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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Might sound stupid and I know I'm gonna get ambushed here but seriously at a first glance would you depict me as a "Gay Guy"
Not got anything against Gays but the amount of people in "normal" life that have said they thought I was gay before they even got to know me..
Do I give of that look? |
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By *ilk_TreMan
over a year ago
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"Might sound stupid and I know I'm gonna get ambushed here but seriously at a first glance would you depict me as a "Gay Guy"
Not got anything against Gays but the amount of people in "normal" life that have said they thought I was gay before they even got to know me..
Do I give of that look? "
Google "How to be a man".
Jobs a good un.  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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""Shower fresh, well dressed and smell good" ......gotta' be a little bit of ghey in there somewhere  "
So I should turn up in jogging bottoms, smelling and not had a shower for a couple of days for people not to thing I'm gay? |
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""Shower fresh, well dressed and smell good" ......gotta' be a little bit of ghey in there somewhere
So I should turn up in jogging bottoms, smelling and not had a shower for a couple of days for people not to thing I'm gay? "
It's an option  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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""Shower fresh, well dressed and smell good" ......gotta' be a little bit of ghey in there somewhere
So I should turn up in jogging bottoms, smelling and not had a shower for a couple of days for people not to thing I'm gay? "
I don't think sexuality and hygiene are mutually exclusive.
If you don't think you look gay, then that's all that matters, everyone is different and you will never be able to attract everyone, just be yourself |
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"Might sound stupid and I know I'm gonna get ambushed here but seriously at a first glance would you depict me as a "Gay Guy"
Not got anything against Gays but the amount of people in "normal" life that have said they thought I was gay before they even got to know me..
Do I give of that look? "
It's the bare chest, braces and dickie bow pic - Liberace would have refused to wear that get up ffs...  |
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"Do I give of that look? "
On some of your pics yes you do, particularly the one in the bracers.
I also get asked this a lot but I think it's because of my mannerisms though. Sometimes I just play on it for a laugh shouting "Guilty!" In my most cliché camp voice. It doesn't bother me in the slightest and I find it quite entertaining. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes your stance in some of your pics have an air of dampness about them. I wouldn't assume you were gay, the most camp guy I know is very straight-and very popular with ladies! |
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As a gay man even I don't know what gay looks like. There are a few camp pics in there but I've known the most heterosexual of men to be camp at times. But of course the macho men and lovers of them of this world will always declare themselves the experts in deciding what's gay and what's not |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Isn't being gay a great way to meet girls though? Seriously? Use it to your advantage if that's what people think!
For the record, I don't think you look 'gay' as such. Perhaps 'Metrosexual'!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes your stance in some of your pics have an air of dampness about them. I wouldn't assume you were gay, the most camp guy I know is very straight-and very popular with ladies!
Dampness "
Oh maybe that was just me  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No idea about "looking" gay, I'm not sure how that'd come across in photos...
I noticed your status though... you've got veris from a couple of men on here so that might explain why you get requests from men. |
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"Might sound stupid and I know I'm gonna get ambushed here but seriously at a first glance would you depict me as a "Gay Guy"
Not got anything against Gays but the amount of people in "normal" life that have said they thought I was gay before they even got to know me..
Do I give of that look? "
your like the rest of us on here honey, fab straight!
give into it and enjoy |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No idea about "looking" gay, I'm not sure how that'd come across in photos...
I noticed your status though... you've got veris from a couple of men on here so that might explain why you get requests from men. "
Essentially. The veri from the fella who you met alone and commented that you are brilliant at what you do was probably interpreted the same was as the word 'discreet' by the bi/Fab straight contingent |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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""Shower fresh, well dressed and smell good" ......gotta' be a little bit of ghey in there somewhere
So I should turn up in jogging bottoms, smelling and not had a shower for a couple of days for people not to thing I'm gay? "
No! Don't turn up looking and smelling like a chav. Carry on being you. |
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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago
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It's not a bad thing.
When I first went away to uni, my "look" was apparently a bit odd compared to other guys, so a few of my mates "hilariously" started a rumour that I was gay, it had the effect of making a lot of women feel that they could come and talk to me and when they found out I wasn't gay......... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Might sound stupid and I know I'm gonna get ambushed here but seriously at a first glance would you depict me as a "Gay Guy"
Not got anything against Gays but the amount of people in "normal" life that have said they thought I was gay before they even got to know me..
Do I give of that look? "
No, you look nicely maintained and particular about your appearance, that's the norm these days though regarding men .
Obviously you're a heterosexual male as your profile pics show you enjoying the company of the opposite sex and you're very clearly sexually aroused by their presence.
I'd also add as a gay male.. there's no uniform "gay look". There are many gay men who outwardly conform to the traditional male aesthetics eg Masculine, reserved.. there in essence is no "gay" look.
Do you mean when people meet you they perceive you mistakingly as gay because you're sensitive in some way or have a caring and accommodating nature? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Might sound stupid and I know I'm gonna get ambushed here but seriously at a first glance would you depict me as a "Gay Guy"
Not got anything against Gays but the amount of people in "normal" life that have said they thought I was gay before they even got to know me..
Do I give of that look? "
Why have you met a single guy??  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Might sound stupid and I know I'm gonna get ambushed here but seriously at a first glance would you depict me as a "Gay Guy"
Not got anything against Gays but the amount of people in "normal" life that have said they thought I was gay before they even got to know me..
Do I give of that look?
No, you look nicely maintained and particular about your appearance, that's the norm these days though regarding men .
Obviously you're a heterosexual male as your profile pics show you enjoying the company of the opposite sex and you're very clearly sexually aroused by their presence.
I'd also add as a gay male.. there's no uniform "gay look". There are many gay men who outwardly conform to the traditional male aesthetics eg Masculine, reserved.. there in essence is no "gay" look.
Do you mean when people meet you they perceive you mistakingly as gay because you're sensitive in some way or have a caring and accommodating nature?"
Do gay men have a 'caring and accommodating nature'? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Might sound stupid and I know I'm gonna get ambushed here but seriously at a first glance would you depict me as a "Gay Guy"
Not got anything against Gays but the amount of people in "normal" life that have said they thought I was gay before they even got to know me..
Do I give of that look?
No, you look nicely maintained and particular about your appearance, that's the norm these days though regarding men .
Obviously you're a heterosexual male as your profile pics show you enjoying the company of the opposite sex and you're very clearly sexually aroused by their presence.
I'd also add as a gay male.. there's no uniform "gay look". There are many gay men who outwardly conform to the traditional male aesthetics eg Masculine, reserved.. there in essence is no "gay" look.
Do you mean when people meet you they perceive you mistakingly as gay because you're sensitive in some way or have a caring and accommodating nature?
Do gay men have a 'caring and accommodating nature'? "
I don't know what he means by "gay look", I'm curious if he means he possessed a quality that's usually inaccurately seen as an attribute of gay men? Idk. |
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By *andVBCouple
over a year ago
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In the before times, the long, long ago I would often be hit on by gentlemen when out of an evening.
At the time I attributed this to my colourful short-sleeve shirts.
Do you often wear terribly bright and garish short-sleeved shirts OP?
Looking back, it is a shame this all occurred before I realised I quite enjoyed having sex with men. Mis-spent youth indeed.
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You could be gay, real gay or fab gay as there's no way of telling. Those informed, as fab users, know that many guys here who are otherwise known as straight, do have some sexual interaction with the same gender. In the wider world people are perhaps a little less well informed.
It also depends on where your friends are from - it's a reflection more on them than you. Many guys would take it as a compliment.
We've moved on from the bigoted days of old and people should be valued for who they are, not outdated notions of stereotypes |
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"Yes your stance in some of your pics have an air of dampness about them. I wouldn't assume you were gay, the most camp guy I know is very straight-and very popular with ladies! "
Exactly. Most here are saying affirmative which is utter bollocks. A touch camp perhaps but nobody looks 'gay'  |
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By *100Man
over a year ago
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Mate you do a little bit may be the beard the loud shirt and the pink pants but other than that don't worry what other people think just be you and as for the gay bit don't knock it till you've tried it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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How does a pic look gay? Short of the obvious of including another man's genitalia?
Men message/wink/fab straight guys all of the time. Just block them from messaging and move on, it's a compliment if anything isn't it. |
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