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Ladies...how do you feel about being called..
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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a bird.
As in "cor..look at the tits on that bird"
Or..."you're a top bird"
Or you overhear a couple of blokes talking "met this bird last night and she could suck start a harley davidson i tell ya"
I often call women 'birds'...think its a southern thing |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i personally dont mind it, as you say its a southern thing and its just commonly used round here..
i get referred to as a 'maid' a fair bit
*shes a nice young maid* |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i used to work with someone used to call women 'chick' (think it was because he couldn't remember names). it used to drive me insane. one day he rang up and said "hiya chick, how ya do", i replied with "tweet fucking tweet".
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"don't mind unless introduced as in ' this is my bird' Likely to feel my reflexes then  "
Ahh thats a good example right there...if you overheard your noyfriend on the phone saing "my bird..." You wouldn't be that keen?
I got a d*unk at a works do once and got chatting to my bosses wife and referred to my ex girlfriend as my 'ex bird' and she said 'what breed was she? Cockatoo or canary' |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Men call women birds, must be something to do with all the worms we pick up
Dont like being called bird, hun, love, babe or anything like that... I like my name and I like people using it "
really?...so you dont like "seedart" or anything like that? I am alwasy calling women 'love', i always have, not in a bad way...when collecting change in the supermarket i say "cheers love"...also when i ask for something i often tag love on the end
"3 pints of Kronie, a jd and and a vodka and lemonade please love" |
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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago
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"Men call women birds, must be something to do with all the worms we pick up
Dont like being called bird, hun, love, babe or anything like that... I like my name and I like people using it
really?...so you dont like "seedart" or anything like that? I am alwasy calling women 'love', i always have, not in a bad way...when collecting change in the supermarket i say "cheers love"...also when i ask for something i often tag love on the end
"3 pints of Kronie, a jd and and a vodka and lemonade please love""
Its funny I had this conversation with my partner a while ago and being a Brummie he adds little things like that... and I dont mind it from him as I know I am special to him. I guess it is more with strangers where I am not keen... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"a bird.
As in "cor..look at the tits on that bird"
Or..."you're a top bird"
Or you overhear a couple of blokes talking "met this bird last night and she could suck start a harley davidson i tell ya"
I often call women 'birds'...think its a southern thing"
I dislike it.. but mostly because I grew up with it being a london girl..
Katie.x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i must admit i use terms of endearment and familiarity far too much.
it isn't a conscious thing or something i stop to think about but luv, babe, sweetheart and chuck do get used probably more than they should.
i don't recall anyone taking offence to the degree where they have quipped back at me. must be cos i'm a nice person  |
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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago
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"i must admit i use terms of endearment and familiarity far too much.
it isn't a conscious thing or something i stop to think about but luv, babe, sweetheart and chuck do get used probably more than they should.
i don't recall anyone taking offence to the degree where they have quipped back at me. must be cos i'm a nice person "
I am wondering whether it has something to do with how it is being said... and who says it..? Some people naturally sound better with those add ons... |
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hmmm...must admit I don't like to be refrred to as a bird....and I really don't like being called "me duck" (I don't bloody quack  ).
But....I do tend to call people I know, hun or babes. Wouldn't use that sort of term with a stranger though. |
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I have very little time for all this 'PC' way of thinking, I am so glad that I grew up in an area, and in an age, when people just got on with life without worrying too much about simple words and the effect they may have had on the 'tender' amongst us.
It's just a word....it ain't murder |
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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago
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"I have very little time for all this 'PC' way of thinking, I am so glad that I grew up in an area, and in an age, when people just got on with life without worrying too much about simple words and the effect they may have had on the 'tender' amongst us.
It's just a word....it ain't murder"
seconded x |
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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago
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"I luv metro-sexual terms of endearment,
"petal", "chuck", but "my bird" fills my head full of all kinds of sexist unhealthy attitudes.
T xx"
Is that because of the possessive pronoun "my" |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I luv metro-sexual terms of endearment,
"petal", "chuck", but "my bird" fills my head full of all kinds of sexist unhealthy attitudes.
T xx
Is that because of the possessive pronoun "my""
Yip. x |
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