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Rant: verifying someone new = fake!!!!
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Absolutely fuming at two people on this site who have reported me for veryfing someone who is new!!!
Get a bloody grip you losers!!
He's my ex and has rejoined, how does that make him fake and me someone who ruins this site for everyone else 
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ignore them, people come on and off the site all the time and ask for people who have met previously to reverify! Maybe just jealous they havent got any! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I can understand it looks suss but no need for abusive messages just ask?!
My ex messaged a women who looked at me 3 times and then messaged him a load of abuse. I emailled her and said he is genuine he is my ex dated for 8 months just so you know. She hasn't read it but obviously told a friend of hers who messaged me to report me and told me how I ruin the site and also sent my ex a message too of abuse |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I can understand it looks suss but no need for abusive messages just ask?!
My ex messaged a women who looked at me 3 times and then messaged him a load of abuse. I emailled her and said he is genuine he is my ex dated for 8 months just so you know. She hasn't read it but obviously told a friend of hers who messaged me to report me and told me how I ruin the site and also sent my ex a message too of abuse"
It doesn't look suspect to everyone. I've joined a couple of times and been verified straight away by people who know me. You don't have to be Sherlock Holmes to know people can rejoin,or join because a friend recommended it to them. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"There are some very stupid and ignorant people in the world. "
Haha thank you hon! I am still fuming. How dare they?!
Oh well not going to let it ruin my day x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I can understand it looks suss but no need for abusive messages just ask?!
My ex messaged a women who looked at me 3 times and then messaged him a load of abuse. I emailled her and said he is genuine he is my ex dated for 8 months just so you know. She hasn't read it but obviously told a friend of hers who messaged me to report me and told me how I ruin the site and also sent my ex a message too of abuse"
What I would say is there is never a excuse for abusive messages.
On the other hand you have not been a member for a long time yourself....so maybe you can understand how it may look to longstanding members. I personally would use a little more discretion before handing out varies.
But as I said this does not allow for a abusive messages and if the sender had any doubts it should have been a simple case of block and report their doubts  |
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I've met lots of people at various events over the years, so I'm usually their go-to person to reverify when they rejoin or indeed give their first verification if I originally met them through another site/medium. I have to say I've never been reported for doing so though as my verifications always explain that my knowing them pre-exists their profile.
Sounds like someone is being petty to me  |
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"Absolutely fuming at two people on this site who have reported me for veryfing someone who is new!!!
Not impressed "
I thought reports are supposed to be private.
just wonderiing how do you know 2 people have reported you? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Absolutely fuming at two people on this site who have reported me for veryfing someone who is new!!!
Not impressed
I thought reports are supposed to be private.
just wonderiing how do you know 2 people have reported you?"
Oh they kindly messaged me abuse and told me they'd reported me |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I've met lots of people at various events over the years, so I'm usually their go-to person to reverify when they rejoin or indeed give their first verification if I originally met them through another site/medium. I have to say I've never been reported for doing so though as my verifications always explain that my knowing them pre-exists their profile.
Sounds like someone is being petty to me "
Yeah very petty but he's received 46 messages off men abusive as a result of her and so has now come off altogether |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've met lots of people at various events over the years, so I'm usually their go-to person to reverify when they rejoin or indeed give their first verification if I originally met them through another site/medium. I have to say I've never been reported for doing so though as my verifications always explain that my knowing them pre-exists their profile.
Sounds like someone is being petty to me
Yeah very petty but he's received 46 messages off men abusive as a result of her and so has now come off altogether "
She must have some following for him to get 46 messages. Just goes to show how much power the pussy has over men. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've met lots of people at various events over the years, so I'm usually their go-to person to reverify when they rejoin or indeed give their first verification if I originally met them through another site/medium. I have to say I've never been reported for doing so though as my verifications always explain that my knowing them pre-exists their profile.
Sounds like someone is being petty to me "
What you have got to understand is a lot of people wait a long time for their first verification.Then they value that green tick on a profile.....so when they see other people popping up and getting varies so quick!
I'm not saying that all like this will be fake.....but please take a step back and see how it can look
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't see why this is a problem, it helps the person who has been on before. Trust me I know how hard it is to get that first verify if you don't know anyone |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I thought the verification was to just show you had met the person and they are who they say they are.
The general problem with verifications is that it'soften viewed or seen as another badge for the collection. Polishing and increasingly shinier example appear to improve and better the collection.
Just ignore the haters. I have 4 but a lot more know I'm genuine. ..  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I've met lots of people at various events over the years, so I'm usually their go-to person to reverify when they rejoin or indeed give their first verification if I originally met them through another site/medium. I have to say I've never been reported for doing so though as my verifications always explain that my knowing them pre-exists their profile.
Sounds like someone is being petty to me
What you have got to understand is a lot of people wait a long time for their first verification.Then they value that green tick on a profile.....so when they see other people popping up and getting varies so quick!
I'm not saying that all like this will be fake.....but please take a step back and see how it can look
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I know that! And don't need to understand anything but people who have been on the site before and took a break for whatever reasons does that mean they have to start all over again?! And anyway I did actually meet him for lunch yesterday so it was a genuine verification lol
I understand what you are saying I really do and maybe he should have hidden the profile not removed it but it's some now
And I'm sorry what you need to understand is that i don't deserve abuse for it!!
I don't want to fall out with you but I am within rights to do what I did
Happy fabbing |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've met lots of people at various events over the years, so I'm usually their go-to person to reverify when they rejoin or indeed give their first verification if I originally met them through another site/medium. I have to say I've never been reported for doing so though as my verifications always explain that my knowing them pre-exists their profile.
Sounds like someone is being petty to me
What you have got to understand is a lot of people wait a long time for their first verification.Then they value that green tick on a profile.....so when they see other people popping up and getting varies so quick!
I'm not saying that all like this will be fake.....but please take a step back and see how it can look
I know that! And don't need to understand anything but people who have been on the site before and took a break for whatever reasons does that mean they have to start all over again?! And anyway I did actually meet him for lunch yesterday so it was a genuine verification lol
I understand what you are saying I really do and maybe he should have hidden the profile not removed it but it's some now
And I'm sorry what you need to understand is that i don't deserve abuse for it!!
I don't want to fall out with you but I am within rights to do what I did
Happy fabbing "
Hey I don't want to be falling out with you either
I stated in a post that there is no excuse for abusive messages. And I think you should report them too.
My point has not been to have a go at you.....it's been putting another view on the post and I also wish you well |
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