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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
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"Why is it when you tell a guy you ain't interested their don't get the hint and go but still messaging thinking you is gonna change your mind "
I get this all the time, I try to avoid the block button and use it mainly for the abusive ones, but I think I will start using it more and include these types as well  |
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"Why is it when you tell a guy you ain't interested their don't get the hint and go but still messaging thinking you is gonna change your mind "
Or get the hump and get abusive and my favourite say your loss ,lol I think not  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't know, but I wouldn't let it bother me enough to still be thinking about it. Remain drama free and avoid the negative sorts by blocking or simply deleting. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why is it when you tell a guy you ain't interested their don't get the hint and go but still messaging thinking you is gonna change your mind "
Maybe try telling them in intelligible sentences lol 
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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"Why is it when you tell a guy you ain't interested their don't get the hint and go but still messaging thinking you is gonna change your mind
Maybe try telling them in intelligible sentences lol
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Always one. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I usually point out to them that if they can't take a no online then I doubt they'll be able to take a no in person - which makes them dangerous to meet. |
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By *isslush OP Woman
over a year ago
wolverhampton |
"Why is it when you tell a guy you ain't interested their don't get the hint and go but still messaging thinking you is gonna change your mind
Maybe try telling them in intelligible sentences lol
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you funny |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I usually point out to them that if they can't take a no online then I doubt they'll be able to take a no in person - which makes them dangerous to meet."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why is it when you tell a guy you ain't interested their don't get the hint and go but still messaging thinking you is gonna change your mind "
Don't labour on it...block and go... There are many respectful ones who'll accept it yet we never hear about those who do. If i may add my tuppence... if you get a woman who doesn't like being turned down all he'll can break loose and verifications often are pm with abusive lies.... However most don't....Most just block and saves you the grief.  |
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By *isslush OP Woman
over a year ago
wolverhampton |
"Why is it when you tell a guy you ain't interested their don't get the hint and go but still messaging thinking you is gonna change your mind
Don't labour on it...block and go... There are many respectful ones who'll accept it yet we never hear about those who do. If i may add my tuppence... if you get a woman who doesn't like being turned down all he'll can break loose and verifications often are pm with abusive lies.... However most don't....Most just block and saves you the grief. "
well I ain't had tho one just the nasty ones that wanna bring colour in to it why I don't like him etc |
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"Why is it when you tell a guy you ain't interested their don't get the hint and go but still messaging thinking you is gonna change your mind
Don't labour on it...block and go... There are many respectful ones who'll accept it yet we never hear about those who do. If i may add my tuppence... if you get a woman who doesn't like being turned down all he'll can break loose and verifications often are pm with abusive lies.... However most don't....Most just block and saves you the grief. well I ain't had tho one just the nasty ones that wanna bring colour in to it why I don't like him etc "
They could not do that if you just block ? That then would prevent you showing up needlessly in their searches
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I usually point out to them that if they can't take a no online then I doubt they'll be able to take a no in person - which makes them dangerous to meet."
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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago
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they're manipulative.
the word no means nothing to them, just the fact that you replied means (to them) that you are able to be manipulated because you have manners.
men moan a lot about manners on here btw.
see, for many men if you have manners mean they think they can make you feel uncomfortable about not going along with something they want.
just don't reply at all, i don't. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why is it when you tell a guy you ain't interested their don't get the hint and go but still messaging thinking you is gonna change your mind "
Because we all know whining and abuse changes a no to a yes lol.
Silly boys... |
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By *isslush OP Woman
over a year ago
wolverhampton |
"Why is it when you tell a guy you ain't interested their don't get the hint and go but still messaging thinking you is gonna change your mind
Because we all know whining and abuse changes a no to a yes lol.
Silly boys..."
my thoughts exactly |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Why is it when you tell a guy you ain't interested their don't get the hint and go but still messaging thinking you is gonna change your mind "
Because we all know whining and abuse changes a no to a yes lol.
Silly boys... |
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Some men cant take rejection....normally after several they post in the forums complaining about no luck as if this site is insta-shag and being here means they are guarenteed, also we are not allowed to say no to them...
As its been said, if they cant take no on here, then they certainly cant take a no in the real world which does make them very dangerous |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why is it when you tell a guy you ain't interested their don't get the hint and go but still messaging thinking you is gonna change your mind "
They are called wannabees they lurk in the chat rooms usually preying on the couples and single females....... |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
Scotland - Aberdeen |
"I usually point out to them that if they can't take a no online then I doubt they'll be able to take a no in person - which makes them dangerous to meet."
That is actually a very good point to make and no doubt, should make them think about their own behaviour in future |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why is it when you tell a guy you ain't interested their don't get the hint and go but still messaging thinking you is gonna change your mind
Maybe try telling them in intelligible sentences lol
you funny "
And your boss... I like you!
Block him!
Concentrate on seducing me
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why is it when you tell a guy you ain't interested their don't get the hint and go but still messaging thinking you is gonna change your mind "
His ego believes you will change your mind. He can't comprehend the fact that you wouldn't waste a meet, because this guy is a stud. All the girls are watching him, waiting for him to offer just a moment of his time. Apparently. |
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By *isslush OP Woman
over a year ago
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"Why is it when you tell a guy you ain't interested their don't get the hint and go but still messaging thinking you is gonna change your mind
His ego believes you will change your mind. He can't comprehend the fact that you wouldn't waste a meet, because this guy is a stud. All the girls are watching him, waiting for him to offer just a moment of his time. Apparently. "
is that what it is like lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I usually point out to them that if they can't take a no online then I doubt they'll be able to take a no in person - which makes them dangerous to meet.
That is actually a very good point to make and no doubt, should make them think about their own behaviour in future "
Very good point indeed. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why is it when you tell a guy you ain't interested their don't get the hint and go but still messaging thinking you is gonna change your mind
Don't labour on it...block and go... There are many respectful ones who'll accept it yet we never hear about those who do. If i may add my tuppence... if you get a woman who doesn't like being turned down all he'll can break loose and verifications often are pm with abusive lies.... However most don't....Most just block and saves you the grief. well I ain't had tho one just the nasty ones that wanna bring colour in to it why I don't like him etc "
Well I find if someone responds negatively then it's probably how the meet would end up so avoid at all cost. |
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By *ybtMan
over a year ago
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"Why is it when you tell a guy you ain't interested their don't get the hint and go but still messaging thinking you is gonna change your mind "
Probably because you actually bothered to respond. I'd imagine a lot of men on here get so used to actually just being completely ignored when they actually get a reply (even a polite no) they push cus well you actually noticed them. |
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By *isslush OP Woman
over a year ago
wolverhampton |
"Why is it when you tell a guy you ain't interested their don't get the hint and go but still messaging thinking you is gonna change your mind
Probably because you actually bothered to respond. I'd imagine a lot of men on here get so used to actually just being completely ignored when they actually get a reply (even a polite no) they push cus well you actually noticed them."
but still it's very annoying and it takes all my might not to be rude to thrn when I already told them |
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"I usually point out to them that if they can't take a no online then I doubt they'll be able to take a no in person - which makes them dangerous to meet.
That is actually a very good point to make and no doubt, should make them think about their own behaviour in future "
It should but I sense that many won't. |
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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago
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"I usually point out to them that if they can't take a no online then I doubt they'll be able to take a no in person - which makes them dangerous to meet.
That is actually a very good point to make and no doubt, should make them think about their own behaviour in future
It should but I sense that many won't. "
it might do.
they'll be less pushy in messages but still pushy on a meet.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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" I don't know, but I wouldn't let it bother me enough to still be thinking about it. Remain drama free and avoid the negative sorts by blocking or simply deleting."
easier said than done when it's happening 10+times a day...gets very annoying
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Some men cant take rejection....normally after several they post in the forums complaining about no luck as if this site is insta-shag and being here means they are guarenteed, also we are not allowed to say no to them...
As its been said, if they cant take no on here, then they certainly cant take a no in the real world which does make them very dangerous "
Yeah def alot of guys aint cut out for a site like this and the rejection game.
Some guys coming on here for a shag get chewed up spat out the other side thinking theres something wrong with them and hate woman haha |
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