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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Why do so many women out on here that they're 'desperate' for cock, and then not even bother replying, and no, I don't simply believe it's all down to too many messages to read either |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why do so many women out on here that they're 'desperate' for cock, and then not even bother replying, and no, I don't simply believe it's all down to too many messages to read either"
Maybe they are not into the same stuff as you..
It happens |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"and i got all guys blocked and still don't reply to the few who get past my filters.
most men ain't got a clue.
Except me 
by saying most i did not include you in that.   "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A minute ago you were saying that you'd had a lot of responses, albeit asking you for money or luring you other sites.
What is your policy for messaging ladies?
Genuine question.
When I first joined (when I previously here a couple of years ago) I initially tried the whole 'scattergun' approach where I cluster mailed pretty much every single female in the area with a reasonably generic message. And got nowhere.
Then I changed my approach and really looked for people that I thought might be compatible and that I genuinely liked.
As a result I only messaged someone rarely, but properly read their profile and constructed a message tailored to them. Despite messaging just a fraction of those I used to the responses and success increased exponentially.
Without knowing your approach to messaging it might be a useful thing to consider your approach and read the outer advice threads on these topics in the forums (use the search function). Good luck! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why do so many women out on here that they're 'desperate' for cock, and then not even bother replying, and no, I don't simply believe it's all down to too many messages to read either"
"Desperate for cock", such a charming term. Few women on here are desperate for cock, they are looking for sex, big difference. And not sex with the first cock that is avaible.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why do so many women out on here that they're 'desperate' for crocks, and then not even bother replying, and no, I don't simply believe it's all down to too many messages to read either"
Maybe they have a weird shoe fetish, or a fetish for weird shoes...... |
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"Why do so many women out on here that they're 'desperate' for cock, and then not even bother replying, and no, I don't simply believe it's all down to too many messages to read either
"Desperate for cock", such a charming term. Few women on here are desperate for cock, they are looking for sex, big difference. And not sex with the first cock that is avaible.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Because they don't have to. They don't owe you a response.
Your profile and tastes narrow considerably, those that will respond.
The pictures you use aren't great. That will be the single biggest determining factor.
Look at some of the male profiles on this thread- some of them are very good. It will give you an idea of how good a profile can be. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Fine if they are choosy then no problem, I don't know why they say desperate then if they're not that desperate"
Just ignore those profiles..
People say anything to get attention on here.. |
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By *issVeryWoman
over a year ago
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"Fine if they are choosy then no problem, I don't know why they say desperate then if they're not that desperate"
If you're looking to meet such women, I'm guessing your approach is lazy and banking on their desperation..I'm horny as fuck..but looking at your profile I'm thinking nah..this person makes no effort so why would it be any different in the bedroom..  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Ok fine it's me. I'm just confused why so many women put stuff up like 'fancy a shag', 'horny now' and 'up for horny fun right now' if they're actually reasonably picky. Its like me putting up 'need pussy now, desperate for it's and then saying, 'well I'm not actually, I just said I was, I'm actually quite choosy who I fuck' |
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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago
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they're up for sex at the time, doesn't mean with anyone and everyone. how can you not understand that?
it's a way to get guys to approach them but it doesn't guarantee any of them a fuck.
i used to put statuses up like that, and get loads of replies to it, i would pick the most attractive guy out of them and fuck him.
if only guys i didn't fancy replied i'd wait until one i fancied replied. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ok fine it's me. I'm just confused why so many women put stuff up like 'fancy a shag', 'horny now' and 'up for horny fun right now' if they're actually reasonably picky. Its like me putting up 'need pussy now, desperate for it's and then saying, 'well I'm not actually, I just said I was, I'm actually quite choosy who I fuck'"
Can you honestly not see why just someone uses those terms they aren;t going to necessarily fuck anyone? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"they're up for sex at the time, doesn't mean with anyone and everyone. how can you not understand that?
it's a way to get guys to approach them but it doesn't guarantee any of them a fuck.
i used to put statuses up like that, and get loads of replies to it, i would pick the most attractive guy out of them and fuck him.
if only guys i didn't fancy replied i'd wait until one i fancied replied."
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By *issVeryWoman
over a year ago
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"Ok fine it's me. I'm just confused why so many women put stuff up like 'fancy a shag', 'horny now' and 'up for horny fun right now' if they're actually reasonably picky. Its like me putting up 'need pussy now, desperate for it's and then saying, 'well I'm not actually, I just said I was, I'm actually quite choosy who I fuck'"
Have you seen profiles that say;
'Fancy a shag-doesn't matter who with'
'Horny now- don't care who satisfies me'
'Up for horny fun right now- don't care who you are'
If you have, then I apologise, rant away. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ok fine it's me. I'm just confused why so many women put stuff up like 'fancy a shag', 'horny now' and 'up for horny fun right now' if they're actually reasonably picky. Its like me putting up 'need pussy now, desperate for it's and then saying, 'well I'm not actually, I just said I was, I'm actually quite choosy who I fuck'"
Pehaps they got 8 messages and they're working their way through them and you're number 9 in the queue. Give them 20 minutes.. wait in line..... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"not that desperate to fuck everyone who comes along.
even i wouldn't wanna fuck 100 guys a day, 9 is my limit so far."
Stop leading men on! Fuck all the ones that ask otherwise it's just not fair. |
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"and i got all guys blocked and still don't reply to the few who get past my filters.
most men ain't got a clue.
I'm not sure this is a man bashing thread..is it?   "
isn't that what they all end up as? |
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OP I'm going to go out on a limb here, but smile in a picture - it might make the difference. No one on here owes you anything or is here to do you a favour so work the system to suit you. A woman saying she is horny does not mean she's horny for you necessarily. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Desperation ain't an attractive quality ....in either males or females!
Has it's place I guess though...if it wasn't for some folks being desperate then some would never get a shag!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Desperation ain't an attractive quality ....in either males or females!
Has it's place I guess though...if it wasn't for some folks being desperate then some would never get a shag! "
Yep, thank fuck for desperate men   |
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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago
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"not that desperate to fuck everyone who comes along.
even i wouldn't wanna fuck 100 guys a day, 9 is my limit so far.
Stop leading men on! Fuck all the ones that ask otherwise it's just not fair. "
sorry, my fanny can't handle any more guys than that in one day. 
although if i did bjs and handjobs at the same time i could quadruple my meets. |
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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago
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"and i got all guys blocked and still don't reply to the few who get past my filters.
most men ain't got a clue.
I'm not sure this is a man bashing thread..is it? "
yes. i posted so now it is that. and it's men who haven't got a clue bashing.
what do you expect when men think we'll fuck anything that asks? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Firstly I'm holding my head in hands. If I read one more "hows my profile" thread I'm going to explode.
I can't talk for all single women on here but I imagine most women, like me are looking for something alternative on here. They are not desperate, easy or looking for a quick fuck and go. They want something completely different something they haven't had before. I know for a fact if I advertised that I was 'desperate for cock' I would be inundated with messages that would take a life time to look though. So it's not wise for women to do that and frankly they really don't need to. 
Peach x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why do so many women out on here that they're 'desperate' for cock, and then not even bother replying, and no, I don't simply believe it's all down to too many messages to read either"
Maybe they're just not attracted to you?  X |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Mate...
Mate... I wish there was a shaking head emoji...
Mate...
The 24 women actually on the site will not like this post...
Lol
Your a mosquito outside a mosquito net and there's a beautiful lady the other side of the net.
They're not secretaries yet they have 1001 mails to shift through so they're gonna miss the qualities you may or may not have due to sheer volume.
Just relax mate... if this is your primary source of contact then reevaluate your life dude.
Relax... breathe |
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