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social.... or straight meet up .....what do you prefer
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's hard to give a black and white answer.
They're sequential- social then straight up.
Hopefully both enjoyable but the straight up meet has to be the goal - it's why we're all (well most of us anyway) here.
So - I prefer the straight up meet. But after a social!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I no
We aren't all the same
So
Social
Or straight meet up
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straight out meets are good and exciting..
meets first build the tension. sat there looking at her, undressing her with your eye and leaving something for the imagination. plus the wait for the meet makes it more horny.. well thats me anyway  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Social first, I can't just jump in the sack so to speak, There has to be a connection for me, I know some guys on here who are happy to meet for sex, but for me to enjoy it, I've got to get to know the other person a bit first. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I no
We aren't all the same
So
Social
Or straight meet up
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Social is best and a lot more fun to chat first.....the meet wham bang for me there is no connection??. |
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For a meet with a single guy we now insist on a social first , at a pub , and if the chemistry works we are happy to play as the meet develops .
With couples , single women and TVs , although we would always wait to establish the attraction , a straight into play meet is fine .
We've done both , and up until a few months ago we always said socials were a waste of time . Still do if we are honest , but the build up , the flirting , the kissing and discreet touching seem to add something special to a meet with a single guy . I will often be sitting on a different table in the pub , watching and enjoying the flirting . The beauty of this kind of meet also eliminates the guys who want a quick blow and go .
So there you have it , we have said it , we like a social first !
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Having them turn up at all first. Then I'll see how it goes."
wow, iv seen a few statuses about people not showing up. what the hell is wrong with people? unless they aint 100% honest whilst chatting. their lose i suppose  |
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"For a meet with a single guy we now insist on a social first , at a pub , and if the chemistry works we are happy to play as the meet develops .
With couples , single women and TVs , although we would always wait to establish the attraction , a straight into play meet is fine .
We've done both , and up until a few months ago we always said socials were a waste of time . Still do if we are honest , but the build up , the flirting , the kissing and discreet touching seem to add something special to a meet with a single guy . I will often be sitting on a different table in the pub , watching and enjoying the flirting . The beauty of this kind of meet also eliminates the guys who want a quick blow and go .
So there you have it , we have said it , we like a social first !
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Totally agree with this and we still would love to meet you both
Boo |
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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago
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I like to have a social, its rare for me to get straight down to it. I need to fancy someone. What if you don't? A polite no thanks? Take one for the team? That's going to waste my time so I'd my head rather have a coffee somewhere first |
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Clearly it depends on the circumstances building up to a meet, invariably socials turn out to be a lot more. The way I've done things beforehand straight up meets have ended up being the norm. I haven't been on the site long so not a wealth of meeting experience to gleam from. I think you just know if you spend some time messaging etc prior to a meet. Any uncertainty or if the other party prefers then arrange a social  |
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"For a meet with a single guy we now insist on a social first , at a pub , and if the chemistry works we are happy to play as the meet develops .
With couples , single women and TVs , although we would always wait to establish the attraction , a straight into play meet is fine .
We've done both , and up until a few months ago we always said socials were a waste of time . Still do if we are honest , but the build up , the flirting , the kissing and discreet touching seem to add something special to a meet with a single guy . I will often be sitting on a different table in the pub , watching and enjoying the flirting . The beauty of this kind of meet also eliminates the guys who want a quick blow and go .
So there you have it , we have said it , we like a social first !
Totally agree with this and we still would love to meet you both
Boo "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've never had a social 
I do chat lots before I meet someone tho so I know whether I'll like them before I invite them to my house 
*safety measures in place* |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Social everytime but will occasionally play on a social but I think I prefer socials as it's a great get out clause if your not sure that person is for you |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Don't particularly care lol. I do tend to socialise more with people who catch my interest and I socialise more in clubs. Not gonna lie, there are some people so boring they're only good for a fuck.
Did meet someone off here the other day and only intended on a social but ended up being more and so glad it did. Will be seeing her again, no doubt. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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do both........
start the evening off in a bar to break the ice , have the understanding that if all in agreeance back to the house or hotel room , if theres no attraction , it remains a social.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I like it to be an actual meet.
Both parties can still walk away.
I wouldn't just meet someone for a pure social, unless they were within literally 10 miles of me.
Otherwise it's a waste of time, I'm not here to date. |
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"I like it to be an actual meet.
Both parties can still walk away.
I wouldn't just meet someone for a pure social, unless they were within literally 10 miles of me.
Otherwise it's a waste of time, I'm not here to date."
Exactly , when someone says they only want a social and there's not gonna be any play no matter what we wouldn't say no to that .
We are perfectly happy to have a no pressure meet where either party can walk away if there's no attraction , but if the attractions there , let's play ! |
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