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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You can be "lucky" on any site provided you're? sociable and invest some sort of effort .
All adult dating / social networking sites are just façades with the same element behind, people looking for excitement and stimulation. Ha. |
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By *rueone71 OP Man
over a year ago
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"You can be "lucky" on any site provided you're? sociable and invest some sort of effort .
All adult dating / social networking sites are just façades with the same element behind, people looking for excitement and stimulation. Ha."
Hu... I don't generalise that much.. I actually think that the majority on the vanillas are genuinely looking for a vanilla relationship. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"You can be "lucky" on any site provided you're? sociable and invest some sort of effort .
All adult dating / social networking sites are just façades with the same element behind, people looking for excitement and stimulation. Ha.
Hu... I don't generalise that much.. I actually think that the majority on the vanillas are genuinely looking for a vanilla relationship. "
I didn't mean "sexual" stimulation necessarily , if the chemistry is good between two people they'll generally want to explore it further, regardless of the venue.
Most in my social circle that use "vanilla" dating sites like pof or tinder all say they're hotbeds of casual encounters, perhaps without the outward onus of immediacy like fab though. |
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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago
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i used to have a lot more success on here for sex, on POF i had success for dating.
not using either now. just chatting to men on other sites instead. mostly americans so there's no chance of them coming near me.  |
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By *rueone71 OP Man
over a year ago
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"to be fair i could've had a lot more success with sex on POF if i'd wanted that, just i didn't want it and went there to date."
If your will is that way..than that's not my point!! which is: Why one don't get luckier on here...and instead get luckier so called *vanilla websites?? and I don't mean fooling anyone with pretences or lies (like many do!! yes.. I know!!!) |
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"to be fair i could've had a lot more success with sex on POF if i'd wanted that, just i didn't want it and went there to date.
If your will is that way..than that's not my point!! which is: Why one don't get luckier on here...and instead get luckier so called *vanilla websites?? and I don't mean fooling anyone with pretences or lies (like many do!! yes.. I know!!!)"
I think that for you guys in fab it's especially difficult because of the proportions of genders here. Other sites and real world places don't have the same mix -except perhaps more senior single female churchgoers |
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"Ive deleted normal dating sites.
Just men lying that they want a date when its really just a shag they want.
At least you know what youre getting on here."
Same with women too!,when I was on there lol...thats the problem. People believe they need to lie to get somewhere.  |
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Exactly. That's the frustrating thing. If they'd had been honest..i would've just said yeah okay..we'll get a hotel. But don't mek me bring you back to my place when you know what your intentions are,then ignore me when I text to say I had a good time |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Ive deleted normal dating sites.
Just men lying that they want a date when its really just a shag they want.
At least you know what youre getting on here."
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"Exactly. That's the frustrating thing. If they'd had been honest..i would've just said yeah okay..we'll get a hotel. But don't mek me bring you back to my place when you know what your intentions are,then ignore me when I text to say I had a good time "
And dont tell me about how your mams a nurse and your daughters in the nativity this year etc etc etc. I will spend my time on someone worth learning about.  |
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By *rueone71 OP Man
over a year ago
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Most do that on dating websites...so..YES I get all yours points.
I state my intentions both on my profile and on the first messages we exchange. So.. there's no lies or misunderstanding or playing games. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Most do that on dating websites...so..YES I get all yours points.
I state my intentions both on my profile and on the first messages we exchange. So.. there's no lies or misunderstanding or playing games."
Then you are very unusual. |
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"Exactly. That's the frustrating thing. If they'd had been honest..i would've just said yeah okay..we'll get a hotel. But don't mek me bring you back to my place when you know what your intentions are,then ignore me when I text to say I had a good time
And dont tell me about how your mams a nurse and your daughters in the nativity this year etc etc etc. I will spend my time on someone worth learning about. "
Thsts how they get you because why would you divulge that information if you want a one off..very strange people out there but like you said now I know you must want sex then we can leave the so called chit chat and just get to the important bit..withoit misleading anyone  |
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By *rueone71 OP Man
over a year ago
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I'm off to egg hunting .
Thanks everyone for writing your opinion... I thoroughly enjoyed. However agreeing or disagreeing.. we are all Humans...after all. And that's..in my opinion.. the beauty of it.
Please keep on writing your opinion.. I hope to read more later
Wish you all peace and happiness
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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago
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"to be fair i could've had a lot more success with sex on POF if i'd wanted that, just i didn't want it and went there to date.
If your will is that way..than that's not my point!! which is: Why one don't get luckier on here...and instead get luckier so called *vanilla websites?? and I don't mean fooling anyone with pretences or lies (like many do!! yes.. I know!!!)"
well, if i'd have taken up the offers on POF then either site i'd have got 'lucky' on.
on here you can put a status up and get instant gratification, and you can't put sexual stuff in your profile on POF, but still the success would be the same coz men approached me (and didn't often lie about their intentions) for sex a lot on both sites. |
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By *rueone71 OP Man
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"to be fair i could've had a lot more success with sex on POF if i'd wanted that, just i didn't want it and went there to date.
If your will is that way..than that's not my point!! which is: Why one don't get luckier on here...and instead get luckier so called *vanilla websites?? and I don't mean fooling anyone with pretences or lies (like many do!! yes.. I know!!!)
well, if i'd have taken up the offers on POF then either site i'd have got 'lucky' on.
on here you can put a status up and get instant gratification, and you can't put sexual stuff in your profile on POF, but still the success would be the same coz men approached me (and didn't often lie about their intentions) for sex a lot on both sites."
On POF i cant even write Essex...lol (honest..not a joke ) |
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