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Are there any men in a mf couple who delete messages sent to the couple by single men before the female half has read it? Or do all men agree with their partner not to delete messages before the female half has read it?
This question only applies if the couple have indicated that they are looking to meet with single guys. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Are there any men in a mf couple who delete messages sent to the couple by single men before the female half has read it? Or do all men agree with their partner not to delete messages before the female half has read it?
This question only applies if the couple have indicated that they are looking to meet with single guys."
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Are there any men in a mf couple who delete messages sent to the couple by single men before the female half has read it? Or do all men agree with their partner not to delete messages before the female half has read it?
This question only applies if the couple have indicated that they are looking to meet with single guys."
I don't really talk to couples but I'm interested in what they do in these situations |
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"Are there any men in a mf couple who delete messages sent to the couple by single men before the female half has read it? Or do all men agree with their partner not to delete messages before the female half has read it?
This question only applies if the couple have indicated that they are looking to meet with single guys.
I don't really talk to couples but I'm interested in what they do in these situations "
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By (user no longer on site)
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If one says no, that's that!
Not worth thinking about which one knocked you back.... probably both cause couples know what their partners like or dislike. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Marc and I will each sometimes delete messages or reject someone without the other person seeing.
With single guys specifically, Marc will usually go through messages that come in and just say thanks but no thanks to anyone he knows I wouldn't be interested in (also people who have messaged before, don't have pics, etc...). Then he'll leave the rest for me to look at and I'll respond accordingly. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Probably. I'd imagine that the male half of a couple gets just as much of a say on who they meet as the female."
This would imply both read the message. My question relates to men who delete messages before their other half has read it, therefore meaning that both don't have as much say as the other. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I find most couples will say who usually reads/replies somewhere in their profile text.
But of course, you've actually got to READ the profile to know that.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"This would imply both read the message. My question relates to men who delete messages before their other half has read it, therefore meaning that both don't have as much say as the other."
What I was trying to explain was a situation similar to 'Marc.Courtney'. Sorry if I wasn't too clear about it.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Probably. I'd imagine that the male half of a couple gets just as much of a say on who they meet as the female.
This would imply both read the message. My question relates to men who delete messages before their other half has read it, therefore meaning that both don't have as much say as the other."
As a PP said it doesn't matter because a no from one of us is the same as a no from both of us. As it happens G doesn't do this, he leaves messaging to me, but if he did I would be fine with that. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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We are primarily looking for couples and single women but I am also interested in meeting with one or two single men. Mostly it is me who deletes messages but sometimes it is just my partner. He knows exactly the type of man who I would find appealing or not
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"Are there any men in a mf couple who delete messages sent to the couple by single men before the female half has read it? Or do all men agree with their partner not to delete messages before the female half has read it?
This question only applies if the couple have indicated that they are looking to meet with single guys."
Some do, some don't. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Probably. I'd imagine that the male half of a couple gets just as much of a say on who they meet as the female.
This would imply both read the message. My question relates to men who delete messages before their other half has read it, therefore meaning that both don't have as much say as the other.
As a PP said it doesn't matter because a no from one of us is the same as a no from both of us. As it happens G doesn't do this, he leaves messaging to me, but if he did I would be fine with that. "
This implies that you both have an agreement to delete with the others blessing. This really relates to the guy doing it surreptitiously. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Probably. I'd imagine that the male half of a couple gets just as much of a say on who they meet as the female.
This would imply both read the message. My question relates to men who delete messages before their other half has read it, therefore meaning that both don't have as much say as the other.
As a PP said it doesn't matter because a no from one of us is the same as a no from both of us. As it happens G doesn't do this, he leaves messaging to me, but if he did I would be fine with that.
This implies that you both have an agreement to delete with the others blessing. This really relates to the guy doing it surreptitiously."
that's not what your op says though..bit confusing as to what you're trying to get at |
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I (male) go through the messages delete the ones I I don't think a suitable or disrespectful then mrs looks at the rest because if she saw some of the things people put that would be it for us. A lot of the rude messages come after I have looked then if it takes a while to reply because she isent able to look straight away bam she's a whore/slut even called a common girl recently and I don't want to subject her to this.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Are there any men in a mf couple who delete messages sent to the couple by single men before the female half has read it? Or do all men agree with their partner not to delete messages before the female half has read it?
This question only applies if the couple have indicated that they are looking to meet with single guys."
Never! If I open a message from a single guy I always ask him to "bare with us" until my lovely lady has had a look. Then it's left to her to say "yay" or "nay".
If I was to delete before she see it, it would kinda defeat our purpose for being here in the first place.  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I (male) go through the messages delete the ones I I don't think a suitable or disrespectful then mrs looks at the rest because if she saw some of the things people put that would be it for us. A lot of the rude messages come after I have looked then if it takes a while to reply because she isent able to look straight away bam she's a whore/slut even called a common girl recently and I don't want to subject her to this.
Billy"
Fairplay. I guess its down to the couple but this is the best scenario. |
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"If one says no, that's that!
Not worth thinking about which one knocked you back.... probably both cause couples know what their partners like or dislike. "
Saying that she does throw the occasional curve ball but then again she's always been a bit unpredictable. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Probably. I'd imagine that the male half of a couple gets just as much of a say on who they meet as the female.
This would imply both read the message. My question relates to men who delete messages before their other half has read it, therefore meaning that both don't have as much say as the other.
As a PP said it doesn't matter because a no from one of us is the same as a no from both of us. As it happens G doesn't do this, he leaves messaging to me, but if he did I would be fine with that.
This implies that you both have an agreement to delete with the others blessing. This really relates to the guy doing it surreptitiously.
that's not what your op says though..bit confusing as to what you're trying to get at"
Even if it was surreptitious I don't see the issue, we're a couple and if we aren't both happy with a profile that contacts us it ain't going to happen. What specifically is your point here? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Yes, I have requested that my husband screens messages before I see them. This is because I get so tired of pictures of dicks, and random requests for sex, and meaningless one line messages. So my husband deletes the messages from profiles that are likely to offend me or irritate me.
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