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By *ofia2014 OP Woman
over a year ago
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Apparently I take quite A bit of fucking.... so I'm just wondering how long is the average fuck. 10 mins..... 2 hrs??
Don't like quickies and feel shortchanged if I get an all in 20 min session.
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over a year ago
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"For me 4hrs can be a short session it im really turned on
Does that include time for a cup of tea, maybe some food, and even a good movie?"
4hours?? Has to include a shopping trip as well  |
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over a year ago
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Just waiting for all the humble-braggers to come on boasting about going non-stop all night!
Anyway - From t'interweb:
Average Sex Time
What’s the average duration of sex?
In many pornographic movies the duration of sex is often 30 to 45 minutes. However, research by Durex claim that this is not at all representative for the average population's duration of sex. The average duration of having sex for most couples is about 14 minutes. This is without counting foreplay.
How many couples have sex for longer than 15 minutes?
Only 20% of couples regularly have sex for longer than 15 minutes. With the remaining 80% the time of sex is on average less than 15 minutes. The following table shows the percentage of people compared to the average time they have sex.
% of the people Average sex time
20% 1 - 5 minutes
35% 6 - 10 minutes
25% 11 - 15 minutes
15% 15 - 30 minutes
5% longer than 30 minutes
How long do couples think sex should take?
American research suggests that most couples think that sex should on average take between 7 and 13 minutes. According to the couples, 2 minutes is way too short, 3 to 7 minutes is just enough, but 30 minutes would take way too long.
Do couples in the United Kingdom on average have sex for a long time?
The average time of sex (excluding foreplay) for people in the United Kingdom is 8 minutes, which is quite average compared to other countries. The Mexicans can keep it up the longest, because the duration of sex in Mexico is on average 16 minutes
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
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"For me 4hrs can be a short session it im really turned on
Does that include time for a cup of tea, maybe some food, and even a good movie?"
Replace the tea for wine and this is ideal for me  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've been spoilt in the past by regular friends I like a good 30mins plus 0 at least!
I've had only a couple disappointing meets via here where it lasted 10 mins or less. Needless to say, I never saw those men again. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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** Controversial viewpoint / potential Fabicide Klaxon **
4-5 hours for a sex session? Doesn't that all become a bit samey after a while? As an irregular thing I get it. Absolutely!
But always having sex marathons or it's all a little bit disappointing?
I'd rather have an hour of great sex, get it done and dusted and then get some decent sleep than be up until the early hours all the time proving my virility ..
I'm definitely on the wrong site aren't I? The rest of you are all sexual athletes!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"** Controversial viewpoint / potential Fabicide Klaxon **
4-5 hours for a sex session? Doesn't that all become a bit samey after a while? As an irregular thing I get it. Absolutely!
But always having sex marathons or it's all a little bit disappointing?
I'd rather have an hour of great sex, get it done and dusted and then get some decent sleep than be up until the early hours all the time proving my virility ..
I'm definitely on the wrong site aren't I? The rest of you are all sexual athletes! "
Not controversial at all, I imagine that fits in with a whole bunch of people...is included.
All nighters are fun for a treat occasionally. |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
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"** Controversial viewpoint / potential Fabicide Klaxon **
4-5 hours for a sex session? Doesn't that all become a bit samey after a while? As an irregular thing I get it. Absolutely!
But always having sex marathons or it's all a little bit disappointing?
I'd rather have an hour of great sex, get it done and dusted and then get some decent sleep than be up until the early hours all the time proving my virility ..
I'm definitely on the wrong site aren't I? The rest of you are all sexual athletes! "
Well Dan, I think I belong in your club |
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"** Controversial viewpoint / potential Fabicide Klaxon **
4-5 hours for a sex session? Doesn't that all become a bit samey after a while? As an irregular thing I get it. Absolutely!
But always having sex marathons or it's all a little bit disappointing?
I'd rather have an hour of great sex, get it done and dusted and then get some decent sleep than be up until the early hours all the time proving my virility ..
I'm definitely on the wrong site aren't I? The rest of you are all sexual athletes! "
There there, I'm sure someone will be with you on this |
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"Apparently I take quite A bit of fucking.... so I'm just wondering how long is the average fuck. 10 mins..... 2 hrs??
Don't like quickies and feel shortchanged if I get an all in 20 min session.
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Do you mean 2 hours of penetration????   |
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By *arry247Couple
over a year ago
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"Apparently I take quite A bit of fucking.... so I'm just wondering how long is the average fuck. 10 mins..... 2 hrs??
Don't like quickies and feel shortchanged if I get an all in 20 min session.
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If you are having an enjoyable fuck 2 hours seems like 2 minutes.
2 minutes of a bad fuck may seem like 2 hours.
Why time just enjoy |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"** Controversial viewpoint / potential Fabicide Klaxon **
4-5 hours for a sex session? Doesn't that all become a bit samey after a while? As an irregular thing I get it. Absolutely!
But always having sex marathons or it's all a little bit disappointing?
I'd rather have an hour of great sex, get it done and dusted and then get some decent sleep than be up until the early hours all the time proving my virility ..
I'm definitely on the wrong site aren't I? The rest of you are all sexual athletes!
Well Dan, I think I belong in your club "
Yay! coffee?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not a fan of quick ones. Like long drawn out sessions with lots of foreplay.
Short one for me is an hour, love long deep slow sex that lasts for ages, 2 hours is a good number, or longer if everyone is happy. |
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By *ofia2014 OP Woman
over a year ago
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"Apparently I take quite A bit of fucking.... so I'm just wondering how long is the average fuck. 10 mins..... 2 hrs??
Don't like quickies and feel shortchanged if I get an all in 20 min session.
Do you mean 2 hours of penetration???? "
Like stimulating play.... Not hump n run..... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"** Controversial viewpoint / potential Fabicide Klaxon **
4-5 hours for a sex session? Doesn't that all become a bit samey after a while? As an irregular thing I get it. Absolutely!
But always having sex marathons or it's all a little bit disappointing?
I'd rather have an hour of great sex, get it done and dusted and then get some decent sleep than be up until the early hours all the time proving my virility ..
I'm definitely on the wrong site aren't I? The rest of you are all sexual athletes! "
I guess it depends what a 'sex session' entails. Does it start when you get in the door? When you're both naked? Or are we talking just the in out shake it all about bit?
4 hours of humping away? No chance
An afternoon of kissing, cuddling, all the lead up to some sex then spooning and repeating can be great though |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
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"** Controversial viewpoint / potential Fabicide Klaxon **
4-5 hours for a sex session? Doesn't that all become a bit samey after a while? As an irregular thing I get it. Absolutely!
But always having sex marathons or it's all a little bit disappointing?
I'd rather have an hour of great sex, get it done and dusted and then get some decent sleep than be up until the early hours all the time proving my virility ..
I'm definitely on the wrong site aren't I? The rest of you are all sexual athletes!
Well Dan, I think I belong in your club
Yay! coffee? "
Make it wine and I'm yours  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm with the ladies on this one. I much prefer a longer session, taking our time, flitting between foreplay and fucking rather than it all being over and done with in half an hour. |
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"Apparently I take quite A bit of fucking.... so I'm just wondering how long is the average fuck. 10 mins..... 2 hrs??
Don't like quickies and feel shortchanged if I get an all in 20 min session.
Do you mean 2 hours of penetration????
Like stimulating play.... Not hump n run....."
Makes more sense...spent over 2 hours of foreplay with my then gf....the sex after was amazing.
Do not think i could fuck constant for 2 hours.....it would be very very sore for both of us! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"A session of around 4 hours is about right for me, not fucking constantly during that time but mixing it up."
Same for me. I like a long session to enjoy it but not 4 hours of continuous penetrative sex. . . Lots of oral in-between and the odd drink break |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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In all honesty, for us it depends...during the week our average session is 1-2 hours, at the weekend the limits on time are lifted and we're often "at it" most of the time in some way...we very rarely have a "quicky", but I think that's just cos we enjoy each other that much we don't want to stop! Lol
Everyone's different though...30 mins with an ex was more than enough!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Damn i thought i was allright at sex lasting about 10 15 minutes.
Id end up having a heart attack
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Psst! Don't believe all you hear on the forums! *taps nose* |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"A session of around 4 hours is about right for me, not fucking constantly during that time but mixing it up.
Same for me. I like a long session to enjoy it but not 4 hours of continuous penetrative sex. . . Lots of oral in-between and the odd drink break "
Strange how we have that in common |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just waiting for all the humble-braggers to come on boasting about going non-stop all night!
Anyway - From t'interweb:
Average Sex Time
What’s the average duration of sex?
In many pornographic movies the duration of sex is often 30 to 45 minutes. However, research by Durex claim that this is not at all representative for the average population's duration of sex. The average duration of having sex for most couples is about 14 minutes. This is without counting foreplay.
How many couples have sex for longer than 15 minutes?
Only 20% of couples regularly have sex for longer than 15 minutes. With the remaining 80% the time of sex is on average less than 15 minutes. The following table shows the percentage of people compared to the average time they have sex.
% of the people Average sex time
20% 1 - 5 minutes
35% 6 - 10 minutes
25% 11 - 15 minutes
15% 15 - 30 minutes
5% longer than 30 minutes
How long do couples think sex should take?
American research suggests that most couples think that sex should on average take between 7 and 13 minutes. According to the couples, 2 minutes is way too short, 3 to 7 minutes is just enough, but 30 minutes would take way too long.
Do couples in the United Kingdom on average have sex for a long time?
The average time of sex (excluding foreplay) for people in the United Kingdom is 8 minutes, which is quite average compared to other countries. The Mexicans can keep it up the longest, because the duration of sex in Mexico is on average 16 minutes
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You're a beacon of knowledge Dan |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"For me 4hrs can be a short session it im really turned on
Does that include time for a cup of tea, maybe some food, and even a good movie?"
Haha nope it usually involved lots of oral, for both, 69, tease play, penetration, anal, shower to clean up a bit and play in shower then back to the bedroom where it would be a bit slower and sensual.
That was when I was dating a guy who very rarely came so we could play for a long time, with his work id only get to see him twice a week so we made up for what we missed out on, if we had seen each other every day it would have been shorter!
Also as someone else has said a good session can go by in the blink of an eye without realising |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've had guys cum within 10 seconds of their willy being inside me - does that count as sex? It's happened to more than one guy on more than one occasion thus giving me confirmation that my fanny has magical powers. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Can't be doing with a quicky, but a long session is lovely with lots of kissing and foreplay. Oral and teasing, then some penetration, then mix it up again. Hours of banging away gets a bit samey. X |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Are multiple male orgasims allowed or is it a hold it in type deal?
Didn't ask about the woman's multiples as that's a gimme imo "
if fellas come more than once - thats a bonus |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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3.5hrs the other night but mixture of kissing,foreplay and penetration but those type of occasions few and far between due to work,kids etc etc on average I'd say an hour foreplay and penetration |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I love a good all day sesh.
Foreplay, teasing, role play. Lots of kissing and cuddling in between and refreshments!!
I also enjoy a quick meet, quality not quantity. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I love a good all day sesh.
Foreplay, teasing, role play. Lots of kissing and cuddling in between and refreshments!!
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This is exactly how my last 2 meets have gone with the same woman. 6-7 hours together and it's awesome, love it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"A session of around 4 hours is about right for me, not fucking constantly during that time but mixing it up.
Same for me. I like a long session to enjoy it but not 4 hours of continuous penetrative sex. . . Lots of oral in-between and the odd drink break
Strange how we have that in common"
Very strange. . Wonder if that means sex between us would be awesome?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Wow this is shocking! On average sessions with hubby are about 45 minutes but a quickie could be 15 minutes. I do take a long time to cum though and that isn't constant thrusting from hubby as he has to stop himself from cumming etc so changes position quite a lot. I need at least 10/15 minutes to stretch a bit internally before I can get to the stage where I'll enjoy harder thrusting. However, when it gets amazing for me is always what seems to tip guys over the edge! I can't cum through penetration alone but I do sometimes wonder if that's just because I haven't had the right continuous stimulation. Guys can last a lot longer if they go slower or change positions but I think I need it long and hard to make me cum. Either that or that guy could be pounding away for days and it doesn't happen - who knows! |
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"A session of around 4 hours is about right for me, not fucking constantly during that time but mixing it up.
Same for me. I like a long session to enjoy it but not 4 hours of continuous penetrative sex. . . Lots of oral in-between and the odd drink break "
Best type of meets |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Because of lack of frequency I tend to binge on it for hours. Pleasure at our leisure as a friend once called it. Lots of variety and plenty of orgasmic ecstasy. Ohh and shed loads of kissing, licking, sucking, massaging, wanking each other and sensory play. And plenty of fucking in multiple positions. It certainly helps now I'm fitter than I was 25 years ago |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Some interesting times posted on the scoreboard. Well done all.
Surely it all depends on the circumstances.
There are times when a passion filled quicky is all you want and need and all you have time for.
Other times the toys are out, kissing massages etc and you could be at it for a couple of hours.
I'd say for us, we "average" about 40-50 minutes of action. Sometimes more, sometimes less. Usually I look at the clock and start panicking im not going to get my 8 hours sleep
I guess banging away like a jackhammer for anything more that 5-10 minutes at a time suggests that you need to mix up your game a little. There's more to sex than sticking a willy in a nu nu. 
As long as everybody is enjoying themselves I guess the time doesnt matter.
.a win is a win. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I dont like them too long.. i dont want to be banging away for hours lol"
This.
Nothing worse than a man thinking he's on a mission of endurance. I'd rather a 20 min session followed by a breather, then maybe try again and gonfor a bit longer.
But hours and hours of banging or licking is my idea of hell. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Silently crying inside, have forgotten what long sessions are, quickies, even a bloody good snog!
Buuuut, I don't mind a longer session with loads of foreplay and just enjoying, but I can't stand being pounded away on for hours! |
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"A session of around 4 hours is about right for me, not fucking constantly during that time but mixing it up.
Same for me. I like a long session to enjoy it but not 4 hours of continuous penetrative sex. . . Lots of oral in-between and the odd drink break
Strange how we have that in common
Very strange. . Wonder if that means sex between us would be awesome? "
Who knows |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Damn i thought i was allright at sex lasting about 10 15 minutes.
Id end up having a heart attack
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Same here,I'm a man not a machine!
Saying that,I can go for a while....but the harder n faster she wants it the less time I can go for.
Just glad I'm a repeater! |
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To me sex is the whole thing, not jet intercourse.
For us an hour is fairly quick and up to 2 hours not unusual.
Just intercourse itself... I have no idea we've not timed it. We're too busy doing it 
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I'd need a wheelchair after 4 hours of penetration  if we are talking about the whole thing including foreplay, oral, teasing, kissing, stoking, (glass of water), same again... then a 1 hour to many more hours... |
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"I'd need a wheelchair after 4 hours of penetration if we are talking about the whole thing including foreplay, oral, teasing, kissing, stoking, (glass of water), same again... then a 1 hour to many more hours..."
That is the intention |
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"I'd need a wheelchair after 4 hours of penetration if we are talking about the whole thing including foreplay, oral, teasing, kissing, stoking, (glass of water), same again... then a 1 hour to many more hours...
That is the intention "
which one... getting me into a wheelchair or including many fun things?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I dont like them too long.. i dont want to be banging away for hours lol
Tell her to do some work then! "
Haha!
Aye I could go for hours n hours if all I did was just lie back with my legs open!
Not saying any of you ladies are like this.....but there's a few lazy lays out there! |
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"I dont like them too long.. i dont want to be banging away for hours lol
Tell her to do some work then!
Haha!
Aye I could go for hours n hours if all I did was just lie back with my legs open!
Not saying any of you ladies are like this.....but there's a few lazy lays out there!"
I only said that because I dobsee a lot if women saying that they want to fucked..im thinking yeah so do bloody I.. equal opportunities and all that jazz |
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"I dont like them too long.. i dont want to be banging away for hours lol
Tell her to do some work then!
Haha!
Aye I could go for hours n hours if all I did was just lie back with my legs open!
Not saying any of you ladies are like this.....but there's a few lazy lays out there!"
Oh hell no.
I want to tone my thighs too |
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"I dont like them too long.. i dont want to be banging away for hours lol
Tell her to do some work then!
Haha!
Aye I could go for hours n hours if all I did was just lie back with my legs open!
Not saying any of you ladies are like this.....but there's a few lazy lays out there!
Oh hell no.
I want to tone my thighs too "
Work it girl  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I dont like them too long.. i dont want to be banging away for hours lol
Tell her to do some work then!
Haha!
Aye I could go for hours n hours if all I did was just lie back with my legs open!
Not saying any of you ladies are like this.....but there's a few lazy lays out there!
I only said that because I dobsee a lot if women saying that they want to fucked..im thinking yeah so do bloody I.. equal opportunities and all that jazz "
Even when she's on top I'll only lie back n let her do all the work until I get my breath back...then grab her hips n start thrusting away from underneath.
On top or not I like to control the pace! |
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"I dont like them too long.. i dont want to be banging away for hours lol
Tell her to do some work then!
Haha!
Aye I could go for hours n hours if all I did was just lie back with my legs open!
Not saying any of you ladies are like this.....but there's a few lazy lays out there!
Oh hell no.
I want to tone my thighs too "
Twerk it...
Oh hell yeah |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I once had kinky sex handcuffed and blindfolded to a bed for 12 hours, it wasn't until I heard the front door and her come up the stairs did I realise that rover had been licking my balls all night
Ok I'll get my coat |
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