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Men, have you ever turned down sex...
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes. Got to a couples house once. It smelt like a dustbin and by the smell had never ever been cleaned....same applies to the couple....no way was i going to take my clothes off!! |
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By *lue NarwhalMan
over a year ago
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Yes..
For various reasons..
Not being in the mood when dieing from man flu..
She was too d*unk and I imagine she would have passed out during the act.. Not into necrophilia, I like a little response at least...
Just wasn't attracted to her, mouth like a sewer and an attitude that smelled just as bad. |
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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago
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Yes - I have done but then I have a defensive barrier I put up if I am not I am not in mood, I go v quiet and have a face like a slapped arse
This normally puts people off, without me saying I am not intreasted. The person that I last said no approached me 30 mins before club closed hasn't spoke to me all night was quiet d*unk, and I was like that ticks all my non playing boxes - so I said no
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes, from here in fact. A couple wanted me to sleep with the gf while he watched, told them I wasn't into that sort of thing. For me sex is an expression of the ultimate intimacy between two and only two people not an animal urge. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The only time I've turned sex down is because I haven't found them physically attractive.
There's been times when I wished I had turned it down despite my attraction  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's almost like people are in disbelief to hear men turn down sex.
Woman of fab, have you ever said yes to sex? More disbelief?  "
Some men don't like women who frequently say yes |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's almost like people are in disbelief to hear men turn down sex.
Woman of fab, have you ever said yes to sex? More disbelief?
Some men don't like women who frequently say yes "
Or frequently say no. |
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Yes in both vanilla world and on here.
For example.... Because we were friends and didnt wanna ruin it in a d*unken mistake and becos i was being lazy on here fr a meet. Didnt wanna travel lol.
So yes we men can turn down sex on a plate! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have indeed. And what a story it is. Or at least I think it is. Always makes people laugh when I tell it. Anyway.
So a few years back I was out clubbing with some friends, and this woman latched herself onto me. She wasnt my type at all and I'll be honest I had zero attraction to her.
Come the end of the night and its time to book some cabs, and its that this point my mate lets me know, I can't stay st his house because his ex was coming over.
This girl that had taken a shine to me suggested I stay at hers, and not relishing the £60 cab journey back to mine I accepted.
So we're in the cab back to hers and it comes out she's a single mother, not a problem, I have no intention of seeing her again after tonight...
We get back to hers, and she explains I (we) have to sleep on the couch as her mother is asleep in her bed, with the young one in the cot in the same room. Little odd I thought but crack on.
So we're on the couch, stuff starts happening, and I hear a noise. She assures me it's nothing and to carry on.
A little while I look up at the ceiling and realise, it's slightly staggered, and half way across is what I can only describe as a balcony looking onto the living room. I ask the girl,slightly confused and weirded out, 'is that your bedroom?' 'Yes' she says 'but don't worry, its fine'
To which I've got the response from the balcony 'It fucking well isn't!'
Never before have I got dressed to quickly. Ordered a cab there and then and shelled out the £60 anyway. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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1st time, because she was engaged. 2nd time, because she was d*unk. 3rd time, because of looks - even beer goggles would've cracked. 4th time, because I was married.
Always regretted #1 though. She was 18, gorgeous & rampant - I was 22 with a conscience (goddammit). |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Will any women admit to being turned down for sex on here I wonder..."
Although I've never directly asked someone for sex, I've had a couple of men say they didn't think we we're compatible. Which I had to agree with. I prefer that to someone who would fuck for the sake of it.
I had one man turn the car around and take me home, because he asked if I had met many men on here, and I said loads |
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"I have indeed. And what a story it is. Or at least I think it is. Always makes people laugh when I tell it. Anyway.
So a few years back I was out clubbing with some friends, and this woman latched herself onto me. She wasnt my type at all and I'll be honest I had zero attraction to her.
Come the end of the night and its time to book some cabs, and its that this point my mate lets me know, I can't stay st his house because his ex was coming over.
This girl that had taken a shine to me suggested I stay at hers, and not relishing the £60 cab journey back to mine I accepted.
So we're in the cab back to hers and it comes out she's a single mother, not a problem, I have no intention of seeing her again after tonight...
We get back to hers, and she explains I (we) have to sleep on the couch as her mother is asleep in her bed, with the young one in the cot in the same room. Little odd I thought but crack on.
So we're on the couch, stuff starts happening, and I hear a noise. She assures me it's nothing and to carry on.
A little while I look up at the ceiling and realise, it's slightly staggered, and half way across is what I can only describe as a balcony looking onto the living room. I ask the girl,slightly confused and weirded out, 'is that your bedroom?' 'Yes' she says 'but don't worry, its fine'
To which I've got the response from the balcony 'It fucking well isn't!'
Never before have I got dressed to quickly. Ordered a cab there and then and shelled out the £60 anyway."
The end bit made me laugh.
Mind you it's funny to see that men whore themselves out for £60 and fuck someone they are not attracted to. That bit made me laugh too.
The part where this 'unattractive' random takes home some random bloke putting her mother and child in danger is a bit scary.
They are lucky you are as lovely as you were. |
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"Will any women admit to being turned down for sex on here I wonder...
Although I've never directly asked someone for sex, I've had a couple of men say they didn't think we we're compatible. Which I had to agree with. I prefer that to someone who would fuck for the sake of it.
I had one man turn the car around and take me home, because he asked if I had met many men on here, and I said loads "
Was he redirected from Virgins R Us ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've turned down sex. One time I was washing my hair. Another occasion I had this awful headache 
Did you read ma post above before you came out with this stunning revelation  "
Dammit Ace!!  |
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"I've turned down sex. One time I was washing my hair. Another occasion I had this awful headache
Did you read ma post above before you came out with this stunning revelation
Dammit Ace!! "
Hmmmmmm both hair washers, both headachey......... one or two more similarities and you two are a match! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I had one man turn the car around and take me home, because he asked if I had met many men on here, and I said loads
One of those type eh! Were you not virginal enough for him! "
He fell for the being new on site with one verification. I was on my second incarnation on here |
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I had one man turn the car around and take me home, because he asked if I had met many men on here, and I said loads
One of those type eh! Were you not virginal enough for him!
He fell for the being new on site with one verification. I was on my second incarnation on here "
Actually how did that make you feel,were you annoyed or amused by it? Think I'd be annoyed. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Will any women admit to being turned down for sex on here I wonder...
Although I've never directly asked someone for sex, I've had a couple of men say they didn't think we we're compatible. Which I had to agree with. I prefer that to someone who would fuck for the sake of it.
I had one man turn the car around and take me home, because he asked if I had met many men on here, and I said loads
Was he redirected from Virgins R Us ?"
I was tempted to lie, until he had taken me home. I could tell, when I got in the car and we started chatting, that he was apprehensive about fucking a woman from the internet. I said twice he could drop me home if he wasn't sure he wanted to go through with it. Which he did |
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"Oh my there are men with morals and standards on here
Was thinking most on here would go with anyone for a fuck "
But you are talking about the Lounge Lizards; and we're amongst the top 1% of all fabbers   |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I had one man turn the car around and take me home, because he asked if I had met many men on here, and I said loads
One of those type eh! Were you not virginal enough for him!
He fell for the being new on site with one verification. I was on my second incarnation on here
Actually how did that make you feel,were you annoyed or amused by it? Think I'd be annoyed."
I already had the vibe he wasn't feeling comfortable. I was quite glad actually. People get cold feet. |
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"I've turned down sex. One time I was washing my hair. Another occasion I had this awful headache
Did you read ma post above before you came out with this stunning revelation
Dammit Ace!!
Hmmmmmm both hair washers, both headachey......... one or two more similarities and you two are a match!"
It's ok, I've booked a room already   |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Will any women admit to being turned down for sex on here I wonder..."
Yes I have he got cold feet he is married but now he wants a bit of me now ha his los |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've turned down sex. One time I was washing my hair. Another occasion I had this awful headache
Did you read ma post above before you came out with this stunning revelation
Dammit Ace!!
Hmmmmmm both hair washers, both headachey......... one or two more similarities and you two are a match!
It's ok, I've booked a room already "
Take it easy Alice! I'm not that kinda girl  |
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I had one man turn the car around and take me home, because he asked if I had met many men on here, and I said loads
One of those type eh! Were you not virginal enough for him!
He fell for the being new on site with one verification. I was on my second incarnation on here "
Ah...born again virgin? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Will any women admit to being turned down for sex on here I wonder..."
I have.
And i've sent messages and they've just been deleted without being deleted.
The amount of views my profile gets and the actual number of messages i get is also very telling. Can't be everyone's cup of tea. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Will any women admit to being turned down for sex on here I wonder...
I have.
And i've sent messages and they've just been deleted without being deleted.
The amount of views my profile gets and the actual number of messages i get is also very telling. Can't be everyone's cup of tea. "
Deleted without being read |
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"Will any women admit to being turned down for sex on here I wonder...
I have.
And i've sent messages and they've just been deleted without being deleted.
The amount of views my profile gets and the actual number of messages i get is also very telling. Can't be everyone's cup of tea. "
Given your profile is hidden we (men) don't have much to figure out if you are our choice of hot beverage or not! In response to the OP Yes, I have turned down offers, there has to be some attraction. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Will any women admit to being turned down for sex on here I wonder...
I have.
And i've sent messages and they've just been deleted without being deleted.
The amount of views my profile gets and the actual number of messages i get is also very telling. Can't be everyone's cup of tea.
Given your profile is hidden we (men) don't have much to figure out if you are our choice of hot beverage or not! In response to the OP Yes, I have turned down offers, there has to be some attraction. "
It's hidden as its half term and i'm not available to meet |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Many times while workin in bars and clubs when I was married and quite a few times since just as a result of no chemistry or other reasons like refusing to be with girlfriends/wives of people I know |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Will any women admit to being turned down for sex on here I wonder..."
Yep. Rejection is part and parcel for most on here. I've sent a few winks and they've not resulted in anything. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Oh my there are men with morals and standards on here
Was thinking most on here would go with anyone for a fuck
What a load of shite"
not often i agree with you but yup, bunch of shit |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes she was very d*unk and I knew her very well as we were close friends and I knew she may have regretted it when she was sober.
My option was if that's what she wants she will want it again another time |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Oh my there are men with morals and standards on here
Was thinking most on here would go with anyone for a fuck
My thoughts exactly "
meaning i guess then that you would go with anyone for a fuck? unless of course your somehow more discerning and more picky than the rest of us chaps? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Will any women admit to being turned down for sex on here I wonder..."
I've been turned down for sex on here on a few occasions. I don't really think anything of it, we're all attracted and not attracted to different people. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My husband said no to me once. He soon learned  "
Oh... I wonder if that was with Angry sex
That will teach him
I restrict my profile on here enough as it is by keeping it basic and have declined playmeets for various reasons.
I even get deleted/blocked for being honest
I can socialise with anyone and love it, but sexually there has to be a mutual understanding. Not just physical side of things...
I need the banter, giggles, personality and attitude! When everything falls into place then sex feels amazing. Makes me want to repeat over and over again. |
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Yes,
1. She was very d*unk and I suggested she sober up then I would reconsider.
2. Another asked me to grape her (had to add a g as filter refused to support post) my ardour exited just a little ahead of me. Even if she was asking as role play, not for me.
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Yes,
1 - she was inebriated when I arrive and then opened another bottle...
2 - she told me she was just getting over a UTI... 
3 - she looked nothing like the profile pics and was probably 15-20 years older than she'd said
Sadly all 3 were the same person on the same night...! Chatted politely for a few minutes and then made my excuses. I think I may have left scorch marks on the doormat!!  |
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