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By *emptd2Man
over a year ago
Burgess Hill & Birmingham |
"I have been doing a few meets and have been messaged to say I am bad for the amount I see. How many in your aopion is to many "
Do as many as you feel like. This is a swingers site after all. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's subjective, what I or anyone else thinks doesn't really matter, it's upto you."
This!
Don't let others dictate what you should and shouldn't be doing on here. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have been doing a few meets and have been messaged to say I am bad for the amount I see. How many in your aopion is to many "
message them back and tell them its none of their fecking business...
its totally up to you how many people you meet |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I have been doing a few meets and have been messaged to say I am bad for the amount I see. How many in your aopion is to many
message them back and tell them its none of their fecking business...
Thanks x x
its totally up to you how many people you meet"
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By *s_macWoman
over a year ago
Traffic land |
"I have been doing a few meets and have been messaged to say I am bad for the amount I see. How many in your aopion is to many "
When you think it's too many?
It's nobody else's business!
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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago
yumsville |
"I have been doing a few meets and have been messaged to say I am bad for the amount I see. How many in your aopion is to many "
There are women with over 300 verifications. People will talk it just depends if it bothers you.
Only commenting really as ... congrats on that bottle of JD! sheesh!  |
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By *razedcatMan
over a year ago
London / Herts |
The idea of the quantity of sexual partners being an issue on a swingers' site seems ridiculous to me. However, the frequency with which a person/couple has meets is something that I pick up on... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have been doing a few meets and have been messaged to say I am bad for the amount I see. How many in your aopion is to many
There are women with over 300 verifications. People will talk it just depends if it bothers you.
Only commenting really as ... congrats on that bottle of JD! sheesh! "
Looks more like honey jim beam to me.. jd has a dif neck shape.. yes I looked in that much detail haha |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I have been doing a few meets and have been messaged to say I am bad for the amount I see. How many in your aopion is to many
There are women with over 300 verifications. People will talk it just depends if it bothers you.
Only commenting really as ... congrats on that bottle of JD! sheesh!
Looks more like honey jim beam to me.. jd has a dif neck shape.. yes I looked in that much detail haha "
Its jim beam lol  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I did a van meet.this week and and had 18 guys turn up and arrend and I think thats what there getting at"
you know when you just like someone right off the bat  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have been doing a few meets and have been messaged to say I am bad for the amount I see. How many in your aopion is to many
There are women with over 300 verifications. People will talk it just depends if it bothers you.
Only commenting really as ... congrats on that bottle of JD! sheesh!
Looks more like honey jim beam to me.. jd has a dif neck shape.. yes I looked in that much detail haha
Its jim beam lol "
Damn im good.. or an alcoholic... cant decide which!!!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Has any one notixed she dose these meets behi d her fellers back whay he is away working on Oil rigs. Poor block and seems to be a lot of bareback too"
If you dont like it there is no need to be so rude or so personal about her, its against forum rules to do so anyway |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have been doing a few meets and have been messaged to say I am bad for the amount I see. How many in your aopion is to many "
Ignore the messages, they are probably just jealous.
I might not want to meet someone with more than 5 veri's. Doesn't matter what I think. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If it's fun, do it, if it's not, don't.
Don't worry about what others think, there are people on here that probably still believe you go blind if you have a wank.
Enjoy yourself, fill ya boots, or should that be fill ya... |
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"It doesn't matter what others thing just do what you want it's no-one else's business,but being honest you do have a fair few for 2 months."
Obviously in my opinion,I just wonder where people get the time. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It doesn't matter what others thing just do what you want it's no-one else's business,but being honest you do have a fair few for 2 months."
18 turned up one night. So the veri's could be from just 2 nights. |
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"It doesn't matter what others thing just do what you want it's no-one else's business,but being honest you do have a fair few for 2 months.
18 turned up one night. So the veri's could be from just 2 nights. "
Gosh that's one busy night |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's your life. Live it how you want. Find people who enjoy the same as you and don't judge on numbers.
Personally, I'm not a fan of .  but that's my opinion, it means nothing. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's subjective, what I or anyone else thinks doesn't really matter, it's upto you.
This!
Don't let others dictate what you should and shouldn't be doing on here. "
Or who  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I did a van meet.this week and and had 18 guys turn up and arrend and I think thats what there getting at"
Bet number 18 sounded like he was walking in wellies half full of water JOKES. congratulations on the bottle that's impressive and a good skill if you want to go into the moving of dodgy goods through customs |
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"I have been doing a few meets and have been messaged to say I am bad for the amount I see. How many in your aopion is to many "
Its if you are happy not what others think isn't it? Everyone will come up with a different number for this but it doesn't really matter as its your own opinion that counts. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have been doing a few meets and have been messaged to say I am bad for the amount I see. How many in your aopion is to many "
There is no set number. You could meet one a day, it's your body, your decision. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My hubby gies away for 3 minths at a time."
If it's what you enjoy doing, no words from any here can tell you if it's right or wrong.
Carry on enjoying yourself. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I get checked and as I say he is away 3 months at a time and only hime for 2 weeks so I have needs. I love sex I love dirty sex... and love meeting new people |
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"I have been doing a few meets and have been messaged to say I am bad for the amount I see. How many in your aopion is to many "
Funny the number of prudes you get in the swinging scene.
Get people being prudish over number or partners...
People being prudish over Bi guys...
If you are happy with what you are doing, then go for it, no number too high.
IMHO
Flames |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"When he gets home how do you know your ok with all that different cum you have had in you.
Dose he even know"
Why do you care it's none of your business really. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have been doing a few meets and have been messaged to say I am bad for the amount I see. How many in your aopion is to many "
What you do is your business and nobody else's, but I think you're getting a totally different response than a male would get if he'd had your volume of meets in the timescale and posted the same question.
I'll stick my neck out and say that personally because of my views on promiscuity and bareback I think yes you have too many veris, and I wouldn't engage with any man who'd met you. But we play very differently, my opinion is irrelevant and I certainly wouldn't dream of messaging you or anyone else with insults.
Do what you want, but don't expect everyone to like or agree with it. And being tested regularly is like shutting the stable door when the horse has bolted...you're incredibly naive if you think it offers you any kind of protection from risk  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Person doing bareback gangbangs that gets tested regularly.. person fucking strangers every week with condoms but never gets tested...
Obviously only one of these people is at risk. |
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By *arry247Couple
over a year ago
Wakefield |
"I have been doing a few meets and have been messaged to say I am bad for the amount I see. How many in your aopion is to many "
You have had too many meets when you have no enthusiasm for the next meet.
Nobody has the right to tell you that you have had too many meets it is your choice |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What about what your husband would think
You need to seriously give it a rest now mate.
You keep going on at her about it.
It's her choice. Accept it and move on."
Agreed. Get a fucking grip, it's embarrassing
Ruby |
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"What about what your husband would think
You need to seriously give it a rest now mate.
You keep going on at her about it.
It's her choice. Accept it and move on.
Agreed. Get a fucking grip, it's embarrassing
Ruby"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Who goes up your chuff ain't my cup of chai but all power to you love.
(I would suggest investing in some silicone sex toys though) "
Why would she need sex toys? |
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"Who goes up your chuff ain't my cup of chai but all power to you love.
(I would suggest investing in some silicone sex toys though)
Why would she need sex toys?"
She has a van full of sex toys, all shapes and sizes I bet lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Who goes up your chuff ain't my cup of chai but all power to you love.
(I would suggest investing in some silicone sex toys though)
Why would she need sex toys?"
So she can substitute them for a cock? Or they are safer than glass? |
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"Who goes up your chuff ain't my cup of chai but all power to you love.
(I would suggest investing in some silicone sex toys though)
Why would she need sex toys?
So she can substitute them for a cock? Or they are safer than glass? "
Exactly. Glass is incredibly dangerous. You can get mahoosive dildos these days (big ones from gay vendors, not mainstream ones like Lovehoney) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Who goes up your chuff ain't my cup of chai but all power to you love.
(I would suggest investing in some silicone sex toys though)
Why would she need sex toys?
So she can substitute them for a cock? Or they are safer than glass?
Exactly. Glass is incredibly dangerous. You can get mahoosive dildos these days (big ones from gay vendors, not mainstream ones like Lovehoney) "
Confused where the OP mentions glass toys. Or if the comment inferred she should use toys instead of meeting men in a van. |
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"Who goes up your chuff ain't my cup of chai but all power to you love.
(I would suggest investing in some silicone sex toys though)
Why would she need sex toys?
So she can substitute them for a cock? Or they are safer than glass?
Exactly. Glass is incredibly dangerous. You can get mahoosive dildos these days (big ones from gay vendors, not mainstream ones like Lovehoney)
Confused where the OP mentions glass toys. Or if the comment inferred she should use toys instead of meeting men in a van. "
Think it's referring to the whiskey bottle. |
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"I have been doing a few meets and have been messaged to say I am bad for the amount I see. How many in your aopion is to many
What you do is your business and nobody else's, but I think you're getting a totally different response than a male would get if he'd had your volume of meets in the timescale and posted the same question.
I'll stick my neck out and say that personally because of my views on promiscuity and bareback I think yes you have too many veris, and I wouldn't engage with any man who'd met you. But we play very differently, my opinion is irrelevant and I certainly wouldn't dream of messaging you or anyone else with insults.
Do what you want, but don't expect everyone to like or agree with it. And being tested regularly is like shutting the stable door when the horse has bolted...you're incredibly naive if you think it offers you any kind of protection from risk "
Totally agree with you on this . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Meet who you like. Play how you like. Personally the bareback aspect would mean we wouldn't meet you but thats just our choice and we try not to meet those cheating too
Both of us had many verifications on our singles profiles and got told sometimes it was to many. We have also played with many that havent verified us too. So do what you are happy with. |
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By *ohohoWoman
over a year ago
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"I have been doing a few meets and have been messaged to say I am bad for the amount I see. How many in your aopion is to many
What you do is your business and nobody else's, but I think you're getting a totally different response than a male would get if he'd had your volume of meets in the timescale and posted the same question.
I'll stick my neck out and say that personally because of my views on promiscuity and bareback I think yes you have too many veris, and I wouldn't engage with any man who'd met you. But we play very differently, my opinion is irrelevant and I certainly wouldn't dream of messaging you or anyone else with insults.
Do what you want, but don't expect everyone to like or agree with it. And being tested regularly is like shutting the stable door when the horse has bolted...you're incredibly naive if you think it offers you any kind of protection from risk
Totally agree with you on this ."
Me too |
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By *im le2Man
over a year ago
AYLESTONE |
Suppose im lucky being bi . Yes I meet lots of men for sex . But as most are str8 or in a relationship they don't verify so it looks like iv only met a few ppl .
I'm 60yo bin having sex for over 40years . I've met hundreds of ppl . So what . I still get checked out every two month . I know im clean. When did you last get checked out. You can never have enough and anyway im still looking to try new things .
I will carry on having sex with strangers till I fund Mr perfect. |
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