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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Are they any men on here who are actually looking for a regular playmate...or do they just think that's what the ladies want to hear?"
I'm actually looking for something regular and local. Hopefully I find someone that does want to hear that.
Funny thing is, those that are local don't want to meet. Those to far away can't meet.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Are they any men on here who are actually looking for a regular playmate...or do they just think that's what the ladies want to hear?"
Yes but having no luck  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Location is usually a problem.
If I had someone within 10 miles, regular would be awesome but I'm not going to be a regular meet for someone who lives 100 miles away |
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"Location is usually a problem.
If I had someone within 10 miles, regular would be awesome but I'm not going to be a regular meet for someone who lives 100 miles away "
It might be worth the traveling speaking from experience  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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After ages of looking for, and not finding regular, reliable playmates we've actually found a few lately - both couples and single guys (sadly not single women, though). 
Its great - I just wish more of them lived near York instead of London.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Location is usually a problem.
If I had someone within 10 miles, regular would be awesome but I'm not going to be a regular meet for someone who lives 100 miles away
It might be worth the traveling speaking from experience "
Yeah...not of it costs £150 each time. |
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"Location is usually a problem.
If I had someone within 10 miles, regular would be awesome but I'm not going to be a regular meet for someone who lives 100 miles away
It might be worth the traveling speaking from experience
Yeah...not of it costs £150 each time."
Hmmmm yes I could see that being an issue lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes....... in an ideal world.
I'm not looking for a wife (had one of those in the past). A regular playmate is great tho. I've had a couple of those too.... makes the fun even better. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Are they any men on here who are actually looking for a regular playmate...or do they just think that's what the ladies want to hear?"
I think it's just what men think we want to hear x |
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By *iss.RedWoman
over a year ago
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"Location is usually a problem.
If I had someone within 10 miles, regular would be awesome but I'm not going to be a regular meet for someone who lives 100 miles away
It might be worth the traveling speaking from experience "
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By *rueone71Man
over a year ago
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"Are they any men on here who are actually looking for a regular playmate...or do they just think that's what the ladies want to hear?
I think it's just what men think we want to hear x"
I don't know...maybe just my opinion..
The ratio here of men / women is giganormous.. but I personal belive we (those looking for a regual ) are the majority  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Regular sexual partner usual leads to better sex don't you think ?
This is the roumer.
Now I can't get that Adele song out of my head "
Now I can't get Adele out of my head.  |
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"Regular sexual partner usual leads to better sex don't you think ?
This is the roumer.
Now I can't get that Adele song out of my head
Now I can't get Adele out of my head. "
That's because you're ridiculously horny  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Regular sexual partner usual leads to better sex don't you think ?
This is the roumer.
Now I can't get that Adele song out of my head
Now I can't get Adele out of my head.
That's because you're ridiculously horny "
I like her voice. |
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"Regular sexual partner usual leads to better sex don't you think ?
This is the roumer.
Now I can't get that Adele song out of my head
Now I can't get Adele out of my head.
That's because you're ridiculously horny
I like her voice. "
And ......... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Regular sexual partner usual leads to better sex don't you think ?
This is the roumer.
Now I can't get that Adele song out of my head
Now I can't get Adele out of my head.
That's because you're ridiculously horny
I like her voice.
And ........."
My friend says she pretty fit.  |
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"Regular sexual partner usual leads to better sex don't you think ?
This is the roumer.
Now I can't get that Adele song out of my head
Now I can't get Adele out of my head.
That's because you're ridiculously horny
I like her voice.
And .........
My friend says she pretty fit. "
I want to meet this friend |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Who wouldn't want a regular playmate?
Much better than random encounters.
How else would you know what type of cake to take along with you for after "
Or to know which ladies, do not like cake |
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"I'd love a regular meet but being a serial killer with a human skin lampshade hobby, I keep killing them.
First world problems yo! Sigh."
Funky you are back 
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Bet the block button is being clicked by quite a few.
( I suspect someone has a big grudge against ladies here.. )  |
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"Are they any men on here who are actually looking for a regular playmate...or do they just think that's what the ladies want to hear?"
Are they any women on here who are actually looking for a regular playmate...or do they just think that's what the men want to hear?
I find it to be above statement |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Are they any men on here who are actually looking for a regular playmate...or do they just think that's what the ladies want to hear?
Are they any women on here who are actually looking for a regular playmate...or do they just think that's what the men want to hear?
I find it to be above statement"
One person here who doesn't give a toot what people want to hear. My profile is clear, and reflects EXACTLY what I seek |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Who wouldn't want a regular playmate?
Much better than random encounters.
How else would you know what type of cake to take along with you for after
Or to know which ladies, do not like cake "
That too. Got to know the right type of food to take along  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Who wouldn't want a regular playmate?
Much better than random encounters.
How else would you know what type of cake to take along with you for after
Did someone say cake "
Haha though cake might get a reply from you |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Are they any men on here who are actually looking for a regular playmate...or do they just think that's what the ladies want to hear?"
I have one and been meeting for over a year now....so the answer is yes |
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"Who wouldn't want a regular playmate?
Much better than random encounters.
How else would you know what type of cake to take along with you for after
Did someone say cake
Haha though cake might get a reply from you "
I don't know what you mean |
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"Are they any men on here who are actually looking for a regular playmate...or do they just think that's what the ladies want to hear?
Are they any women on here who are actually looking for a regular playmate...or do they just think that's what the men want to hear?
I find it to be above statement
One person here who doesn't give a toot what people want to hear. My profile is clear, and reflects EXACTLY what I seek "
There are a very few women like yourself on here if you think about the amount of fakes, mind game and ratio women to men.
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"Who wouldn't want a regular playmate?
Much better than random encounters.
How else would you know what type of cake to take along with you for after
Did someone say cake "
I mentioned he could bring The Lemon drizzle he says he is good at once (he never bothered ) not even one slice. Sigh! |
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By *rueone71Man
over a year ago
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"Are they any men on here who are actually looking for a regular playmate...or do they just think that's what the ladies want to hear?
Are they any women on here who are actually looking for a regular playmate...or do they just think that's what the men want to hear?
I find it to be above statement
One person here who doesn't give a toot what people want to hear. My profile is clear, and reflects EXACTLY what I seek
There are a very few women like yourself on here if you think about the amount of fakes, mind game and ratio women to men.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Who wouldn't want a regular playmate?
Much better than random encounters.
How else would you know what type of cake to take along with you for after
Did someone say cake
Haha though cake might get a reply from you
I don't know what you mean "
Just your preference of snack |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Who wouldn't want a regular playmate?
Much better than random encounters.
How else would you know what type of cake to take along with you for after
Did someone say cake
I mentioned he could bring The Lemon drizzle he says he is good at once (he never bothered ) not even one slice. Sigh! "
What me  . I would make sure I brought along a cake if you asked |
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By *ilk_TreMan
over a year ago
Wherever the party is! |
"Are they any men on here who are actually looking for a regular playmate...or do they just think that's what the ladies want to hear?
Are they any women on here who are actually looking for a regular playmate...or do they just think that's what the men want to hear?
I find it to be above statement
One person here who doesn't give a toot what people want to hear. My profile is clear, and reflects EXACTLY what I seek "
Such a way with words. So...arousing...
Looks like I'll have to get some hair restorer and gain some weight! |
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"Are they any men on here who are actually looking for a regular playmate...or do they just think that's what the ladies want to hear?"
I am.....also I had a regular couple for most of last year until they moved house. So it's not just chat, it's reality. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Are they any men on here who are actually looking for a regular playmate...or do they just think that's what the ladies want to hear?
Are they any women on here who are actually looking for a regular playmate...or do they just think that's what the men want to hear?
I find it to be above statement
One person here who doesn't give a toot what people want to hear. My profile is clear, and reflects EXACTLY what I seek
Such a way with words. So...arousing...
Looks like I'll have to get some hair restorer and gain some weight! "
It is sexual preference, not a person preference. I'm not against slim, shiny bonced men, I just don't want to play with them |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I personally would love a regular playmate for a number of reasons
1 there's way too much to do in one session
2 you learn what gets each other turned on
3 become more open to try new things with some one that you know
4 sex isn't a numbers game |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'd love a regular meet but being a serial killer with a human skin lampshade hobby, I keep killing them.
First world problems yo! Sigh."
I must be mad because I'd meet you, serial killer or not |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"A regular local playmate would be great
We could be if you'd just lower your fucking standards! sheesh "
Lower my standards? Next you'll be asking me to remove my knickers! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"A regular local playmate would be great
We could be if you'd just lower your fucking standards! sheesh
Lower my standards? Next you'll be asking me to remove my knickers! "
Remove, push them to side, I'm not too fussy  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Are they any men on here who are actually looking for a regular playmate...or do they just think that's what the ladies want to hear?"
Lol what a tease of a question. Of course we'r looking. Why be single and not sexually active, we only have 1 life. Might aswell enjoy it as much as you can. Not as in sleep around but sleep with just 1 person |
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"I'd love a regular meet but being a serial killer with a human skin lampshade hobby, I keep killing them.
First world problems yo! Sigh."
FFS man, how many lamps do you need?
Have you thought about taking up the drums though? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Are they any men on here who are actually looking for a regular playmate...or do they just think that's what the ladies want to hear?"
I always aim for a regular playmate. I never intend for one offs to happen though of course they do for whatever reason it may be.
Like a lot of things, the description of regular changes from person to person. My definition is someone that I intend to meet more than once. It may only be twice a year, it maybe twice a month. It is all about intension.
I understand that this may not be on my doorstep so for that I am willing to travel and have social meets. I am talking about 250 mile round trips.
So in answer to your question OP, some guys will always say whatever it takes for a meet, some guys will mean what they say. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'd love a regular meet but being a serial killer with a human skin lampshade hobby, I keep killing them.
First world problems yo! Sigh."
How do you dispose of the bodies? Behind my sofa is getting rather full......
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Are they any men on here who are actually looking for a regular playmate...or do they just think that's what the ladies want to hear?
I think it's just what men think we want to hear x"
I don't like putting much info on my profile because they just mail saying they want that too. I change my profile... same men mail saying yeah they want that. |
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"For me. ...a regular gets better. . you begin to understand each others needs.... and kinks"
Probably! What is regular to some is no good for others.
Every couple of weeks worked well for me back in the day. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes me.
But OP you have got fuck all on your profile...what are you expecting?....
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Some people actually talk to each other and don't just treat profiles like a fuck menu. |
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By *ilk_TreMan
over a year ago
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"Yes me.
But OP you have got fuck all on your profile...what are you expecting?....
Some people actually talk to each other and don't just treat profiles like a fuck menu. "
Can I have some voyeurism with a side order of toys please? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes me.
But OP you have got fuck all on your profile...what are you expecting?....
Some people actually talk to each other and don't just treat profiles like a fuck menu. "
I had amazing sex recently and afterwards he said that none of that is on your profile.
If it was, I'd be batting them off with a baseball bat |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Yes me.
But OP you have got fuck all on your profile...what are you expecting?....
Some people actually talk to each other and don't just treat profiles like a fuck menu. "
No. But I do like to read something more than 2 lines of text if I'm looking for regular. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Yes me.
But OP you have got fuck all on your profile...what are you expecting?....
Some people actually talk to each other and don't just treat profiles like a fuck menu.
Can I have some voyeurism with a side order of toys please? "
And chips? |
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By *r_PinkMan
over a year ago
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I would LOVE to find a regular playmate.
someone to enjoy on a 1-2-1 basis as well as go on little adventures with.
I have had it before and would love it again (I met one of my Exs on another swing site and we lasted 4 years before she moved away).
so the answer is a definite yes |
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By *ilk_TreMan
over a year ago
Wherever the party is! |
"Yes me.
But OP you have got fuck all on your profile...what are you expecting?....
Some people actually talk to each other and don't just treat profiles like a fuck menu.
Can I have some voyeurism with a side order of toys please?
And chips? "
That's not on your profile so I assumed that wasn't on the menu. |
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"Location is usually a problem.
If I had someone within 10 miles, regular would be awesome but I'm not going to be a regular meet for someone who lives 100 miles away
It might be worth the traveling speaking from experience "
Totally agree......i travel over 6 hours on train for a guy i have met now for over 2 years and totally worth it. I always make a long weekend of it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Are they any men on here who are actually looking for a regular playmate...or do they just think that's what the ladies want to hear?"
Yes there's definitely guys that prefer regular playmates, personally I've always prefered quality over quantity |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Location is usually a problem.
If I had someone within 10 miles, regular would be awesome but I'm not going to be a regular meet for someone who lives 100 miles away
It might be worth the traveling speaking from experience
Totally agree......i travel over 6 hours on train for a guy i have met now for over 2 years and totally worth it. I always make a long weekend of it "
Wow! Must be quite a guy |
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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago
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"Are they any men on here who are actually looking for a regular playmate...or do they just think that's what the ladies want to hear?"
This is more one for the singles in swinging, which is great. The only thing that stops someone being a regular playmate is requests for them to be a regular playmate.
Exclusivity in swinging isn't swinging. |
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"Are they any men on here who are actually looking for a regular playmate...or do they just think that's what the ladies want to hear?"
Definitely better with someone regular. Learn more and more each time, pushing boundaries etc |
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By *ilk_TreMan
over a year ago
Wherever the party is! |
"Are they any men on here who are actually looking for a regular playmate...or do they just think that's what the ladies want to hear?
This is more one for the singles in swinging, which is great. The only thing that stops someone being a regular playmate is requests for them to be a regular playmate.
Exclusivity in swinging isn't swinging. "
Regular is not the same as exclusive. |
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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago
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"Are they any men on here who are actually looking for a regular playmate...or do they just think that's what the ladies want to hear?
This is more one for the singles in swinging, which is great. The only thing that stops someone being a regular playmate is requests for them to be a regular playmate.
Exclusivity in swinging isn't swinging.
Regular is not the same as exclusive."
I take it you have a string of understanding playmates or just prefer one night stands? |
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"Are they any men on here who are actually looking for a regular playmate...or do they just think that's what the ladies want to hear?"
Lol. Wow!. It's like some women are looking for men to disprove. Of course there are guys looking for something regular. I've recently found one..its women who lie too and say that's what they want when really they don't |
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By *ilk_TreMan
over a year ago
Wherever the party is! |
"Are they any men on here who are actually looking for a regular playmate...or do they just think that's what the ladies want to hear?
This is more one for the singles in swinging, which is great. The only thing that stops someone being a regular playmate is requests for them to be a regular playmate.
Exclusivity in swinging isn't swinging.
Regular is not the same as exclusive.
I take it you have a string of understanding playmates or just prefer one night stands?"
Those are not opposites.
Is English your second language? |
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is it greedy wanting to have a couple of people you meet on a semi regular basis? yes sex gets better, you can explore more and relax. but although I want to have regular sex I don't want to see people too often as lines can get blurred... and different people are great to explore different things... |
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By *ilk_TreMan
over a year ago
Wherever the party is! |
"Are they any men on here who are actually looking for a regular playmate...or do they just think that's what the ladies want to hear?
This is more one for the singles in swinging, which is great. The only thing that stops someone being a regular playmate is requests for them to be a regular playmate.
Exclusivity in swinging isn't swinging.
Regular is not the same as exclusive.
I take it you have a string of understanding playmates or just prefer one night stands?"
Ok, let me try to be more constructive.
I can fuck one person regularly or I can fuck multiple people regularly. Especially if I like the way that they do it. I wouldn't ask them as such to become regular it just happens that we see each other more until we get bored or whatever.
That has nothing to do with being exclusive, unless I'm mistaken.
Also, it is possible to have a string of understanding playmates and still prefer one night stands.
If you're asking about what I do personally (yes I'm giving details of my sex life on a public forum), I have a fluctuating number of fuck buddies who I see irregularly. This is mainly because I have mood swings which make it difficult for me focus on one person at a time (although I have done for many years but now I'm facing up to who I really am) and I'm quite fortunate that they are understanding mainly because I've been open and honest with them all from the beginning. I do need a certain amount of intimacy so I'd rather not have a one night stand but then sometimes I do get horny and it's better than having a wank on my own. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Are they any men on here who are actually looking for a regular playmate...or do they just think that's what the ladies want to hear?"
We would like to find another regular playmate for Shaz as old one left the scene and got married but the only one's that seem to want it are to far away |
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Yes that is by far my preference. I am a busy single parent so my free time I rare. When I have free time I want to make the very best of it. Things are far better with someone you connect with, trust and know inside out. The more you play and spend time together in general the better things get. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Yes that is by far my preference. I am a busy single parent so my free time I rare. When I have free time I want to make the very best of it. Things are far better with someone you connect with, trust and know inside out. The more you play and spend time together in general the better things get."
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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago
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"Are they any men on here who are actually looking for a regular playmate...or do they just think that's what the ladies want to hear?
This is more one for the singles in swinging, which is great. The only thing that stops someone being a regular playmate is requests for them to be a regular playmate.
Exclusivity in swinging isn't swinging.
Regular is not the same as exclusive.
I take it you have a string of understanding playmates or just prefer one night stands?
Ok, let me try to be more constructive.
I can fuck one person regularly or I can fuck multiple people regularly. Especially if I like the way that they do it. I wouldn't ask them as such to become regular it just happens that we see each other more until we get bored or whatever.
That has nothing to do with being exclusive, unless I'm mistaken.
Also, it is possible to have a string of understanding playmates and still prefer one night stands.
If you're asking about what I do personally (yes I'm giving details of my sex life on a public forum), I have a fluctuating number of fuck buddies who I see irregularly. This is mainly because I have mood swings which make it difficult for me focus on one person at a time (although I have done for many years but now I'm facing up to who I really am) and I'm quite fortunate that they are understanding mainly because I've been open and honest with them all from the beginning. I do need a certain amount of intimacy so I'd rather not have a one night stand but then sometimes I do get horny and it's better than having a wank on my own."
Welllll thank you for your clarity. That has to be one of the funniest posts I've read! You sound like the Charlie Sheen of swingers justifying why you need casual sex Mood swings?? Who is buying that? You should have kept it to yourself, yeah. If it's true, you need to see a Dr about it.
I don't know any woman who would like to think themselves as 'better than a wank', soooo yeah, again bud, you maybe should have kept your constructive thoughts to yourself again there too, but they are humorous.
After reading what you've written I am a wondering why you're disagreeing with me tbh, as it sounds like you know (have known), a few women and see them when you want and end it when you want, so don't really have any long term, regular buddies. You have options of one night stands as everybody does, all of which support what I said. Exclusivity in swinging isn't swinging. |
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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago
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"Are they any men on here who are actually looking for a regular playmate...or do they just think that's what the ladies want to hear?
This is more one for the singles in swinging, which is great. The only thing that stops someone being a regular playmate is requests for them to be a regular playmate.
Exclusivity in swinging isn't swinging.
Regular is not the same as exclusive.
I take it you have a string of understanding playmates or just prefer one night stands?
Ok, let me try to be more constructive.
I can fuck one person regularly or I can fuck multiple people regularly. Especially if I like the way that they do it. I wouldn't ask them as such to become regular it just happens that we see each other more until we get bored or whatever.
That has nothing to do with being exclusive, unless I'm mistaken.
Also, it is possible to have a string of understanding playmates and still prefer one night stands.
If you're asking about what I do personally (yes I'm giving details of my sex life on a public forum), I have a fluctuating number of fuck buddies who I see irregularly. This is mainly because I have mood swings which make it difficult for me focus on one person at a time (although I have done for many years but now I'm facing up to who I really am) and I'm quite fortunate that they are understanding mainly because I've been open and honest with them all from the beginning. I do need a certain amount of intimacy so I'd rather not have a one night stand but then sometimes I do get horny and it's better than having a wank on my own.
Welllll thank you for your clarity. That has to be one of the funniest posts I've read! You sound like the Charlie Sheen of swingers justifying why you need casual sex Mood swings?? Who is buying that? You should have kept it to yourself, yeah. If it's true, you need to see a Dr about it.
I don't know any woman who would like to think themselves as 'better than a wank', soooo yeah, again bud, you maybe should have kept your constructive thoughts to yourself again there too, but they are humorous.
After reading what you've written I am a wondering why you're disagreeing with me tbh, as it sounds like you know (have known), a few women and see them when you want and end it when you want, so don't really have any long term, regular buddies. You have options of one night stands as everybody does, all of which support what I said. Exclusivity in swinging isn't swinging. "
I will try to explain things more.
Why do you become bored or whatever.
Unless you didn't spark interest they probably wanted more than what you wanted to give. They wanted more time, more meets, more affection, more attention. This is what happens with greater regularity unless both people are absolutely on the same level. There's no need to make excuses for bad mood or becoming bored or whatever. As people above say, the more you get to know someone the better the sex becomes - the problem is regularity/exclusivity. |
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By *ilk_TreMan
over a year ago
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"...If it's true, you need to see a Dr about it..."
What makes you think I haven't?
"...I don't know any woman who would like to think themselves as 'better than a wank'..."
Because women aren't up for one night stands either? Maybe they want to save the power on their batteries?
But if you'd rather be a...sorry...HAVE a wank, that's cool too, bro. |
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I will always prefer regular person. I like real sex, no holes barred (no pun intended) and can only really do this with someone regular as you can trust each other. I find on here it's all about quantity which I find hard to get my head around sometimes but we're all different. Wish I could find a site that's designed for regulars but doubt it exists. |
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"Are they any men on here who are actually looking for a regular playmate...or do they just think that's what the ladies want to hear?"
Regular would be great especially if there's a connection |
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I have always preferred regular meets and have always sought them out, the meetings are more relaxed and enjoyable for me, you can explore boundaries and try things together, I'm not knocking one off meets but regular have always been my preference |
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Great sex is about sharing the most deepest most personal parts of our psyche and desires. About feeling totally free to express your shelf and get lost in the moment without fear. We often expose a real vulnerability as we shed the layers of the mind and let others see inside. So connection and a deeper umderstanding of each other is a key ingredient. So having someone you trust and understand is a valuable key to unlocking the most intense and intimate moments. Ironically this was a lesson learned in monogamous marriage. It is a lesson I carry forward when looking for a playmate. |
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