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Say what you really mean..

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Do you say what you really mean or do you end up biting your lip in fear of offending others?

I know people talk about 'hiding behind a computer' but sometimes i feel the opposite, if i was having a debate with a person face to face id often be more opinionated and say stronger _iews

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By *isscheekychopsWoman over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

I have got better I say what I think more often now.........

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By *iewMan over a year ago
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Angus & Findhorn

I say it exactly the way I would say it face 2 face.....

candid... but words chosen not to intentionally offend.

I get it right more times than I get it wrong... but if I get it wrong.. I will apologise

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman over a year ago

little house on the praire

I say exactly what im thinking at that moment in time

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I say it exactly the way I would say it face 2 face.....

candid... but words chosen not to intentionally offend.

I get it right more times than I get it wrong... but if I get it wrong.. I will apologise

What he said

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I (Bob) always say exactly what I mean - straight to the point and thus I have no friends

But at least folks know where they stand ...

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By *ushroom7Man over a year ago

Bradford

No doubt you would. But let's say you were doing so in a pub and didn't like the other person's _iews? Would you complain to the landlord and have them thrown out? Unlikely to happen.

It's usually the one who dares disagree on here that's thrown out, temporary or full time. Slight difference.

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By *phroditeWoman over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

I say what I mean and mean what I say generally speaking - cannot be any different I am afraid. Never intentionally want to upset anybody though!

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By *iewMan over a year ago
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Angus & Findhorn

"I (Bob) always say exactly what I mean - straight to the point and thus I have no friends

But at least folks know where they stand ..."

I like ya

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I always say what i mean...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I say it the same whether face or on here. It probably comes out better face to face because of enunciation, tone, body language etc

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago
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"I (Bob) always say exactly what I mean - straight to the point and thus I have no friends

But at least folks know where they stand ..."

But you are one of the funniest guys around though

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By *iewMan over a year ago
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Angus & Findhorn

there are threads that people ask for opinions.. and when you give yours... and it is not the same as theirs and you don't change to meet theirs...

it's goes up the swanny.....

I love them... usually trying to get partners into swinging

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I (Bob) always say exactly what I mean - straight to the point and thus I have no friends

But at least folks know where they stand ...

I like ya

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I am very direct and honest, some would say TOO direct and honest for my own good, and definitely a wysiwyg.

So don't ask me for an opinion/advice/whatever unless one can handle the truth the way I see it!

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By *ugby 123Couple over a year ago
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O o O oo

lol @ redhot

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman over a year ago

little house on the praire

Some people think its fine to say what they want but then throw there dummies out the pram when someone says something to them

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By *iewMan over a year ago
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Angus & Findhorn

"I (Bob) always say exactly what I mean - straight to the point and thus I have no friends

But at least folks know where they stand ...

I like ya

is this a look at me thread and feel sorry for me...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Do you say what you really mean or do you end up biting your lip in fear of offending others?

I know people talk about 'hiding behind a computer' but sometimes i feel the opposite, if i was having a debate with a person face to face id often be more opinionated and say stronger _iews"

i always think i'll say that whatever but then being a nice chap i bote my lip as i dont want to offend or hurt other people! more fool me sometimes

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I (Bob) always say exactly what I mean - straight to the point and thus I have no friends

But at least folks know where they stand ...

I like ya

is this a look at me thread and feel sorry for me...

Dammit, looks like I've been rumbled. If it hadn't been for those meddling kids I'd have gotton away with it

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By *iewMan over a year ago
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Angus & Findhorn

only if their cock is over 9 inches... i say i like them

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago
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I think its much easier to get a point across face to face than on here

Theres so much chance of people taking it all out of context and the wrong way,you see it happen all the time on the forums

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By *iewMan over a year ago
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Angus & Findhorn

"I (Bob) always say exactly what I mean - straight to the point and thus I have no friends

But at least folks know where they stand ...

I like ya

is this a look at me thread and feel sorry for me...

Dammit, looks like I've been rumbled. If it hadn't been for those meddling kids I'd have gotton away with it

and there we have it

...... now suck

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"is this a look at me thread and feel sorry for me...

no why would you feel sorry for me? was just a question.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman over a year ago

little house on the praire

"is this a look at me thread and feel sorry for me...

no why would you feel sorry for me? was just a question.

As he quoted what red said i assume he was referring to red

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Do you say what you really mean or do you end up biting your lip in fear of offending others?

I know people talk about 'hiding behind a computer' but sometimes i feel the opposite, if i was having a debate with a person face to face id often be more opinionated and say stronger _iews"

all depends on the context / circumstance unless i get really wound up, the red mist descends and i let rip

i do once remember being in a meeting and telling a client he was an 'arrogant twat'

i could have chosen a better time to do it tho cos i ended up wearing most of the brew my boss was taking a sip out of at the time

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By *iewMan over a year ago
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Angus & Findhorn

"is this a look at me thread and feel sorry for me...

no why would you feel sorry for me? was just a question.

was Red.. and he answered

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago
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"is this a look at me thread and feel sorry for me...

no why would you feel sorry for me? was just a question.

As he quoted what red said i assume he was referring to red"

So did I

classic example of it being so easy to get the wrong end of the stick

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

always say what i meen and tell it as it is

Why mince your words

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Do you say what you really mean or do you end up biting your lip in fear of offending others?

I know people talk about 'hiding behind a computer' but sometimes i feel the opposite, if i was having a debate with a person face to face id often be more opinionated and say stronger _iews"

Site rules and regs restrict often what i'd just luv to say,lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"is this a look at me thread and feel sorry for me...

no why would you feel sorry for me? was just a question.

As he quoted what red said i assume he was referring to red

So did I

classic example of it being so easy to get the wrong end of the stick

sorry _iew & hpc.. xxx

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By *phroditeWoman over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

I think... reading some of the comments above, there is nothing wrong with being straight, as long as what you say is respectful of the other person and their _iews.

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By *he_original_poloWoman over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

I have more respect for those who can actually say it like it is (in a controlled manner)... than those who just say they can.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"is this a look at me thread and feel sorry for me...

no why would you feel sorry for me? was just a question.

As he quoted what red said i assume he was referring to red

So did I

Funnily enough, so did I - that's why I replied

classic example of it being so easy to get the wrong end of the stick

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"is this a look at me thread and feel sorry for me...

no why would you feel sorry for me? was just a question.

As he quoted what red said i assume he was referring to red

So did I

classic example of it being so easy to get the wrong end of the stick

Who's end needs grabbing?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

working in the service industry for over 25 years I tend to only say what i think in my head but give a sarcastic grin when being overly nice lol

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman over a year ago

little house on the praire

Personally i cant be doing with sycophants and people agreeing with me all the while grrrrrrrrrrrrrr some think by agreeing there going to get in your knickers its the other way for me. I like someone with their own mind and opinions, some we will agree on some we wont but i have a lot of respect for them

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"sycophants"

Nice word..not as nice as loqucious. Say it go on...rolls off the tongue and lips

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Damn...typo

Loquacious

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman over a year ago

little house on the praire

"sycophants

Nice word..not as nice as loqucious. Say it go on...rolls off the tongue and lips"

I cant say it but i know what it means

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago
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I don't believe you have to be rude,angry or become personal when you're putting your point across either,something that lots of people should try and attempt sometimes in the more "heated" debates on here

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Personally i cant be doing with sycophants and people agreeing with me all the while grrrrrrrrrrrrrr some think by agreeing there going to get in your knickers its the other way for me. I like someone with their own mind and opinions, some we will agree on some we wont but i have a lot of respect for them"

I don't whether to agree or disagree with that

Can anyone help?

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman over a year ago

little house on the praire

I don't whether to agree or disagree with that

Can anyone help?

lol, you know what i mean, those that agree to keep you on side. You have to agree with me cause great minds think a like

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I have a reputation of being harsh but fair at work!

It made my day today when I came out with the line of "having a super duper computer system does not make a monkey into a rocket scientist" after someone made an error for not following procedures.

I said it in front of a small selected audience who shared my _iew, and not in public though.

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By *ushroom7Man over a year ago

Bradford

"I think... reading some of the comments above, there is nothing wrong with being straight, as long as what you say is respectful of the other person and their _iews. "

therein lies the problem, some of the let's say controversial threads, the OP only wants to hear what they want. Anything else is disrespectful, offensive and nasty.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It were not best that we should all think alike; it is difference of opinion that makes horse races.

Mark Twain, x

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By *acktilMan over a year ago

Tewkesbury

I was raised totell the truth and always say what I mean and mean what I say.

So if you don't want to hear the truth never ask does my ,,,,,,,,, look big in this, along with how does this dress look?

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By *andy muncherMan over a year ago

Nottingham

i step back now and bite the lip and on here you dont know whos friends with who and as i go to the socials best not to upset peeps .

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By *phroditeWoman over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

"I was raised totell the truth and always say what I mean and mean what I say.

So if you don't want to hear the truth never ask does my ,,,,,,,,, look big in this, along with how does this dress look?

Dint think your bum looked big in this...;-)

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By *ushroom7Man over a year ago

Bradford

"I have a reputation of being harsh but fair at work!

It made my day today when I came out with the line of "having a super duper computer system does not make a monkey into a rocket scientist" after someone made an error for not following procedures.

I said it in front of a small selected audience who shared my _iew, and not in public though.

One problem i find with that is i'm still following procedures and producing some lovely cave drawings of woolly mammoths.

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By *oantrimcpl2010Couple over a year ago

Lisburn

"I say it exactly the way I would say it face 2 face.....

candid... but words chosen not to intentionally offend.

I get it right more times than I get it wrong... but if I get it wrong.. I will apologise

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By *ornyHorwichCpl aka HHCCouple over a year ago

horwich

I try to stay respectful and am cautious when people have strong _iews but only because I don't want to get into a drawn out debate over something I know little about or are complete opposites.

I can quieten the boys at work with a look but don't know where they think I am feisty, I'm a pussycat really

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I don't know whether to agree or disagree with that

Can anyone help?

lol, you know what i mean, those that agree to keep you on side. You have to agree with me cause great minds think a like

I do worry because I have feelings at stake

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By *abioMan over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

I do think twice about what i say... and then i reread and count to 10 before hitting the post button, but it normally doesn't change what I am trying to say or get a point across...

I do suffer from the "sarcastic" gene.. and the odd one does get through... but again that is what makes me me.....

but it is still as plain speaking as I can make it... not every one is going to like it, but I have gotten past the stage of trying to please everyone....

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By *emmefataleWoman over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

I say what i mean and mean what i say, sometimes though its better to say stuff in person which i much prefer

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By *oantrimcpl2010Couple over a year ago

Lisburn

I wuv you all

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By *ushroom7Man over a year ago

Bradford

Mrs A , you DO have a dirty laugh, it's ace. xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I am usually controlled, I will put my point across and hopefully its not in a rude way. Sometimes I get it wrong and it can be sarcastic.

But when im angry and someone pushes me over the edge, I have less control and I end up losing it and raising my voice etc. Ive done this twice in jobs, both to senior managers, but I was so angry at the times I did it, I couldnt stop myself. When I calm down im really embarrassed and worry about going into work the day after.

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By *umourCouple over a year ago

Rushden

I always get my point across, but try not to upset people by the way I say it!

Never really understood the "I must be true to myself and tell it like it is brigade". There is no reason for being intentionally rude.

By all means say it, but unless you are angry (not the best time anyway) what is the harm in sugar coating? For instance. A couple wrote to us and asked about a meet. They also asked for a photo of both. We sent one and all we got back was "sorry, she finds you totally unattractive"! I was OK with it as I do have a thick skin (and brain I’ve been told!) But imagine how that could have upset some people.

In my _iew it would have been better to just say that we weren’t for them. Same job done and no one singled out. I have also found that being a bit less caustic has benefits in other ways. Better job out of my employees and nicer reactions from prospective playmates, even when we decide not to play!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Do you say what you really mean or do you end up biting your lip in fear of offending others?

I know people talk about 'hiding behind a computer' but sometimes i feel the opposite, if i was having a debate with a person face to face id often be more opinionated and say stronger _iews"

I always say what i mean i couldnt care less about offending any1 thats y i have been banned from the forums twice lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I always get my point across, but try not to upset people by the way I say it!

Never really understood the "I must be true to myself and tell it like it is brigade". There is no reason for being intentionally rude.

You don't see a point to Polonius's advice to Laertes?

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By *umourCouple over a year ago

Rushden

"Do you say what you really mean or do you end up biting your lip in fear of offending others?

I know people talk about 'hiding behind a computer' but sometimes i feel the opposite, if i was having a debate with a person face to face id often be more opinionated and say stronger _iews

I always say what i mean i couldnt care less about offending any1 thats y i have been banned from the forums twice lol"

LOL Cov! So we noticed.. But say you had a picture from someone and you thought she was errrr.... Unattractive. Would you tell her that? Or would you tell her you don't think you are compatable?

Think carefully! Loads of ladies watching!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Do you say what you really mean or do you end up biting your lip in fear of offending others?

I know people talk about 'hiding behind a computer' but sometimes i feel the opposite, if i was having a debate with a person face to face id often be more opinionated and say stronger _iews

I always say what i mean i couldnt care less about offending any1 thats y i have been banned from the forums twice lol

LOL Cov! So we noticed.. But say you had a picture from someone and you thought she was errrr.... Unattractive. Would you tell her that? Or would you tell her you don't think you are compatable?

Think carefully! Loads of ladies watching!!

Lol well im not goin to tell some 1 there a minger lol but im not some 1 who is blessed with good looks and i dont look for stunners beuty is on the inside

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Do you say what you really mean or do you end up biting your lip in fear of offending others?

I know people talk about 'hiding behind a computer' but sometimes i feel the opposite, if i was having a debate with a person face to face id often be more opinionated and say stronger _iews

I always say what i mean i couldnt care less about offending any1 thats y i have been banned from the forums twice lol

LOL Cov! So we noticed.. But say you had a picture from someone and you thought she was errrr.... Unattractive. Would you tell her that? Or would you tell her you don't think you are compatable?

Think carefully! Loads of ladies watching!!

Would telling someone s/he was unattractive be telling them something they didn't already know?

I appreciate there are ways of pointing it out gently but do we really want to be lying (there's a thread elsewhere) to people?

Is that a basis for a relationship and, if we're not in it for a relationship, is it an automatic deal-breaker for a shag?

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By *aucy3Couple over a year ago

glasgow

i always say what i'm thinking.

sometimes i'm just not thinking,when saying it.

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By *ushroom7Man over a year ago

Bradford

"I am usually controlled, I will put my point across and hopefully its not in a rude way. Sometimes I get it wrong and it can be sarcastic.

did you know i often find such ranting in person, quite interesting and amusing, and how much does it change anything? not a lot.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"i always say what i'm thinking.

sometimes i'm just not thinking,when saying it.

That's me to a T

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By *aucy3Couple over a year ago

glasgow

"i always say what i'm thinking.

sometimes i'm just not thinking,when saying it.

That's me to a T

for some reason,that makes me happy.xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

did you know i often find such ranting in person, quite interesting and amusing, and how much does it change anything? not a lot."

You're right it doesn't change anything, you lose control, you look silly and you regret it when you calm down. Thankfully it takes a lot to push me over the edge.

Its just better to put your point across in a way which doesn't leave the other person feeling awkward or upset .

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

I dont like it when threads asking for genuine advice get hijacked for 'comedy' purposes - if you want a personal conversation do it in chat or private message

I think the forums are exceptionally clicky and unwelcoming at times, if the face doesnt fit you sure know about it

The fact we can't name people regarding certain issues yet we can all start a thread with someones username - now how is that NOT personal??

Threads with the same name running along side each other even on the same page.. can people not read? eg.. morning the 8th july (there are currently 3 of them)

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By *iewMan over a year ago
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Angus & Findhorn

Iconic ... you mentioned that the 'clicky' hadn't been used for a while....

and here we have it

not knocking the use of it if that is how someone feels...

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Iconic ... you mentioned that the 'clicky' hadn't been used for a while....

and here we have it

not knocking the use of it if that is how someone feels..."

lol i read iconics post in another thread after id posted this

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By *iewMan over a year ago
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Angus & Findhorn

"Iconic ... you mentioned that the 'clicky' hadn't been used for a while....

and here we have it

not knocking the use of it if that is how someone feels...

lol i read iconics post in another thread after id posted this "

she will laugh

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Iconic ... you mentioned that the 'clicky' hadn't been used for a while....

and here we have it

not knocking the use of it if that is how someone feels...

lol i read iconics post in another thread after id posted this

she will laugh "

more than likely

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Bloody hell - sods law isnt it

there did seem to be a lot of clique type posts at one time, but I do feel that peoples posting methods are certainly calmer now.

We used to get the critiquing profile thing every time you posted - you'd have a perfect innocent post about, I dont know, saying a bi guy looks sexy, and the next thing you have half a dozen people saying, why are you saying that, your profile says you are straight, your obviously in denial. That seems to have lessened too.

But I do agree with what Cute has said about the personal thread thing. Sometimes I think its nice. The Diamondsmiles one recently was great, she has worked so hard with her weight loss and been so determined and its paid off and that deserves recognition I think. The Kev ones, whilst I like Kev very much, have really got on my tits these last couple of days, (sorry no offence to Kev). Someone said on one of those posts that a fellow poster had no sense of humour - well it does wear thin after the 10th or so thread about the same person.

I wonder if the mellow nature of the forum lately is due to members leaving and then receiving a new influx of less antagonistic people, or is it due to good moderators.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I personally try not ta get involved in serious

This ain't always possible thou as we are all only human

In the past i have fallen into the same trap of forming an opinion of someone before i have met them

Only to have that opinion shattered when i have

I love the forums even when the place gets heated sometimes

And I'm the kind of person that rarely has fixed _iews on anything

In Fact the forums over the years have actually made me see things very differently

I try and see things from all side and have been rightly accused of being a fence sitter

I personally fin the fence sitting to work well for me cause i don't and never will know everything

And i have never experienced anyone life other than my own

I'm a kinda live and let live guy generally

And feel i have no need to worry that much about what others think of me

We are all different and that's what i like about life

Think too many people get too involved in stupid things and worry too much about life too actually live it

After all we are only here for a finite time

And in the words someone said too me many years ago when i was going through a rough patch

"Craig look at it this way in a hundred years no one will remember you or anything you have done"

A sobering thought that but oh so true

I myself don't even know my great great grandma's name fa instance

Lifes fa living not fighting xx

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By *ugby 123Couple over a year ago
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O o O oo

"I dont like it when threads asking for genuine advice get hijacked for 'comedy' purposes - if you want a personal conversation do it in chat or private message

I think the forums are exceptionally clicky and unwelcoming at times, if the face doesnt fit you sure know about it

The fact we can't name people regarding certain issues yet we can all start a thread with someones username - now how is that NOT personal??

Threads with the same name running along side each other even on the same page.. can people not read? eg.. morning the 8th july (there are currently 3 of them)

I did wonder wether your thread was going to turn into a dig at the forum posters, and I obviously wondered right.

We are all different, what you like, others won't.

No one is wrong in how they use the forums ( unless they are breaking rules or constantly having digs at others, which some threads have been lately )

I do find agenda threads tedious, but sadly I can't ignore them like anyone else can....but every other member can ignore whichever thread they wish.

They can also ignore any posts they don't like.

Only Admin decide what is acceptable, and people having fun the way THEY want to have fun is allowed.

I suggest people do that instead of constantly complaining, as it is spoiling the forums for the people who like certain threads.

PS...there was three July threads started, two were morning ones, and one was asking what everyone was up to today.

A thread can only be dealt with when a mod or Admin see it. Sadly it might not be as quick as expected.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman over a year ago

little house on the praire

"I dont like it when threads asking for genuine advice get hijacked for 'comedy' purposes - if you want a personal conversation do it in chat or private message

I think the forums are exceptionally clicky and unwelcoming at times, if the face doesnt fit you sure know about it

The fact we can't name people regarding certain issues yet we can all start a thread with someones username - now how is that NOT personal??

Threads with the same name running along side each other even on the same page.. can people not read? eg.. morning the 8th july (there are currently 3 of them)

I have never heard you once complain about a thread title with your name in it or a thread.

Seems to me this last week or so you havent once stopped complaining about threads yet, these are the same threads you have always participated in.

Now your complaining on this thread yet on another saying that people can post what they like and if someone doesnt like it they dont have to read it.

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