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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Working in tandom with a friend whose allowing the ladies to have theirs at the same time now.
What are those 4 top of your list things guys that drive you to want to meet her?
I'll start it off.
1. POSITIVE attitude to things...
2. A Gentle spirit, with deep passion, content in themselves and who they are.
3 . Clearly interested in me, listening, hearing and able to hold good conversation, willing to disagree without negative judgemental language.
4. Humour. Can laugh at themselves first, then with others. Positive satire or sarcasm tickles me.
5. EYES. Yes ones to jump into... a pic of eyes helps on a profile... its the window to the soul. They tell a lot about the inner person just by looking in
(Hopefully having a 5th in there pleases everyone now)
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Popping mine back here
1. Sense of humour - if she can make me grin or chuckle on a regular basis, she's pretty much in my knickers already
2. Doesn't take herself too seriously.
3. Has eyes that I want to get lost in
4. Has a naughty streak that gets me fired up |
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"Working in tandom with a friend whose allowing the ladies to have theirs at the same time now.
What are those 4 top of your list things guys that drive you to want to meet her?
I'll start it off.
1. POSITIVE attitude to things...
2. A Gentle spirit, with deep passion, content in themselves and who they are.
3 . Clearly interested in me, listening, hearing and able to hold good conversation, willing to disagree without negative judgemental language.
4. Humour. Can laugh at themselves first, then with others. Positive satire or sarcasm tickles me.
5. EYES. Yes ones to jump into... a pic of eyes helps on a profile... its the window to the soul. They tell a lot about the inner person just by looking in
(Hopefully having a 5th in there pleases everyone now)
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If I was meeting
1. I'm really into the way she expresses herself and we share sufficient values to be compatible
2. She makes my cock twitch when I think of her or look at her
3. She is clearly interested in similar things to me sexually
4. I can't wait to kiss her
5 . We get each other's sense of humour ![](/icons/s/mrgreen.gif) |
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"If I was meeting
1. I'm really into the way she expresses herself and we share sufficient values to be compatible
2. She makes my cock twitch when I think of her or look at her
3. She is clearly interested in similar things to me sexually
4. I can't wait to kiss her
5 . We get each other's sense of humour "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"1. Brains.
2. Love of reading.
3 and 4. Boobs.
I'm a simple man with simple desires. "
Damn, I have boobs and love reading but is your first requirement an absolute must? ![](/icons/s/wink.gif) |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"1. Brains.
2. Love of reading.
3 and 4. Boobs.
I'm a simple man with simple desires. "
K.I.S.S. There's a lot in a kiss... on that note..my 6th is she must be able to kiss well. ![](/icons/s/2/cute.gif) |
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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago
West Wales |
1.
Pretty (Inside pretty, outside is often a mask).
2.
Has a smile & laugh that comes from deep inside.
3.
Not on a pedestal.
4.
Be capable of ripping the piss and taking it as once I know you well enough it'll be coming
5.
Be someone who spends their life happy unless someone upsets them rather than unhappy unless someone cheers them up.
I know I added an extra but the last ones a biggy
These are mine if I was a single guy
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By *W ChapMan
over a year ago
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1. The acceptance or the willingness to accept that perhaps I'm not one of the idiots on here.
2. Not tons of pics, just enough to give an idea of the person in question.
3. Not loads of verifications.
4. Nice nipples.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"1.
Pretty (Inside pretty, outside is often a mask).
2.
Has a smile & laugh that comes from deep inside.
3.
Not on a pedestal.
4.
Be capable of ripping the piss and taking it as once I know you well enough it'll be coming
5.
Be someone who spends their life happy unless someone upsets them rather than unhappy unless someone cheers them up.
I know I added an extra but the last ones a biggy
These are mine if I was a single guy
S"
Great list ! Many will concur I'm sure. Thanks |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"1. The acceptance or the willingness to accept that perhaps I'm not one of the idiots on here.
2. Not tons of pics, just enough to give an idea of the person in question.
3. Not loads of verifications.
4. Nice nipples.
"
Ooops...that 'N' word.... guys might change there's now lol ![](/icons/s/mrgreen.gif) |
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"1.
Pretty (Inside pretty, outside is often a mask).
2.
Has a smile & laugh that comes from deep inside.
3.
Not on a pedestal.
4.
Be capable of ripping the piss and taking it as once I know you well enough it'll be coming
5.
Be someone who spends their life happy unless someone upsets them rather than unhappy unless someone cheers them up.
I know I added an extra but the last ones a biggy
These are mine if I was a single guy
S"
It's a good job you're not single your inbox would be filling as we speak. A profound and heartfelt response. I really hope the ladies are reading these, they are a real testament to the majority who are daily tarnished by the minority. ![](/icons/s/2/cute.gif) |
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Bookmarking for later consumption, but gents I must say a positive thread.
Very interesting to read that for most of you knowing the woman and being mentally compatible seems to come before the physical attributes. Not saying you'd all want an ugly woman but pretty packaging isn't your top priority.
I'm sure for many of us women who struggle with feeling inadequate next to some of the stunners on here it's good to know. ![](/icons/s/biggrin.gif) |
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"Bookmarking for later consumption, but gents I must say a positive thread.
Very interesting to read that for most of you knowing the woman and being mentally compatible seems to come before the physical attributes. Not saying you'd all want an ugly woman but pretty packaging isn't your top priority.
I'm sure for many of us women who struggle with feeling inadequate next to some of the stunners on here it's good to know. "
One main reason for these threads. There are some theories out there often created by repeat without evidence. Connection isn't much about looks or physical appearance...its about who the person is... character matters. Attraction is more about who. Men are often seen as simple... may I say we're far from it as you eloquently have posted. I hope this because positive for many....and not just women. We guys can learn alot here. May much new fun begin... ![](/icons/s/biggrin.gif) |
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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago
West Wales |
"1.
Pretty (Inside pretty, outside is often a mask).
2.
Has a smile & laugh that comes from deep inside.
3.
Not on a pedestal.
4.
Be capable of ripping the piss and taking it as once I know you well enough it'll be coming
5.
Be someone who spends their life happy unless someone upsets them rather than unhappy unless someone cheers them up.
I know I added an extra but the last ones a biggy
These are mine if I was a single guy
S
It's a good job you're not single your inbox would be filling as we speak. A profound and heartfelt response. I really hope the ladies are reading these, they are a real testament to the majority who are daily tarnished by the minority. "
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"Popping mine back here
1. Sense of humour - if she can make me grin or chuckle on a regular basis, she's pretty much in my knickers already
2. Doesn't take herself too seriously.
3. Has eyes that I want to get lost in
4. Has a naughty streak that gets me fired up"
You wear knickers?
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Popping mine back here
1. Sense of humour - if she can make me grin or chuckle on a regular basis, she's pretty much in my knickers already
2. Doesn't take herself too seriously.
3. Has eyes that I want to get lost in
4. Has a naughty streak that gets me fired up
You wear knickers?
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I do, have you not noticed some going missing ![](/icons/s/biggrin.gif) |
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"Bookmarking for later consumption, but gents I must say a positive thread.
Very interesting to read that for most of you knowing the woman and being mentally compatible seems to come before the physical attributes. Not saying you'd all want an ugly woman but pretty packaging isn't your top priority.
I'm sure for many of us women who struggle with feeling inadequate next to some of the stunners on here it's good to know.
One main reason for these threads. There are some theories out there often created by repeat without evidence. Connection isn't much about looks or physical appearance...its about who the person is... character matters. Attraction is more about who. Men are often seen as simple... may I say we're far from it as you eloquently have posted. I hope this because positive for many....and not just women. We guys can learn alot here. May much new fun begin... "
This is true. Only last night I commented on a thread about larger ladies. Some stand by the fact that they think most men on here care little about what makes a person and more about what they look like... |
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"Popping mine back here
1. Sense of humour - if she can make me grin or chuckle on a regular basis, she's pretty much in my knickers already
2. Doesn't take herself too seriously.
3. Has eyes that I want to get lost in
4. Has a naughty streak that gets me fired up
You wear knickers?
I do, have you not noticed some going missing "
Haha yes, my favourite pink ones, give them back you swine! ! ![](/icons/s/twisted.gif) |
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"Popping mine back here
1. Sense of humour - if she can make me grin or chuckle on a regular basis, she's pretty much in my knickers already
2. Doesn't take herself too seriously.
3. Has eyes that I want to get lost in
4. Has a naughty streak that gets me fired up
You wear knickers?
I do, have you not noticed some going missing
Haha yes, my favourite pink ones, give them back you swine! ! "
You can have them. They are too small for me ![](/icons/s/2/cute.gif) |
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Hope I'm not too late for this..
1 - Takes control of the chat and doesn't just respond to questions in a closed way.
2 - Pays me some sort of compliments.
3 - Has tasteful pics and not loads of close ups.
4 - Comes across as intelligent. |
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"Hope I'm not too late for this..
1 - Takes control of the chat and doesn't just respond to questions in a closed way.
2 - Pays me some sort of compliments.
3 - Has tasteful pics and not loads of close ups.
4 - Comes across as intelligent."
Definitely not late... All good and many women reading and watching. ..some positive comments too in PMs which is encouraging to hear. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Bookmarking for later consumption, but gents I must say a positive thread.
Very interesting to read that for most of you knowing the woman and being mentally compatible seems to come before the physical attributes. Not saying you'd all want an ugly woman but pretty packaging isn't your top priority.
I'm sure for many of us women who struggle with feeling inadequate next to some of the stunners on here it's good to know.
One main reason for these threads. There are some theories out there often created by repeat without evidence. Connection isn't much about looks or physical appearance...its about who the person is... character matters. Attraction is more about who. Men are often seen as simple... may I say we're far from it as you eloquently have posted. I hope this because positive for many....and not just women. We guys can learn alot here. May much new fun begin...
This is true. Only last night I commented on a thread about larger ladies. Some stand by the fact that they think most men on here care little about what makes a person and more about what they look like..."
I think from personal experience that maybe I just met a lot of very shallow men. And lots of women have had similar experiences. I'm lucky that I've now got a man that loves me as I am, but can still appreciate how it feels to find that attraction returned. I think for the most part the men on here are more interested in the whole woman than the shell outside. In a society that's mainly driven by looking like supermodels its a refreshing change that they seem to have higher opinions of us than what the media says we are . X |
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"Bookmarking for later consumption, but gents I must say a positive thread.
Very interesting to read that for most of you knowing the woman and being mentally compatible seems to come before the physical attributes. Not saying you'd all want an ugly woman but pretty packaging isn't your top priority.
I'm sure for many of us women who struggle with feeling inadequate next to some of the stunners on here it's good to know.
One main reason for these threads. There are some theories out there often created by repeat without evidence. Connection isn't much about looks or physical appearance...its about who the person is... character matters. Attraction is more about who. Men are often seen as simple... may I say we're far from it as you eloquently have posted. I hope this because positive for many....and not just women. We guys can learn alot here. May much new fun begin...
This is true. Only last night I commented on a thread about larger ladies. Some stand by the fact that they think most men on here care little about what makes a person and more about what they look like...
I think from personal experience that maybe I just met a lot of very shallow men. And lots of women have had similar experiences. I'm lucky that I've now got a man that loves me as I am, but can still appreciate how it feels to find that attraction returned. I think for the most part the men on here are more interested in the whole woman than the shell outside. In a society that's mainly driven by looking like supermodels its a refreshing change that they seem to have higher opinions of us than what the media says we are . X "
I like to think that in general, there are a lot of guys who look for more than looks. Although I'm very aware that there are those who don't. I just get tired of reading the same old negativity on here! X |
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By *norksterMan
over a year ago
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In no particular order;
MindStimulating intelligent mind, good conversation with good humour and can accept sarcasm
Eyes, deep and sensual, with a hint of naughtiness
Self awareness, feels good in their own skin and takes compliments without question
Kiss, passionate, deep, meaningful that makes me not want to let go...
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By (user no longer on site)
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I think there is enough choices for everyone on here without have to judge. It shouldn't be an issue. Surely it's about what YOU both enjoy about each other that counts. Not what some idiot thinks |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Bookmarking for later consumption, but gents I must say a positive thread.
Very interesting to read that for most of you knowing the woman and being mentally compatible seems to come before the physical attributes. Not saying you'd all want an ugly woman but pretty packaging isn't your top priority.
I'm sure for many of us women who struggle with feeling inadequate next to some of the stunners on here it's good to know.
One main reason for these threads. There are some theories out there often created by repeat without evidence. Connection isn't much about looks or physical appearance...its about who the person is... character matters. Attraction is more about who. Men are often seen as simple... may I say we're far from it as you eloquently have posted. I hope this because positive for many....and not just women. We guys can learn alot here. May much new fun begin...
This is true. Only last night I commented on a thread about larger ladies. Some stand by the fact that they think most men on here care little about what makes a person and more about what they look like...
I think from personal experience that maybe I just met a lot of very shallow men. And lots of women have had similar experiences. I'm lucky that I've now got a man that loves me as I am, but can still appreciate how it feels to find that attraction returned. I think for the most part the men on here are more interested in the whole woman than the shell outside. In a society that's mainly driven by looking like supermodels its a refreshing change that they seem to have higher opinions of us than what the media says we are . X
I like to think that in general, there are a lot of guys who look for more than looks. Although I'm very aware that there are those who don't. I just get tired of reading the same old negativity on here! X"
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"In no particular order;
MindStimulating intelligent mind, good conversation with good humour and can accept sarcasm
Eyes, deep and sensual, with a hint of naughtiness
Self awareness, feels good in their own skin and takes compliments without question
Kiss, passionate, deep, meaningful that makes me not want to let go...
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By *andVBCouple
over a year ago
Wrexham |
"1. Brains.
2. Love of reading.
3 and 4. Boobs.
I'm a simple man with simple desires.
Damn, I have boobs and love reading but is your first requirement an absolute must? "
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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago
West Wales |
"Hope I'm not too late for this..
1 - Takes control of the chat and doesn't just respond to questions in a closed way.
2 - Pays me some sort of compliments.
3 - Has tasteful pics and not loads of close ups.
4 - Comes across as intelligent."
Number 1 is a good one for all, if we find its always us instigating chat even if once done the chat is good we'll gradually lose interest and remove you to the back burner to see if you ever get back to us as we'll assume the want isn't there enough. Happens all the time though unfortunately.
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By *andVBCouple
over a year ago
Wrexham |
"1. Brains.
2. Love of reading.
3 and 4. Boobs.
I'm a simple man with simple desires.
I only have one brain and not the plural you seek, you zombie you. But I do have boobs! "
I'm actually a vegetarian zombie so I'm all about the grains. ![](/icons/s/mrgreen.gif) |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"1. Brains.
2. Love of reading.
3 and 4. Boobs.
I'm a simple man with simple desires.
I only have one brain and not the plural you seek, you zombie you. But I do have boobs!
I'm actually a vegetarian zombie so I'm all about the grains. "
Made some very goods points too. ![](/icons/thumb_up.png) |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Honesty,
Good sense of humour,
A great body,
and a willingness to sleep with me
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Clear honest profile and some great veris... you're doing something right. |
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"Honesty,
Good sense of humour,
A great body,
and a willingness to sleep with me
Clear honest profile and some great veris... you're doing something right."
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1 She answers messages
2 She doesn't say she hasn't time to meet, then displays verifications from others
3 She isn't a cock tease, and actually wants to meet
4 She lives in, or will travel to, Cumbria
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"1 She likes sex
2 has a pulse
3 Likes sex
4 I'll take a rain check on the last option "
I think this sums up perfectly what most men are thinking but obviously they don't want to come across as complete Neanderthals so they have to pad their choices out with 'sense of humour' and 'helps if she 'gets' me' etc etc ![](/icons/s/biggrin.gif) |
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"1 She answers messages
2 She doesn't say she hasn't time to meet, then displays verifications from others
3 She isn't a cock tease, and actually wants to meet
4 She lives in, or will travel to, Cumbria
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Probably a better list than mine, can't stand women who won't even give you the light of day without blowing their minds right off the bat, or just mess you around in general |
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"1 She likes sex
2 has a pulse
3 Likes sex
4 I'll take a rain check on the last option
I think this sums up perfectly what most men are thinking but obviously they don't want to come across as complete Neanderthals so they have to pad their choices out with 'sense of humour' and 'helps if she 'gets' me' etc etc "
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"1 She likes sex
2 has a pulse
3 Likes sex
4 I'll take a rain check on the last option
I think this sums up perfectly what most men are thinking but obviously they don't want to come across as complete Neanderthals so they have to pad their choices out with 'sense of humour' and 'helps if she 'gets' me' etc etc
I'd never have you down as a cynic "
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"1 She answers messages
2 She doesn't say she hasn't time to meet, then displays verifications from others
3 She isn't a cock tease, and actually wants to meet
4 She lives in, or will travel to, Cumbria
Probably a better list than mine, can't stand women who won't even give you the light of day without blowing their minds right off the bat, or just mess you around in general"
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"1 She likes sex
2 has a pulse
3 Likes sex
4 I'll take a rain check on the last option
I think this sums up perfectly what most men are thinking but obviously they don't want to come across as complete Neanderthals so they have to pad their choices out with 'sense of humour' and 'helps if she 'gets' me' etc etc "
How do you know what 'most' men are thinking. I'd say experiences making you cynical.... but mind reading is certainly a great gift if one truely has it. I'd love some to understand women, but reality is each are different and should be treated as such in my book. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Here's a question for you gents.
There's a lady. Smoking body. Youse get on like house on fire. Chemistry there.
But she's not very nice looking( face).
Do you carry on?? Or is it a deal breaker?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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1) Makes an effort with comms and also realises that comms work both ways
2) Doesn't judge
3) Similar sense of humour
4) Self-confident
They are the first that spring to mind anyways,there's more but we're only allowed four ![](/icons/s/biggrin.gif) |
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"Here's a question for you gents.
There's a lady. Smoking body. Youse get on like house on fire. Chemistry there.
But she's not very nice looking( face).
Do you carry on?? Or is it a deal breaker?? "
Beauty and the Beast comes to mind....
Have a look in town next time you ladies are out shopping and watch couples.... how many times have you thought what does she or he see in them? Does that answer it......personality trumps looks any day for me.
I guess it may be the difference between a hook up meet where looks more important as personality will play little in the meet...and something that engages the mind and arousal for more than a fuck. Bit crude but I think one gets the gist. |
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"Hope I'm not too late for this..
1 - Takes control of the chat and doesn't just respond to questions in a closed way.
2 - Pays me some sort of compliments.
3 - Has tasteful pics and not loads of close ups.
4 - Comes across as intelligent."
Agree with this
I'd also add having a sense of humour,specially where sex is concerned!
A fanny fart is something to be made light of n laughed at.....not something that makes you wanna hide from embarrassment n end the session! |
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"Hope I'm not too late for this..
1 - Takes control of the chat and doesn't just respond to questions in a closed way.
2 - Pays me some sort of compliments.
3 - Has tasteful pics and not loads of close ups.
4 - Comes across as intelligent.
Agree with this
I'd also add having a sense of humour,specially where sex is concerned!
A fanny fart is something to be made light of n laughed at.....not something that makes you wanna hide from embarrassment n end the session!"
Pmsl has that actually happened, because if it has I think I might die laughing ![](/icons/s/mrgreen.gif) |
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over a year ago
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"Hope I'm not too late for this..
1 - Takes control of the chat and doesn't just respond to questions in a closed way.
2 - Pays me some sort of compliments.
3 - Has tasteful pics and not loads of close ups.
4 - Comes across as intelligent.
Agree with this
I'd also add having a sense of humour,specially where sex is concerned!
A fanny fart is something to be made light of n laughed at.....not something that makes you wanna hide from embarrassment n end the session!
Pmsl has that actually happened, because if it has I think I might die laughing "
She was so embarrassed it did stop play for a couple of minutes!
She curled up n hid under the covers while squealing "OMG! Nooooooo!!" n such like....while I bellowed with laughter!
Had to coax her back out n massage her dented pride before play re-commenced! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Hope I'm not too late for this..
1 - Takes control of the chat and doesn't just respond to questions in a closed way.
2 - Pays me some sort of compliments.
3 - Has tasteful pics and not loads of close ups.
4 - Comes across as intelligent.
Agree with this
I'd also add having a sense of humour,specially where sex is concerned!
A fanny fart is something to be made light of n laughed at.....not something that makes you wanna hide from embarrassment n end the session!
Pmsl has that actually happened, because if it has I think I might die laughing "
More often than some orgasm I'm told lol... and yes it does... just ignore and continue. ..for some it happens more often than others. |
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over a year ago
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A lady that wears plain topped stockings with a nice skirt or dress does it for me ..
Seeing her innocently bending over not realising her skit rides up at the back really turns me on as I get a glimpse of the stocking tops.
Pure heaven and big fantasy of mone. ... |
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"Hope I'm not too late for this..
1 - Takes control of the chat and doesn't just respond to questions in a closed way.
2 - Pays me some sort of compliments.
3 - Has tasteful pics and not loads of close ups.
4 - Comes across as intelligent.
Agree with this
I'd also add having a sense of humour,specially where sex is concerned!
A fanny fart is something to be made light of n laughed at.....not something that makes you wanna hide from embarrassment n end the session!
Pmsl has that actually happened, because if it has I think I might die laughing
She was so embarrassed it did stop play for a couple of minutes!
She curled up n hid under the covers while squealing "OMG! Nooooooo!!" n such like....while I bellowed with laughter!
Had to coax her back out n massage her dented pride before play re-commenced!"
Awwww bless, I love it when something funny happens but it usually stops play for longer than a few minutes, once I start laughing that's it lol ![](/icons/s/mrgreen.gif) |
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"Hope I'm not too late for this..
1 - Takes control of the chat and doesn't just respond to questions in a closed way.
2 - Pays me some sort of compliments.
3 - Has tasteful pics and not loads of close ups.
4 - Comes across as intelligent.
Agree with this
I'd also add having a sense of humour,specially where sex is concerned!
A fanny fart is something to be made light of n laughed at.....not something that makes you wanna hide from embarrassment n end the session!
Pmsl has that actually happened, because if it has I think I might die laughing
She was so embarrassed it did stop play for a couple of minutes!
She curled up n hid under the covers while squealing "OMG! Nooooooo!!" n such like....while I bellowed with laughter!
Had to coax her back out n massage her dented pride before play re-commenced!
Awwww bless, I love it when something funny happens but it usually stops play for longer than a few minutes, once I start laughing that's it lol "
I was still inside her for a few seconds while she was laughing then coughing before she hid under the covers n pushed me off!
Every time she coughed I felt her involuntary muscle contractions tightly gripping my cock.....which was nice! ![](/icons/thumb_up.png) |
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"Hope I'm not too late for this..
1 - Takes control of the chat and doesn't just respond to questions in a closed way.
2 - Pays me some sort of compliments.
3 - Has tasteful pics and not loads of close ups.
4 - Comes across as intelligent.
Agree with this
I'd also add having a sense of humour,specially where sex is concerned!
A fanny fart is something to be made light of n laughed at.....not something that makes you wanna hide from embarrassment n end the session!
Pmsl has that actually happened, because if it has I think I might die laughing
She was so embarrassed it did stop play for a couple of minutes!
She curled up n hid under the covers while squealing "OMG! Nooooooo!!" n such like....while I bellowed with laughter!
Had to coax her back out n massage her dented pride before play re-commenced!
Awwww bless, I love it when something funny happens but it usually stops play for longer than a few minutes, once I start laughing that's it lol
I was still inside her for a few seconds while she was laughing then coughing before she hid under the covers n pushed me off!
Every time she coughed I felt her involuntary muscle contractions tightly gripping my cock.....which was nice! "
I sincerely hope she isn't going to read this lol ![](/icons/s/mrgreen.gif) |
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"Hope I'm not too late for this..
1 - Takes control of the chat and doesn't just respond to questions in a closed way.
2 - Pays me some sort of compliments.
3 - Has tasteful pics and not loads of close ups.
4 - Comes across as intelligent.
Agree with this
I'd also add having a sense of humour,specially where sex is concerned!
A fanny fart is something to be made light of n laughed at.....not something that makes you wanna hide from embarrassment n end the session!
Pmsl has that actually happened, because if it has I think I might die laughing
She was so embarrassed it did stop play for a couple of minutes!
She curled up n hid under the covers while squealing "OMG! Nooooooo!!" n such like....while I bellowed with laughter!
Had to coax her back out n massage her dented pride before play re-commenced!
Awwww bless, I love it when something funny happens but it usually stops play for longer than a few minutes, once I start laughing that's it lol
I was still inside her for a few seconds while she was laughing then coughing before she hid under the covers n pushed me off!
Every time she coughed I felt her involuntary muscle contractions tightly gripping my cock.....which was nice!
I sincerely hope she isn't going to read this lol "
Would be fuckin hilarious if she did ![](/icons/s/razz.gif) |
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"Hope I'm not too late for this..
1 - Takes control of the chat and doesn't just respond to questions in a closed way.
2 - Pays me some sort of compliments.
3 - Has tasteful pics and not loads of close ups.
4 - Comes across as intelligent.
Agree with this
I'd also add having a sense of humour,specially where sex is concerned!
A fanny fart is something to be made light of n laughed at.....not something that makes you wanna hide from embarrassment n end the session!
Pmsl has that actually happened, because if it has I think I might die laughing
She was so embarrassed it did stop play for a couple of minutes!
She curled up n hid under the covers while squealing "OMG! Nooooooo!!" n such like....while I bellowed with laughter!
Had to coax her back out n massage her dented pride before play re-commenced!
Awwww bless, I love it when something funny happens but it usually stops play for longer than a few minutes, once I start laughing that's it lol
I was still inside her for a few seconds while she was laughing then coughing before she hid under the covers n pushed me off!
Every time she coughed I felt her involuntary muscle contractions tightly gripping my cock.....which was nice!
I sincerely hope she isn't going to read this lol "
Haha! No,she's not on here.....as far as I'm aware anyway. |
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"Here's a question for you gents.
There's a lady. Smoking body. You get on like house on fire. Chemistry there.
But she's not very nice looking( face).
Do you carry on?? Or is it a deal breaker?? "
I prefer to meet for a social first, and I always know within the first 5 minutes whether I want to go further. It's not about looks, it's just that feeling you get, you know?
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over a year ago
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"Here's a question for you gents.
There's a lady. Smoking body. Youse get on like house on fire. Chemistry there.
But she's not very nice looking( face).
Do you carry on?? Or is it a deal breaker?? "
There's an old Yorkshire saying that covers that situation.
You don't look at the mantle-piece when your poking the fire |
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1 - Be keen on me, doing the chasing is fine but I like to feel wanted in return
2 - Leave something to my imagination, I don't want to see it all in gory detail on the profile.
3 - Spelling , Grammar, Punctuation. A well written profile makes me think we will at least be able to hold a conversation.
4 - An innocent face and a dirty mind |
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Attractive
Personality (inc a great sense of humour)
Classy pics (ones that leaves you with something to explore and leaves something to the imagination,as the mind is one of the biggest organs we have to be stimulated)
Women who know how to enjoy life and who can be passionate as well as wild and adventurous
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"For me. It really doesn't matter does it
1. Something
2 Something else.
3. Something more.
4 something special.
Call me? "
I like your thinking ...
Call me sometime ![](/icons/s/2/cute.gif) |
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"For me. It really doesn't matter does it
1. Something
2 Something else.
3. Something more.
4 something special.
Call me?
I like your thinking ...
Call me sometime "
Simplicity is often over rated. ![](/icons/s/2/cute.gif) |
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"For me. It really doesn't matter does it
1. Something
2 Something else.
3. Something more.
4 something special.
Call me?
I like your thinking ...
Call me sometime
Simplicity is often over rated. "
And often gives the greatest pleasure ![](/icons/s/2/cute.gif) |
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"For me. It really doesn't matter does it
1. Something
2 Something else.
3. Something more.
4 something special.
Call me?
I like your thinking ...
Call me sometime
Simplicity is often over rated. "
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