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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Some of my fantasies are the usual ones most people probably have. (3somes etc)
But those wild, out-there fantasies (we all have them. Where do they come from?
I have a few, some I will share, some I've never spoke of and these normally come from dreams.
is it something you've heard/seen?
Care to share that unusual fantasy with a bunch of strangers on a thread?
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By (user no longer on site)
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I think early porn movies are to blame for most fantasies, those ones where there's a backstory that you usually fast forward.
I have one but not sharing it, it's staying as a fantasy. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I have a few, some I will share
You first then OP   "
I had to check wether I'd wrote that. 
Some of mine will get me a time out probably (without checking).
As I said, a few are the usual ones a guy could come up with. There's a few which stem from dreaming, because they're in the mind now, and somehow felt 'real', I somehow fancy the idea of living them out.  .
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I think early porn movies are to blame for most fantasies, those ones where there's a backstory that you usually fast forward.
I have one but not sharing it, it's staying as a fantasy."
porn maybe starts some of it. But it never plays out the same with my customers. |
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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago
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Go on then - I'll share one of mine and I even know where it comes from......
To be fucked by a huge room full of guys til I can simply take no more. One after the other as opposed to several at once.
It comes from seeing someone called Annabel Chong do pretty much just that!
I'd never do it but it's something I've thought about many many times  |
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That's a good question Op,
It kinda goes hand in hand with why some like big boobs and others prefer small; stockings or bare legs; foot fetish or hate feet......
What predefines us to any particular kink and how far we are willing to take that particular fetish?
Me personally, I have a fantasy that involves giving oral only to a lady who I've never met, we have spoken once to agree where to meet. She is blindfolded laying naked in a hotel room, I come in, satisfy her orally only (no penetrative sex) and leave...
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"That's a good question Op,
It kinda goes hand in hand with why some like big boobs and others prefer small; stockings or bare legs; foot fetish or hate feet......
What predefines us to any particular kink and how far we are willing to take that particular fetish?
Me personally, I have a fantasy that involves giving oral only to a lady who I've never met, we have spoken once to agree where to meet. She is blindfolded laying naked in a hotel room, I come in, satisfy her orally only (no penetrative sex) and leave...
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I don't really have any fantasies. I have memories that I use. Things I'd like to do again. "
Those things you did that now serve as memories, did they start out as something you needed to do, or did they just happen by chance? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I have a few that probably stem from learning what I like and would like to try. But the main one I would get a ban for if I used the word, so I'll say being taken by force as I haven't given consent. Don't know where that one comes from x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"That's a good question Op,
It kinda goes hand in hand with why some like big boobs and others prefer small; stockings or bare legs; foot fetish or hate feet......
What predefines us to any particular kink and how far we are willing to take that particular fetish?
Me personally, I have a fantasy that involves giving oral only to a lady who I've never met, we have spoken once to agree where to meet. She is blindfolded laying naked in a hotel room, I come in, satisfy her orally only (no penetrative sex) and leave...
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I used to have that one. It was every bit as good as I thought it would be |
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"That's a good question Op,
It kinda goes hand in hand with why some like big boobs and others prefer small; stockings or bare legs; foot fetish or hate feet......
What predefines us to any particular kink and how far we are willing to take that particular fetish?
Me personally, I have a fantasy that involves giving oral only to a lady who I've never met, we have spoken once to agree where to meet. She is blindfolded laying naked in a hotel room, I come in, satisfy her orally only (no penetrative sex) and leave...
I used to have that one. It was every bit as good as I thought it would be "
Oh behave, this will be on my mind all day now  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I have one which I'm not willing to share, but it's an odd one because part of it is something that I know just wouldn't work because of my preferences "
I have a couple. I know they won't work because of reality. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"That's a good question Op,
It kinda goes hand in hand with why some like big boobs and others prefer small; stockings or bare legs; foot fetish or hate feet......
What predefines us to any particular kink and how far we are willing to take that particular fetish?
Me personally, I have a fantasy that involves giving oral only to a lady who I've never met, we have spoken once to agree where to meet. She is blindfolded laying naked in a hotel room, I come in, satisfy her orally only (no penetrative sex) and leave...
I used to have that one. It was every bit as good as I thought it would be
Oh behave, this will be on my mind all day now "
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"That's a good question Op,
It kinda goes hand in hand with why some like big boobs and others prefer small; stockings or bare legs; foot fetish or hate feet......
What predefines us to any particular kink and how far we are willing to take that particular fetish?
Me personally, I have a fantasy that involves giving oral only to a lady who I've never met, we have spoken once to agree where to meet. She is blindfolded laying naked in a hotel room, I come in, satisfy her orally only (no penetrative sex) and leave...
I used to have that one. It was every bit as good as I thought it would be
Oh behave, this will be on my mind all day now
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I'm glad you're amused |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I have a few that probably stem from learning what I like and would like to try. But the main one I would get a ban for if I used the word, so I'll say being taken by force as I haven't given consent. Don't know where that one comes from x "
Ah yes. Keep *fabshhhhtuuuuum!
*all credit goes to Marko for the use of this word. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"That's a good question Op,
It kinda goes hand in hand with why some like big boobs and others prefer small; stockings or bare legs; foot fetish or hate feet......
What predefines us to any particular kink and how far we are willing to take that particular fetish?
Me personally, I have a fantasy that involves giving oral only to a lady who I've never met, we have spoken once to agree where to meet. She is blindfolded laying naked in a hotel room, I come in, satisfy her orally only (no penetrative sex) and leave...
I used to have that one. It was every bit as good as I thought it would be
Oh behave, this will be on my mind all day now
I'm glad you're amused "
Amused but it's also got my mind whirring |
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By (user no longer on site)
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One of mine was to be lying naked in my own bed and hearing someone (I knew him but not THAT well) let themselves in, sneak up the stairs and climb into bed with me and fuck me...
A great way to start the day! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I'm not sharing it but it's an odd twist on a oft rolled out teen movie cliché. Fairly obvious to me how it came about and yeah, will probably never happen."
But would you or, do you want it to happen? |
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"One of mine was to be lying naked in my own bed and hearing someone (I knew him but not THAT well) let themselves in, sneak up the stairs and climb into bed with me and fuck me...
A great way to start the day! "
Is the key under the Matt? |
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"That's a good question Op,
It kinda goes hand in hand with why some like big boobs and others prefer small; stockings or bare legs; foot fetish or hate feet......
What predefines us to any particular kink and how far we are willing to take that particular fetish?
Me personally, I have a fantasy that involves giving oral only to a lady who I've never met, we have spoken once to agree where to meet. She is blindfolded laying naked in a hotel room, I come in, satisfy her orally only (no penetrative sex) and leave...
I used to have that one. It was every bit as good as I thought it would be
Oh behave, this will be on my mind all day now
I'm glad you're amused
Amused but it's also got my mind whirring "
The best kind of mind  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"One of mine was to be lying naked in my own bed and hearing someone (I knew him but not THAT well) let themselves in, sneak up the stairs and climb into bed with me and fuck me...
A great way to start the day!
Is the key under the Matt? "
No... the door wasn't locked..
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"One of mine was to be lying naked in my own bed and hearing someone (I knew him but not THAT well) let themselves in, sneak up the stairs and climb into bed with me and fuck me...
A great way to start the day!
Is the key under the Matt?
No... the door wasn't locked..
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I'm going to get in trouble trying every door on Butt hole road.
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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"I'm not sharing it but it's an odd twist on a oft rolled out teen movie cliché. Fairly obvious to me how it came about and yeah, will probably never happen.
But would you or, do you want it to happen? "
Yes, of course I do. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I'm still wanting an alarm call, fairly simple you'd think, but it seems men prefer me to give them one
4am?
4.30 if you please but I wouldn't be picky about timing  "
Oh dear. I always come early.
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"I'm still wanting an alarm call, fairly simple you'd think, but it seems men prefer me to give them one
4am?
4.30 if you please but I wouldn't be picky about timing
Oh dear. I always come early.
(I may have to put this on my profile )"
Your inbox would be full of man haters who like to get it over and done with  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"My fantasies are now locked in a mental box, with the key lost isomewhere in my failing memory 
Oh dear.
Hey it's not all bad I fulfilled a few... "
You've had your box filled? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I'm still wanting an alarm call, fairly simple you'd think, but it seems men prefer me to give them one
4am?
4.30 if you please but I wouldn't be picky about timing
Oh dear. I always come early.
(I may have to put this on my profile )
Your inbox would be full of man haters who like to get it over and done with "
Chance would be a fine thing. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"My fantasies are now locked in a mental box, with the key lost isomewhere in my failing memory
Oh dear.
Hey it's not all bad I fulfilled a few...
You've had your box filled? "
Aye a little memory box |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Don't have fantasies, maybe because I don't watch porn? I am more interested in real-life experiences."
Funnily enough my fantasies were all developments on innocent real life experiences when I was younger....none were porn related. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Don't have fantasies, maybe because I don't watch porn? I am more interested in real-life experiences.
Funnily enough my fantasies were all developments on innocent real life experiences when I was younger....none were porn related."
Yes, which makes them unique and personal to you |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Don't have fantasies, maybe because I don't watch porn? I am more interested in real-life experiences.
Funnily enough my fantasies were all developments on innocent real life experiences when I was younger....none were porn related.
Yes, which makes them unique and personal to you"
This is true with mine.
For instance, I had a neighbour when I was at college who used to flirt with me. She was older of course. That was always a fantasy. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Don't have fantasies, maybe because I don't watch porn? I am more interested in real-life experiences.
Funnily enough my fantasies were all developments on innocent real life experiences when I was younger....none were porn related.
Yes, which makes them unique and personal to you
This is true with mine.
For instance, I had a neighbour when I was at college who used to flirt with me. She was older of course. That was always a fantasy. "
It would not be ok to say what mine were but they led to my bisexuality, my love of mmf, group sex, exhibitionism and outdoor sex, all my further fantasies were just variations on a theme. A bit of sexual jazz if you like.
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"I'm still wanting an alarm call, fairly simple you'd think, but it seems men prefer me to give them one
4am?
4.30 if you please but I wouldn't be picky about timing
Oh dear. I always come early.
(I may have to put this on my profile )
Your inbox would be full of man haters who like to get it over and done with
Chance would be a fine thing. "
You like the idea of not surviving the meet |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Don't have fantasies, maybe because I don't watch porn? I am more interested in real-life experiences.
Funnily enough my fantasies were all developments on innocent real life experiences when I was younger....none were porn related.
Yes, which makes them unique and personal to you
This is true with mine.
For instance, I had a neighbour when I was at college who used to flirt with me. She was older of course. That was always a fantasy.
It would not be ok to say what mine were but they led to my bisexuality, my love of mmf, group sex, exhibitionism and outdoor sex, all my further fantasies were just variations on a theme. A bit of sexual jazz if you like.
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I think it was my repression of them that led to them becoming so much stronger later in life |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I'm still wanting an alarm call, fairly simple you'd think, but it seems men prefer me to give them one
4am?
4.30 if you please but I wouldn't be picky about timing
Oh dear. I always come early.
(I may have to put this on my profile )
Your inbox would be full of man haters who like to get it over and done with
Chance would be a fine thing.
You like the idea of not surviving the meet "
I didn't.....but now you've said it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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When I was with my first bf I often fantasised about him watching me with another man, it was before I knew about cuckolding but I think it came from wanting more adventurous sex but not daring to talk about it with him .
I have a few others but I'll keep them secret, I know they'll never happen because of my preferences |
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A fairly simple fantasy for me, and probably tame by most people in here's books, but I would love a ffm threesome. The thought of having a pussy on my mouth with another on my cock, and then they swap over, or two bums stuck in the air, for me to slide my cock in and out of each in turn, is a major turn-on for me |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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I have a few others but I'll keep them secret, I know they'll never happen because of my preferences "
This preferences thing??
Does this mean you've fantasies you don't venture to seek out, but secretly wish they'd happen?
Your willing to go through with them if they happen spontaneously?
Or, it's a fantasy you've put out of reach intentionally? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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My biggest fantasy at the minute won't ever happen and I'm fine with that, I've built it up in my head so much it would probably be a disappointment in real life anyway |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I don't even know what goes on in my little brain...I'm half ditsy and half sensible let alone work out my fantasies...plus it's a Monday morning and I've not had my coffee yet |
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"My biggest fantasy at the minute won't ever happen and I'm fine with that, I've built it up in my head so much it would probably be a disappointment in real life anyway "
Aahh. This is why I'd be scared to live out some of mine. The build up turning out to be bigger than the actual event.
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"I don't even know what goes on in my little brain...I'm half ditsy and half sensible let alone work out my fantasies...plus it's a Monday morning and I've not had my coffee yet "
An espresso is a fantasy every morning. I know exactly why. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I have a few others but I'll keep them secret, I know they'll never happen because of my preferences
This preferences thing??
Does this mean you've fantasies you don't venture to seek out, but secretly wish they'd happen?
Your willing to go through with them if they happen spontaneously?
Or, it's a fantasy you've put out of reach intentionally? "
I'm not sure I would actually enjoy it if it was to happen because it involves things I would never usually want but for some reason that makes it more exciting. I guess in the right situation and with the right people I may do it but like the previous poster, I'm not sure it would actually live up to the fantasy of it and then not only would I end up disappointed but I would've not enjoyed something that was already out of my comfort zone. |
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"My biggest fantasy at the minute won't ever happen and I'm fine with that, I've built it up in my head so much it would probably be a disappointment in real life anyway "
Where did the idea come from? |
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"I don't even know what goes on in my little brain...I'm half ditsy and half sensible let alone work out my fantasies...plus it's a Monday morning and I've not had my coffee yet
An espresso is a fantasy every morning. I know exactly why. "
Just finishing a hot cup of coffee is mine |
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"My biggest fantasy at the minute won't ever happen and I'm fine with that, I've built it up in my head so much it would probably be a disappointment in real life anyway
Where did the idea come from? "
Books, I know a lot of filthy minded authors |
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"My biggest fantasy at the minute won't ever happen and I'm fine with that, I've built it up in my head so much it would probably be a disappointment in real life anyway
Where did the idea come from?
Books, I know a lot of filthy minded authors "
Oh well now this has got my little brain thinking |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"My biggest fantasy at the minute won't ever happen and I'm fine with that, I've built it up in my head so much it would probably be a disappointment in real life anyway
Where did the idea come from?
Books, I know a lot of filthy minded authors "
Can you read bed time stories at all? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Mine tend to come from the people Im attracted to and the things theyre into. I mostly get turned on by helping other people fulfill their fantasies so my brain tends to run off with an idea and elaborate and enhance it based on what someone has said or done. |
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"I'm still wanting an alarm call, fairly simple you'd think, but it seems men prefer me to give them one
4am?
4.30 if you please but I wouldn't be picky about timing
Oh dear. I always come early.
(I may have to put this on my profile )
Your inbox would be full of man haters who like to get it over and done with
Chance would be a fine thing.
You like the idea of not surviving the meet
FTFY
I didn't.....but now you've said it. "
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By (user no longer on site)
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I have many, some quite dark.
One involves me walking down a dark country lane going home from the pub, a barn with a large table, ropes, blindfold and a very strong guy. He's a Farmer who has been watching me for weeks and decides that night he will a bad boy. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I have many, some quite dark.
One involves me walking down a dark country lane going home from the pub, a barn with a large table, ropes, blindfold and a very strong guy. He's a Farmer who has been watching me for weeks and decides that night he will a bad boy. "
Have you found the barn to put all your stuff in yet? |
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"My biggest fantasy at the minute won't ever happen and I'm fine with that, I've built it up in my head so much it would probably be a disappointment in real life anyway "
I don't think a fantasy would be a disappointment made real, but you're probably right with the 'won't ever happen' part, as finding genuine people willing to meet in here, if only for a social, gets harder and harder |
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"A fairly simple fantasy for me, and probably tame by most people in here's books, but I would love a ffm threesome. The thought of having a pussy on my mouth with another on my cock, and then they swap over, or two bums stuck in the air, for me to slide my cock in and out of each in turn, is a major turn-on for me "
No longer a fantasy.....it was. But I need another one now. |
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"A fairly simple fantasy for me, and probably tame by most people in here's books, but I would love a ffm threesome. The thought of having a pussy on my mouth with another on my cock, and then they swap over, or two bums stuck in the air, for me to slide my cock in and out of each in turn, is a major turn-on for me
No longer a fantasy.....it was. But I need another one now."
Good for you mate; finding two genuine women happy to be naked in front of each other, AND share a cock is truly a rare find! Fair play |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I don't really have any fantasies. I have memories that I use. Things I'd like to do again.
Those things you did that now serve as memories, did they start out as something you needed to do, or did they just happen by chance? "
Some were things I wanted to do. I told the person and we did them. One thing happened by chance... I seized the opportunity.
Some things they wanted to do and I made them happen. I found out I get as much of a kick making other people's fantasies a reality, even if I'm not directly involved in them. |
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"Mine tend to come from the people Im attracted to and the things theyre into. I mostly get turned on by helping other people fulfill their fantasies so my brain tends to run off with an idea and elaborate and enhance it based on what someone has said or done. "
Oooh yay I'm not the only one! |
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