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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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At the weekend I made out with a married women of 10 years   can't get it out of my head, feel really guilty! So much so I've started looking for a new job (work colleague). It's it really this bad or have just made it into a big drama in my head |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Does her hubby know have you spoke to her since then xx"
It happened Friday night, doubtful the hubby knows and no I haven't spoke to her since due to not knowing if she is with him! Back in work tomorrow though!! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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We have been getting close within work flirting chatting etc then we were on a staff party got d*unk and well the rest is history. However on reflection I don't want to be the reason to split a ten year relationship up, I can't give her what she needs in terms of commitment so in a way I feel I'm being really selfish! I think I need to get a new job before thinks get messy! She is t happy with him either she tells me this on a daily basis |
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"We have been getting close within work flirting chatting etc then we were on a staff party got d*unk and well the rest is history. However on reflection I don't want to be the reason to split a ten year relationship up, I can't give her what she needs in terms of commitment so in a way I feel I'm being really selfish! I think I need to get a new job before thinks get messy! She is t happy with him either she tells me this on a daily basis "
Step away. No need for you to leave your job though, that would be a shame. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We have been getting close within work flirting chatting etc then we were on a staff party got d*unk and well the rest is history. However on reflection I don't want to be the reason to split a ten year relationship up, I can't give her what she needs in terms of commitment so in a way I feel I'm being really selfish! I think I need to get a new job before thinks get messy! She is t happy with him either she tells me this on a daily basis "
Then it is up to her to sort her relationship out.
Don't be a buffer. |
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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago
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Don't over think it. Stuff like that happens, especially at work parties. Talk to her when you next see her so she knows where you stand with each other. It's a bit ott to consider leaving your job for imo!  |
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