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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"You can call me whatever you want babe.
As for illiteracy, no.
Txt speak for txt speak sake, yes, nothing worse. "
Yeah I meant like text speak, to me it comes across as lazy and I guess I associate it with lazy in bed? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You can call me whatever you want babe.
As for illiteracy, no.
Txt speak for txt speak sake, yes, nothing worse.
Yeah I meant like text speak, to me it comes across as lazy and I guess I associate it with lazy in bed?"
That's a fair assessment, I can see your thinking. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"One of my former play mates often used to start our online chats with 'Oi! FuckKnuckle!....' it was just her unique charm (and almost a common sort of theme with most of my friends)  "
That's very unique haha! |
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"One of my former play mates often used to start our online chats with 'Oi! FuckKnuckle!....' it was just her unique charm (and almost a common sort of theme with most of my friends)
That's very unique haha!"
Unique is the perfect description all round for her  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"What would you prefer people to call you ?
I am going to hazard a guess at 'Ella'.
You guessed correctly
Incredible. What are the chances? "
Who'd have thought it? Haha! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I'm so glad I am not alone in getting turned off at terms of endearment.
It literally makes me cringe when I read it in a message or if someone says it to me |
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I tend to think that guys who call me hun, babe etc are showing some sweetness, their way of adding a tender touch via two dimensional text, for example in messages. If their intentions are good, then I'm content (they're not wanting to butter me up to shag me  I assume).
Huni and the few variants annoy a little though. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I tend to think that guys who call me hun, babe etc are showing some sweetness, their way of adding a tender touch via two dimensional text, for example in messages. If their intentions are good, then I'm content (they're not wanting to butter me up to shag me I assume).
Huni and the few variants annoy a little though. "
That's understandable, but it just makes me cringe so much that I often don't even want to respond haha! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"A hun was a mediaeval German savage.. certainly not a term of endearment.. haha."
Which is why I hate it as even during ww2 calling someone who is german a hun was derogatory and im part german so really pisses me off! |
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"I'm so glad I am not alone in getting turned off at terms of endearment.
It literally makes me cringe when I read it in a message or if someone says it to me"
I'm with you completely cringeworthy. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I will die before I call someone on the internet "babe" or "babes"
Literally just had someone call me 'Babes'
I can't even comprehend it"
It's pretty much the most offensive thing you can call someone |
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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago
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"i hate being given names of affection from strangers wanting sex with me. 
I know there are websites for that kind of thing "
eh? explain further coz i am not tired and staying up for a while yet. so i'll be waiting. |
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By *igSuki81Man
over a year ago
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"Does anyone else get turned off by people calling them 'hun' or 'babe' or even by a person being completely illiterate?"
Erm no. Bab, hun, chick, luv, pet even duck are but a few things i say generally (may be a black country thing  ) none are meant to cause offence nor have i come across anyone offended by them |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"i hate being given names of affection from strangers wanting sex with me.
I know there are websites for that kind of thing
eh? explain further coz i am not tired and staying up for a while yet. so i'll be waiting. "
Being ironic !! Never mind |
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Huni and the few variants annoy a little though. "
Why 'Huni'? It looks stupid as a word. If you are going to go down that route then at least use 'Honey'? Honey is a beautiful colour and is delicious? to eat.
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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago
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"i hate being given names of affection from strangers wanting sex with me.
I know there are websites for that kind of thing
eh? explain further coz i am not tired and staying up for a while yet. so i'll be waiting.
Being ironic !! Never mind "
ah right. things like that go right over my head. |
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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago
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"Well I normally call all females sweet and that's to a 90 year old grandma to my daughter and just to top that I'm also dyslexic so guess your going to hate me. Oh well shit happens "
you're the exception to my post btw. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"i hate being given names of affection from strangers wanting sex with me.
I know there are websites for that kind of thing
eh? explain further coz i am not tired and staying up for a while yet. so i'll be waiting.
Being ironic !! Never mind
ah right. things like that go right over my head. "
That's ok, been a hot debate tonight !! |
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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago
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"i hate being given names of affection from strangers wanting sex with me.
I know there are websites for that kind of thing
eh? explain further coz i am not tired and staying up for a while yet. so i'll be waiting.
Being ironic !! Never mind
ah right. things like that go right over my head.
That's ok, been a hot debate tonight !! "
i've been studying physics all afternoon as well, fucking hard stuff it seems like too. i don't get it when they start bringing the maths out. |
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"Well I normally call all females sweet and that's to a 90 year old grandma to my daughter and just to top that I'm also dyslexic so guess your going to hate me. Oh well shit happens
you're the exception to my post btw. "
Faf sweet  |
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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago
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"Well I normally call all females sweet and that's to a 90 year old grandma to my daughter and just to top that I'm also dyslexic so guess your going to hate me. Oh well shit happens
you're the exception to my post btw.
Faf sweet "
not tonight, i'm studying forensic psychology. |
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"Yea hate terms of endearment fro strangers so much do I advise them not to do it in my profile not that they read it of course
Alright Sweetie, no need to get yer nickers in a twist  "
Considering we converse well now and agiain I'll let sweetie slide |
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"Well I normally call all females sweet and that's to a 90 year old grandma to my daughter and just to top that I'm also dyslexic so guess your going to hate me. Oh well shit happens
you're the exception to my post btw.
Faf sweet
not tonight, i'm studying forensic psychology. "
Now that is the best knock back I've ever had. What ever happened to I'm washing my hair |
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By *orum TrollWoman
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"Well I normally call all females sweet and that's to a 90 year old grandma to my daughter and just to top that I'm also dyslexic so guess your going to hate me. Oh well shit happens
you're the exception to my post btw.
Faf sweet
not tonight, i'm studying forensic psychology.
Now that is the best knock back I've ever had. What ever happened to I'm washing my hair "
i had an accident with the veet and have no hair to wash.
i have studied 0 forensic science tonight also. it's only a 7 week course, gonna see if i can finish it in a few hours. |
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No on here it's probably easier for people to use a pet name, in real life it could be that the person may not remember your name or just a type of person that calls everyone by a pet name. As for the way the message is written it could be for a number of reasons, if your not sure what's ment by text it's no big deal to ask.
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"Well I normally call all females sweet and that's to a 90 year old grandma to my daughter and just to top that I'm also dyslexic so guess your going to hate me. Oh well shit happens
you're the exception to my post btw.
Faf sweet
not tonight, i'm studying forensic psychology.
Now that is the best knock back I've ever had. What ever happened to I'm washing my hair
i had an accident with the veet and have no hair to wash.
i have studied 0 forensic science tonight also. it's only a 7 week course, gonna see if i can finish it in a few hours. "
Seriously is that a real course |
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By *orum TrollWoman
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"Well I normally call all females sweet and that's to a 90 year old grandma to my daughter and just to top that I'm also dyslexic so guess your going to hate me. Oh well shit happens
you're the exception to my post btw.
Faf sweet
not tonight, i'm studying forensic psychology.
Now that is the best knock back I've ever had. What ever happened to I'm washing my hair
i had an accident with the veet and have no hair to wash.
i have studied 0 forensic science tonight also. it's only a 7 week course, gonna see if i can finish it in a few hours.
Seriously is that a real course "
yeah. i passed the first week 100% already but getting pretty tired.
and finger prints aren't that good for matching, never knew that. and the leading cause of people being wrongly imprisoned is eye witnesses (81%!!), they actually changed the way witnesses pick people out now because of it.
look at me learning all this useless shit though, go me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes I do!
Even my OH and I don't use pet names for each other - we use our names. Neither of us like it 
I especially don't like being called 'Bird'.....
Xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Does anyone else get turned off by people calling them 'hun' or 'babe' or even by a person being completely illiterate?"
I get turned off by illiterate babe x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Single words don't put me off people. My brain is turned off by the whole package, not a choice of word, or whether someone uses text speak for simplicity. I have people who have Oxford English degrees who use text speak. And they aren't a lazy fuck. I take each person on their own merit. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I have a bad habit of calling strangers "love" not on fab but at Tesco etc, should probably stop
Adam."
Just randomers whilst you're shopping? That's brilliant haha! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"nobody appreciates my superior brain though, only my fanny.  "
Not even in conversation? Have we allowed ourselves to listen to the men of Fab and become cynical about the motives of all men? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Yes I do!
Even my OH and I don't use pet names for each other - we use our names. Neither of us like it
I especially don't like being called 'Bird'.....
Xx "
See I can deal with darling from people I know, but nothing from anyone on here |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"People who know me - no problem. It's a term of endearment and pretty common where I'm from. Strangers on a sex site - nah patronising creepy bollocks."
That I can understand completely! |
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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago
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"nobody appreciates my superior brain though, only my fanny.
Not even in conversation? Have we allowed ourselves to listen to the men of Fab and become cynical about the motives of all men?"
actually one guy on here does talk to me about intelligent things. and any guys i talk to now are not talking about my fanny.
but yeah i'm 100% cynical and blocked all guys from even approaching me. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"nobody appreciates my superior brain though, only my fanny.
Apparently we must be bimbo's on here
or a fleshlight with no sentience. "
Haha!!!
That would be perfect for a lot of the men on here!
Plus apparently we aren't allowed to be picky - If they message us we MUST respond |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I used to use Hun and babe in a joking sort of way to friends because we hated it. It's now become part of my vocabulary and I can't stop it. I need help! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes I do!
Even my OH and I don't use pet names for each other - we use our names. Neither of us like it
I especially don't like being called 'Bird'.....
Xx
See I can deal with darling from people I know, but nothing from anyone on here"
Yes I don't mine 'darling' from people I know or 'lovely' - but people who I don't know and don't know me then no. It can be cringy  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I used to use Hun and babe in a joking sort of way to friends because we hated it. It's now become part of my vocabulary and I can't stop it. I need help! "
That's the reason I use 'totes' with my best friend, and I hate myself for it.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Yes I do!
Even my OH and I don't use pet names for each other - we use our names. Neither of us like it
I especially don't like being called 'Bird'.....
Xx
See I can deal with darling from people I know, but nothing from anyone on here
Yes I don't mine 'darling' from people I know or 'lovely' - but people who I don't know and don't know me then no. It can be cringy "
I'm so glad you understand haha! I physically cringed when someone called me 'Babe' the other day and they saw my shudder and had a go at me for it |
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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago
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"nobody appreciates my superior brain though, only my fanny.
Apparently we must be bimbo's on here
or a fleshlight with no sentience.
Haha!!!
That would be perfect for a lot of the men on here!
Plus apparently we aren't allowed to be picky - If they message us we MUST respond "
yeah, judging off the messages i used to get i think so too.
got quite lucky most guys don't expect a reply off me, but i did say in my profile that i don't reply to everyone. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Does anyone else get turned off by people calling them 'hun' or 'babe' or even by a person being completely illiterate?
Erm no. Bab, hun, chick, luv, pet even duck are but a few things i say generally (may be a black country thing ) none are meant to cause offence nor have i come across anyone offended by them"
Sometimes people are offended for offendeds sake! Know what I mean sweetie  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Does anyone else get turned off by people calling them 'hun' or 'babe' or even by a person being completely illiterate?
Erm no. Bab, hun, chick, luv, pet even duck are but a few things i say generally (may be a black country thing ) none are meant to cause offence nor have i come across anyone offended by them
Sometimes people are offended for offendeds sake! Know what I mean sweetie "
Don't get me wrong, I don't take offence, it's just a turn off |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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To me it depends on who's calling me the pet name. But i totally agree with the text speak/illiteracy. Total turn off for both of us! Getting a message like "id luv to play ur tits" makes me dry up like a nun. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes, very much. I've heard it said the biggest sex organ in the body is the brain, and I hold it true. If lacking in basic grammar and literacy it doesn't bode well. |
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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago
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"Is there any survey or any factual basis to back up the idea that the use of text speak means the person is more likely to be lazy when it comes to sex?"
i use big words and tbh now i cba to make much effort in bed any more. oh hold on 2 txt spk things right there though...hmmm. 
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I used to use Hun and babe in a joking sort of way to friends because we hated it. It's now become part of my vocabulary and I can't stop it. I need help!
That's the reason I use 'totes' with my best friend, and I hate myself for it.
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Bae is the worst one but it comes out like word vomit. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Yes I do!
Even my OH and I don't use pet names for each other - we use our names. Neither of us like it
I especially don't like being called 'Bird'.....
Xx
See I can deal with darling from people I know, but nothing from anyone on here
Yes I don't mine 'darling' from people I know or 'lovely' - but people who I don't know and don't know me then no. It can be cringy
I'm so glad you understand haha! I physically cringed when someone called me 'Babe' the other day and they saw my shudder and had a go at me for it "
I totally do understand! Cringy & makes me squirm sometimes too  cannot believe they had a go at you for it! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Is there any survey or any factual basis to back up the idea that the use of text speak means the person is more likely to be lazy when it comes to sex?"
It's simply what I associate it with laziness, so if someone is using it on a site like this - it's an automatic association in my head |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"To me it depends on who's calling me the pet name. But i totally agree with the text speak/illiteracy. Total turn off for both of us! Getting a message like "id luv to play ur tits" makes me dry up like a nun."
Haha!!! Same here |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I used to use Hun and babe in a joking sort of way to friends because we hated it. It's now become part of my vocabulary and I can't stop it. I need help!
That's the reason I use 'totes' with my best friend, and I hate myself for it.
Bae is the worst one but it comes out like word vomit. "
That word makes me sick haha! |
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By *issVeryWoman
over a year ago
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"Does anyone else get turned off by people calling them 'hun' or 'babe' or even by a person being completely illiterate?"
Yes!!! And I've now included in my bio as a reason I will delete a message! It's just so cringey.. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Yes I do!
Even my OH and I don't use pet names for each other - we use our names. Neither of us like it
I especially don't like being called 'Bird'.....
Xx
See I can deal with darling from people I know, but nothing from anyone on here
Yes I don't mine 'darling' from people I know or 'lovely' - but people who I don't know and don't know me then no. It can be cringy
I'm so glad you understand haha! I physically cringed when someone called me 'Babe' the other day and they saw my shudder and had a go at me for it
I totally do understand! Cringy & makes me squirm sometimes too cannot believe they had a go at you for it! "
Right?! Like it blows me away at how apparently sensitive this subject is to some people |
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"Does anyone else get turned off by people calling them 'hun' or 'babe' or even by a person being completely illiterate?"
It all says in my profile but obviously so many illiterate people miss that as they don't read profile . I delete those messages straight away !
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Just randomers whilst you're shopping? That's brilliant haha!
haha yeh, just walk up all little Britain style.. "HI LOVE" uh uh uh..
Adam "
Oh my god that's perfect |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Does anyone else get turned off by people calling them 'hun' or 'babe' or even by a person being completely illiterate?
Yes!!! And I've now included in my bio as a reason I will delete a message! It's just so cringey.."
I don't blame you. I may put it in mine |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Does anyone else get turned off by people calling them 'hun' or 'babe' or even by a person being completely illiterate?
It all says in my profile but obviously so many illiterate people miss that as they don't read profile . I delete those messages straight away !
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I've found that some people just skip past anything that we say on our profiles. If they like the way we look, they turn into cavemen |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I loathe being called Hun and Babe by total strangers, especially as it's usually accompanied by text speak."
Right? Whatever happened to just a little charm and being direct to the point at the same time? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"You can call me whatever you want babe.
As for illiteracy, no.
Txt speak for txt speak sake, yes, nothing worse.
Yeah I meant like text speak, to me it comes across as lazy and I guess I associate it with lazy in bed?"
Don't believe everything you read or hear on fab... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I used to use Hun and babe in a joking sort of way to friends because we hated it. It's now become part of my vocabulary and I can't stop it. I need help!
That's the reason I use 'totes' with my best friend, and I hate myself for it.
Bae is the worst one but it comes out like word vomit.
That word makes me sick haha!"
I have to say I only use it with people I know and NEVER out in public. The embarrassment would be too much and I could never show my face again. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I used to use Hun and babe in a joking sort of way to friends because we hated it. It's now become part of my vocabulary and I can't stop it. I need help!
That's the reason I use 'totes' with my best friend, and I hate myself for it.
Bae is the worst one but it comes out like word vomit.
That word makes me sick haha!
I have to say I only use it with people I know and NEVER out in public. The embarrassment would be too much and I could never show my face again. "
I don't blame you to be fair! You have to be pretty close with someone to use words like that haha! |
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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago
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I don't mind endearments (including insulting ones) from people I know well but even then I don't think anyone know calls me hun or babe; they tend towards more imaginative than that. I have been known to call people I know well babber but only verbally and because it invariably brings out the tinge of West Country in my accent. I like a colloquialism. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I really dont like being called hun. It wouldnt necessarly put me off someone if i really liked them but it does make me squirm a bit x "
That's understandable. Not everyone feels the same way about it |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I didn't say best behaviour, juts no terms of endearment 
haha ok.. I'll be good until I need to be bad
I save my endearment for Eve anyway 
Adam."
Exactly you use it for someone you truly care about |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Oh yeah. And lol.
Pet names. Make me wanna drink mu own vomit. "
Same! Like if I hear someone call another person 'Smoochems' or something in public, I make it known that I'm disgusted by it just through the sheer look on my face |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Oh yeah. And lol.
Pet names. Make me wanna drink mu own vomit.
Same! Like if I hear someone call another person 'Smoochems' or something in public, I make it known that I'm disgusted by it just through the sheer look on my face "
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