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"For the right situation with the right lady, no objection to paying but it would have to be the right situation. "What's a right situation? Lol | |||
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"I'd expect to share the cost, and I'd expect the same of a 'typical date' too. Although it's unlikely that would involve a hotel room "Lol. You never know. Dates are more sincerely and straight forward these days. | |||
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"The married or attached man should always pay." Lol. Who made this rule? At the end of the day, both parties want sexual satisfaction equally | |||
"I don't expect anyone to pay for a hotel room. I do expect someone who doesn't accommodate to read my profile and not contact me,as I don't either, and don't pay for hotel rooms, at the moment. I'm very polite in pointing this out, when asked if a hotel is acceptable. " Why don't you do hotels? | |||
"For the right situation with the right lady, no objection to paying but it would have to be the right situation.
What's a right situation? Lol"a fuck obviously  | |||
"I book them and I pay for them. Works for me "Me too... My room, my choice. | |||
"The married or attached man should always pay." Including the man of your couples profile? | |||
"There are more people here for casual encounters than for friendships. Both genders have sexual needs and both genders make advances on here. My question is this, for an hotel meet, who pays the bill? In a typical date, it's expected of the guy; but for swingers, is it any different? " The guy I meet, he pays the hotel and for anything else whilst were out. I'm happy to pay my way,but some guys are old fashioned and won't take money of a woman. | |||
"The married or attached man should always pay. Lol. Who made this rule? At the end of the day, both parties want sexual satisfaction equally" What crap... Halves in that situation surely | |||
"I don't expect anyone to pay for a hotel room. I do expect someone who doesn't accommodate to read my profile and not contact me,as I don't either, and don't pay for hotel rooms, at the moment. I'm very polite in pointing this out, when asked if a hotel is acceptable. " same as this for me! | |||
So, on here, the cost should be split half and half  | |||
"Things have changed in the dating scene but for a normal date I believe ladies still like to be pampered" | |||
"I don't expect anyone to pay for a hotel room. I do expect someone who doesn't accommodate to read my profile and not contact me,as I don't either, and don't pay for hotel rooms, at the moment. I'm very polite in pointing this out, when asked if a hotel is acceptable. Why don't you do hotels? " I don't pay for them. I have met men who accommodate in a hotel room; some prefer that as they don't want strangers in their homes. That's their choice and I respect that. | |||
For someone to expect for it to be paid is a bit rich 
I would anticipate that this might have come up in the conversation at some point prior to the meet | |||
"I book them and I pay for them. Works for me "I accept, you can be my exception that proves my rule!  | |||
"I book them and I pay for them. Works for me "I can accom | |||
"There are more people here for casual encounters than for friendships. Both genders have sexual needs and both genders make advances on here. My question is this, for an hotel meet, who pays the bill? In a typical date, it's expected of the guy; but for swingers, is it any different? The guy I meet, he pays the hotel and for anything else whilst were out. I'm happy to pay my way,but some guys are old fashioned and won't take money of a woman." The most embarrassing situations are when standing at a bar, arguing about who buys the first drink. I hate public scenes and it's like a big sign over our heads saying FIRST DATE. | |||
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"I book them and I pay for them. Works for me
I accept, you can be my exception that proves my rule! "Awww, I feel so special now | |||
"I book them and I pay for them. Works for me
I can accom "In 'anley tho' duck?  | |||
"Sometimes one pays for dinner, and the other for the room, swings and roundabouts
For someone to expect for it to be paid is a bit rich
I would anticipate that this might have come up in the conversation at some point prior to the meet "Some people flop things on you at the last minute. You agree to a drink then, when you get there, they want food, or say I'm buying dinner. | |||
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"There are more people here for casual encounters than for friendships. Both genders have sexual needs and both genders make advances on here. My question is this, for an hotel meet, who pays the bill? In a typical date, it's expected of the guy; but for swingers, is it any different? The guy I meet, he pays the hotel and for anything else whilst were out. I'm happy to pay my way,but some guys are old fashioned and won't take money of a woman." And if he ever stands you up, I'll welcome you in Leeds | |||
"I don't expect anyone to pay for a hotel room. I do expect someone who doesn't accommodate to read my profile and not contact me,as I don't either, and don't pay for hotel rooms, at the moment. I'm very polite in pointing this out, when asked if a hotel is acceptable. same as this for me!" I will have had sex 3 times this week by tomorrow. If that were 3 hotel rooms, it would become very costly for me. I like regular sex, preferably with the same men. | |||
"There are more people here for casual encounters than for friendships. Both genders have sexual needs and both genders make advances on here. My question is this, for an hotel meet, who pays the bill? In a typical date, it's expected of the guy; but for swingers, is it any different? The guy I meet, he pays the hotel and for anything else whilst were out. I'm happy to pay my way,but some guys are old fashioned and won't take money of a woman. And if he ever stands you up, I'll welcome you in Leeds "Thank you very much for the offer | |||
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"I don't expect anyone to pay for a hotel room. I do expect someone who doesn't accommodate to read my profile and not contact me,as I don't either, and don't pay for hotel rooms, at the moment. I'm very polite in pointing this out, when asked if a hotel is acceptable. same as this for me! I will have had sex 3 times this week by tomorrow. If that were 3 hotel rooms, it would become very costly for me. I like regular sex, preferably with the same men. " It doesn't make sense for regular encounters obviously. 3 times this week though someone has been disturbing the neighbours with load moaning. Lol | |||
"Id be more than happy to pay 50/50 for a modest hotel but I definitely wouldnt be booking it. I know Im not a timewaster, and having been let down before the guy can take the risk and book rather than me ( which isnt really a risk as I would turn up if I said I would ) xx " Why would anyone stand you up though? | |||
"There are more people here for casual encounters than for friendships. Both genders have sexual needs and both genders make advances on here. My question is this, for an hotel meet, who pays the bill? In a typical date, it's expected of the guy; but for swingers, is it any different? The guy I meet, he pays the hotel and for anything else whilst were out. I'm happy to pay my way,but some guys are old fashioned and won't take money of a woman. And if he ever stands you up, I'll welcome you in Leeds
Thank you very much for the offer"You are welcome | |||
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"I book them and I pay for them. Works for me
I accept, you can be my exception that proves my rule!
Awww, I feel so special now "I thought it might stop an embarrassing situation at the check out desk if we agree before hand! | |||
"A gentleman would never expect a lady to pay
So, on here, the cost should be split half and half "I see what you did there | |||
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"A gentleman would never expect a lady to pay
So, on here, the cost should be split half and half
I see what you did there "I'm glad someone did | |||
"A gentleman would never expect a lady to pay
So, on here, the cost should be split half and half
I see what you did there " | |||
"I book them and I pay for them. Works for me "My type of girl. | |||
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"I would say a 50/50 split is fair if a hotel room is needed. Thankfully having my own place this issue hasn't come up to many times. " It's different for people with kids | |||
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"it should be split - unless the person has the hotel booked already and invites you - then its their shout " We can split one in Bradford if you fancy a BBC MEET. | |||
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"The people who travel on business have the right idea. Their company pays "That's how I do it. | |||
"The people who travel on business have the right idea. Their company pays "yep best idea that let your company pay lol | |||
"The people who travel on business have the right idea. Their company pays "Lol. That works | |||
"The married or attached man should always pay." So if you two are married and I am single Pete pays then? Works for me. | |||
"I choose the hotel, book it, pay for it and I'm the only one who stays overnight...and I don't ask for a contribution. That way I host the meet and decide when the guy leaves. Works perfectly for me "The more I think about it the more I feel this is how I would want us to do it, for the reasons you state. We have our first hotel meet on Monday, it was initially going to be full play and at the social the guy generously offered to pay for the hotel. After the social we realised we would prefer to stick to soft play (which he was fine with, its our first MFM) so we got back to him and said that because we had moved the goalposts a bit we would take care of the hotel on this occasion, which he was ok with. Have to say we felt a lot more relaxed about things once we'd taken that decision to not just soft play but take care of the hotel too. Just feels like we have more control over proceedings. Mr | |||
"I choose the hotel, book it, pay for it and I'm the only one who stays overnight...and I don't ask for a contribution. That way I host the meet and decide when the guy leaves. Works perfectly for me
The more I think about it the more I feel this is how I would want us to do it, for the reasons you state.
We have our first hotel meet on Monday, it was initially going to be full play and at the social the guy generously offered to pay for the hotel. After the social we realised we would prefer to stick to soft play (which he was fine with, its our first MFM) so we got back to him and said that because we had moved the goalposts a bit we would take care of the hotel on this occasion, which he was ok with. Have to say we felt a lot more relaxed about things once we'd taken that decision to not just soft play but take care of the hotel too. Just feels like we have more control over proceedings.
Mr"What was it like seeing another guy touch your wife for the first time? | |||
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"Both if both earning. Highest earner if lower earner can't afford and they are both agreeable. The one who wanted a hotel meet if the other was willing to accommodate. The N.H.S if you can claim it as therapeutic sex. Your mum if you refuse to grow up. " I want an NHS sex meet. | |||
"The married or attached man should always pay." That's nice of you to say you'll pay | |||
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"Split the bill" Totally agree | |||
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"I don't expect anyone to pay for a hotel room. I do expect someone who doesn't accommodate to read my profile and not contact me,as I don't either, and don't pay for hotel rooms, at the moment. I'm very polite in pointing this out, when asked if a hotel is acceptable. same as this for me! I will have had sex 3 times this week by tomorrow. If that were 3 hotel rooms, it would become very costly for me. I like regular sex, preferably with the same men. It doesn't make sense for regular encounters obviously. 3 times this week though someone has been disturbing the neighbours with load moaning. Lol"Not my neighbours | |||
"I've paid for hotels and not stayed in them. I've paid for some and stayed in them. I've had meets where the other has paid for the hotel room. What im getting at I guess, who ever wants to pick up the bill really. " I've waltzed out of them and declared I won't be staying before | |||
"I've paid for hotels and not stayed in them. I've paid for some and stayed in them. I've had meets where the other has paid for the hotel room. What im getting at I guess, who ever wants to pick up the bill really. I've waltzed out of them and declared I won't be staying before "Really? Why? | |||
"I've paid for hotels and not stayed in them. I've paid for some and stayed in them. I've had meets where the other has paid for the hotel room. What im getting at I guess, who ever wants to pick up the bill really. I've waltzed out of them and declared I won't be staying before
Really? Why? "Didn't fancy sleeping on my own. Bed was a bit damp  | |||
"I've paid for hotels and not stayed in them. I've paid for some and stayed in them. I've had meets where the other has paid for the hotel room. What im getting at I guess, who ever wants to pick up the bill really. I've waltzed out of them and declared I won't be staying before
Really? Why?
Didn't fancy sleeping on my own. Bed was a bit damp " I like ruining beds | |||
"I've paid for hotels and not stayed in them. I've paid for some and stayed in them. I've had meets where the other has paid for the hotel room. What im getting at I guess, who ever wants to pick up the bill really. I've waltzed out of them and declared I won't be staying before
Really? Why?
Didn't fancy sleeping on my own. Bed was a bit damp
I like ruining beds "I like when there are two beds  | |||
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"I've paid for hotels and not stayed in them. I've paid for some and stayed in them. I've had meets where the other has paid for the hotel room. What im getting at I guess, who ever wants to pick up the bill really. I've waltzed out of them and declared I won't be staying before
Really? Why?
Didn't fancy sleeping on my own. Bed was a bit damp "Did you complain to the management about the damp | |||
"I've paid for hotels and not stayed in them. I've paid for some and stayed in them. I've had meets where the other has paid for the hotel room. What im getting at I guess, who ever wants to pick up the bill really. I've waltzed out of them and declared I won't be staying before
Really? Why?
Didn't fancy sleeping on my own. Bed was a bit damp "Can relate to this my last meet soaked the bed, I ended up on a slither of the bed the rest of the night | |||
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"I absolutely want to go halves whatever the costs of a meet - be they a hotel, and/or drinks, and/or club entry etc. It actually makes me feel empowered - and therefore more relaxed - if we're meeting as equals because there's no lingering doubt whatsoever regarding one party having any obligation towards the other because they've been subsidised in any way. It doesn't mean I don't appreciate the gesture when others try to be genuinely generous and I'm pretty sure those I've met aren't trying to do that as some sort of hold over me .... but sticking to paying my way means I simply don't have to think about any of that stuff and can just enjoy myself!" Well said | |||
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"I absolutely want to go halves whatever the costs of a meet - be they a hotel, and/or drinks, and/or club entry etc. It actually makes me feel empowered - and therefore more relaxed - if we're meeting as equals because there's no lingering doubt whatsoever regarding one party having any obligation towards the other because they've been subsidised in any way. It doesn't mean I don't appreciate the gesture when others try to be genuinely generous and I'm pretty sure those I've met aren't trying to do that as some sort of hold over me .... but sticking to paying my way means I simply don't have to think about any of that stuff and can just enjoy myself!" I refuse to let a guy pay for everything for several reasons, but I am sad that most of them are surprised when I pay my share. Its the 21st century - if women want to be treated as equals we should contribute equally. | |||
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"The cost of meet should be split evenly, taking consideration money spent travelling. Ie. If one person's transport costs are considerably less than the others that person should pay for the hotel. That's how I work it out when my train ticket is the cheapest anyway "Well said smoothie. | |||
"The cost of meet should be split evenly, taking consideration money spent travelling. Ie. If one person's transport costs are considerably less than the others that person should pay for the hotel. That's how I work it out when my train ticket is the cheapest anyway "Fuck that! | |||
"The cost of meet should be split evenly, taking consideration money spent travelling. Ie. If one person's transport costs are considerably less than the others that person should pay for the hotel. That's how I work it out when my train ticket is the cheapest anyway
Fuck that! "Seconded. I'd have had to pay out a fortune in petrol money and the room. I'd rather have a wank, and I don't wank | |||
"The cost of meet should be split evenly, taking consideration money spent travelling. Ie. If one person's transport costs are considerably less than the others that person should pay for the hotel. That's how I work it out when my train ticket is the cheapest anyway
Fuck that!
Seconded. I'd have had to pay out a fortune in petrol money and the room. I'd rather have a wank, and I don't wank "My car drinks petrol like it's going out of fashion. I'd have to let my meets pay for the room and i'd have to send them an invoice! #awkward! | |||
"The cost of meet should be split evenly, taking consideration money spent travelling. Ie. If one person's transport costs are considerably less than the others that person should pay for the hotel. That's how I work it out when my train ticket is the cheapest anyway
Fuck that!
Seconded. I'd have had to pay out a fortune in petrol money and the room. I'd rather have a wank, and I don't wank
My car drinks petrol like it's going out of fashion. I'd have to let my meets pay for the room and i'd have to send them an invoice! #awkward! "Should we add the cost of our fanny wax, lingerie, anal douche etc? It is all for them after all | |||
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"If I'm away with work then it's paid for anyway so I wouldn't expect anything. If we've arranged something ourselves then a 50/50 split always seems fair. " Agreed. If I needed the hotel anyway, I pay. If it's pre-arranged then it's fair to split. | |||
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"I choose the hotel, book it, pay for it and I'm the only one who stays overnight...and I don't ask for a contribution. That way I host the meet and decide when the guy leaves. Works perfectly for me
The more I think about it the more I feel this is how I would want us to do it, for the reasons you state.
We have our first hotel meet on Monday, it was initially going to be full play and at the social the guy generously offered to pay for the hotel. After the social we realised we would prefer to stick to soft play (which he was fine with, its our first MFM) so we got back to him and said that because we had moved the goalposts a bit we would take care of the hotel on this occasion, which he was ok with. Have to say we felt a lot more relaxed about things once we'd taken that decision to not just soft play but take care of the hotel too. Just feels like we have more control over proceedings.
Mr"Carlsberg don't do swinger meets, but if they did | |||
"As long it's not too expensive the guy should pay on first meet Split costs if it is a regular thing " agreed | |||
"The cost of meet should be split evenly, taking consideration money spent travelling. Ie. If one person's transport costs are considerably less than the others that person should pay for the hotel. That's how I work it out when my train ticket is the cheapest anyway
Fuck that! "Seemed fair to me at the time my train ticket was £20 or so. His was well over £60 I think so I paid for the room and we took in turns to buy drinks that evening so we spent about the same | |||
"The cost of meet should be split evenly, taking consideration money spent travelling. Ie. If one person's transport costs are considerably less than the others that person should pay for the hotel. That's how I work it out when my train ticket is the cheapest anyway
Fuck that!
Seemed fair to me at the time my train ticket was £20 or so. His was well over £60 I think so I paid for the room and we took in turns to buy drinks that evening so we spent about the same "Definitely seems fair! It's what I'd do! | |||
"Bistromathics itself is simply a revolutionary new way of understanding the behavior of numbers, Just as Einstein observed that space was not an absolute but depended on the observer's movement in space and that time was not an absolute, but depended on the observer's movement in time, so it is now realized that numbers am not absolute, but depend on the observer's movement in restaurants.
The first non absolute number is the number of people for whom the table is reserved. This will vary during the course of the first three telephone calls to the restaurant, and then bear no apparent relation to the number of people who actually turn up, or to the number of people who subsequently join them after the show/match/party/gig or to the number of people who leave when they see who else has turned up.
The second non absolute number is the given time of arrival, which is now known to be one of those most bizarre of mathematical concepts, a recipriversexcluson, a number whose existence can only be defined as being anything other than itself in other words, the given time of arrival is the one moment of time at which it is impossible that any member of the party will arrive. Recipriversexclusons now play a vital part in many branches of math, including statistics and accountancy and also form the basic equations used to engineer the Somebody Else's Problem field.
The third and most mysterious piece of non absoluteness of all lies in the relationship between the number of items on the check, the cost of each item, the number of people at the table and what they are each prepared to pay for (The number of people who actually brought money is only a sub phenomenon in this field.)
The baffling discrepancies that used to occur at this point remained un investigated for centuries simply because no one took them seriously. They were at the time put down to such things as politeness, rudeness, meanness, flashiness, tiredness, emotionality or the lateness of the hour, and completely forgoten about on the following morning. They were never tested under laboratory conditions, of course, because they never occurred in laboratories-not in reputable laboratories at least.
And so it was only with the advent of pocket computers that the startling truth became finally apparent, and it was this:
Numbers written on restaurant checks within the confines of restaurants do not follow the same mathematical laws as numbers written on any other pieces of paper in any other parts of the Universe.
This single statement took the scientific world by storm. It campietely revolutionized it. So many mathematical conferences got held in luch good restaurants that many of the finest minds of a generation died of obesity and heart-failure and the science of math was put backi by years.
Slowly, however; the implications of the idea began to be understood. To begin with it had been too stark, too crazy, too much like what the man in the street would have said "Oh, yes, I could have told you that."
Then some phrases like "Interactive Subjectivity Frameworks" were invented, and everybody was able to relax and get on with it.
The small groups of monks who had taken up hanging around the major research institutes singing strange chants to the effect that the Universe was only a figment of its own imagination were eventually given a street theater grant and went away." | |||
"There are more people here for casual encounters than for friendships. Both genders have sexual needs and both genders make advances on here. My question is this, for an hotel meet, who pays the bill? In a typical date, it's expected of the guy; but for swingers, is it any different? " Always half and half | |||
"It's all a bit like the following (from Hitch Hikers Guide to the Gangway)
"Bistromathics itself is simply a revolutionary new way of understanding the behavior of numbers, Just as Einstein observed that space was not an absolute but depended on the observer's movement in space and that time was not an absolute, but depended on the observer's movement in time, so it is now realized that numbers am not absolute, but depend on the observer's movement in restaurants.
The first non absolute number is the number of people for whom the table is reserved. This will vary during the course of the first three telephone calls to the restaurant, and then bear no apparent relation to the number of people who actually turn up, or to the number of people who subsequently join them after the show/match/party/gig or to the number of people who leave when they see who else has turned up.
The second non absolute number is the given time of arrival, which is now known to be one of those most bizarre of mathematical concepts, a recipriversexcluson, a number whose existence can only be defined as being anything other than itself in other words, the given time of arrival is the one moment of time at which it is impossible that any member of the party will arrive. Recipriversexclusons now play a vital part in many branches of math, including statistics and accountancy and also form the basic equations used to engineer the Somebody Else's Problem field.
The third and most mysterious piece of non absoluteness of all lies in the relationship between the number of items on the check, the cost of each item, the number of people at the table and what they are each prepared to pay for (The number of people who actually brought money is only a sub phenomenon in this field.)
The baffling discrepancies that used to occur at this point remained un investigated for centuries simply because no one took them seriously. They were at the time put down to such things as politeness, rudeness, meanness, flashiness, tiredness, emotionality or the lateness of the hour, and completely forgoten about on the following morning. They were never tested under laboratory conditions, of course, because they never occurred in laboratories-not in reputable laboratories at least.
And so it was only with the advent of pocket computers that the startling truth became finally apparent, and it was this:
Numbers written on restaurant checks within the confines of restaurants do not follow the same mathematical laws as numbers written on any other pieces of paper in any other parts of the Universe.
This single statement took the scientific world by storm. It campietely revolutionized it. So many mathematical conferences got held in luch good restaurants that many of the finest minds of a generation died of obesity and heart-failure and the science of math was put backi by years.
Slowly, however; the implications of the idea began to be understood. To begin with it had been too stark, too crazy, too much like what the man in the street would have said "Oh, yes, I could have told you that."
Then some phrases like "Interactive Subjectivity Frameworks" were invented, and everybody was able to relax and get on with it.
The small groups of monks who had taken up hanging around the major research institutes singing strange chants to the effect that the Universe was only a figment of its own imagination were eventually given a street theater grant and went away.""What the actual fuck?????  | |||
"It's all a bit like the following (from Hitch Hikers Guide to the Gangway)
"Bistromathics itself is simply a revolutionary new way of understanding the behavior of numbers, Just as Einstein observed that space was not an absolute but depended on the observer's movement in space and that time was not an absolute, but depended on the observer's movement in time, so it is now realized that numbers am not absolute, but depend on the observer's movement in restaurants.
The first non absolute number is the number of people for whom the table is reserved. This will vary during the course of the first three telephone calls to the restaurant, and then bear no apparent relation to the number of people who actually turn up, or to the number of people who subsequently join them after the show/match/party/gig or to the number of people who leave when they see who else has turned up.
The second non absolute number is the given time of arrival, which is now known to be one of those most bizarre of mathematical concepts, a recipriversexcluson, a number whose existence can only be defined as being anything other than itself in other words, the given time of arrival is the one moment of time at which it is impossible that any member of the party will arrive. Recipriversexclusons now play a vital part in many branches of math, including statistics and accountancy and also form the basic equations used to engineer the Somebody Else's Problem field.
The third and most mysterious piece of non absoluteness of all lies in the relationship between the number of items on the check, the cost of each item, the number of people at the table and what they are each prepared to pay for (The number of people who actually brought money is only a sub phenomenon in this field.)
The baffling discrepancies that used to occur at this point remained un investigated for centuries simply because no one took them seriously. They were at the time put down to such things as politeness, rudeness, meanness, flashiness, tiredness, emotionality or the lateness of the hour, and completely forgoten about on the following morning. They were never tested under laboratory conditions, of course, because they never occurred in laboratories-not in reputable laboratories at least.
And so it was only with the advent of pocket computers that the startling truth became finally apparent, and it was this:
Numbers written on restaurant checks within the confines of restaurants do not follow the same mathematical laws as numbers written on any other pieces of paper in any other parts of the Universe.
This single statement took the scientific world by storm. It campietely revolutionized it. So many mathematical conferences got held in luch good restaurants that many of the finest minds of a generation died of obesity and heart-failure and the science of math was put backi by years.
Slowly, however; the implications of the idea began to be understood. To begin with it had been too stark, too crazy, too much like what the man in the street would have said "Oh, yes, I could have told you that."
Then some phrases like "Interactive Subjectivity Frameworks" were invented, and everybody was able to relax and get on with it.
The small groups of monks who had taken up hanging around the major research institutes singing strange chants to the effect that the Universe was only a figment of its own imagination were eventually given a street theater grant and went away.""That statement lost me, but its still early in the morning I guess | |||
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"I've split it before now but I have also had it paid for me..... I'm paying for one this week - no idea if he's planning to split it or what?" I'm generally happy to pay for a room for us two, then have guests visit us for a few hours....then bugger off
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"What the actual fuck????? "Was thinking that maself | |||
"we only meet in hotels when we're staying there for the night anyway so wouldn't expect anyone to contribute to the cost of it..." | |||
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"I've split it before now but I have also had it paid for me..... I'm paying for one this week - no idea if he's planning to split it or what?" Better ask | |||
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"Work should, have a meet when away on business." my thinking Exactly! Just keep alll room service or drinks off your room and pay cash. | |||
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"Well I'm happy to accommodate at my flat,so if she wants a hotel she can pay for it! "Is that an offer to come over? | |||
"Well I'm happy to accommodate at my flat,so if she wants a hotel she can pay for it!
Is that an offer to come over?"Sure is....I'll even make you chicken fajitas.....if you buy the chicken....and fajitas! | |||
"Well I'm happy to accommodate at my flat,so if she wants a hotel she can pay for it!
Is that an offer to come over?
Sure is....I'll even make you chicken fajitas.....if you buy the chicken....and fajitas! "Funnily enough i bought chicken before.. and i love mexican food.. should I just do the cooking? | |||
"Well I'm happy to accommodate at my flat,so if she wants a hotel she can pay for it!
Is that an offer to come over?
Sure is....I'll even make you chicken fajitas.....if you buy the chicken....and fajitas!
Funnily enough i bought chicken before.. and i love mexican food.. should I just do the cooking? "I'm happy to cook for us....but if you insist! | |||
"Well I'm happy to accommodate at my flat,so if she wants a hotel she can pay for it!
Is that an offer to come over?
Sure is....I'll even make you chicken fajitas.....if you buy the chicken....and fajitas!
Funnily enough i bought chicken before.. and i love mexican food.. should I just do the cooking?
I'm happy to cook for us....but if you insist! "I'll know its done right then :p | |||
"Well I'm happy to accommodate at my flat,so if she wants a hotel she can pay for it!
Is that an offer to come over?
Sure is....I'll even make you chicken fajitas.....if you buy the chicken....and fajitas!
Funnily enough i bought chicken before.. and i love mexican food.. should I just do the cooking?
I'm happy to cook for us....but if you insist!
I'll know its done right then :p "Hey! I'll have you know I'm awesome at emptying packets into the frying pan!
Old El Paso fajitas from a box are amazing! You gotta have all the accoutrements though.....sour cream,jalapeños,salsa,guacamole,cheese,tomatos etc.....
Damn I'm hungry now! Hurry up will you | |||
"Well I'm happy to accommodate at my flat,so if she wants a hotel she can pay for it!
Is that an offer to come over?
Sure is....I'll even make you chicken fajitas.....if you buy the chicken....and fajitas!
Funnily enough i bought chicken before.. and i love mexican food.. should I just do the cooking?
I'm happy to cook for us....but if you insist!
I'll know its done right then :p
Hey! I'll have you know I'm awesome at emptying packets into the frying pan!
Old El Paso fajitas from a box are amazing! You gotta have all the accoutrements though.....sour cream,jalapeños,salsa,guacamole,cheese,tomatos etc.....
Damn I'm hungry now! Hurry up will you "Creme freche is actually better to use, guacamole yes i make an awesome one! I tend to get sweet peppers, onions and do them with the chicken in the spice mix and some mexican rice and refried beans in too | |||
"Well I'm happy to accommodate at my flat,so if she wants a hotel she can pay for it!
Is that an offer to come over?
Sure is....I'll even make you chicken fajitas.....if you buy the chicken....and fajitas!
Funnily enough i bought chicken before.. and i love mexican food.. should I just do the cooking?
I'm happy to cook for us....but if you insist!
I'll know its done right then :p
Hey! I'll have you know I'm awesome at emptying packets into the frying pan!
Old El Paso fajitas from a box are amazing! You gotta have all the accoutrements though.....sour cream,jalapeños,salsa,guacamole,cheese,tomatos etc.....
Damn I'm hungry now! Hurry up will you
Creme freche is actually better to use, guacamole yes i make an awesome one! I tend to get sweet peppers, onions and do them with the chicken in the spice mix and some mexican rice and refried beans in too "Oooft! *Drools everywhere* Sounds lush! | |||
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"Well I'm happy to accommodate at my flat,so if she wants a hotel she can pay for it!
Is that an offer to come over?
Sure is....I'll even make you chicken fajitas.....if you buy the chicken....and fajitas!
Funnily enough i bought chicken before.. and i love mexican food.. should I just do the cooking?
I'm happy to cook for us....but if you insist!
I'll know its done right then :p
Hey! I'll have you know I'm awesome at emptying packets into the frying pan!
Old El Paso fajitas from a box are amazing! You gotta have all the accoutrements though.....sour cream,jalapeños,salsa,guacamole,cheese,tomatos etc.....
Damn I'm hungry now! Hurry up will you
Creme freche is actually better to use, guacamole yes i make an awesome one! I tend to get sweet peppers, onions and do them with the chicken in the spice mix and some mexican rice and refried beans in too
Oooft! *Drools everywhere*
Sounds lush! "I'll get up as soon aa I get my little bungalow sorted and i can get back to work full time! | |||
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"I choose the hotel, book it, pay for it and I'm the only one who stays overnight...and I don't ask for a contribution. That way I host the meet and decide when the guy leaves. Works perfectly for me " | |||
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"I don't expect anyone to pay for a hotel room. I do expect someone who doesn't accommodate to read my profile and not contact me,as I don't either, and don't pay for hotel rooms, at the moment. I'm very polite in pointing this out, when asked if a hotel is acceptable. " Same here XXX | |||
"I ask my parents to pay "Lucky you | |||
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