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any tips on anal gaping?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A stainless steel anal speculum will do precisely what you want.
Search Google for speculum and click the first link on the right hand side pointing to Bondara. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"A stainless steel anal speculum will do precisely what you want.
Search Google for speculum and click the first link on the right hand side pointing to Bondara."
thank you xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Although can I please have a remind to avoid any threads about your success.. lol I like anal on occasion... very rare.. and nothing large.. but do have a extremely sized dildo.. its wider than a 1 litre bottle.. and I just go up in sizes to get that in...
However. It doesn't make me gap though.
Katie x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Lube a finger...
Lube 2 fingers
Lube 3 fingers
Lube 4 fingers
Take off your watch...
Lube hand."
Haaaa haaaa haaaa haaa...ooooh...View!! 
I use an inflatable, vibrating butt plug. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Lube a finger...
Lube 2 fingers
Lube 3 fingers
Lube 4 fingers
Take off your watch...
Lube hand."
Would be easier to lube soapy's head and shove him up there. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Apparently vegetables can be fun :-\
i keep looking at veg it odd ways whilst out shopping "
Carrots and parsnips are not the most robust of phallic objects. I'd be worried about them snapping and not being able to push it out.
I'm sure many of our kinky nursdes on here can tell you all sorts of rectal stories they've fallen down in fits of lau ... um.. dealt with. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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never been fisted vaginally or anally and dont think id want to go that far, but even after a good anal session i've never managed to stay open
is it because ive not had it for long enough or is there something im not doing right?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"never been fisted vaginally or anally and dont think id want to go that far, but even after a good anal session i've never managed to stay open
is it because ive not had it for long enough or is there something im not doing right?
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I would think it's your body doing what it's supposed to do. Maybe the 'gapers' have used a 'relaxant' to make them stay like that? |
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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago
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"never been fisted vaginally or anally and dont think id want to go that far, but even after a good anal session i've never managed to stay open
is it because ive not had it for long enough or is there something im not doing right?
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Bloody hell, wouldnt that be like going to an advanced class before ya got to the intermediate?  |
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"never been fisted vaginally or anally and dont think id want to go that far, but even after a good anal session i've never managed to stay open
is it because ive not had it for long enough or is there something im not doing right?
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I have no idea, i just thought everyone stayed open a bit after anal. Ive never had a fascination about it to be honest and cant personally see the benefits of having a gaping arse |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I would think it's your body doing what it's supposed to do. Maybe the 'gapers' have used a 'relaxant' to make them stay like that? "
yeah valid point, porn makes things look so easy |
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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago
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"never been fisted vaginally or anally and dont think id want to go that far, but even after a good anal session i've never managed to stay open
is it because ive not had it for long enough or is there something im not doing right?
I have no idea, i just thought everyone stayed open a bit after anal. Ive never had a fascination about it to be honest and cant personally see the benefits of having a gaping arse"
Receptacle for shoes? |
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"never been fisted vaginally or anally and dont think id want to go that far, but even after a good anal session i've never managed to stay open
is it because ive not had it for long enough or is there something im not doing right?
I have no idea, i just thought everyone stayed open a bit after anal. Ive never had a fascination about it to be honest and cant personally see the benefits of having a gaping arseReceptacle for shoes? "
mini on the job bin to put used condoms and wipes in |
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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago
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"never been fisted vaginally or anally and dont think id want to go that far, but even after a good anal session i've never managed to stay open
is it because ive not had it for long enough or is there something im not doing right?
I have no idea, i just thought everyone stayed open a bit after anal. Ive never had a fascination about it to be honest and cant personally see the benefits of having a gaping arseReceptacle for shoes?
mini on the job bin to put used condoms and wipes in "
Desk tidy? |
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By *orestersCouple
over a year ago
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"Lube a finger...
Lube 2 fingers
Lube 3 fingers
Lube 4 fingers
Take off your watch...
Lube hand."
This is probably the most accurate advice. The anal sphincter is a muscle like any other. I don't think there have been any proper medical studies done, but it would be logical that the sphincter would gain strength and increased muscular control from "alternative" usage such as regular anal sex and gaping. Body-builders will tell you that the best way to gain better muscles is by increasing weight and reps gradually.
Translating that to anal sex, I would say start with the smaller dildos and work your way up, and use a lube with a skin-conditioner in it, or mix a bit of ky with aloe vera gel. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Lube a finger...
Lube 2 fingers
Lube 3 fingers
Lube 4 fingers
Take off your watch...
Lube hand.
This is probably the most accurate advice. The anal sphincter is a muscle like any other. I don't think there have been any proper medical studies done, but it would be logical that the sphincter would gain strength and increased muscular control from "alternative" usage such as regular anal sex and gaping. Body-builders will tell you that the best way to gain better muscles is by increasing weight and reps gradually.
Translating that to anal sex, I would say start with the smaller dildos and work your way up, and use a lube with a skin-conditioner in it, or mix a bit of ky with aloe vera gel."
yes this is the best way move up sizes, also a relaxant such as poppers can help massivly, goto any sex shop to get them, dont sniff too much though. open in closed room and they will relax your anal muscles. dont forget to douche!! |
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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago
North of The Wall - youll need your vest |
" and use a lube with a skin-conditioner in it, or mix a bit of ky with aloe vera gel."
Might not make you gape but your arse will be silky smooth and wrinkle free...  |
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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago
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"I was always led to believe..by mother nature herself,that the anal area was for exit only ??????"
Noooooooooo its great to have bum sex...i was just thinking can ya get bum curtains to hide the gape? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Don't take it personally xx I just find the gaping hole stuff yuk"
lol im not, i realise its not for everyone.
im not wanting to be anally fisted here,, but from some kind private messages i think i just need a more girthier cock than what my ex had or to go a little longer. |
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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago
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"Lol good money maker. No time now as just getting ready for meet. Third one this week, not sure at my age I'll survive 
Steve "
wow.. have heaps of fun... and please live to tell the tales... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"not sure I get it...why do you want to be gaping for long afterwards?"
Its something Sharon loves..the gaping/used look.....makes her feel very slutty...trying fer the rosebud  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Im a fan of anal, but want to be stretched open gently until i gape open.
Any hints and tips on how to achieve this?"
just be careful and watch out that the wind doesn't change direction or you may be stuck like it  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Lube a finger...
Lube 2 fingers
Lube 3 fingers
Lube 4 fingers
Take off your watch...
Lube hand.
Would be easier to lube soapy's head and shove him up there. "
Cheers fa that mate xx |
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"Dont porn stars have to have theirs sewn up on occasions ?....sh*tting themselves is a hazard of the job apparantly 
yuck.........
try explaining that at ya next smear test "
sewn up
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Dont porn stars have to have theirs sewn up on occasions ?....sh*tting themselves is a hazard of the job apparantly
yuck.........
try explaining that at ya next smear test
sewn up
prolapses
complete loss of bowl control
alsorts"
I got some never used butt plugs I won in a raffle.... could be a market for them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"not sure I get it...why do you want to be gaping for long afterwards?"
So a nice young man can spurt his spunk into her hole from a distance! It's like darts, but with swingers! I'm developing a points based system |
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"Im a fan of anal, but want to be stretched open gently until i gape open.
Any hints and tips on how to achieve this?"
inflatable butt plug...another fab thing my Master introduced me to!(it vibrates as well ) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"lol i do find it slightly amusing that people think that this is a bit of a 'no no' Its just anal sex"
Dont find it a no no but do like me ass to look normal afterwards |
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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago
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"lol i do find it slightly amusing that people think that this is a bit of a 'no no' Its just anal sex"
I dont think, in fairness that the majority think it is a "no no"... i think the majority rather worry about the extent of damamge one could do to oneself if engaging in it too often and in too extreme a way? I cannot see anything worng with anal sex between two consenting people... I would just not want to suffer the well-known documented long term side effects if that makes sense? xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"lol i do find it slightly amusing that people think that this is a bit of a 'no no' Its just anal sex"
It's just anal sex to you but to me it's noooooooooowaaaaaayyyyy! |
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"lol i do find it slightly amusing that people think that this is a bit of a 'no no' Its just anal sex"
Anal sex is anal sex. Your refering to anal gaping and i think you will find most are taking the piss rather than consider it a no no. Not sure why you would find it amusing though that some people arnt into a certain sex act just because your into it. Do you think it amusing that some are not into scat? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Dont porn stars have to have theirs sewn up on occasions ?....sh*tting themselves is a hazard of the job apparantly
yuck.........
try explaining that at ya next smear test
sewn up
prolapses
complete loss of bowl control
alsorts"
Have gone right off my peanuts now |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Dont porn stars have to have theirs sewn up on occasions ?....sh*tting themselves is a hazard of the job apparantly
yuck.........
try explaining that at ya next smear test
sewn up
prolapses
complete loss of bowl control
alsorts
Have gone right off my peanuts now "
pebbledash anyone |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Only heard of this as an ex was reading a murder book...but there was an anal spreader used....honestly dunno what i think one may look like lol...but for some reason im imagining some kind of turning handle... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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ive never said i was after the extreme.. just for it to stay open for a few seconds afterwards
certainly not after anal fisting or taking a baseball bat. Ive had some great advice and tips in messages and think it just because my ex partner didn't have a girthy cock.. |
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"ive never said i was after the extreme.. just for it to stay open for a few seconds afterwards
certainly not after anal fisting or taking a baseball bat. Ive had some great advice and tips in messages and think it just because my ex partner didn't have a girthy cock.."
well you should of said that in your opening post then.
As i said earlier it usually stays open abit afterwards anyway. What difference does it make if it stays open for a few seconds or not i cant understand that bit |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"ive never said i was after the extreme.. just for it to stay open for a few seconds afterwards
certainly not after anal fisting or taking a baseball bat. Ive had some great advice and tips in messages and think it just because my ex partner didn't have a girthy cock..
well you should of said that in your opening post then.
As i said earlier it usually stays open abit afterwards anyway. What difference does it make if it stays open for a few seconds or not i cant understand that bit"
i did say it after a previous post you had made explaining,, but i got the advice i was after. |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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"but there was an anal spreader used....honestly dunno what i think one may look like lol
Same as a muck spreader?
don't look up View lol ^^^^^^^"
thinking of putting a big pic of a gaping ass on my fridge.. need to lose a few pounds.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"but there was an anal spreader used....honestly dunno what i think one may look like lol
Same as a muck spreader?
don't look up View lol ^^^^^^^
thinking of putting a big pic of a gaping ass on my fridge.. need to lose a few pounds.."
Stick it on the jar of chocolate spread |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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"but there was an anal spreader used....honestly dunno what i think one may look like lol
Same as a muck spreader?
don't look up View lol ^^^^^^^
thinking of putting a big pic of a gaping ass on my fridge.. need to lose a few pounds..
Stick it on the jar of chocolate spread "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Lol digging up old threads.. oh how ive changed lol "
People do after they have experienced it a multitude of times. It is rather enjoyable to witness the aftermath of a good anal fisting session. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Lol digging up old threads.. oh how ive changed lol
People do after they have experienced it a multitude of times. It is rather enjoyable to witness the aftermath of a good anal fisting session. "
Its fucking well dirty but it can fuck a small birds shitter up if you have big hands!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Lol digging up old threads.. oh how ive changed lol
People do after they have experienced it a multitude of times. It is rather enjoyable to witness the aftermath of a good anal fisting session.
Its fucking well dirty but it can fuck a small birds shitter up if you have big hands!!!"
Do you speak from experience? Can't imagine there are many females about who will be anally fisted. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Lol digging up old threads.. oh how ive changed lol
Were you the original OP??
sure was.. oh ive learnt a lot haha"
Do you like it dry or oiled up? I know some can take 2 fists and more real deep! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Lol digging up old threads.. oh how ive changed lol
Were you the original OP??
sure was.. oh ive learnt a lot haha
So did you achieve it?"
I just needed a cock with some girth to it. ex from back then (2 years ago) was more like a pencil.
Im not fussed by it now was just really into porn back then and guess it looked dirty n wrong and thats why i was interested. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Lol digging up old threads.. oh how ive changed lol
Were you the original OP??
sure was.. oh ive learnt a lot haha
Do you like it dry or oiled up? I know some can take 2 fists and more real deep! "
noooo never been fisted. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Lol digging up old threads.. oh how ive changed lol
Were you the original OP??
sure was.. oh ive learnt a lot haha
Do you like it dry or oiled up? I know some can take 2 fists and more real deep!
noooo never been fisted. "
Yeh yeh its ok I wont tell |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I don't know about anal gaping but my mouth is gaping right now. 
Sassy, you just don't make threads like you used to  "
i was younger and now other people start threads as bad as this so i dont have too haha
still was interesting reading pmsl.. is it at 175 posts yet? |
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