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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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There's always lots of criticism of men's profiles and the cliches used that make us roll our eyes -I don't bite, unless you want me to being an example.
What sort of things on a woman's profile do you find yourself rolling your eyes at and deciding not to message them or to ignore the profile? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We don't message single women at all anymore because it seemed like we never had any success. So I'd say, just seeing that a profile belongs to a single woman is enough to make me not write a message.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We don't message single women at all anymore because it seemed like we never had any success. So I'd say, just seeing that a profile belongs to a single woman is enough to make me not write a message. "
Some of us are quite nice  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Ok, one that always makes me roll my eyes is when their profile is one long list of rants of what someone must and must not do to meet them and then at the end they put "I sound like a bitch but I'm a nice person really"   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I want to be wined and dined, get your ass to match dot com then
I think that's a bit unfair... I don't have it on my profile, but I would be one who expects a bit more than 'fuck & run' from a meet... When I consider someone's assets, their mind and wit are just as important as their physical attributes and deserve equal attention. I'm not looking for a relationship by any means, but intelligent conversation and an engaging personality that laughs me into bed will take priority for me over a 'panda' type any day   "
I've been on many socials that have been drinks only, apart from one case where we had a meal, but I have seen profiles that have listed their wants, and they do come across like they're looking for more than just uncomplicated sex. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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VWE! I'm not shy but it conjures up images of Something of rather avoid!
Dont see many guys asking for tight pussy only...
Also veris....i check them to see the type they go for... if they look like they will fuck anyone or only ripped studs then i avoid..
Lastly. .. Demands from less than sexy ladies. ..really?
I'm sure ill get shot down for this but.... I'm being honest |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Minging pictures, legs akimbo with absolutely no class whatsoever. Major turn off."
This!
Plus poorly worded and spelt profiles. Lists of do's and don'ts.
Whiney status updates about how bad the place is.
To be fair I could go on but those are major bug bears. |
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The ones that only have 3 words, where no effort has been made - code for I'm not serious about this.
All the negative ones, that begin with - "I don't", have - "I can't" in the middle and end with "I won't".
A negative attitude is off putting.
Also the ones that say they do not meet.
Not meeting is code for - I just want to be flattered online.
And the ones who have been on for months, but have no verifications - Code for timewasters. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Most of my profile makes me roll my eyes hate to think how people feel when they read it "
Ha ha
I love the ready made answers to all the stoooopid messages guys send ! Great profile x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Minging pictures, legs akimbo with absolutely no class whatsoever. Major turn off.
This!
Plus poorly worded and spelt profiles. Lists of do's and don'ts.
Whiney status updates about how bad the place is.
To be fair I could go on but those are major bug bears. "
Yep agree there, a whole long moaning list.. this is Fab, not 1stworldproblems.com |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The ones that only have 3 words, where no effort has been made - code for I'm not serious about this.
All the negative ones, that begin with - "I don't", have - "I can't" in the middle and end with "I won't".
A negative attitude is off putting.
Also the ones that say they do not meet.
Not meeting is code for - I just want to be flattered online.
And the ones who have been on for months, but have no verifications - Code for timewasters."
Some people make it clear they are not meeting, because they are maybe starting a new relationship, and just staying on here to chat to friends. Have health problems, just had an operation etc, and not able to meet. As long as they clearly state they are not meeting, they are not wasting anybody's time.
Those not verified for months ? It took me over a year to be verified. First 2 men I met, were not verified, so couldn't verify me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Anytime I read a profile with the words "if you don't like it jog on" or something to that effect after a list of demands, I understand that they have preferences but it just makes them seem like they have a God complex or bad attitude |
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My profile must put a lot of people off and that's fair enough but I'm here to find something that works for me and it does. I don't expect a guy to be drooling over me or be gym ripped etc because I'm no model but I'm honest and have a sense of humour |
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"Anytime I read a profile with the words "if you don't like it jog on" or something to that effect after a list of demands, I understand that they have preferences but it just makes them seem like they have a God complex or bad attitude"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My profile gets altered depending on my mood. Sometimes it comes across shitty and other times my sense of humour appears. So stick with, i'm not a total bellend |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My profile gets altered depending on my mood. Sometimes it comes across shitty and other times my sense of humour appears. So stick with, i'm not a total bellend "
Fair, Namibia ''tis a bit far to get back for the school run  |
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Anything poorly written or just a couple of lines saying "I'm a woman, come get me" (maybe not so blatently).
I would like to see a little effort at least. Tell me whether I will be wasting my time at the very least (which is why I don't even mind the ranty, listy ones)... |
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By *s_macWoman
over a year ago
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"I want to be wined and dined, get your ass to match dot com then
I think that's a bit unfair... I don't have it on my profile, but I would be one who expects a bit more than 'fuck & run' from a meet... When I consider someone's assets, their mind and wit are just as important as their physical attributes and deserve equal attention. I'm not looking for a relationship by any means, but intelligent conversation and an engaging personality that laughs me into bed will take priority for me over a 'panda' type any day "
My profile is very bare, but you've summed up what I'm looking for very well, so I might just pinch this!  |
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"Ok, one that always makes me roll my eyes is when their profile is one long list of rants of what someone must and must not do to meet them and then at the end they put "I sound like a bitch but I'm a nice person really" "
This is mine |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The ones that only have 3 words, where no effort has been made - code for I'm not serious about this.
All the negative ones, that begin with - "I don't", have - "I can't" in the middle and end with "I won't".
A negative attitude is off putting.
Also the ones that say they do not meet.
Not meeting is code for - I just want to be flattered online.
And the ones who have been on for months, but have no verifications - Code for timewasters.
Some people make it clear they are not meeting, because they are maybe starting a new relationship, and just staying on here to chat to friends. Have health problems, just had an operation etc, and not able to meet. As long as they clearly state they are not meeting, they are not wasting anybody's time.
Those not verified for months ? It took me over a year to be verified. First 2 men I met, were not verified, so couldn't verify me."
I haven't been verified for months; that doesn't mean I haven't been meeting from here. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"My profile gets altered depending on my mood. Sometimes it comes across shitty and other times my sense of humour appears. So stick with, i'm not a total bellend "
So say a decent guy who you'd potentially get along famously with, views your profile when it's quite shitty, won't he then form an opinion based on that?
Do you really think he or anyone else is likely to re visit it and change his first opinion because you've re written some words? First impressions etc?
I get the frustration single women must endure on here, but always thought ranty profiles alienate themselves from decent guys who will invariably just think .....
 I'll give that a miss. |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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Anything that just sounds arrogant. So ranty profiles with a list of demands from those who message but absolutely no clue about what she's interested in or like because obviously that doesn't matter. Or ones that are a 'challenge' in their mind do cause me to |
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"The ones that only have 3 words, where no effort has been made - code for I'm not serious about this.
All the negative ones, that begin with - "I don't", have - "I can't" in the middle and end with "I won't".
A negative attitude is off putting.
Also the ones that say they do not meet.
Not meeting is code for - I just want to be flattered online.
And the ones who have been on for months, but have no verifications - Code for timewasters.
Some people make it clear they are not meeting, because they are maybe starting a new relationship, and just staying on here to chat to friends. Have health problems, just had an operation etc, and not able to meet. As long as they clearly state they are not meeting, they are not wasting anybody's time.
Those not verified for months ? It took me over a year to be verified. First 2 men I met, were not verified, so couldn't verify me.
I haven't been verified for months; that doesn't mean I haven't been meeting from here. "
I don't see why it's a must for verifications to be displayed! It's up to the individual and I know some veris are fake anyway!!! |
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