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Have you ever had sex for the sake of it & regretted it?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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By that, I mean just because they were there and you didn't particularly fancy them or you actually weren't very interested in them.
I have once. Never again.  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"When I was a lot younger yes...and learned very quickly that it was rarely satisfying"
Yeah, it was the satisfaction thing for me too. I realised that without a mental connection it just didn't quite scratch the itch for me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Wouldn't go as far as saying I regretted it as it's had no baring on my life whatsoever but have gone through with it purely because they were there. Didn't think I'd ever do that as I'm not the most tactful person and I'm pretty strong willed. This was more because I felt obliged to as they'd gone to a lot of effort to meet (distance wise). |
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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago
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I had a short notice meet at mine years ago when I had very much lost my way.
He was lovely but his touch did nothing. He had no idea how to touch a lady and it was awful.
Never again |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes he was a beautiful looking man but no chemistry, I thought it would be ok cause he was so hot.. emm no.
So never ever again. "
Something like this ... but I can't say never again cos it happened more than once  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes I have done this once and I definitely learnt from the mistake....we had met a couple times before and really enjoyed each other's company, first cpl times we just kissed and talked but the time we got to actually have sex was really bad, he was really crap |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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In the past think most people have had regret sex. I know I have and yes sex without mental element is not satisfying.
The mind is a very underused sexual organ |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes lost my virginity to a girl who i had no intrest in didnt want to know and then i was wasted on my 18th birthday and she ended up bouncing on my cock on a park bench.
How ever she came in handy during college for blow jobs and she once squirted all over my hands whilst fingering her.
I never kisses her though |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yep a lovely guy travelled 4 hours to see me, it was nice but i doubt I'd of done it if he'd been local"
That was similar to me.
Just confirmed for me how important social meets are first. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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This sounds terrible but I've had sex out of 'politeness' rather than 'for the sake of it'. There was no chemistry but I thought it might get better once things got going. It didn't. It was awful and I felt a bit dirty afterwards. |
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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago
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with my last ex, i didn't really fancy him and was like 'oh, well he's here now and i want sex so might as well'. 
it used to be better going out for one night stands than 'ordering' them off here as well. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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When I was younger I did once give a bloke a pity fuck. Wasn't good for me. Then unfortunately through most of my marriage I put up with crap sex because I didn't think I was worth better. |
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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago
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"When I was younger I did once give a bloke a pity fuck. Wasn't good for me. Then unfortunately through most of my marriage I put up with crap sex because I didn't think I was worth better. "
i did this when an ex fbs mate came out of prison, it all went horribly wrong.  and the sex wasn't great. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes, guilty! Not from here I hasten to add. A former life...
Didn't fancy him but was as horny as ****, and needs must.... What can I say
I can actually hear him saying " is it in yet" lol
Not sure if he was saying my fanny is like a bucket, or his dick was so small he couldn't tell.... Obviously his dick was small, and I mean small....
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"When I was younger I did once give a bloke a pity fuck. Wasn't good for me. Then unfortunately through most of my marriage I put up with crap sex because I didn't think I was worth better.
i did this when an ex fbs mate came out of prison, it all went horribly wrong. and the sex wasn't great."
Just laughed out loud at " pity fuck " |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"When I was younger I did once give a bloke a pity fuck. Wasn't good for me. Then unfortunately through most of my marriage I put up with crap sex because I didn't think I was worth better. "
You are worth more than you will ever realise sweetheart.... I hope you are making up for loss time x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"When I was younger I did once give a bloke a pity fuck. Wasn't good for me. Then unfortunately through most of my marriage I put up with crap sex because I didn't think I was worth better.
You are worth more than you will ever realise sweetheart.... I hope you are making up for loss time x "
Thank you, yes I am having the best sex ever with my mr. Just proves you're never too old for a good sex life x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"When I was younger I did once give a bloke a pity fuck. Wasn't good for me. Then unfortunately through most of my marriage I put up with crap sex because I didn't think I was worth better.
You are worth more than you will ever realise sweetheart.... I hope you are making up for loss time x
Thank you, yes I am having the best sex ever with my mr. Just proves you're never too old for a good sex life x "
Glad to hear it!!
Age is merely a number  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"When I was younger I did once give a bloke a pity fuck. Wasn't good for me. Then unfortunately through most of my marriage I put up with crap sex because I didn't think I was worth better.
You are worth more than you will ever realise sweetheart.... I hope you are making up for loss time x
Thank you, yes I am having the best sex ever with my mr. Just proves you're never too old for a good sex life x
Glad to hear it!!
Age is merely a number "
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Note for the sake of it, but definitely out of politeness and dare I say so as not to be rude. .
The phrase taking one for the team springs to mind lol . . Thankfully hubby knows when I say this is not for me, not to push it as I have learnt the importance of chemistry on both sides xx xx |
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"By that, I mean just because they were there and you didn't particularly fancy them or you actually weren't very interested in them.
I have once. Never again. "
Never mind sex, I've had whole relationships when I was younger which were based on that premise. I had zero self confidence and thought I couldn't do any better.
Now I've 'grown up', allegedly, I took 'one for the team' once (entirely my choice) thinking it was 'just sex' and I could handle it but learnt a very hard lesson that I personally can't do that, as I felt so disgusted with myself for a long time after. Never again. |
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yes a couple of times also remember meeting someone much younger than me and was thinking of what i should say to him as i wasnt sure he was my type only things started happening and i found myself enjoying it and i didnt regret it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"In the past think most people have had regret sex. I know I have and yes sex without mental element is not satisfying.
The mind is a very underused sexual organ "
It's horrible having sex when there's no connection. It just feels wrong and makes you feel like shit afterwards |
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