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Does age really matter?
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By *ea_CoffeeCouple
over a year ago
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Your best bet is to get yourself to a club.
Go with the attitude that you very likely will not get to play but will get to chat too and socialise with many experienced swingers. Anything else will be an unexpected bonus
Once you get chatting and get known to people you may find they are willing to verify you on here and that will go along way to increasing you chances of a successful meet
The main thing is do yourself proud and present yourself on here as a responsible mature adult, research what people in this lifestyle want from single guys and try not to make obvious mistakes.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It will to some.
I'm primarily looking for women aged 30 plus ideally. I really don't think I'd have too much in common with a 21 yo lady to be honest so that's not what I'm after.
I'm guessing some ladies will feel the same about younger guys. Conversely there will be others that love the idea of a young male or female - concentrate on those that do want to meet you not those that don't and good luck |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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To answer the question.
Yes, age matters. People have preferred age restrictions. There's not a lot you can do about it apart from impress the people who are looking for you rather than lamenting over the ones who aren't.
Your fab experience will improve muchly. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I personally prefer Liam Neeson old but like what has said before get yourself to a club and don't have any expectations.
You never know, people's perceptions can change during a face to face. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Never had an issue and even less so in clubs; it has been annoying when you JUST miss out on an age range of a person or couple yoi like the look of by a matter of months. I just add em to my hotlist lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"For me, yes.
Did you know. It's my 99th birthday today  "
Oh, you know those age restrictions are only there to distract oddballs. Though you have access to my inbox.
Hmmm. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The only reason I dont meet guys in their 20's was because most of those I had met had no clue how to please a woman and wouldnt even communicate about sexual things and to be honest they were selfish lovers too. Not all are like this.. i appreciate .. but it was my experience after being on the site for over 4 years off and on.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Its personal preference. Older guys float my boat, younger ones don't. Simple really.
I'm sure there are plenty of women on here who think differently, you just need to make sure you have more than just your age to sell yourself with. |
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Age is a massive issue for me always has been. However I do message some of the younger guys on here and they are remarkably mature and can hold a conversation. Not entirely sure that's representative and I wouldn't compromise regarding the age of someone I'd meet |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's not necessarily age itself, it's the experience and attitude, and having things in common to talk about. Plus for some is about not wanting to play with people younger than their kids. You can't change your age and is there really much point lying about it? Just focus your attention on people who like your age range. |
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"Being a young man on this site Iv found that it puts many women off. What do you think? "
Age clearly matters to you because I'm ten years over your upper limit. If you apply what puts you off about women over 50 in reverse...you have your answer  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Being a young man on this site Iv found that it puts many women off. What do you think?
Age clearly matters to you because I'm ten years over your upper limit. If you apply what puts you off about women over 50 in reverse...you have your answer "
I have never thought about it like that!  |
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"Being a young man on this site Iv found that it puts many women off. What do you think?
Age clearly matters to you because I'm ten years over your upper limit. If you apply what puts you off about women over 50 in reverse...you have your answer
I have never thought about it like that! "
Well, there you go!
Age does matter to lots of us. Its best to accept that some people won't want to meet you due to your age and concentrate on those that do.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Being a young man on this site Iv found that it puts many women off. What do you think?
Age clearly matters to you because I'm ten years over your upper limit. If you apply what puts you off about women over 50 in reverse...you have your answer
I have never thought about it like that!
Well, there you go!
Age does matter to lots of us. Its best to accept that some people won't want to meet you due to your age and concentrate on those that do.
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The hard part is finding them that do as there aren't many  |
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"Being a young man on this site Iv found that it puts many women off. What do you think?
Age clearly matters to you because I'm ten years over your upper limit. If you apply what puts you off about women over 50 in reverse...you have your answer
I have never thought about it like that!
Well, there you go!
Age does matter to lots of us. Its best to accept that some people won't want to meet you due to your age and concentrate on those that do.
The hard part is finding them that do as there aren't many "
Most single men find it difficult, the younger ones even more so. I don't mean this harshly but nobody is entitled to get a meet from here but a positive attitude, a friendly approach in the forum and visiting clubs or socials will all help. If you're hoping to get sex without putting in any effort you're going to be disappointed however the truth is that even with effort nothing is guaranteed.
Good luck in your search |
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