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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I do too, but I don't know what's going to be too rough.
What's everyone's views?
Where do you feel is too far?
What do you think feels good, but exceeds normality? |
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By *aroleBaskinWoman
over a year ago
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"I do too, but I don't know what's going to be too rough.
What's everyone's views?
Where do you feel is too far?
What do you think feels good, but exceeds normality? "
I think this is something you have to discuss with poeple individually. Everyone has their own boundaries and for me, I'd like those to be accepted and understood on both/all sides before the meet took place.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I do too, but I don't know what's going to be too rough.
What's everyone's views?
Where do you feel is too far?
What do you think feels good, but exceeds normality? "
is it sara you're on about  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think this is something you have to discuss with poeple individually. Everyone has their own boundaries and for me, I'd like those to be accepted and understood on both/all sides before the meet took place. "
This sums things up exactly, for some people, rough means assertive hard sex, for others it means restraint, slapping and whipped until black and blue...
You really wouldn't want to be expecting the first and receive the latter! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I do too, but I don't know what's going to be too rough.
What's everyone's views?
Where do you feel is too far?
What do you think feels good, but exceeds normality?
is it sara you're on about "
Hehe, no!
That's a failed attempt of putting que Sera in Spanish.
Don't think you're bi-lingual just because you spent a week on the piss in Ibiza  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"What anyone on here thinks is irrelevant, all that matters is what she considers to be OK.
MrB"
Very true! We do have a very open relationship with each other, and as you've said it doesn't really matter what others think.
I've posted this as more as a idea bounce than anything. See what other people do or enjoy then maybe try it. |
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By *omez42Man
over a year ago
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Discuss it openly, agree a safe word, or just red amber green states.
Come up with a safe action, in case words aren't possible 
Green - keep going
Amber - no further
Red - STOP
NEVER ignore red |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Discuss it openly, agree a safe word, or just red amber green states.
Come up with a safe action, in case words aren't possible
Green - keep going
Amber - no further
Red - STOP
NEVER ignore red"
 Indeed!  |
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"Ha ha yes discuss it
I ended up with vaginal abrasions, trauma to the cervix... So yes communication
Can I ask how? Or is that a bit too personal?"
A change of position, and the same hard thrust. Obviously got way to deep |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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That's really subjective. Everyone will define rough differently. I've seen photos from spanking that some would think had gone way too far, but the participant was perfectly happy. You need to have a discussion between yourselves really. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ha ha yes discuss it
I ended up with vaginal abrasions, trauma to the cervix... So yes communication
Can I ask how? Or is that a bit too personal?
A change of position, and the same hard thrust. Obviously got way to deep"
Ended up in a similar state myself once, vwe guy and very rough (not that I didn't enjoy it) but bled for three days afterwards.. haha tmi? So very much trauma on the cervix! But this is how you recognise your limits I suppose! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"When she attempts to tap out while struggling to breath n her face turns purple......that's too far n you should stop before she turns blue! "
Yeah....
I learned that when I was a life guard.
I say was as I was fired because some blue kid's parents kicked off at my managers. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Ha ha yes discuss it
I ended up with vaginal abrasions, trauma to the cervix... So yes communication
Can I ask how? Or is that a bit too personal?
A change of position, and the same hard thrust. Obviously got way to deep
Ended up in a similar state myself once, vwe guy and very rough (not that I didn't enjoy it) but bled for three days afterwards.. haha tmi? So very much trauma on the cervix! But this is how you recognise your limits I suppose!"
No such thing as TMI!
Would you do anything different next time? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I can be sensual and I can be rough.
My preference is rough and I do mean ROUGGGH. 
Bit it's subjective and depends who it is and what was discussed although I did draw the line at the meet who wanted me to slap her round the face with my belt buckle because WTF.
err no I'm not doing that. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I can be sensual and I can be rough.
My preference is rough and I do mean ROUGGGH.
Bit it's subjective and depends who it is and what was discussed although I did draw the line at the meet who wanted me to slap her round the face with my belt buckle because WTF.
err no I'm not doing that."
Whoah! Aye that's a bit much!
Once met a lass (not from here) n halfway through playing she asked if I'd bring a knife through to the bedroom!
It was just an automatic no from me...didn't even ask why or what she wanted to do with it.......just NAWWWW! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I can be sensual and I can be rough.
My preference is rough and I do mean ROUGGGH.
Bit it's subjective and depends who it is and what was discussed although I did draw the line at the meet who wanted me to slap her round the face with my belt buckle because WTF.
err no I'm not doing that."
A belt buckle to the face?
Was she an ex WWE wrestler |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I can be sensual and I can be rough.
My preference is rough and I do mean ROUGGGH.
Bit it's subjective and depends who it is and what was discussed although I did draw the line at the meet who wanted me to slap her round the face with my belt buckle because WTF.
err no I'm not doing that.
A belt buckle to the face?
Was she an ex WWE wrestler "
That to me isn't fun.
Any bloke willing to do that has mental instability issues.
Just no way. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Ha ha yes discuss it
I ended up with vaginal abrasions, trauma to the cervix... So yes communication
Can I ask how? Or is that a bit too personal?
A change of position, and the same hard thrust. Obviously got way to deep
Ended up in a similar state myself once, vwe guy and very rough (not that I didn't enjoy it) but bled for three days afterwards.. haha tmi? So very much trauma on the cervix! But this is how you recognise your limits I suppose!
No such thing as TMI!
Would you do anything different next time?"
Haha nope.. would just be more mentally prepared for it! It's one of those things, it's great when it's happening, just have to put up with the consequences! .. but not for everyone, I get that. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Ha ha yes discuss it
I ended up with vaginal abrasions, trauma to the cervix... So yes communication
Can I ask how? Or is that a bit too personal?
A change of position, and the same hard thrust. Obviously got way to deep
Ended up in a similar state myself once, vwe guy and very rough (not that I didn't enjoy it) but bled for three days afterwards.. haha tmi? So very much trauma on the cervix! But this is how you recognise your limits I suppose!
No such thing as TMI!
Would you do anything different next time?
Haha nope.. would just be more mentally prepared for it! It's one of those things, it's great when it's happening, just have to put up with the consequences! .. but not for everyone, I get that."
Sounds like it's a lot of fun, or are you more of a need to do it a few times to realise it's a mistake type of learner? |
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