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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Never posted on the forum but we have been on the site a little while now. We have chatted to some wonderful people and equally met a few wonderful ladies and couples but by and large have been inundated by time wasters. Is this the norm or just us? It's quite clear what we are looking for. Mostly girl girl fun for my lovely lady and I watch and/or join in if the situation presents itself. To that end we have heard from and chatted with many. The problem is that someone chats for several days and then once it gets near arranging something or swapping numbers etc they vanish. Is this the norm. It's such a waste of energy and just makes us want to forget about it all sadly. Hope I'm wrong and there are some genuine lovely bi ladies or great couples out there wantng the same. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Thanks for advice. Seems that's the way forward unless we here from anyone genuine."
Genuine? Would narrow that down to people who have meetings in person, but they still can back out from meeting when it comes to the 11th hour. I've not attended a club myself but I do know, you're less likely to have your time wasted there than you are here making arrangements on here. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It is the norm on here, best advise is attend a club  "
I don't think it's the norm. Follow gut instincts. If they don't merthyr for socials or chat early on then those may be indicators? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Never posted on the forum but we have been on the site a little while now. We have chatted to some wonderful people and equally met a few wonderful ladies and couples but by and large have been inundated by time wasters. Is this the norm or just us? It's quite clear what we are looking for. Mostly girl girl fun for my lovely lady and I watch and/or join in if the situation presents itself. To that end we have heard from and chatted with many. The problem is that someone chats for several days and then once it gets near arranging something or swapping numbers etc they vanish. Is this the norm. It's such a waste of energy and just makes us want to forget about it all sadly. Hope I'm wrong and there are some genuine lovely bi ladies or great couples out there wantng the same."
the thing with chatting to single bi women as a couple would be if you all got on together and wanted the same things to happen on a meet..
most single bi women are genuine but we don't like to be part of the floor show in order for hubby to watch...
because of the dynamic IMO anyway, I would have to feel a rapport with both of you, and find out what it is you both want out of the meet...
if that doesn't match what I'm looking for then I would bail out, no harm done..
that's not timewasting either, that's me knowing my own mind |
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"It is the norm on here, best advise is attend a club "
Clubs aren't the be-all-and-end-all, but if someone is actually there while you are, there's more chance of finding what you're looking for. And yes, time wasters are an accepted 'norm' in here, unfortunately |
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By (user no longer on site)
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We have had contact with many lovely people on here but through no one's fault have met none of them until we plucked up the courage to go to a club.
Be patient. You will both get what you are looking for in time. |
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