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Would you date another swinger?

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

So you meet someone at a club or on here. He or she is filthy and horny and into all the same kinky stuff as you, whatever that may be. Not in the slightest bit vanilla.

Imagine you're single and and open to meeting someone to 'date'. Would you date them?

Or would you not look at them as worthy of dating, because he or she was on here? Would it be different if you'd met them on a vanilla site?

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By *rightonsteveMan over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

If I was single, I'd be up for a relationship with a swinger as long as she shagged other men and women.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I met my ex from here was with him for 3 years. I guess its about where you are in life and circumstances. If your having sex with them it wouldn't be the worst thing getting with them.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I've met men on here in the past that I have dated ...

two men in fact, who were on here looking for a relationship....

it didn't bother me in the slightest.. best of both worlds

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By *yrdwomanWoman over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

If we have more than sex in common, sure. If not, nope.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Met my Fiancé here last year after we both became single again (had met him when he was in previous relationship thought he was a pure dick then). Got chatting met for coffee then another and it went from there. A year later we are engaged, living together and expecting a baby. Funny thing was neither was looking for a relationship when we started

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

No. My experience with dating men off here in the past has completely put me off even thinking about doing it again

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By *uessWhosBackAgainMan over a year ago

London

Yeah i would why not

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I did, briefly. I guess a big part of me is resigned from the intimacy of a relationship. But if that *one* came along they'd need to be a kinky fucker

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman over a year ago

little house on the praire

Ive been with my partner 11 years. We met through swinging

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"So you meet someone at a club or on here. He or she is filthy and horny and into all the same kinky stuff as you, whatever that may be. Not in the slightest bit vanilla.

Imagine you're single and and open to meeting someone to 'date'. Would you date them?

Or would you not look at them as worthy of dating, because he or she was on here? Would it be different if you'd met them on a vanilla site?

In a heartbeat!

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan over a year ago

Coventry

Yes if you both wanted love, loyalty and the liberation that goes with swinging. I don't see why the two can't be comparable? If you love someone why would you want to hold them back from being free and expressing them self? Surely you'd want to see them grow and explore the world.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If we have more than sex in common, sure. If not, nope."

This.

And also, boring as it is, i am looking for monogamy out of a love match.

I am only on here to get sex until i meet my one true love.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I can't see why not. We're all human, right?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Billy and I meet on this site 4 years ago, neither of us looking to date, yet here we are 4 years later, in love, living together, planning a future and still swinging.

It can definitely work.

Poppy

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If we have more than sex in common, sure. If not, nope.

This.

And also, boring as it is, i am looking for monogamy out of a love match.

I am only on here to get sex until i meet my one true love.

This!

I'd happily date someone I met on here, but only if they were ok with us being exclusive with each other. I guess otherwise it would feel more like a FWB kind of thing

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

On a moral basis, I would

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If I felt a connection with someone it wouldn't bother me how we met just how we got on at the time and in the future.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Hmmmm not sure

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By *oxy_minxWoman over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

A lot of men on here have double standards, the women here are ok to fuck, but have a relationship with them? Fuck that! They can't be trusted to be faithful

Yeah, I meet men everyday that I just want to fuck their brains out, never mind the reality that I struggle to find men I am attracted to, therefore I am lucky to have sex once every three months, go figure, plus I have only had sex once this year, but then I do not consider myself to be a swinger

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I met g via another swinging site. We werent looking for anything other than nsa fun but fell in love. Started dating then

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I would, I don't see why not.

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By *yrdwomanWoman over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"If we have more than sex in common, sure. If not, nope."

Just to clarify, I would not expect them to be exclusive, neither would I expect them to expect me to be exclusive. That's not what swinging is about I feel.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I met my lover through Fab. Still madly in love two and a half years on.

Not sure I could be with him if he continued to swing, though.

And he wouldn't like it if I did.

xxx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If we worked together as a couple then it wouldn't matter.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I met my lover through Fab. Still madly in love two and a half years on.

Not sure I could be with him if he continued to swing, though.

And he wouldn't like it if I did.

xxx"

So you have been faithful or met people together?

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By *orum TrollWoman over a year ago

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pretty sure i wouldn't now.

nov 2015 i fell for someone and he fell for me but the timing was all wrong and i wasn't over my ex but he was great and i wouldn't have minded seeing him.

did again consider dating someone last year but he was too busy looking for other fucks so i fucked him off. actually had a few guys the past year expressing they want a relationship but their actions, like the above guy, do contradict this so i just fuck them off for lying to me.

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman over a year ago

your imagination

I'm too used to my own space and selfish to have a full-time relationship with anyone.... And tbqh I've only ever met one man who might possibly have been able to handle me, but he didn't step up. I think... If it ever were to happen... It would have to be a swinger, I wouldn't feel right hiding this part of me from someone vanilla

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"So you meet someone at a club or on here. He or she is filthy and horny and into all the same kinky stuff as you, whatever that may be. Not in the slightest bit vanilla.

Imagine you're single and and open to meeting someone to 'date'. Would you date them?

Or would you not look at them as worthy of dating, because he or she was on here? Would it be different if you'd met them on a vanilla site?

I would totally date them, to me someone who matched my sex drive is better than finding a vanilla guy.

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By *lmostthereMan over a year ago

Southampton

Yes. Absolutely.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Nah......trust is an issue, right from the start. What's the point in that? Vanilla guys for me. Especially nerdy geeks.

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By *eesideMan over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea

I don't see wot the difrounce wood be from dateing sumone Hoos not a swinger.....

Shorley as long as you both enjoy eatch overs company and you both have a spark that can grow for eatch other it won't matter.

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By *dventurousAlexMan over a year ago

Ipswich

I think there's different types of relationships that all depends on the relationship between the two of you. Personally I wouldn't have hard and fast rules about it.

I'd swing with someone which could be fun. Other people I might prefer to have a monogamous relationship with.

Someone casual I'd definitely be open to involving other people. Above all the most important thing would be trust and honesty.

There's different aspects to a relationship. Social and sexual compatibility is quite easy. The longer term day to day relationship is much harder to find compatibility. If I met someone that ticked all boxes it wouldn't matter where they were from. Who matters more than where.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

i would and i do. my gf and i met on here...no worries

it's no different to meeting anywhere else really...things tend to be a bit more up front on the sex side of things (very much a positive to a dirty bastard like me) but other than that, it's just two people meeting in this world, nothing fancy or different about this place really

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Billy and I meet on this site 4 years ago, neither of us looking to date, yet here we are 4 years later, in love, living together, planning a future and still swinging.

It can definitely work.

Poppy

We're the same

Sara

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By *iss.HoneyWoman over a year ago

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"If I felt a connection with someone it wouldn't bother me how we met just how we got on at the time and in the future."

Exactly this

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By *iss.HoneyWoman over a year ago

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"If we have more than sex in common, sure. If not, nope.

This.

And also, boring as it is, i am looking for monogamy out of a love match.

I am only on here to get sex until i meet my one true love.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I am

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By *ancs MinxWoman over a year ago

Burnley

"If I felt a connection with someone it wouldn't bother me how we met just how we got on at the time and in the future.

Exactly this

But couldnt share somebody I loved with others.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We've been faithful.

Other than when his wife joins in, on occasion. But that's fine with us!

It works.

xxxxx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Nope. Simply put. For me it wouldn't be the type I'd be looking for a proper relationship with. I don't classify myself as a swinger, so wouldn't be wanting to move into that in a relationship and most likely they would. I'd leave here as soon as I was ready for a relationship and look elsewhere.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

As everyone says, if the right person were to come along from here and you had that relationship outside of the bedroom then hell yeah, everyone within reason on here is open minded/liberated so why should that change??

If you both have the same interests from a sexual perspective then it breaks down barriers from the get go! What the future holds from a swinging point of view? Well only the folks on here who have met and are still together can answer that!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I think there's different types of relationships that all depends on the relationship between the two of you. Personally I wouldn't have hard and fast rules about it.

I'd swing with someone which could be fun. Other people I might prefer to have a monogamous relationship with.

Someone casual I'd definitely be open to involving other people. Above all the most important thing would be trust and honesty.

This sums it up for me. However, i wonder if I'd have more insecurity knowing they'd fucked more attractive women than me.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"So you meet someone at a club or on here. He or she is filthy and horny and into all the same kinky stuff as you, whatever that may be. Not in the slightest bit vanilla.

Imagine you're single and and open to meeting someone to 'date'. Would you date them?

Or would you not look at them as worthy of dating, because he or she was on here? Would it be different if you'd met them on a vanilla site?

I would totally date them, to me someone who matched my sex drive is better than finding a vanilla guy. "

The sex drive can change ... sometimes overnight. If you've little else in common what are you left with, a suitcase and a few boxes. A vanilla woman can have an amazing sex drive too. I some of the best sex has been with vanilla women ( less hoops to jump through and often much more relaxed with less expectations both ways).

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By *appy squirrelWoman over a year ago

Norwich

I have no idea tbh. well I would definitely date someone off here but I don't know if I want to be in a swinger relationship or not as I have never experienced it. will I be jealous? enjoy it? only one way to find out

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By *eanut Butter CupWoman over a year ago

B & M Bargains

I have and I would again. Next time I will ensure they understand that when I ask if we can be exclusive and only meet as a couple that means both of us not just me

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By *rNaughtyNickMan over a year ago

Birmingham

to be fair i couldn't have a vanilla sex life, so i'd be up for dating a fellow swinger who is open minded and as kinky as me x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Nope. Simply put. For me it wouldn't be the type I'd be looking for a proper relationship with. I don't classify myself as a swinger, so wouldn't be wanting to move into that in a relationship and most likely they would. I'd leave here as soon as I was ready for a relationship and look elsewhere. "

Ouch. How would you feel if the tables were turned and a woman said you weren't the type of person they could have a relationship with because you'd been on the site? I can't get my head around the idea that people who are on here don't see others who are on here as relationship material.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

This is probably the same for me.

I'd say i'd date someone from here but in all honesty they would probably be here to get all the sex and probably still want all the sex, even when i'm giving them a lot of sex.

I think vanilla would be my way forward. But on vanilla dating apps they just seem to want

Sex too, but are more covert about it. At least men on here are honest about that (if nothing else!).

It's a quandry for sure. I just know that i couldn't date a swinging swinger.

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By *orum TrollWoman over a year ago

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i took it as he sees people here wanting a swinging relationship rather than the monogamous one that he wants.

i used to be open to it coz i think you can find love anywhere. now i actually have written off all men on here as relationship material, based on my experiences on here (despite having one genuine guy, the rest were all full of shit though).

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

i took it as he sees people here wanting a swinging relationship rather than the monogamous one that he wants.

This

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By *orum TrollWoman over a year ago

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i took it as he sees people here wanting a swinging relationship rather than the monogamous one that he wants.

This"

think i wrote them off about august last year, to be precise, so in 2 years of being talked crap to. maybe i'm a bit slow for taking that long.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Not all men talk crap and mess women about

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'd fully get that. And as such I wouldn't be compatible for them so not a problem. There are many on here, probably the most part women who would hold that view too if they were being very honest. It's not about whether they are relationship material or not...its about trust as a few ladies have mentioned earlier. As I said I'm not a swinger, I use this site as I do a couple others to have nsa with a very few select ladies (never one offs). Most on here would not be using it like myself. I don't attend socials nor parties so dont clock up veries. There might well be the odd lady on here that I might consider a relationship with but the likelihood is so small it's simpler not to consider it.

We all have our reasons for not choosing a partner, my filters would include swingers. ( she'd probably get bored of a monogamous relationship witj me than a vanilla woman). Does that make sense?

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By *orum TrollWoman over a year ago

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"Not all men talk crap and mess women about

yeah i know.

think i only have like a 1:300 tbh, but still i cba to bother with guys coz of it. they're really bad odds.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

i took it as he sees people here wanting a swinging relationship rather than the monogamous one that he wants.

Someone gets it...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We all have our reasons for not choosing a partner, my filters would include swingers. ( she'd probably get bored of a monogamous relationship witj me than a vanilla woman). Does that make sense? "

Makes perfect sense to me

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Same.

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By *isscheekychopsWoman over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

Nope had my heart ripped out and stomped on by a bloke I met in a club....anyway I'm not even a swinger

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By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
Forum Mod

East Sussex

Yes, I would. I hope never to be in the position where I need or want to date though. Our approach to swinging would need to be similar though.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I could do that but I feel if I was to we would certainly have to click on more levels than just sex

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By *eliWoman over a year ago

Yes, I would. I think.

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By *ecretlyASoftieWoman over a year ago

Hull but travel regularly

Yes I would if I met someone special

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By *oresexMan over a year ago

South West coast

Absolutely, I wouldn't want to go vanilla again, would love a full on swinger as my hotwife.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Would be my dream come true.

Romantic nights in and out. Choosing holidays together, weekends away and most of all the companionship then when we fancy a kinky night mmmmmm oh yes.

The thought of taking her out and doing the pingeon chested pride of guys thinking she's sexy but knowing she's coming home with me after a vanilla or naughty night for kisses and cuddles with HER man is for me every time.

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By *urvymamaWoman over a year ago

Doncaster

Yea I absolutely would

In fact I'd only now enter into a relationship if the wanted to swing

Monoagamy no longer interests me

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We met on here

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By *inky-MinxWoman over a year ago

Grantham

Yes of course, though usual dating rules would apply.

No time wasters, jerks etc.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I have no idea. The first thing is to discover a person who would like to date me, then explore that. I think to swing as a couple requires first knowing yourself, second knowing your relationship with the other, then introducing swinging into the mix if that's what you both want. I'm still working on knowing me. I'm slow

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Yea I absolutely would

In fact I'd only now enter into a relationship if the wanted to swing

Monoagamy no longer interests me "

That's what I used to say......12 months in, and no interest in sharing each other.

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By *rueone71Man over a year ago

Hiding in the Barnes

I had an open relationship for 2 years..we even swinged togheter. Is like best of both world. Romance and naughtiness!!

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By *ames1763Man over a year ago

Aberdeen

I will date a single female swinger, they are amazing and you can be straight with them , you can never compare a single female or single male swinger to their counterparts in vanilla. The difference in terms of attitude, composure and knowledge of how to satisfy you in every way is far far above vanilla people.

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By *elma and ShaggyCouple over a year ago

Bedworth

We met here 4 years ago, 2nd wedding anniversary in a couple of weeks

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I will date a single female swinger, they are amazing and you can be straight with them , you can never compare a single female or single male swinger to their counterparts in vanilla. The difference in terms of attitude, composure and knowledge of how to satisfy you in every way is far far above vanilla people."

Swingers invented sex.

Vanilla people have no clue how to fuck. They all just have sex at xmas. Or to impregnate. Never for fun. Swingers are amazing.

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By *oodnitegirlWoman over a year ago

Yorkshire

Those of you who met on here/through the scene.. where do you tell your family etc that you met?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Those of you who met on here/through the scene.. where do you tell your family etc that you met?"

We met in a pub

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yes myself and my partner met here after having single profiles

Kinky

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I don't know. I like the idea of it, but I'm afraid I'd let my insecurities get the best of me - I know I'm far from being the most attractive or sexually skilled guy around.

I do know that if it came to a choice between staying here and a committed relationship with a vanilla, I'd leave fab.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Swingers invented sex.

Vanilla people have no clue how to fuck. They all just have sex at xmas. Or to impregnate. Never for fun. Swingers are amazing. "

*snigger*

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yup we did it, met in xtasia a few years back and still going and happy.

Doll x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We met through fab over a year and a half ago...works for us

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I only commit long term if it's a monogamous relationship so no I wouldn't even consider it if they wanted to continue to meet others or suggested being a couple who does...

Majority of single men I have chatted to on here and met recently and when on previously all want to date and be in a monogamous relationship. All have said they're more than happy to feck someone else's wife/partner but definitely wouldn't let someone else feck theirs.

I have dated a guy I met here and we were both exclusive during the relationship, jealousy from where we met did not come into it, was a completely normal relationship with great sex.

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By *ust PeachyWoman over a year ago

Prestonish

"So you meet someone at a club or on here. He or she is filthy and horny and into all the same kinky stuff as you, whatever that may be. Not in the slightest bit vanilla.

Imagine you're single and and open to meeting someone to 'date'. Would you date them?

Or would you not look at them as worthy of dating, because he or she was on here? Would it be different if you'd met them on a vanilla site?

I'd prefer to have a relationship with a fellow swinger! Even if we mutually decided to give up swinging - we could still be totally honest about our past and enjoy the social side of swinging! What's not to like?

I'd love it if all clubs did more dating/speed dating events so like-minded single swingers could find each other more easily!

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By *gnitemybodyWoman over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

Yes.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

Swingers invented sex.

Vanilla people have no clue how to fuck. They all just have sex at xmas. Or to impregnate. Never for fun. Swingers are amazing. "

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm open to it

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Or would you not look at them as worthy of dating, because he or she was on here? Would it be different if you'd met them on a vanilla site?

Of course it would be different, so so much better, avoids the need for that conversation to get a 4sum with a vanilla partner.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'd date a swinger. If I get on with them on a deeper level than just sex then why the fuck not?

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By *iss_tressWoman over a year ago

London

"So you meet someone at a club or on here. He or she is filthy and horny and into all the same kinky stuff as you, whatever that may be. Not in the slightest bit vanilla.

Imagine you're single and and open to meeting someone to 'date'. Would you date them?

Or would you not look at them as worthy of dating, because he or she was on here? Would it be different if you'd met them on a vanilla site?

Met my other half on here three years ago. Neither of us was looking for anything. I only met sexually submissive men he had a find em, fuck em and forget them approach, preferring clubs and dogging.

He just sent a funny quip about my profile, nothing sexual. He can't even say "submissive". He's Dutch and lived in France for a decade. He's 6ft 1 and a cross between Jason Statham and Bruce Willis. He's used to dating slim, leggy blondes and loathes kids. He's a ukipper.

I'm fat, black and a grandmother. Oh, I've just retired from working as a full time trade union official.

Outside of fab our paths would never have crossed. Neither of us would have given the other the time of day. We have major disagreements because we are diametrically opposed on many things.

Somehow we work. He moved in six months after meeting. How we met is incidental.

Would I set out looking for a relationship on here? Hell no! Was I looking for a relationship? Hell to the no! Am I happy cupid has a massive sense of humour? Hell yeah!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Me and Littlebeaver met on here 6 years ago. Just celebrated our 1st wedding anniversary

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Or would you not look at them as worthy of dating, because he or she was on here? Would it be different if you'd met them on a vanilla site?

Of course it would be different, so so much better, avoids the need for that conversation to get a 4sum with a vanilla partner."

I've never thought of it that way.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Never. I don't know if it's fab or just more women these days but the women are pretty horrible, feel more valuable than men and think it's okay to be abusive to us.

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By *evils-couple13Couple over a year ago

Neath

I met my man on here and we've been together for two years (:

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I guess it depends if you're a swinger or not, if you are, it's something you'd want to do with your partner, so would be a plus... If you use the site for sex whilst you're single, or for the forums, then you may not want to share that with future partners