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"I can't say why straight women want to meet couples for sure but I imagine its similar to straight men wanting to meet couples. When we meet a guy the attention is all on me so I guess a straight woman meeting a couple the dynamic would be all the attention on the guy." Ok, but what's in it for her (the straight single fem)? Surely it can't be that she wants to just please the guy? Perhaps I'm just over-thinking it, but as a half of a couple who like to meet ladies it's something that I can't understand, and I worry about coming on too strong with any ladies we contact, getting it wrong, I just want to understand what they are looking for? Jayne x | |||
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"I'm straight and don't want to meet couples,but maybe it's for the guy to have two women their pampering him." *there | |||
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"I'm straight and don't want to meet couples,but maybe it's for the guy to have two women their pampering him." No, I'm not sure I'm explaining this right. I understand why a guy would want two women to play with (even if they are both straight), and I understand why a bi-fem Cpl (that's us lol) would want a bi fem to play with, the bit I don't get is why a straight fem would put on her profile that she will meet couples... I don't see what is in it for her? She can have any single guy she wants, why complicate things by joining a couple where you only play with one half? Jayne x | |||
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"I'm straight and don't want to meet couples,but maybe it's for the guy to have two women their pampering him. No, I'm not sure I'm explaining this right. I understand why a guy would want two women to play with (even if they are both straight), and I understand why a bi-fem Cpl (that's us lol) would want a bi fem to play with, the bit I don't get is why a straight fem would put on her profile that she will meet couples... I don't see what is in it for her? She can have any single guy she wants, why complicate things by joining a couple where you only play with one half? Jayne x" As a woman who describes herself as only mildly bi-curious I can understand it completely. Yes there are plenty of single males out there, but attraction happens where it will. I'm far more likely to be attracted to the male of a couple than the female, and if she's happy to just watch or play alongside but not with me, well that's just perfect  | |||
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" She can have any single guy she wants, why complicate things by joining a couple where you only play with one half? Jayne x" Ive met with several couples where the wife just likes to watch | |||
" Ok, but what's in it for her (the straight single fem)? Surely it can't be that she wants to just please the guy? " What's in it for a straight single man who meets couples? Surely it can't just be that he wants to please the woman? | |||
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"Some straight women are very visual and being with a couple can be a massive visual horny experience! The fun doesn't have to be necessarily playing with the bi fem, the fun for her (straight woman) could be about watching that cock slide into a pussy at close range..perhaps holding that cock and directing it a bit..sound is a turn on too..listening to the couple fuck..the energ..and yes pleasuring the man too.. So yes there are many sexy aspects to straight women engaging with couples; besides fem-on-fem play. Not that I speak from ahem cough cough such described experience "Oh and I forgot to add, just like some opposite sex couples don't like giving oral sex, can't the same apply for same sex players? Unless you are assuming that that's the only thing to "get out of the experience"... I have put bi-curious on my profile because I still find the female body very attractive and when combined closely with the male..aaaah so erotic | |||
" Ok, but what's in it for her (the straight single fem)? Surely it can't be that she wants to just please the guy? What's in it for a straight single man who meets couples? Surely it can't just be that he wants to please the woman?" Oh, I can answer that, one word "pussy" lol. The guys tend to find it easier to get meets with couple, than competing with all the other guys for the single fems. Jayne x | |||
"I can't say why straight women want to meet couples for sure but I imagine its similar to straight men wanting to meet couples. When we meet a guy the attention is all on me so I guess a straight woman meeting a couple the dynamic would be all the attention on the guy. Ok, but what's in it for her (the straight single fem)? Surely it can't be that she wants to just please the guy? Perhaps I'm just over-thinking it, but as a half of a couple who like to meet ladies it's something that I can't understand, and I worry about coming on too strong with any ladies we contact, getting it wrong, I just want to understand what they are looking for? Jayne x" I don't understand why you're concerned. Are you contacting straight women? The only thing I can say to you is if you contact a woman and you aren't sure what they are comfortable with...ask them. | |||
" Ok, but what's in it for her (the straight single fem)? Surely it can't be that she wants to just please the guy? What's in it for a straight single man who meets couples? Surely it can't just be that he wants to please the woman? Oh, I can answer that, one word "pussy" lol. The guys tend to find it easier to get meets with couple, than competing with all the other guys for the single fems. Jayne x" So then perhaps the answer for straight women meeting couples is 'cock'? | |||
" Ok, but what's in it for her (the straight single fem)? Surely it can't be that she wants to just please the guy? What's in it for a straight single man who meets couples? Surely it can't just be that he wants to please the woman? Oh, I can answer that, one word "pussy" lol. The guys tend to find it easier to get meets with couple, than competing with all the other guys for the single fems. Jayne x So then perhaps the answer for straight women meeting couples is 'cock'?" Surely a single lady can get that anytime, without needing to meet couples? I don't know why you seem to be deliberately being obtuse, maybe I've inadvertently said something to offend you, and if so I apologise, but there's no need to keep following my posts with your comments unless you have something helpful to say. Jayne x | |||
"I can't say why straight women want to meet couples for sure but I imagine its similar to straight men wanting to meet couples. When we meet a guy the attention is all on me so I guess a straight woman meeting a couple the dynamic would be all the attention on the guy. Ok, but what's in it for her (the straight single fem)? Surely it can't be that she wants to just please the guy? Perhaps I'm just over-thinking it, but as a half of a couple who like to meet ladies it's something that I can't understand, and I worry about coming on too strong with any ladies we contact, getting it wrong, I just want to understand what they are looking for? Jayne x I don't understand why you're concerned. Are you contacting straight women? The only thing I can say to you is if you contact a woman and you aren't sure what they are comfortable with...ask them. " I guess that's the answer lol. I started this post to air a question that had occurred to me a few times, as I often check profiles looking to make friends and see who might be up for a meet, and I saw single straight ladies saying they would meet couples. I was hoping that ladies who fit that description might answer, but I'll ask them directly when I see their profiles. Jayne x | |||
"I can't say why straight women want to meet couples for sure but I imagine its similar to straight men wanting to meet couples. When we meet a guy the attention is all on me so I guess a straight woman meeting a couple the dynamic would be all the attention on the guy. Ok, but what's in it for her (the straight single fem)? Surely it can't be that she wants to just please the guy? Perhaps I'm just over-thinking it, but as a half of a couple who like to meet ladies it's something that I can't understand, and I worry about coming on too strong with any ladies we contact, getting it wrong, I just want to understand what they are looking for? Jayne x I don't understand why you're concerned. Are you contacting straight women? The only thing I can say to you is if you contact a woman and you aren't sure what they are comfortable with...ask them. I guess that's the answer lol. I started this post to air a question that had occurred to me a few times, as I often check profiles looking to make friends and see who might be up for a meet, and I saw single straight ladies saying they would meet couples. I was hoping that ladies who fit that description might answer, but I'll ask them directly when I see their profiles. Jayne x" I don't mean this aggressively but you're requiring an explanation for the way other women use fab in an almost incredulous manner. Nobody has to justify their profile or how they play and that might be why no women who fit the description have replied. | |||
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"I can't say why straight women want to meet couples for sure but I imagine its similar to straight men wanting to meet couples. When we meet a guy the attention is all on me so I guess a straight woman meeting a couple the dynamic would be all the attention on the guy. Ok, but what's in it for her (the straight single fem)? Surely it can't be that she wants to just please the guy? Perhaps I'm just over-thinking it, but as a half of a couple who like to meet ladies it's something that I can't understand, and I worry about coming on too strong with any ladies we contact, getting it wrong, I just want to understand what they are looking for? Jayne x I don't understand why you're concerned. Are you contacting straight women? The only thing I can say to you is if you contact a woman and you aren't sure what they are comfortable with...ask them. I guess that's the answer lol. I started this post to air a question that had occurred to me a few times, as I often check profiles looking to make friends and see who might be up for a meet, and I saw single straight ladies saying they would meet couples. I was hoping that ladies who fit that description might answer, but I'll ask them directly when I see their profiles. Jayne x I don't mean this aggressively but you're requiring an explanation for the way other women use fab in an almost incredulous manner. Nobody has to justify their profile or how they play and that might be why no women who fit the description have replied." Ok, I guess that's fair, I'm not used to the forums, I guess i'm coming across a bit like that. I wasn't trying to say others were wrong in the way they use the site, or their preferences, I was genuinely trying to understand. I was just curious, Mart is always in here and it looked easy, so I thought I'd ask. Jayne x | |||
" I don't mean this aggressively but you're requiring an explanation for the way other women use fab in an almost incredulous manner. Nobody has to justify their profile or how they play and that might be why no women who fit the description have replied. Ok, I guess that's fair, I'm not used to the forums, I guess i'm coming across a bit like that. I wasn't trying to say others were wrong in the way they use the site, or their preferences, I was genuinely trying to understand. I was just curious, Mart is always in here and it looked easy, so I thought I'd ask. Jayne x" No harm in asking
Who's Mart? | |||
" I don't mean this aggressively but you're requiring an explanation for the way other women use fab in an almost incredulous manner. Nobody has to justify their profile or how they play and that might be why no women who fit the description have replied. Ok, I guess that's fair, I'm not used to the forums, I guess i'm coming across a bit like that. I wasn't trying to say others were wrong in the way they use the site, or their preferences, I was genuinely trying to understand. I was just curious, Mart is always in here and it looked easy, so I thought I'd ask. Jayne x No harm in asking
Who's Mart? "He's my other half, he runs our couples profile, and I wanted to be able to go in chat too, so I made this one, plus it means I can check out the ladies too, but I had to update my profile when I realised people thought I was a single fem lol. Jayne x | |||
" I don't mean this aggressively but you're requiring an explanation for the way other women use fab in an almost incredulous manner. Nobody has to justify their profile or how they play and that might be why no women who fit the description have replied. Ok, I guess that's fair, I'm not used to the forums, I guess i'm coming across a bit like that. I wasn't trying to say others were wrong in the way they use the site, or their preferences, I was genuinely trying to understand. I was just curious, Mart is always in here and it looked easy, so I thought I'd ask. Jayne x No harm in asking
Who's Mart?
He's my other half, he runs our couples profile, and I wanted to be able to go in chat too, so I made this one, plus it means I can check out the ladies too, but I had to update my profile when I realised people thought I was a single fem lol.
Jayne x"I see. Thank you. How do you like the forums? | |||
" I don't mean this aggressively but you're requiring an explanation for the way other women use fab in an almost incredulous manner. Nobody has to justify their profile or how they play and that might be why no women who fit the description have replied. Ok, I guess that's fair, I'm not used to the forums, I guess i'm coming across a bit like that. I wasn't trying to say others were wrong in the way they use the site, or their preferences, I was genuinely trying to understand. I was just curious, Mart is always in here and it looked easy, so I thought I'd ask. Jayne x No harm in asking
Who's Mart?
He's my other half, he runs our couples profile, and I wanted to be able to go in chat too, so I made this one, plus it means I can check out the ladies too, but I had to update my profile when I realised people thought I was a single fem lol.
Jayne x
I see. Thank you.
How do you like the forums? "Up until recently, I thought it was ok in here, but I can see I have a lot to learn, I've only really dipped a toe in before, haven't really jumped in and properly engaged by asking a question, and after this thread, I'm not sure I'll ask another! 
Jayne x | |||
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" I don't mean this aggressively but you're requiring an explanation for the way other women use fab in an almost incredulous manner. Nobody has to justify their profile or how they play and that might be why no women who fit the description have replied. Ok, I guess that's fair, I'm not used to the forums, I guess i'm coming across a bit like that. I wasn't trying to say others were wrong in the way they use the site, or their preferences, I was genuinely trying to understand. I was just curious, Mart is always in here and it looked easy, so I thought I'd ask. Jayne x No harm in asking
Who's Mart?
He's my other half, he runs our couples profile, and I wanted to be able to go in chat too, so I made this one, plus it means I can check out the ladies too, but I had to update my profile when I realised people thought I was a single fem lol.
Jayne x
I see. Thank you.
How do you like the forums?
Up until recently, I thought it was ok in here, but I can see I have a lot to learn, I've only really dipped a toe in before, haven't really jumped in and properly engaged by asking a question, and after this thread, I'm not sure I'll ask another!
Jayne x"Oh, that would be a shame. | |||
" I don't mean this aggressively but you're requiring an explanation for the way other women use fab in an almost incredulous manner. Nobody has to justify their profile or how they play and that might be why no women who fit the description have replied. Ok, I guess that's fair, I'm not used to the forums, I guess i'm coming across a bit like that. I wasn't trying to say others were wrong in the way they use the site, or their preferences, I was genuinely trying to understand. I was just curious, Mart is always in here and it looked easy, so I thought I'd ask. Jayne x No harm in asking
Who's Mart?
He's my other half, he runs our couples profile, and I wanted to be able to go in chat too, so I made this one, plus it means I can check out the ladies too, but I had to update my profile when I realised people thought I was a single fem lol.
Jayne x
I see. Thank you.
How do you like the forums?
Up until recently, I thought it was ok in here, but I can see I have a lot to learn, I've only really dipped a toe in before, haven't really jumped in and properly engaged by asking a question, and after this thread, I'm not sure I'll ask another!
Jayne x
Oh, that would be a shame."I guess I'm just not used to coming up against so many... whats the best way of putting it... "spikey" people lol! I knew people would have different opinions, and that's fine, but as a relative newby in here I didn't think I'd get... well... targeted it felt like for a while, I didn't know what the problem was, especially with one person, I had to re-read my posts to see if I's somehow insulted them or something. I know maybe I didn't really explain myself very well, and I kept asking the same question in different ways, but it felt like people really thought I was deliberately being awkward, and I was just trying to understand something. Jayne x | |||
" I don't mean this aggressively but you're requiring an explanation for the way other women use fab in an almost incredulous manner. Nobody has to justify their profile or how they play and that might be why no women who fit the description have replied. Ok, I guess that's fair, I'm not used to the forums, I guess i'm coming across a bit like that. I wasn't trying to say others were wrong in the way they use the site, or their preferences, I was genuinely trying to understand. I was just curious, Mart is always in here and it looked easy, so I thought I'd ask. Jayne x No harm in asking
Who's Mart?
He's my other half, he runs our couples profile, and I wanted to be able to go in chat too, so I made this one, plus it means I can check out the ladies too, but I had to update my profile when I realised people thought I was a single fem lol.
Jayne x
I see. Thank you.
How do you like the forums?
Up until recently, I thought it was ok in here, but I can see I have a lot to learn, I've only really dipped a toe in before, haven't really jumped in and properly engaged by asking a question, and after this thread, I'm not sure I'll ask another!
Jayne x
Oh, that would be a shame.
I guess I'm just not used to coming up against so many... whats the best way of putting it... "spikey" people lol!
I knew people would have different opinions, and that's fine, but as a relative newby in here I didn't think I'd get... well... targeted it felt like for a while, I didn't know what the problem was, especially with one person, I had to re-read my posts to see if I's somehow insulted them or something.
I know maybe I didn't really explain myself very well, and I kept asking the same question in different ways, but it felt like people really thought I was deliberately being awkward, and I was just trying to understand something.
Jayne x"I think its a case of realising that everyone has different ways of expressing themselves and its difficult to convey tone in text. | |||
" Ok, but what's in it for her (the straight single fem)? Surely it can't be that she wants to just please the guy? What's in it for a straight single man who meets couples? Surely it can't just be that he wants to please the woman? Oh, I can answer that, one word "pussy" lol. The guys tend to find it easier to get meets with couple, than competing with all the other guys for the single fems. Jayne x So then perhaps the answer for straight women meeting couples is 'cock'? Surely a single lady can get that anytime, without needing to meet couples? I don't know why you seem to be deliberately being obtuse, maybe I've inadvertently said something to offend you, and if so I apologise, but there's no need to keep following my posts with your comments unless you have something helpful to say. Jayne x " I've met straight couples before because I like fucking men and I like being watched. I also enjoy interacting with couple dynamics. The same reasons that some of my male friends meet straight couples. I don't really think that's a difficult idea to get ones head around. And I'm not stalking you, I just replied to you on a public forum. | |||
