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What would you do if you found your partner in bed with another person
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You came home from work and you found your partner fucking some one else. How would you react?"
These days.....ask if I could join in?
Then get a guy round another day and see his reaction lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You came home from work and you found your partner fucking some one else. How would you react?
These days.....ask if I could join in?
Then get a guy round another day and see his reaction lol "
Ask me any day  |
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By *aptain V OP Man
over a year ago
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"Providing she wasn't cheating on me then I'd be delighted she was enjoying herself.
As to what would I do, just leave them to it and take them a cup of tea when they'd finished!"
A younger guy she met whilst shopping?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's something my mrs has been trying to set up but never been successful, I'd love to come home and find her fuckin another guy, I'd strip down and join in  |
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"Providing she wasn't cheating on me then I'd be delighted she was enjoying herself.
As to what would I do, just leave them to it and take them a cup of tea when they'd finished!
A younger guy she met whilst shopping??"
Same applies.
If she told me beforehand, which I know she would, that she was taking a guy back home to go to bed with then no problem at all.
If she cheated and I just walked in on her then that's a different story. |
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Sorry to sound like the crazy one but I would kill jake...strait up...no joke...I give him the chance to fuck whoever he likes as long as I can watch..how dare he take that kinda porn away from me...?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Most likely just scoop up all her stuff and go outside and throw it up the street so she had to do the walk of shame to get it back as she sure as hell wouldnt be leaving with anything from my house
Him id tell him he had five minutes to pack his stuff and leave on his own or with her i wouldnt really care as long as he was gone. |
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"You came home from work and you found your partner fucking some one else. How would you react?
These days.....ask if I could join in?
Then get a guy round another day and see his reaction lol "
Haha. Love it? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"A women I used to work with went home early as she wasn't well .she found her hubby in bed with a man .  "
I guess it's a shame that he didn't feel he could tell her about his bisexuality. Perhaps she was a bit homophobic. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'd grab her by the hair and drag her naked arse out onto the street.
Then i'd grab his clothes, throw them out the window and tell him to fuck off after them.
Then i'd change the locks.
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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"A women I used to work with went home early as she wasn't well .she found her hubby in bed with a man .
I guess it's a shame that he didn't feel he could tell her about his bisexuality. Perhaps she was a bit homophobic."
Why would you assume that? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Depends if it was pre arranged.. Join in then.
Depends if it was male or female.
Depends if I fancy them.
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This ^^, plus it depends who it is. If it was his ex, I'd react badly. Like call the emergency services badly.
There's a difference between cheating and swinging. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"A women I used to work with went home early as she wasn't well .she found her hubby in bed with a man .
I guess it's a shame that he didn't feel he could tell her about his bisexuality. Perhaps she was a bit homophobic.
Why would you assume that?"
I'm not really assuming anything. I'm just poking at the fact that it sounded more scandalous because hubby was in bed with A MAN! Because clearly, men fucking men is worse than men fucking women. |
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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"A women I used to work with went home early as she wasn't well .she found her hubby in bed with a man .
I guess it's a shame that he didn't feel he could tell her about his bisexuality. Perhaps she was a bit homophobic.
Why would you assume that?
I'm not really assuming anything. I'm just poking at the fact that it sounded more scandalous because hubby was in bed with A MAN! Because clearly, men fucking men is worse than men fucking women."
She didn't say any of that, you assumed it |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"A women I used to work with went home early as she wasn't well .she found her hubby in bed with a man . "
As I've always wanted a threesome with two bi men, I'd think all my dreams had come true  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"A women I used to work with went home early as she wasn't well .she found her hubby in bed with a man .
I guess it's a shame that he didn't feel he could tell her about his bisexuality. Perhaps she was a bit homophobic.
Why would you assume that?
I'm not really assuming anything. I'm just poking at the fact that it sounded more scandalous because hubby was in bed with A MAN! Because clearly, men fucking men is worse than men fucking women.
She didn't say any of that, you assumed it"
Yes. From the that the poster used. I think it's clear what the implication was. |
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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"A women I used to work with went home early as she wasn't well .she found her hubby in bed with a man .
I guess it's a shame that he didn't feel he could tell her about his bisexuality. Perhaps she was a bit homophobic.
Why would you assume that?
I'm not really assuming anything. I'm just poking at the fact that it sounded more scandalous because hubby was in bed with A MAN! Because clearly, men fucking men is worse than men fucking women.
She didn't say any of that, you assumed it
Yes. From the that the poster used. I think it's clear what the implication was."
But is it?
The first thing I thought of was that if the woman didn't know he was bi it would be a bigger shock to find the man in bed with another man than finding him in bed with a woman.
There are other possible explanations rather than thinking the woman has to be homophobic because the man she was sleeping with hadn't bothered to let her know he was bi.
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By *ugby 123Couple
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There are other possible explanations rather than thinking the woman could be homophobic because the man she was sleeping with hadn't bothered to let her know he was bi.
( changed the Has to be to could be ) |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"A women I used to work with went home early as she wasn't well .she found her hubby in bed with a man .
I guess it's a shame that he didn't feel he could tell her about his bisexuality. Perhaps she was a bit homophobic.
Why would you assume that?
I'm not really assuming anything. I'm just poking at the fact that it sounded more scandalous because hubby was in bed with A MAN! Because clearly, men fucking men is worse than men fucking women.
She didn't say any of that, you assumed it
Yes. From the that the poster used. I think it's clear what the implication was.
But is it?
The first thing I thought of was that if the woman didn't know he was bi it would be a bigger shock to find the man in bed with another man than finding him in bed with a woman.
There are other possible explanations rather than thinking the woman has to be homophobic because the man she was sleeping with hadn't bothered to let her know he was bi.
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She was unaware and had a breakdown because of it ,felt really sorry for her. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"You came home from work and you found your partner fucking some one else. How would you react?"
I'd be OK, assuming she had completed all her wifey chores around the house, of course. Otherwise I'd be livid! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"You came home from work and you found your partner fucking some one else. How would you react?"
If I had a partner in the sense that we lived together, in a relationship, then I wouldn't be on Fabs.
So, I'd consider the following:
1. Calmly phone the bank and remove all access to joint funds, cancel any joint cards.
2. Cancel any financial agreement - car insurance, anything paid on her behalf.
3. Arrange a locksmith.
4. Phone the police and report a burglar in my home.
5. Beat the shit out of whoever it was.
6. call an ambulance.
7. Let her drive off in her uninsured car.
8. Arrange local charity to collect all her things.
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"You came home from work and you found your partner fucking some one else. How would you react?
If I had a partner in the sense that we lived together, in a relationship, then I wouldn't be on Fabs.
So, I'd consider the following:
1. Calmly phone the bank and remove all access to joint funds, cancel any joint cards.
2. Cancel any financial agreement - car insurance, anything paid on her behalf.
3. Arrange a locksmith.
4. Phone the police and report a burglar in my home.
5. Beat the shit out of whoever it was.
6. call an ambulance.
7. Let her drive off in her uninsured car.
8. Arrange local charity to collect all her things.
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Thorough....  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Fred knows i'd love this, and he knows he has permission to do so, I would however be surprised as he hasn't wanted to play without me. I imagine the biggest shock would be for the other woman though, not a fair position to put her in without telling her I suppose.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Jump in with him (although he's not my boyfriend, husband or significant other). It could be a sexy, young woman, a tgirl or a man. Or all 3 if I'm lucky |
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By (user no longer on site)
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The sanctimoniousness on this thread is strong here .... 
You lot do realise you're on a swingers site and we're allegedly vermin to the rest of the world.....
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By (user no longer on site)
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"You came home from work and you found your partner fucking some one else. How would you react?
If I had a partner in the sense that we lived together, in a relationship, then I wouldn't be on Fabs.
So, I'd consider the following:
1. Calmly phone the bank and remove all access to joint funds, cancel any joint cards.
2. Cancel any financial agreement - car insurance, anything paid on her behalf.
3. Arrange a locksmith.
4. Phone the police and report a burglar in my home.
5. Beat the shit out of whoever it was.
6. call an ambulance.
7. Let her drive off in her uninsured car.
8. Arrange local charity to collect all her things.
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I like your style  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The sanctimoniousness on this thread is strong here ....
Which bits are they?
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Personally I'm single, but it's the general whiff of the usual "cheaters are scum of the earth and deserve to be publicly flogged"...kind of thing...
Anyway get your knickers off. |
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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"The sanctimoniousness on this thread is strong here ....
Which bits are they?
Personally I'm single, but it's the general whiff of the usual "cheaters are scum of the earth and deserve to be publicly flogged"...kind of thing...
Anyway get your knickers off. "
I didn't get any of that on this thread. Having said that, if Swingers go behind their partners back it is still cheating so I doubt if that would be acceptable even if they are swingers.
I would but my bum is cold so no |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I'd probably start crying and run. Lol then half way down the stairs, rage would come over me and I would go back and he would wish he hadn't been born I'd never physically hurt anyone, but my acid tongue and intelligence has its uses.
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By *ugby 123Couple
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"I am single, but I reckon some would be like those in the cheaters program with joe creco lol."
If it was done behind their back I doubt if anyone would be happy. It is almost like you seem surprised that would happen, as if you think because people swing together then it wouldn't bother them if one of them goes behind the others back? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I am single, but I reckon some would be like those in the cheaters program with joe creco lol.
If it was done behind their back I doubt if anyone would be happy. It is almost like you seem surprised that would happen, as if you think because people swing together then it wouldn't bother them if one of them goes behind the others back?"
No. I am not surprised about it, it is probably more common than we think and yeah, everyone would react differently if they did find out. |
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There's a song by Glenn Frey - Who's Ben Sleepin in my Bed and when he catches them the lyric says:
Well, I'm callin' up the hospital, darlin'
Gettin' a room with two beds in your name
'Cause you and your brand new boyfriend
Will about to be together again
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By (user no longer on site)
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"There's a song by Glenn Frey - Who's Ben Sleepin in my Bed and when he catches them the lyric says:
Well, I'm callin' up the hospital, darlin'
Gettin' a room with two beds in your name
'Cause you and your brand new
boyfriend
Will about to be together again
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By (user no longer on site)
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"You came home from work and you found your partner fucking some one else. How would you react?"
I'd turn around, walk out the door with an incredibly heavy heart and move on... |
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