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Ladies, have you ever been turned down on here

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

When you've asked someone for sex?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Was told i had too much tattoo!!!ud think my username would have given them a clue

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Only if they weren't free when I asked.

But I don't ask until I'm sure it's a yes from us and then.

I have sent messages that weren't replied to.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

Well I've never actually asked anyone for sex on here that I recall so no

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

No. Except for one joking message I sent, after a discussion on here about women sending fancy a fuck messages. I chose someone I thought had integrity, and would probably turn me down. And he did, very politely

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I just answered this on the other thread. Yes, I have been turned down a few times. I'm neither hurt nor surprised - I never thought all guys on here were mine for the choosing simply because I have a vagina.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I just answered this on the other thread. Yes, I have been turned down a few times. I'm neither hurt nor surprised - I never thought all guys on here were mine for the choosing simply because I have a vagina."

I saw this question asked on the other thread and thought it was a good question

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yeah I've been turned down, just like I've turned people down! Everyone has they're own type/preference, obviously we're not going to be everyone's choice

I've also been stood up, more than once! That p!sses me off, why arrange to meet someone then stitch them up

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I've never asked

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Was told i had too much tattoo!!!ud think my username would have given them a clue

A woman can never have too many tattoos! Ever!

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By *ancs MinxWoman over a year ago

Burnley

"Well I've never actually asked anyone for sex on here that I recall so no

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yes. Of course. Had a meet with a couple.

They found some one else x

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By *gnitemybodyWoman over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

I need to start asking people for sex rather than someone asking me,I think I'd be naffed off if everyone said no though

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By *gnitemybodyWoman over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

"I need to start asking people for sex rather than someone asking me,I think I'd be naffed off if everyone said no though

Nar ignore that it's a crap idea!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

You may be surprised how many others feel otherwise

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By *un and Friendly FellaMan over a year ago

York

"Yes. Of course. Had a meet with a couple.

They found some one else x "

Some people need to have a word with themselves...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

No of course not

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I need to start asking people for sex rather than someone asking me,I think I'd be naffed off if everyone said no though

Nar ignore that it's a crap idea!"

I agree it is a crap idea!

So ignored

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I need to start asking people for sex rather than someone asking me,I think I'd be naffed off if everyone said no though

Would you know you wanted sex with someone just by looking at the profile?

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By *yrdwomanWoman over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

Blimey, I get turned down all the time.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yes, of course.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

"I need to start asking people for sex rather than someone asking me,I think I'd be naffed off if everyone said no though

Nar ignore that it's a crap idea!

I agree it is a crap idea!

So ignored

I'm full of crap idea's Adam

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By *gnitemybodyWoman over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

"I need to start asking people for sex rather than someone asking me,I think I'd be naffed off if everyone said no though

Would you know you wanted sex with someone just by looking at the profile?"

To a certain degree yes,if I don't find them attractive then I know I don't want sex with them. Don't ask me any complicated question's today I'm as horny as hell and can't think straight!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I've never asked

but I'm sure I would get turned down if I asked all the men I fancied for it

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By *eady and Willing 9Man over a year ago

Wherever the party is @

"Was told i had too much tattoo!!!ud think my username would have given them a clue

Not necercerially..i looked at a profile which mentioned tattoos and she didn't have one lol

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By *he girl with dreadlocksWoman over a year ago

need to know basis in Wolverhampton

I only ask if I'm pretty certain it's gonna be a yes.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I need to start asking people for sex rather than someone asking me,I think I'd be naffed off if everyone said no though

Nar ignore that it's a crap idea!

I agree it is a crap idea!

So ignored

I'm full of crap idea's Adam"

That is not true so I disagree!

I was reading your forum posts long before you knew I was. And you know I mentioned a few times you make sense to me.

Anyway that is in the past!

The present...

You feel like a horny devil

today...

I am not going to even attempt to tease you or ask complicated questions so as you were.

Well why I am here I suppose you could let me know I mean everyone in the thread know just how horny are you?

Prehaps on a scale 1-10?

10 being you would fuck a headless suit...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yes I have, people like to make assumptions.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

Not as yet

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

I've never asked.

I'm not too shy to it's just that offers have always been there.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

I was reading your forum posts long before you knew I was. And you know I mentioned a few times you make sense to me.

Anyway that is in the past!

The present...

You feel like a horny devil

today...

I am not going to even attempt to tease you or ask complicated questions so as you were.

Well why I am here I suppose you could let me know I mean everyone in the thread know just how horny are you?

Prehaps on a scale 1-10?

10 being you would fuck a headless suit...

Definitely a 10 and surprisingly I would Adam so it's probably just as well you're not local. Tomorrow I may be back to normal and require a face pic

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By *uxom redCouple over a year ago

Shrewsbury

If the person going unlos after asking yes

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Yes. Of course. Had a meet with a couple.

They found some one else x

Some people need to have a word with themselves..."

People are people. Can't be offended. Didn't know them. X

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By *un and Friendly FellaMan over a year ago

York

"Yes. Of course. Had a meet with a couple.

They found some one else x

Some people need to have a word with themselves...

People are people. Can't be offended. Didn't know them. X "

Ahhh well, looking at you it's their loss eh

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yeah. I guess so. I was asked if I was flirting, to which I admitted I was and was it reciprocated. It wasn't. Lol

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By *ink Panther.Woman over a year ago

Preston

You may be surprised how many others feel otherwise

The platinum pussy brigade

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By *appy squirrelWoman over a year ago

Norwich

unread messages, blocked after face pic, a polite no... all of them. and to be honest I am glad of it- tells me that not everyone would fuck everyone. I would feel bad if someone would just give me a pitty fuck or because he couldn't find anyone else at the time!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I didn't ask directly but yes was turned down. Sometimes it's a good thing x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Well while I am here I suppose you could let me know I mean everyone in the thread know just how horny are you?

Prehaps on a scale 1-10?

10 being you would fuck a headless suit...

Definitely a 10 and surprisingly I would Adam so it's probably just as well you're not local. Tomorrow I may be back to normal and require a face pic

Oh fuck that just back fired on my headless body because now I am horny as fuck knowing you would have

Wait...

Did I just get semi-rejected in a live public forum.

Oooops

Soo close and yet soo far!

Never say never!

Hmmm hmpf horny horny horny !!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Yes. Of course. Had a meet with a couple.

They found some one else x

Some people need to have a word with themselves...

People are people. Can't be offended. Didn't know them. X

Ahhh well, looking at you it's their loss eh

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

At the swapping photo stage I was turned down once. ..he said he preferred blondes; but I think he was trying to say I looked like a pig but was being polite about it ...regarding me mailing someone firstly for sex I don't so it's a no

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By *ink Panther.Woman over a year ago

Preston

I'm interested to understand the circumstances surrounding you ladies being told no. Did you initiate the messaging? What was it that made the guy say no? Has a guy said no when he's initiated the messaging?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I never initiate the messaging.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I did today lol

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By *igeiaWoman over a year ago

Bristol

Yes. And it's always been politely. Good on them.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'm interested to understand the circumstances surrounding you ladies being told no. Did you initiate the messaging? What was it that made the guy say no? Has a guy said no when he's initiated the messaging?

hmmm...

I've had guys say no for various reasons including: they only play with couples when the guy watches (no MFM - the most common reason for rejection for me), they are busy when we are going to be in their area (probably just a polite way of saying they aren't interested), simply not replying.

I've never been rejected by a guy who messaged us first, though - not that I can remember, anyway.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yep, swapped face pics with someone in the same town who said I wasn't his type, which is cool.

He then messaged me a few days later asking to meet as he was round the corner and said he 'wasn't feeling right' when he said I wasn't his type....

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By *ink Panther.Woman over a year ago

Preston

"I did today lol

You and your thread have a lot to answer for lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I did today lol

You and your thread have a lot to answer for lol"

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I've never been rejected by a guy who messaged us first, though - not that I can remember, anyway."

Don't mind me...

Interesting, making personal note for future reference.

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman over a year ago

your imagination

Never had to do the asking...

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By *gnitemybodyWoman over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

10 being you would fuck a headless suit...

Definitely a 10 and surprisingly I would Adam so it's probably just as well you're not local. Tomorrow I may be back to normal and require a face pic

Oh fuck that just back fired on my headless body because now I am horny as fuck knowing you would have

Wait...

Did I just get semi-rejected in a live public forum.

Oooops

Soo close and yet soo far!

Never say never!

Hmmm hmpf horny horny horny !!"

I think you're the only person I've spoken to that won't give out a face pic or maybe that's just to me I don't know,but I can't meet a headless suit Adam

(probably!)

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yep.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I've never been rejected by a guy who messaged us first, though - not that I can remember, anyway.

Don't mind me...

Interesting, making personal note for future reference."

Should I be scared? Your personal notes scare me

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I think you're the only person I've spoken to that won't give out a face pic or maybe that's just to me I don't know, but I can't meet a headless suit Adam

(probably!)"

Hold on allow me to dissect this...

You are soo fucking horny that you can't figure out if you can't meet me or won't or maybe or probably will ha!

Confused . com

And ffs...

I thought I was your number 1? Exactly how many people are sending you face pics on here?

I need facts... no I want facts please!

This is getting worse and worse. Have you ever considered my feelings? What if I am really headless and if I sent you a face pic it would just be empty space...

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By *iss.HoneyWoman over a year ago

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Yep. Turned down and let down.

I had a wank and bought clothes instead

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

MsV, Fancy a snog. ??

"Yep."

FIFY.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

"I think you're the only person I've spoken to that won't give out a face pic or maybe that's just to me I don't know, but I can't meet a headless suit Adam

(probably!)

Hold on allow me to dissect this...

You are soo fucking horny that you can't figure out if you can't meet me or won't or maybe or probably will ha!

Confused . com

And ffs...

I thought I was your number 1? Exactly how many people are sending you face pics on here?

I need facts... no I want facts please!

This is getting worse and worse. Have you ever considered my feelings? What if I am really headless and if I sent you a face pic it would just be empty space...

No-one with an empty space for a head has that much to say Adam

. If you were around the corner and it wasn't for the fact it's the school holidays I probably would have today trust me,but tomorrow when my libido will have returned to it's usual self then we're back onto the face pic and being sensible

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"MsV, Fancy a snog. ??

Yep.

FIFY.

Bless you Misterbee, bless you

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By *ady LickWoman over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

I rarely ask guys for sex, maybe that's where I'm going wrong!!!!

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By *iss.HoneyWoman over a year ago

...

"I rarely ask guys for sex, maybe that's where I'm going wrong!!!! "

Don't bother.

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By *ink Panther.Woman over a year ago

Preston

"Yep. Turned down and let down.

I had a wank and bought clothes instead

Seriously?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I've never been rejected by a guy who messaged us first, though - not that I can remember, anyway.

Don't mind me...

Interesting, making personal note for future reference.

Should I be scared? Your personal notes scare me

I had to use the old pen and paper method for this note because I can't access the online notes section.

FYI - You are still the only profile that I have notes on.

No need to be scared. Think of it as exciting research

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By *iss.HoneyWoman over a year ago

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"Yep. Turned down and let down.

I had a wank and bought clothes instead

Seriously?

I know right?! I mean have they seen me? Sexy as fuck

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By *ink Panther.Woman over a year ago

Preston

"Yep. Turned down and let down.

I had a wank and bought clothes instead

Seriously?

I know right?! I mean have they seen me? Sexy as fuck

Hey I'm not bi and I wouldn't say no

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"MsV, Fancy a snog. ??

Yep.

FIFY.

Bless you Misterbee, bless you

Anytime.

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By *ystical_InkedBBWWoman over a year ago

somewhere in the Shire of Derby

Lol I've had the same said about me. They said a woman should be how nature intended, my reply was 'I am,I'm full of colour'

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By *sGivesWoodWoman over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"MsV, Fancy a snog. ??

Yep.

FIFY.

Bless you Misterbee, bless you

Anytime.

Mmmm i wouldn't turn you down...

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By *he Original TTMan over a year ago

Brackley, Northants

"I rarely ask guys for sex, maybe that's where I'm going wrong!!!! "

If you drape yourself over the back of the sofa like your profile pic when they arrive, you won't need to ask at all...!!! Lol!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I've been turned down before we even got to discussing sex.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

This thread made me laugh, women getting turned down. Surely not ??

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"No-one with an empty space for a head has that much to say Adam

Hey I am always sensible and I do trust you

People do often say I have the gift of the gab...

There is another thing, which I have no clue how people come to this conclusion when they see me:

'I have a trustable face'

How and why? I wonder if other people have been told that before...

I shall keep a close eye on your libido... because when it peaks again in 4 years time... bam I will be in East Midlands before you can blink

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

A guy asked to meet me and unbeknown to me while i was getting ready he found (in hes words) a meet who was closer to him as i was taken to long (30) mins to get ready.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I've sent a few winks, they looked at my profile and then... silence

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yep the main reason being I'm too fat. It's life, you're never going to be to everyone's preference. When I first joined I wasn't expecting to find anyone that would want to meet me, so I'm doing better than I thought anyway

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"MsV, Fancy a snog. ??

Yep.

FIFY.

Bless you Misterbee, bless you

Anytime.

Mmmm i wouldn't turn you down..."

If that's directed at me,...I actually have it in black and white as proof.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Yep the main reason being I'm too fat. It's life, you're never going to be to everyone's preference. When I first joined I wasn't expecting to find anyone that would want to meet me, so I'm doing better than I thought anyway

High five Sistah!

Although, you are definitely not fat.

I just totally white knighted you!

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By *sGivesWoodWoman over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"MsV, Fancy a snog. ??

Yep.

FIFY.

Bless you Misterbee, bless you

Anytime.

Mmmm i wouldn't turn you down...

If that's directed at me,...I actually have it in black and white as proof.

It was

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Who ever that was that said you were fat, he is a complete tool !!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I've sent a few winks, they looked at my profile and then... silence

I'd totally do you if i were a bloke

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

He could not see past all the junk in your trunk...

If only he knew what you could do with love handles

You have curves in all the right places Bella. His loss!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

High five Sistah!

Although, you are definitely not fat.

I just totally white knighted you! "

You're the cutest white knight I ever did see

But to men that prefer women with athletic/slim builds I am fat and that's fine with me

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"MsV, Fancy a snog. ??

Yep.

FIFY.

Bless you Misterbee, bless you

Anytime.

Mmmm i wouldn't turn you down...

If that's directed at me,...I actually have it in black and white as proof.

Don't mind me....*siddles out of the way*

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

He could not see past all the junk in your trunk...

If only he knew what you could do with love handles

You have curves in all the right places Bella. His loss!"

You read the profile

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I've sent a few winks, they looked at my profile and then... silence

I'd totally do you if i were a bloke

Right back at you. You're my main girl crush...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

You scrub up alright

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Never asked anyone on my own and when chatting never been knocked back but some guys do disappear if don't answer quick enough.

As a couple we were rejected quite a few times.

You learn not to take offence x

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By *ornylady71Woman over a year ago

near Bury

"Was told i had too much tattoo!!!ud think my username would have given them a clue

Sorry but it made me laugh

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By *aptain VMan over a year ago

Birstall, Leicester

"When you've asked someone for sex?

Hahah you have copied my post lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

High five Sistah!

Although, you are definitely not fat.

I just totally white knighted you!

You're the cutest white knight I ever did see

But to men that prefer women with athletic/slim builds I am fat and that's fine with me

Oh, me too! I'm an athletic eater, that's about it!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

High five Sistah!

Although, you are definitely not fat.

I just totally white knighted you!

You're the cutest white knight I ever did see

But to men that prefer women with athletic/slim builds I am fat and that's fine with me

Oh, me too! I'm an athletic eater, that's about it! "

Me too, all you can eat challenge?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Hi peeps, off the subject question, is there forums on here that are done on areas. It's great talking on here and chatting to you all but it's nice to get chatting to someone more local? Any help , much appreciated ??

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By *aptain VMan over a year ago

Birstall, Leicester

"I've sent a few winks, they looked at my profile and then... silence

For some reason ive stopped getting winks from ladies on here. Not sure why

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By *carlettxWoman over a year ago

Essex

Not actually on here messaging anyone but was recently stood up after booking a hotel

I was probably too much for him anyway Haha

(Said that very much tongue in cheek)

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By *ink Panther.Woman over a year ago

Preston

"Hi peeps, off the subject question, is there forums on here that are done on areas. It's great talking on here and chatting to you all but it's nice to get chatting to someone more local? Any help , much appreciated ??"

Start a thread

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By *aptain VMan over a year ago

Birstall, Leicester

"Not actually on here messaging anyone but was recently stood up after booking a hotel

I was probably too much for him anyway Haha

(Said that very much tongue in cheek) "

Wow his loss then. I would have been round in a flash

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"MsV, Fancy a snog. ??

Yep.

FIFY.

Bless you Misterbee, bless you

Anytime.

Mmmm i wouldn't turn you down...

If that's directed at me,...I actually have it in black and white as proof.

Don't mind me....* siddles out of the way*

Is 'siddles' a Welsh name for you knickers?

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By *ikeC81Man over a year ago

harrow

Wow I think I have been asked for sex like twice ever

So for me I don't tend to ask which people might find strange.

I tend to play everything by ear

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

High five Sistah!

Although, you are definitely not fat.

I just totally white knighted you!

You're the cutest white knight I ever did see

But to men that prefer women with athletic/slim builds I am fat and that's fine with me

Oh, me too! I'm an athletic eater, that's about it!

Me too, all you can eat challenge?

You say all the right things!

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By *gnitemybodyWoman over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

I shall keep a close eye on your libido... because when it peaks again in 4 years time... bam I will be in East Midlands before you can blink

I'm 50 in August so it won't be happening again,I've peaked!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yeah they weree'nt free when I asked.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

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By *axandbooCouple over a year ago

Bristol

Yep...even though we spend 1 weekend in 4 in their neck of the woods with friends

Oh well, their loss not mine

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By *eliWoman over a year ago

Erm. I've not actually asked anyone for sex on here... so no. But a man did turn me down after talking to me and I suggested we had that drink so I guess that counts?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Erm. I've not actually asked anyone for sex on here... so no. But a man did turn me down after talking to me and I suggested we had that drink so I guess that counts? "

Did he have a Labrador?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yes by a man who wasn't available when we were. It was very disappointing.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Erm. I've not actually asked anyone for sex on here... so no. But a man did turn me down after talking to me and I suggested we had that drink so I guess that counts? "

Only once I messaged a guy who had a meet request up looong time ago from a previous profile he declined as I wasn't verified at the time , once I was verified he messaged to ask was I still interested ...... I wasn't

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I shall keep a close eye on your libido... because when it peaks again in 4 years time... bam I will be in East Midlands before you can blink

I'm 50 in August so it won't be happening again,I've peaked!

You look amazing

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I shall keep a close eye on your libido... because when it peaks again in 4 years time... bam I will be in East Midlands before you can blink

I'm 50 in August so it won't be happening again,I've peaked!

Oh fuck I got the *giggles* reading that.

Oh shit breathe Adam! Phew!

Right, 50 in August... I will still be 34 so we getting it on

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By *eliWoman over a year ago

"Erm. I've not actually asked anyone for sex on here... so no. But a man did turn me down after talking to me and I suggested we had that drink so I guess that counts?

Did he have a Labrador?

Erm, I don't get it. Sorry!

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By *ackhammer87Man over a year ago

Walsall

"Erm. I've not actually asked anyone for sex on here... so no. But a man did turn me down after talking to me and I suggested we had that drink so I guess that counts?

Did he have a Labrador?

Erm, I don't get it. Sorry!

Mmmm no one could turn that sexy bum down xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Erm. I've not actually asked anyone for sex on here... so no. But a man did turn me down after talking to me and I suggested we had that drink so I guess that counts?

Did he have a Labrador?

Erm, I don't get it. Sorry!

I presume he must be "blind".

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Erm. I've not actually asked anyone for sex on here... so no. But a man did turn me down after talking to me and I suggested we had that drink so I guess that counts?

Did he have a Labrador?

Erm, I don't get it. Sorry!

I presume he must be "blind"."

Was thinking the same

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By *ingle Beds LassWoman over a year ago

Bedfordshire

High five Sistah!

Although, you are definitely not fat.

I just totally white knighted you! "

I wanna be white knighted!!!!

Psssst whats white knighted???

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By *carlettxWoman over a year ago

Essex

"Not actually on here messaging anyone but was recently stood up after booking a hotel

I was probably too much for him anyway Haha

(Said that very much tongue in cheek)

Wow his loss then. I would have been round in a flash "

I was more pissed about the hotel going to waste lol ... will just add there's no second chance looool

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By *gnitemybodyWoman over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

I shall keep a close eye on your libido... because when it peaks again in 4 years time... bam I will be in East Midlands before you can blink

I'm 50 in August so it won't be happening again,I've peaked!

You look amazing"

I don't,but thankyou!

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By *a Fee VerteWoman over a year ago

Limbo

I'm usually too much of a coward to ask directly for sex so haven't been out and out rejected but have had a fair number of 'promising' conversations fizzle away into nothing which I guess amounts to the same thing ... and that's fine, obviously, I've started to talk to people and later found they weren't as attractive as I first thought too. It'd be incredibly arrogant to get upset at being rejected here because none of us can be all things to all people.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I shall keep a close eye on your libido... because when it peaks again in 4 years time... bam I will be in East Midlands before you can blink

I'm 50 in August so it won't be happening again,I've peaked!

You look amazing

I don't,but thankyou!"

You do,and you're welcome

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By *ackhammer87Man over a year ago

Walsall

I shall keep a close eye on your libido... because when it peaks again in 4 years time... bam I will be in East Midlands before you can blink

I'm 50 in August so it won't be happening again,I've peaked!

You look amazing

I don't,but thankyou!"

Awww your a real life milf xxx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Only once I messaged a guy who had a meet request up looong time ago from a previous profile he declined as I wasn't verified at the time , once I was verified he messaged to ask was I still interested ...... I wasn't "

Ouch he missed out

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By *eliWoman over a year ago

"Erm. I've not actually asked anyone for sex on here... so no. But a man did turn me down after talking to me and I suggested we had that drink so I guess that counts?

Did he have a Labrador?

Erm, I don't get it. Sorry!

I presume he must be "blind"."

Oh, he was very sensible. I'm a total bore in bed and out of it.

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By *onnie and JohnCouple over a year ago

andover

As a couple we were rejected quite a few times, but then we do look like aunt sally and wurzel gummidge we learn not to take to much offence ,

saying that we also had single guys who get cold feet, and couples where the guy is in control of his partner.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

He could not see past all the junk in your trunk...

If only he knew what you could do with love handles

You have curves in all the right places Bella. His loss!

You read the profile

You know I have. Twice now

Replacing 'chunky' with 'cheeky' monkey!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

High five Sistah!

Although, you are definitely not fat.

I just totally white knighted you!

I wanna be white knighted!!!!

Psssst whats white knighted???

You're back! Yaaaaaaas!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Erm. I've not actually asked anyone for sex on here... so no. But a man did turn me down after talking to me and I suggested we had that drink so I guess that counts?

Did he have a Labrador?

Erm, I don't get it. Sorry!

I presume he must be "blind".

Oh, he was very sensible. I'm a total bore in bed and out of it.

You're an absolutely terrible person!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Some get a bit stroppy when you tell them your not really into meeting single woman on here

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

You'd be surprised how successful my tie was when being asked for sex. I've shown nothing else - i suspect it's probably men though if I'm honest

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By *risky_MareWoman over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"Some get a bit stroppy when you tell them your not really into meeting single woman on here

With the odd exception......

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By *orkieLad16Man over a year ago

SW London

Rejection doesn't hurt! You just dust off and go again.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Erm. I've not actually asked anyone for sex on here... so no. But a man did turn me down after talking to me and I suggested we had that drink so I guess that counts?

Did he have a Labrador?

Erm, I don't get it. Sorry!

I presume he must be "blind".

Oh, he was very sensible. I'm a total bore in bed and out of it.

I don't believe you. Prove it.

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By *eliWoman over a year ago

"Erm. I've not actually asked anyone for sex on here... so no. But a man did turn me down after talking to me and I suggested we had that drink so I guess that counts?

Did he have a Labrador?

Erm, I don't get it. Sorry!

I presume he must be "blind".

Oh, he was very sensible. I'm a total bore in bed and out of it.

You're an absolutely terrible person! "

You truly get me! I'm overwhelmed.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Erm. I've not actually asked anyone for sex on here... so no. But a man did turn me down after talking to me and I suggested we had that drink so I guess that counts?

Did he have a Labrador?

Erm, I don't get it. Sorry!

I presume he must be "blind".

Oh, he was very sensible. I'm a total bore in bed and out of it.

Either stop being modestly self deprecating or prove it to me!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

After skim reading some replies on here ~I'm picturing a row of trusty white steeds lined up at the hitching post...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yes...

But not often

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Some get a bit stroppy when you tell them your not really into meeting single woman on here

With the odd exception......

'Yes, I definitely must meet THIS woman !!' Ring a bell ?

Exactly what a said to myself about you

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"After skim reading some replies on here ~I'm picturing a row of trusty white steeds lined up at the hitching post..."

It's been pretty quiet on the chivalrous front hasn't it?

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By *reedy_for_funCouple over a year ago

My House

I've been rejected loads of times. Doesn't bother me though. You can't please everyone.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"After skim reading some replies on here ~I'm picturing a row of trusty white steeds lined up at the hitching post...

It's been pretty quiet on the chivalrous front hasn't it?

Yes, you're slacking

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I've never asked anyone or sex outright on here.

But I have sent messages that have been ignored

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"After skim reading some replies on here ~I'm picturing a row of trusty white steeds lined up at the hitching post...

It's been pretty quiet on the chivalrous front hasn't it?

Yes, you're slacking

I'm afraid I am not much of a white night Missy... More a kinda grey man-at-arms really

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By *iss.HoneyWoman over a year ago

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"After skim reading some replies on here ~I'm picturing a row of trusty white steeds lined up at the hitching post..."

I'll wait in my tower whilst sobbing into my lace hankerchief

Why oh why do they refuse me?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I've turned a few down. By message, at parties and in clubs. It's my choice as much as theirs.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I rarely ask

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Not turned down outright but certainly given the runaround so I've lost interest

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By *oxy_minxWoman over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

I've never asked anyone for a meet, I always wonder why the largest democratic on here who are constantly looking for meets and never get them (because every day they have a meet request up) Why are their profiles so shite and have no public pics but expect women/couples to be flocking to them?

Oh well.....back to wondering I suppose

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I've turned down plenty of offers of sex on this site, cause I wont lower my standards (hence why I've not slept with anyone from fabs)

I've been turned down my fair share too, but rarely try my luck on here.

I'm quite happy having a healthy sex life outside of fabs and just use this site for the forums. I'm not a swinger.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I've never dared ask, but I've been cancelled on after what I thought was a good social. Maybe turning up straight from the yard and smelling of horse wee wasn't the brightest move.

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By *candiumWoman over a year ago

oban

Yup I have. And it was someone on here who I'd met several times thought was a friend. He suddenly stopped replying to messages.

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By *ngel n tedCouple over a year ago

maidstone

We get turned down quite a lot, or just plainly ignored. Although one lady did say to angel "i'll fuck you, but not your fella, he's not my cup of tea"

which was refreshingly honest i spose, most women just think it and turn us both down

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By *mumaWoman over a year ago

Livingston

Hell yeah I have..but hey ho, that's life

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I've never dared ask, but I've been cancelled on after what I thought was a good social. Maybe turning up straight from the yard and smelling of horse wee wasn't the brightest move. "

I wish the stable girls where I live looked like you!.... unfortunately they just smell the same!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I've never dared ask, but I've been cancelled on after what I thought was a good social. Maybe turning up straight from the yard and smelling of horse wee wasn't the brightest move.

I wish the stable girls where I live looked like you!.... unfortunately they just smell the same!

It has its disadvantages

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By *unandbuckCouple over a year ago

Sheffield

"Yes. Of course. Had a meet with a couple.

They found some one else x "

They must be mad to have done that :shock:

Bun

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Often

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By *orny IrishMan over a year ago

Rural Wiltshire

"I need to start asking people for sex rather than someone asking me,I think I'd be naffed off if everyone said no though

Jumps up and down waves arms to attract the attractive ladies attention.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I ask all the time and occassionally get rejected with a polite no thanks...can live with that...even face to face in clubs...

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By *orny IrishMan over a year ago

Rural Wiltshire

"I rarely ask guys for sex, maybe that's where I'm going wrong!!!!

Don't bother.

Please do both of you lovely ladies.

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By *orny IrishMan over a year ago

Rural Wiltshire

"I'm usually too much of a coward to ask directly for sex so haven't been out and out rejected but have had a fair number of 'promising' conversations fizzle away into nothing which I guess amounts to the same thing ... and that's fine, obviously, I've started to talk to people and later found they weren't as attractive as I first thought too. It'd be incredibly arrogant to get upset at being rejected here because none of us can be all things to all people."

I would be shocked if anyone said no to you you are FAF!

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By *hekaiserMan over a year ago

Glasgow

"I've never asked "

Weeeeell...if you ever ask me-i shall set a new land speed record between Glasgow and your town...

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By *hekaiserMan over a year ago

Glasgow

"I've never dared ask, but I've been cancelled on after what I thought was a good social. Maybe turning up straight from the yard and smelling of horse wee wasn't the brightest move. "

Some folk just love horsing around...oh...wait

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By *urvymamaWoman over a year ago

Doncaster

I have been in the past but not recently I'm on quite a steak at the moment

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I've rejected only 2 women - one assumed I would find her attractive and expected me to pay for a hotel without even seeing her face.

The other was a couple but like she was giving it up to everyone and anyone so I chose to decline.

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By *eardedSilverFoxMan over a year ago

Colchester

"I've never dared ask, but I've been cancelled on after what I thought was a good social. Maybe turning up straight from the yard and smelling of horse wee wasn't the brightest move. "

You could turn up wearing your yard boots and ask me to help you poop scoop if I had the chance to meet you Xxx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Think I got a no yesterday.

Send what I thought was good pic in just undies and knee high boots. Saying do u like my new boots?

It was saw and few hrs later we were in chat room and it was never mentioned or answered...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I've been given the run around which I suppose counts as an indirect turn down. I got bored trying to rearrange dates, defriended and moved on..

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I've been referenced on this thread. Gosh I feel like a dick

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"When you've asked someone for sex?

"
yes quite often x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I don't think so.

Not because I haven't been turned down, just that it didn't get as far as "faf" before I gauged that the attraction wasn't reciprocal x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yes. I have once or twice.

You're never going to be everyone's cup of tea...

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By *andemanMan over a year ago

bedforshire

I have had to turn down woman a couple of times.

Mainly for reasons of availability. I cant just meet at the drop of your nickers ladies as much as I wish i could.

By the way I love Curves.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I don't think so.

Not because I haven't been turned down, just that it didn't get as far as "faf" before I gauged that the attraction wasn't reciprocal x"

Ah. Gauging a possible reaction before you ask. Probably sensible and more manageable than a complete knock back.

As a heads up, I'd say yes.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I've been given the run around which I suppose counts as an indirect turn down. I got bored trying to rearrange dates, defriended and moved on..

Same here. Can't be bothered playing games!

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

I report anyone who turns me down.

Obviously a timewaster

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By *hat The CuckCouple over a year ago

Croydon Area

A few times for us also

A guy once sent us a message saying I am too extreme for him and blocked us before we could reply

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By *gnitemybodyWoman over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

So it seems women do get turned down for sex,you men should be ashamed

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I've never asked.

I'm not too shy to it's just that offers have always been there.

Exactly this. But also because I'd be too scared of rejection to ask a stranger.

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