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By *ouisee OP Woman
over a year ago
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How are you ever supposed to know if u r interested in somebody when they just have a black bloody shadow profile pic & not a single public pic. To me it just feels pointless making any effort. Opinions please. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"How are you ever supposed to know if u r interested in somebody when they just have a black bloody shadow profile pic & not a single public pic. To me it just feels pointless making any effort. Opinions please. "
Why would you even bother? I ignore. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"How are you ever supposed to know if u r interested in somebody when they just have a black bloody shadow profile pic & not a single public pic. To me it just feels pointless making any effort. Opinions please. "
One would hope their personality should shine brighter than any photo could.
Failing that it's one hell of a filter  |
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By *ouisee OP Woman
over a year ago
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"How are you ever supposed to know if u r interested in somebody when they just have a black bloody shadow profile pic & not a single public pic. To me it just feels pointless making any effort. Opinions please.
Why would you even bother? I ignore. "
I figure there must be something wrong with them if they show nothing so I do ignore generally |
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By *ouisee OP Woman
over a year ago
andover |
"How are you ever supposed to know if u r interested in somebody when they just have a black bloody shadow profile pic & not a single public pic. To me it just feels pointless making any effort. Opinions please.
One would hope their personality should shine brighter than any photo could.
Failing that it's one hell of a filter "
But the chances are you are not going to even get to know their personality because you just pass them by |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"That's why i did mine it keeps my anonymity but it's better than a shadow"
Yours shows some personality and thought, but I would say there are plenty of pics people use as avatars that would never identify them but at least give the viewer an idea of what they are like. Having a revealing avatar and being anonymous are not mutually exclusive.
Unless the profile is absolutely cracking I'd ignore a profile without pics. |
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By *ouisee OP Woman
over a year ago
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"If I fancy some one I will send them the private pics. "
But if they are just a black shadow how threw hell do u even get to the point of deciding you fancy them. I am not suggesting face pics should be public image but come on some photos should be. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've been thinking about opening a second profile with just a few cock pics and sparse info. I'm interested to see what interest I get compared to my current profile. |
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By *ouisee OP Woman
over a year ago
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"I've been thinking about opening a second profile with just a few cock pics and sparse info. I'm interested to see what interest I get compared to my current profile."
Well you are pretty hot keep this profile |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If I fancy some one I will send them the private pics.
But if they are just a black shadow how threw hell do u even get to the point of deciding you fancy them. I am not suggesting face pics should be public image but come on some photos should be."
I read the description on the profile first |
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By *ouisee OP Woman
over a year ago
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"If I fancy some one I will send them the private pics.
But if they are just a black shadow how threw hell do u even get to the point of deciding you fancy them. I am not suggesting face pics should be public image but come on some photos should be.
I read the description on the profile first "
"I am a genuine fun guy looking for like minded people to have some NSA fun with" isn't that the standard????? |
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By *ouisee OP Woman
over a year ago
andover |
"Some do it as a way of being mysterious. Long as their prepared to send some clear and better ones privately,but I do get the OP as it can get very tedious if you've come across a few like that "
It does my nut in - I am sick of getting messages from on black shadows |
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By *ouisee OP Woman
over a year ago
andover |
"Some do it as a way of being mysterious. Long as their prepared to send some clear and better ones privately,but I do get the OP as it can get very tedious if you've come across a few like that "
Is it mystery or embarrassment? If u want to be on a site like this own it & be confident. Confidence is sexy. |
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"Some do it as a way of being mysterious. Long as their prepared to send some clear and better ones privately,but I do get the OP as it can get very tedious if you've come across a few like that
Is it mystery or embarrassment? If u want to be on a site like this own it & be confident. Confidence is sexy."
It's why the world is a good place because everyone is different. Not everyone is confident. We all have different personalities. What comes natural to you won't cone natural to someone else..or maybe he is embarrassed. Did he have any meets? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Some do it as a way of being mysterious. Long as their prepared to send some clear and better ones privately,but I do get the OP as it can get very tedious if you've come across a few like that
Is it mystery or embarrassment? If u want to be on a site like this own it & be confident. Confidence is sexy."
you will have to ask those who do it...
do a fab survey 'we asked 100 silhouettes what was going through their minds when they populated their profile'...cock pic or silhouette...hmmmmmm its a tricky one  |
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By *ouisee OP Woman
over a year ago
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"Some do it as a way of being mysterious. Long as their prepared to send some clear and better ones privately,but I do get the OP as it can get very tedious if you've come across a few like that
Is it mystery or embarrassment? If u want to be on a site like this own it & be confident. Confidence is sexy.
It's why the world is a good place because everyone is different. Not everyone is confident. We all have different personalities. What comes natural to you won't cone natural to someone else..or maybe he is embarrassed. Did he have any meets?"
I am just saying in general |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If I fancy some one I will send them the private pics.
But if they are just a black shadow how threw hell do u even get to the point of deciding you fancy them. I am not suggesting face pics should be public image but come on some photos should be.
I read the description on the profile first
"I am a genuine fun guy looking for like minded people to have some NSA fun with" isn't that the standard?????"
Oh then I wouldn't even bother saying hello |
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"Some do it as a way of being mysterious. Long as their prepared to send some clear and better ones privately,but I do get the OP as it can get very tedious if you've come across a few like that
Is it mystery or embarrassment? If u want to be on a site like this own it & be confident. Confidence is sexy.
It's why the world is a good place because everyone is different. Not everyone is confident. We all have different personalities. What comes natural to you won't cone natural to someone else..or maybe he is embarrassed. Did he have any meets?
I am just saying in general "
Oh okay cool hun |
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"I know I'm a female without pics so slightly different, but works well for me
Yes. There are a lot of chancers out there "
I get hardly any crap in my inbox compared to what other females seem to get. The messages I do get tend to be from guys with some imagination  |
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"I know I'm a female without pics so slightly different, but works well for me
Will always work for women as most men don't care lol..they will take the chance
No men don't care lol"
I'm sure I'm encountering different men than a lot of the other women on this site lol |
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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago
Bristol |
"How are you ever supposed to know if u r interested in somebody when they just have a black bloody shadow profile pic & not a single public pic. To me it just feels pointless making any effort. Opinions please. "
The regular squeeze has one of those pics. And none on his profile. I knew I was interested the minute we started messaging. Believe me, two years on it was far from pointless to make that initial effort to get to know him. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I know I'm a female without pics so slightly different, but works well for me
Will always work for women as most men don't care lol..they will take the chance
No men don't care lol
I'm sure I'm encountering different men than a lot of the other women on this site lol"
I do wonder who these guys are when I'm always hearing how shit they all are. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"That's why i did mine it keeps my anonymity but it's better than a shadow
I have to say yours made me really fucking chuckle"
it is meant to make people chuckle but you wouldnt believe some of the miserable gits on here they need to get a personality transplant  |
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I get them telling me to go into kik, sending there as it's so hard on fab. Clueless, I'd guess.
But it does strike me that their shag effort would match their levels of understanding of my needs. |
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By *wo4FemCouple
over a year ago
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Mr here. I reckon they have the shadow profile avatar as it's better looking than they are. Hence the reason for not having any photos. Either that or they are proffessionals and are taking discreet to the extreme. |
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The worst ones are the ones who won't even send a private pic because they are far too important to even have private pics on fab, but still expect you to arrange a meet! Just makes us roll our eyes and laugh every time we get a message like that!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The worst ones are the ones who won't even send a private pic because they are far too important to even have private pics on fab, but still expect you to arrange a meet! Just makes us roll our eyes and laugh every time we get a message like that!! "
Your profile makes me wish I was meeting couples! |
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