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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I genuinely have no idea or perception of this or even when a woman flirts with me, not sure if it's because I'm just thick or lack empathy! Anybody else have no idea or it just me?
Many years ago a woman I worked with spent over two weeks, by her own admission, flirting more and more outrageously without a single response from me because I hadn't notice a thing. In the end she snapped and literally shouted at me "what have I got to do to get you to ask me out?"
Alas, nothings changed, I'm still oblivious...or is that stupid!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Theres a guy on the forums (you know who you are) thick as pig shit"
Hundreds of us now thinking 'yep, she's gotta mean me!' - I can see what you did there!!   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I genuinely have no idea or perception of this or even when a woman flirts with me, not sure if it's because I'm just thick or lack empathy! Anybody else have no idea or it just me?
Many years ago a woman I worked with spent over two weeks, by her own admission, flirting more and more outrageously without a single response from me because I hadn't notice a thing. In the end she snapped and literally shouted at me "what have I got to do to get you to ask me out?"
Alas, nothings changed, I'm still oblivious...or is that stupid! "
I literally have no concept if I'm ever flirted with so can empathise. I've had people say to me in the past that I've been flirted with when out and yet I still can't ever see it. I think it's all just a made up ruse to confuse us! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Oh God I thought this said female willies 
I don't have any wiles I'm sure of it "
You weren't the only one!
And it's not just you op, I've not got a clue if someone is flirting with me! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Some of us are perhaps way to worried that if we assume that's what's going on, we may get it wrong and look like a complete fool ...after all some folk are flirtatious by nature and have no intention of anything actually happening? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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" Some of us are perhaps way to worried that if we assume that's what's going on, we may get it wrong and look like a complete fool ...after all some folk are flirtatious by nature and have no intention of anything actually happening?"
Must admit that's my problem now on Fab, because I can't see flirting if it bit me on the bum sometimes over compensate and totally make myself look like a prat, well, bigger prat than normal anyway!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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" Some of us are perhaps way to worried that if we assume that's what's going on, we may get it wrong and look like a complete fool ...after all some folk are flirtatious by nature and have no intention of anything actually happening?"
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By *uzzy NavelWoman
over a year ago
so near and yet so far.... |
"I genuinely have no idea or perception of this or even when a woman flirts with me, not sure if it's because I'm just thick or lack empathy! Anybody else have no idea or it just me?
Many years ago a woman I worked with spent over two weeks, by her own admission, flirting more and more outrageously without a single response from me because I hadn't notice a thing. In the end she snapped and literally shouted at me "what have I got to do to get you to ask me out?"
Alas, nothings changed, I'm still oblivious...or is that stupid!
I literally have no concept if I'm ever flirted with so can empathise. I've had people say to me in the past that I've been flirted with when out and yet I still can't ever see it. I think it's all just a made up ruse to confuse us! "
Fibber!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm pretty oblivious to it, in that I notice but assume it's a joke/friendly fun. You have to hit me over the head and carry me to the cave for me to realise. And that's actually how I flirt too. Pretty full on. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think on here I can flirt as no one can see how much I'm blushing as I do. As for being flirted with, unless it's direct I just think it's friendly banter. X |
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I think it depends on how people flirt. What's flirting to one person is just jokey conversation to another.
If someone means business you can tell tbe difference in their facial expression and the way they make eye contact. Flirting on its own means nothing without those two things and you can tell if someone fancies you by them even if they aren't flirting. |
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