggests that to me. I think he's a bit pathetic to be honest. The bad person inside me might consider using him, but then I realise I'm better that that... |
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By *went OP Man
over a year ago
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"depends whats classed as getting back lol a call over cos your horny .doesnt mean your getting back .just a bit of fun
Occasionally one of my ex's suggests that to me. I think he's a bit pathetic to be honest. The bad person inside me might consider using him, but then I realise I'm better that that..."
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By *went OP Man
over a year ago
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"They are exes for a reason
Indeed!
I don't play mind games, or give off the wrong signals. Always think there's something lacking in those that hold on to exes. They're an ego boost when needed for some.
I'll talk to my ex about the kids: nothing more."
That's a good way to be. I realised the line won't be crossed by me ever again. Done it before and felt used and then all I get is abused. |
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"They are exes for a reason
Indeed!
I don't play mind games, or give off the wrong signals. Always think there's something lacking in those that hold on to exes. They're an ego boost when needed for some.
I'll talk to my ex about the kids: nothing more."
This |
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"It depends why the relationship broke up. People do break up and get back together successfully.
I am Hoping this is true, given my current status  "
I suppose it depends on the reason for the break up. |
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People reflect, learn, adapt and change if they have the right personality.
Calling people sad or pathetic because they hang on says more about you than them.
It's about the bigger picture. Was the relationship abusive? Why did you split? Maybe it was outside influences. Just don't make the same mistakes. |
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" People reflect, learn, adapt and change if they have the right personality.
Calling people sad or pathetic because they hang on says more about you than them.
It's about the bigger picture. Was the relationship abusive? Why did you split? Maybe it was outside influences. Just don't make the same mistakes."
Sometimes the change is not needed by people. Sometimes it is. |
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"There is a line that I could cross, but should you ever get back with ex girl friends? Even if it's just for sex ?
Or are they ex's for a raason?"
Just for sex can work (temporarily) if she is mature and isn't using sex to try and get you back. You have both formed a level of trust with each other and both have needs, if neither of you have anything better to fuck then why not?
I wouldn't try to rekindle a relationship though, there's inevitably resentment there at some level. |
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