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over a year ago
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Got into a heated debate about this, so interested to see your thoughts on it.
A woman can wake a bloke up by giving him oral sex, or by giving him a wank.
But for a bloke to wake a woman up by either going down on her, or playing with her without penetration is not the done thing. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Got into a heated debate about this, so interested to see your thoughts on it.
A woman can wake a bloke up by giving him oral sex, or by giving him a wank.
But for a bloke to wake a woman up by either going down on her, or playing with her without penetration is not the done thing."
Why not? |
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"Got into a heated debate about this, so interested to see your thoughts on it.
A woman can wake a bloke up by giving him oral sex, or by giving him a wank.
But for a bloke to wake a woman up by either going down on her, or playing with her without penetration is not the done thing.
Why not? "
What she said |
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By *orum TrollWoman
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my ex used to try to wake me up with sex, he couldn't get his dick in me though. apparently my pussy clamps up when i'm asleep. 
you can do that to women if they have expressed consent, i did with my ex.also had another ex who liked to play with me while i was asleep, he had a thing for that, he asked me if it was ok to to do that and i was fine with it.
thing i've found with NSA guys is they actually ask for stuff for themselves, like being woken up with a bj, than ask for something where the woman would need consent coz when we are passive in a situation they don't even consider consent as an option, just if we have to be active in it then they ask. quite sad really. and i do class non-consent as an offence to me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Got into a heated debate about this, so interested to see your thoughts on it.
A woman can wake a bloke up by giving him oral sex, or by giving him a wank.
But for a bloke to wake a woman up by either going down on her, or playing with her without penetration is not the done thing."
Who said that?!?!   |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Got into a heated debate about this, so interested to see your thoughts on it.
A woman can wake a bloke up by giving him oral sex, or by giving him a wank.
But for a bloke to wake a woman up by either going down on her, or playing with her without penetration is not the done thing."
Bollocks. It's the same rule for both sexes - it all depends on consent. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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It was a mate of mine, apparently this caused an argument with his wife.
She thought it is ok to do that to him, I wouldn't complain either. But doing it to her was a definite no no. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It was a mate of mine, apparently this caused an argument with his wife.
She thought it is ok to do that to him, I wouldn't complain either. But doing it to her was a definite no no."
that's between them then...no need to get hung up about it...if she says no, its no |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Got into a heated debate about this, so interested to see your thoughts on it.
A woman can wake a bloke up by giving him oral sex, or by giving him a wank.
But for a bloke to wake a woman up by either going down on her, or playing with her without penetration is not the done thing."
Lol I did this earlier and yes I understand what you mean ........I think if I was woken up in a deep.sleep I'd whack him as I like my sleep |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Yep have heard of a guy getting done with ra pe his gf woke up and he was shagging her.
Dont know if she was spoofing but thats what she told me doubt someone would spoof about that like. |
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"It was a mate of mine, apparently this caused an argument with his wife.
She thought it is ok to do that to him, I wouldn't complain either. But doing it to her was a definite no no."
She's just setting out her personal rules for the two of them. Generalising them to everyone is as bad as assuming that all American men are like Donald Trump and behave like him.
Once consent is in place then we each of us define our conditions. |
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