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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Does anyone actually leave not so good verifications for the not so good meets? . I for one do read people's verifications and to check who they have met as some walking sti near me. |
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By *haker OP Man
over a year ago
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Yeah,but once you've met a few people,and got a few "regulars",who you meet,or even,in my case,people I meet off this site,who are happy to have photos taken,are they just a thing for "newbies".??. Tricky to judge,but thought I'd ask. |
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By *haker OP Man
over a year ago
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Yeah,I get that,but I'm still not convinced. It's like friends on F/B,doesn't mean you're popular or good at what you do.!!. I just find them tiresome and a little boring. I'm sure most people on here have a regular "crowd" they meet,are we expected to verify every meet.??. Granted,I'm in Jersey,so the "catchment" area is pretty limited.!!!!.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Yeah,I get that,but I'm still not convinced. It's like friends on F/B,doesn't mean you're popular or good at what you do.!!. I just find them tiresome and a little boring. I'm sure most people on here have a regular "crowd" they meet,are we expected to verify every meet.??. Granted,I'm in Jersey,so the "catchment" area is pretty limited.!!!!. "
The easy answer to that is don't read them
Even the longest profile with all the hoops to jump through before you message them......does not say you must read my variations  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Does anyone actually leave not so good verifications for the not so good meets? . I for one do read people's verifications and to check who they have met as some walking sti near me. "
It's up to person if they show the verification on their profile so if it was a bad one they wouldn't show it .. I always read the verification to check if they know how to please a woman
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i will glance at the fact they have them, but don't bother reading them,and don't display mine..the fact that they exist is enough for me..don't like them really,just useful enough to tell me the person is real. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We perefer people with vertifactions but not a must.we give everyone a chance but like the other day we were ment to meet a lad who had zero vertifactions and he didn't show up xx |
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"..... and I wouldn't really meet anyone with loads of veri's anyway."
Sorry, off topic a bit, but this always makes me chuckle.
More they have the better for me. Shows they are actually meeting and understand how this works.
Nita |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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To us, they just show that that person met others. Even if the meet didn't work out, a pleasant verification will still happen so the only detail we look for was the meet "in person" or "cam".
Those that just endlessly have cam or social meets, we avoid. |
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By *haker OP Man
over a year ago
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Yeah,but people could have endless "met for coffee or drinks" verifications,what is the point.??. Unless the people leaving them state "ugly fuckwad" or similar,I know life isn't simple,especially on here,I'm just not convinced they serve a purpose. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"..... and I wouldn't really meet anyone with loads of veri's anyway.
Sorry, off topic a bit, but this always makes me chuckle.
More they have the better for me. Shows they are actually meeting and understand how this works.
Nita "
Makes me laugh when people say this. The amount of verifications has no indication on the amount of people we have actually slept with. I've got no veris, does that make me a virgin? Does someone with 30 veris mean they have only slept with 30 people? Not at all |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I think it's good to have at least one, as long as that one is within the last 6 months, as I think they should be updated periodically but I don't think they should be exchanged after every meet ...
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"I don't think they're pointless, what bugs me is when people say "if you have too many we won't meet you"  "
Double edged sword how do you define what is too many verifications ??
Plus verifications can be from socials not just meets.
They do give some credibility, tho I have seen some status's which are quite 'beggy' and then you have to question the credibility of that profile are they really who they say they are ...... |
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"Yeah,I get that,but I'm still not convinced. It's like friends on F/B,doesn't mean you're popular or good at what you do.!!. I just find them tiresome and a little boring. I'm sure most people on here have a regular "crowd" they meet,are we expected to verify every meet.??. Granted,I'm in Jersey,so the "catchment" area is pretty limited.!!!!.
The easy answer to that is don't read them
Even the longest profile with all the hoops to jump through before you message them......does not say you must read my variations "
You read my profile???  |
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"They're not necessary but having some gives you more credibility. "
Not to me they don't!
If at my ripe old age I'm unable to ascertain whether I fuck a stranger without the validation of another stranger, I shouldn't be let out alone. |
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"We perefer people with vertifactions but not a must.we give everyone a chance but like the other day we were ment to meet a lad who had zero vertifactions and he didn't show up xx"
You like to give everyone a chance? How haven't I seen you before, I am only a couple of miles away lol x |
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"They're not necessary but having some gives you more credibility.
Not to me they don't!
If at my ripe old age I'm unable to ascertain whether I fuck a stranger without the validation of another stranger, I shouldn't be let out alone. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Verifications. Almost like employment history. Some people won't take you on without proving your experience. It's catch 22.
How can you get verified if people won't meet non verified people x
Personally I prefer a verified profile but the content doesn't guarantee a good meet. I've had meets where I thought that's not what I was sold so to speak.
Some people meet and say will you verify me. I don't verify if it was a bad meet. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've only got one verification from a pretty hot girl I met but I decided not to see her again. Shows I'm genuine and that I turned up to the meet like arranged. That's all |
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