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So, what do you do when you get stood up?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm going to get phenomenally d*unk. "
I've not had a meet off here yet, but I imagine try and make the best of a shitty situation by drowning ones sorrows.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It happened to me. I sat around and moped. Stupidly I gave them a second chance. That time I sat around really annoyed at myself! "
Yep. This happened to me too. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Watching the tv and perving on fab !!
That's not really an answer to the thread or any kind of valid contribution is it? "
Probably a better way of coping with being stood uo then getting hammrred |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Watching the tv and perving on fab !!
That's not really an answer to the thread or any kind of valid contribution is it? "
I thought it was a decent answer !
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Watching the tv and perving on fab !!
That's not really an answer to the thread or any kind of valid contribution is it?
I thought it was a decent answer !
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I was just assuming that was a normal night in for them. Anyway booze and the G app often lead to fun.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Watching the tv and perving on fab !!
That's not really an answer to the thread or any kind of valid contribution is it? "
Seems pretty valid to me.
I'd either find someone else to meet, or indulge at home with fab/netflix/chocolate etc |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I have a plan for when that day happens and it involves fucking a friend who is near and eating lots of ramen after."
Does somewhere here do ramen noodles as take out?!?! |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
Scotland - Aberdeen |
Post new pics about what they have missed lol 
Never had the opportunity though as 1 went unlost and the 3 others I had a inkling about so never bothered getting ready in the first and they never got a second chance either  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I have a plan for when that day happens and it involves fucking a friend who is near and eating lots of ramen after.
So you get them to ramen it in? "
This is no joke if I'm missing out on a Japanese take away! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Being stood up pissed me off, especially as he was a regular meet and had stood me up for a better offer! He made out he was stuck at work a few hours later displayed a new veri lol obviously he's not a regular meet any more  |
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"Being stood up pissed me off, especially as he was a regular meet and had stood me up for a better offer! He made out he was stuck at work a few hours later displayed a new veri lol obviously he's not a regular meet any more "
That would fuck me off |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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"I have a plan for when that day happens and it involves fucking a friend who is near and eating lots of ramen after.
So you get them to ramen it in?
This is no joke if I'm missing out on a Japanese take away! "
Yeah, it begins with a M and is a typical Japanese seasoning
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Being stood up pissed me off, especially as he was a regular meet and had stood me up for a better offer! He made out he was stuck at work a few hours later displayed a new veri lol obviously he's not a regular meet any more
That would fuck me off "
He's wanted to meet since, I haven't and wouldn't ......... but yeah I was really fucked off  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I remember being stood up at a hotel meet a few years ago ( when I was on business working away ) ! Luckily I had someone in the wings so to speak and he stepped into the breach ( I didnt tell him Id been stood up lol ) I did feel a bit guilty -but he had a good time ....I think lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I have a plan for when that day happens and it involves fucking a friend who is near and eating lots of ramen after.
So you get them to ramen it in?
This is no joke if I'm missing out on a Japanese take away!
Yeah, it begins with a M and is a typical Japanese seasoning
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Miso found it. It's in stoke town  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Browse through fab - there's always someone else wanting to pounce  "
This.
Stood up once. Within twenty minutes I had a beautiful black gym bunny in my room  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Never been stood up but that's probably cause I've only had one meet from fabs lol.
What's worse is when they turn up and you don't fancy them! Jesus that's awkward! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Kick off! The last and only time I was stood up was the first day of the Wales game in the World Cup and he was supposed to be coming to my house. I bought and cooked sticky chicken skewers from Iceland, wedges, garlic bread, pizza and got some of those frozen woo woo cocktails. I waited, I waited, I messaged, I rang and rang and messaged, this went on to the early hours cos I couldn't sleep cos I felt so pissed off. He rang the next day and apologised even though I'd said in a message I was gonna drive to his house and kick his head in. I did meet him the next weekend and decided I didn't fancy him in person anyway so was a fuss over nothing really!
Moral of the story I don't think I take it too well if I'm ever stood up! |
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"Kick off! The last and only time I was stood up was the first day of the Wales game in the World Cup and he was supposed to be coming to my house. I bought and cooked sticky chicken skewers from Iceland, wedges, garlic bread, pizza and got some of those frozen woo woo cocktails. I waited, I waited, I messaged, I rang and rang and messaged, this went on to the early hours cos I couldn't sleep cos I felt so pissed off. He rang the next day and apologised even though I'd said in a message I was gonna drive to his house and kick his head in. I did meet him the next weekend and decided I didn't fancy him in person anyway so was a fuss over nothing really!
Moral of the story I don't think I take it too well if I'm ever stood up! "
It does makes you feel shit and a message takes two seconds.
The first bloke who left me hanging around a hotel in a dress encountered my inner psycho  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"let you know when it happens..
Adam
Big heads
haha yeah sorry that did come across big headed.. we've been lucky, we've only met two couples so far.
But we are venturing into single males, so I'm sure we'll soon learn the hard way 
sorry 
Adam."
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By *cott89Man
over a year ago
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"Kick off! The last and only time I was stood up was the first day of the Wales game in the World Cup and he was supposed to be coming to my house. I bought and cooked sticky chicken skewers from Iceland, wedges, garlic bread, pizza and got some of those frozen woo woo cocktails. I waited, I waited, I messaged, I rang and rang and messaged, this went on to the early hours cos I couldn't sleep cos I felt so pissed off. He rang the next day and apologised even though I'd said in a message I was gonna drive to his house and kick his head in. I did meet him the next weekend and decided I didn't fancy him in person anyway so was a fuss over nothing really!
Moral of the story I don't think I take it
too well if I'm ever stood up! "
no one should stand up an empress x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Go on fab, and ask other members what they do, when they have been stood up "
Well I couldn't play a race card.
Unless the Bi card counts?
Ooooooooooooooooooh nauuuuuuuughty step! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Always have a back up... a plan B... times too precious to waste moping...
Met the best fuck ive ever had on the back of being stood up....
Another time I rang into work and picked up the hours i would have lost moping and feeling sorry for myself... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Actually I'm partly tempted to arrange to meet a load of fab curious out of my mail and send them all over stoke. But I'm not like that.
I am however now going to go and have sex with this chap off Grindr.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"let you know when it happens..
Adam
Big heads
haha yeah sorry that did come across big headed.. we've been lucky, we've only met two couples so far.
But we are venturing into single males, so I'm sure we'll soon learn the hard way
sorry
Adam."
I'm only winding you up I know you aren't
Actually just realised I've technically never been stood up as it's always been at least a few hours notice to say they aren't coming |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Go on fab, and ask other members what they do, when they have been stood up
Well I couldn't play a race card.
Unless the Bi card counts?
Ooooooooooooooooooh nauuuuuuuughty step! "
Unfortunately not |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Cup of tea and a good twenty minutes of swearing works on Planet Heels. Sadly life will always throw up knob jockeys. Big Girl Pants and a brave smile fools most people. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"As it happened tonight I can speak from experience ...
Feel sorry for yourself and watch some really bad tv whilst eating chocolate  "
Fucking moron, doesn't know what he's missing. You're a catch, it's his loss. I would fuck you again in a heartbeat |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"As it happened tonight I can speak from experience ...
Feel sorry for yourself and watch some really bad tv whilst eating chocolate
Fucking moron, doesn't know what he's missing. You're a catch, it's his loss. I would fuck you again in a heartbeat "
Whoopsie that was meant to be a private reply |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It happened to me. I sat around and moped. Stupidly I gave them a second chance. That time I sat around really annoyed at myself! "
Hmm...you do pick em...
Wouldn't have happened with me - standing you up that is... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It happened to me. I sat around and moped. Stupidly I gave them a second chance. That time I sat around really annoyed at myself!
Hmm...you do pick em...
Wouldn't have happened with me - standing you up that is... "
You could have watched the football...that was entertaining!! |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum |
If I'm in a hotel, I crank up 'Who's Near' and get another meet. If in the home town, I come home, report him, block him, and come on here to remind myself there are nice people out there. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"As it happened tonight I can speak from experience ...
Feel sorry for yourself and watch some really bad tv whilst eating chocolate
Fucking moron, doesn't know what he's missing. You're a catch, it's his loss. I would fuck you again in a heartbeat
Whoopsie that was meant to be a private reply "
Ooooops
Quick let's move on...
@MzQT - I can't believe how someone who had the chance to meet you messed it up! Please don't be too upset it is his loss and you will find another suitable playmate. |
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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago
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Only happened the once so far & was someone we'd played with a couple of times previously so wasn't expected. Even though we were at a club & possibly could have got a replacement we didn't want our foul moods to influence what others might think of us so went home & took it our on each other with rough dirty sex.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"let you know when it happens..
Adam
Big heads
haha yeah sorry that did come across big headed.. we've been lucky, we've only met two couples so far.
But we are venturing into single males, so I'm sure we'll soon learn the hard way
sorry
Adam.
I'm only winding you up I know you aren't
Actually just realised I've technically never been stood up as it's always been at least a few hours notice to say they aren't coming "
Adam don't worry about this cheeky couple. They love to multi task
I know soo many people have been stood up and hear the stories all the time. This thread proves it happens to some of the most popular fabbers.
I have never been stood up in the whole time I have been on here for over 2 years. It just worked out like that and maybe my luck will run out one day 
I also have never let anyone down when I agreed to meet them |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Annnnnnnd back to Netflix and my drink, feeling like a total tart, which is good.
And I know the guy who stood me up mined details from me off the forum |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not had it happen yet thankfully but I don't think I would take it too well
What would you do if you got stood up?
She would probably call me "
Always good to have a backup plan just incase |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"As it happened tonight I can speak from experience ...
Feel sorry for yourself and watch some really bad tv whilst eating chocolate
Fucking moron, doesn't know what he's missing. You're a catch, it's his loss. I would fuck you again in a heartbeat
Whoopsie that was meant to be a private reply
Ooooops
Quick let's move on...
@MzQT - I can't believe how someone who had the chance to meet you messed it up! Please don't be too upset it is his loss and you will find another suitable playmate."
No words  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"As it happened tonight I can speak from experience ...
Feel sorry for yourself and watch some really bad tv whilst eating chocolate
Fucking moron, doesn't know what he's missing. You're a catch, it's his loss. I would fuck you again in a heartbeat
Whoopsie that was meant to be a private reply
Ooooops
Quick let's move on...
@MzQT - I can't believe how someone who had the chance to meet you messed it up! Please don't be too upset it is his loss and you will find another suitable playmate.
No words "
I now know the deffination of that white knight thingy |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I'm going to get phenomenally d*unk.
Did you? Did it make it easier to swallow? "
I did get a bit tipsy and had sex with some one off Grindr. Then I got pissed and watched a bad horror film. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not had it happen yet thankfully but I don't think I would take it too well
What would you do if you got stood up?
She would probably call me
Always good to have a backup plan just incase "
Unfortunately most switched on Fab ladies can spot when they're being used as a backup plan a mile away, and the best ones don't stand for that bullshit |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not had it happen yet thankfully but I don't think I would take it too well
What would you do if you got stood up?
She would probably call me
Always good to have a backup plan just incase
Unfortunately most switched on Fab ladies can spot when they're being used as a backup plan a mile away, and the best ones don't stand for that bullshit "
I agree and the same applies to men. I don't think anyone really is used as a backup plan or have you tried?
You missed the point of the posts you quoted...
It was a joke |
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