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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think we all have those days, slouch out with a good movie, wine and some junk food until it passes, as I learnt from beauty and the beast, vanity is skin deep, you have to be confident and love yourself and middle finger to what anyone else thinks. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"This isn't one of those give me compliments threads
Simply, what do you do when you feel extremely unattractive. I've just cancelled a meet as his veris are really stunning"
Did you tell him why you cancelled?
He must have wanted to meet you because he liked you. |
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By *airymagic OP Woman
over a year ago
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"This isn't one of those give me compliments threads
Simply, what do you do when you feel extremely unattractive. I've just cancelled a meet as his veris are really stunning
Did you tell him why you cancelled?
He must have wanted to meet you because he liked you. "
Or he was treading water for another hottie |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sorry you felt the need to cancel, im sure he would be gutted about it.
A few days going hard at the gym good healthy food days, and a good old pamper session, painting me toes etc, generally brings me back to full confidence xx |
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By *airymagic OP Woman
over a year ago
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"Stop snacking so much,get some exercise and make a bit of effort,but sometimes just wait for it to pass.
Erm it's not my body but thanks i feel ugly
I'm talking about me not you!!!"
Sorry thought you were telling me to do that! |
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"Stop snacking so much,get some exercise and make a bit of effort,but sometimes just wait for it to pass.
Erm it's not my body but thanks i feel ugly
I'm talking about me not you!!!
Sorry thought you were telling me to do that!"
No,you asked a question I answered it  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Stop snacking so much,get some exercise and make a bit of effort,but sometimes just wait for it to pass.
Erm it's not my body but thanks i feel ugly
I'm talking about me not you!!!"
 Sorry I shouldn't giggle on this thread...but a classic example of thinking about your words could be interpreted by others?  |
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"Stop snacking so much,get some exercise and make a bit of effort,but sometimes just wait for it to pass.
Erm it's not my body but thanks i feel ugly
I'm talking about me not you!!! Sorry I shouldn't giggle on this thread...but a classic example of thinking about your words could be interpreted by others? "
You talking to me? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Stop snacking so much,get some exercise and make a bit of effort,but sometimes just wait for it to pass.
Erm it's not my body but thanks i feel ugly
I'm talking about me not you!!! Sorry I shouldn't giggle on this thread...but a classic example of thinking about your words could be interpreted by others?
You talking to me?"
You must be talking to me |
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By *s_macWoman
over a year ago
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"This isn't one of those give me compliments threads
Simply, what do you do when you feel extremely unattractive. I've just cancelled a meet as his veris are really stunning"
I hear ya. For one reason or another just now I feel like the shitty chocolate left in the box that no one wants 
It'll pass I'm sure, just be kind to yourself. I'm having a massive g&t, going to have a hot shower with my nicest toiletries and climb in to my lovely clean bed with the optimistic thought that tomorrow will feel better. I hope it does for you too. |
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By *airymagic OP Woman
over a year ago
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"This isn't one of those give me compliments threads
Simply, what do you do when you feel extremely unattractive. I've just cancelled a meet as his veris are really stunning
I hear ya. For one reason or another just now I feel like the shitty chocolate left in the box that no one wants
It'll pass I'm sure, just be kind to yourself. I'm having a massive g&t, going to have a hot shower with my nicest toiletries and climb in to my lovely clean bed with the optimistic thought that tomorrow will feel better. I hope it does for you too."
Thanks, hope your day goes well xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"This isn't one of those give me compliments threads
Simply, what do you do when you feel extremely unattractive. I've just cancelled a meet as his veris are really stunning"
He wouldn't have arranged the meet if he didn't want to meet you/fancy you etc. Don't put yourself down...imagine how good you would feel being on his "stunning" verification list? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hot bath, candles, bubbles, ice cold wine, movie, Chinese.
Teddy "
Yes something to cuddle is soothing. I cuddle a pillow sometimes.
OP - have a good nights sleep. Tomorrow is another day. Be kind to yourself. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Stop snacking so much,get some exercise and make a bit of effort,but sometimes just wait for it to pass.
Erm it's not my body but thanks i feel ugly
I'm talking about me not you!!! Sorry I shouldn't giggle on this thread...but a classic example of thinking about your words could be interpreted by others?
You talking to me?"
I was giggling. Your reply was perfectly reasonable and I understood it. But it got misinterpreted as you telling the OP to stop snacking and exercise. Good old text conversations. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hugs OP
Everyone feels like that sometimes - I've cancelled meets because of someone's veris before - it's really hard not to compare yourself to others.
I would just get a bottle of wine and some yummy things to eat and chat liads of shit on here.
Wake up tomorrow to a new day x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Stop snacking so much,get some exercise and make a bit of effort,but sometimes just wait for it to pass.
Erm it's not my body but thanks i feel ugly
I'm talking about me not you!!! Sorry I shouldn't giggle on this thread...but a classic example of thinking about your words could be interpreted by others?
You talking to me?
You must be talking to me "
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"Stop snacking so much,get some exercise and make a bit of effort,but sometimes just wait for it to pass.
Erm it's not my body but thanks i feel ugly
I'm talking about me not you!!! Sorry I shouldn't giggle on this thread...but a classic example of thinking about your words could be interpreted by others?
You talking to me?
I was giggling. Your reply was perfectly reasonable and I understood it. But it got misinterpreted as you telling the OP to stop snacking and exercise. Good old text conversations."
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"Stop snacking so much,get some exercise and make a bit of effort,but sometimes just wait for it to pass.
Erm it's not my body but thanks i feel ugly
I'm talking about me not you!!! Sorry I shouldn't giggle on this thread...but a classic example of thinking about your words could be interpreted by others?
You talking to me?
You must be talking to me
There's nobody else here "
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It's such a shame you felt you had to cancel ... I do understand how easy it sometimes is to feel 'ugly' in comparison to others if you don't have a lot of self confidence but I bet the guy you were going to see wasn't thinking like that at all. Chances are if you think he usually meets stunning women, then that's the category he sees you in too.
Like others have said, try to treat yourself to something you really enjoy and start again tomorrow. Maybe apologise for a huge attack of nerves (I sympathise hugely) and see if you can't rearrange things.  |
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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago
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i never feel ugly, and i'm not being vain saying that, i just don't.
1) i never compare with anyone else or compete with them, i know my limits and happy to accept them and don't really care what anyone else thinks about me (if they don't care about me).
2) people are average looking (or slightly under or over but most people are neither stunning nor fugly, they are average like you & me) they can fancy themselves up with make up, clothes, accessories, grooming and make themselves look different.
my precious qualities go way further than my outside and that's another reason why i feel good about myself too. plus coz i'm average looking i do alright. |
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By *omez42Man
over a year ago
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I'm feeling a bit fragile at the moment, those who get to know me all say I'm great, but it's frustrating to not even get the chance to show it.
Normally I brush it off, but sometimes it just hurts.
As for advice, when I'm more positive, I will tell the OP to treat everything as a learning experience, go for everything, even if you learn that it was wrong, use that experience to make a better decision next time.
Embrace both the good and the bad, use them both to improve.
But I do realise how hard it can be sometimes. |
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By *ohohoWoman
over a year ago
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OP how do you know they were stunning? Photos on here can be deceiving.
I have in the past turned down men who only displayed verifications from slim women. So I do understand. I wanted to see women similar to me on the list. In my mind I doubted I was the exception to the rule, just that he favoured some people's verifications over others. Turned out I was right on that occasion.
I would be honest with him and tell him why you have turned him down. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I wouldn't have cancelled the meet. Nothing helps me feel awesome more than a good time with someone else."
Absolutely when I'm feeling shit a good session with My man makes me feel do sexy!!!! |
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By *airymagic OP Woman
over a year ago
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"I wouldn't have cancelled the meet. Nothing helps me feel awesome more than a good time with someone else.
Absolutely when I'm feeling shit a good session with My man makes me feel do sexy!!!! "
Maybe I'm missing my regular slot n now i feel like a wreck |
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