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"Working in tandom with a friend so letting the ladies have theirs at the same time now. What are those 4 top of your list things guys that drive you to want to meet her? I'll start it off. 1. POSITIVE attitude to things. 2. A Gentle spirit yet with deep passion. 3 . Clearly interested in me, listening, hearing and able to hold good conversation, willing to disagree without negative judgemental language. 4. Humour. Can laugh at themselves first, then with others. Positive satire or sarcasm tickles me. 4." Jeez... not this again.. It's getting almost as tedious as the fuck, snog, avoid threads ![]() | |||
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"Working in tandom with a friend so letting the ladies have theirs at the same time now. What are those 4 top of your list things guys that drive you to want to meet her? I'll start it off. 1. POSITIVE attitude to things. 2. A Gentle spirit yet with deep passion. 3 . Clearly interested in me, listening, hearing and able to hold good conversation, willing to disagree without negative judgemental language. 4. Humour. Can laugh at themselves first, then with others. Positive satire or sarcasm tickles me. 4. Jeez... not this again.. It's getting almost as tedious as the fuck, snog, avoid threads ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Working in tandom with a friend so letting the ladies have theirs at the same time now. What are those 4 top of your list things guys that drive you to want to meet her? I'll start it off. 1. POSITIVE attitude to things. 2. A Gentle spirit yet with deep passion. 3 . Clearly interested in me, listening, hearing and able to hold good conversation, willing to disagree without negative judgemental language. 4. Humour. Can laugh at themselves first, then with others. Positive satire or sarcasm tickles me. 4." Good start OP, I'll humour you with my positivity ![]() | |||
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"Working in tandom with a friend so letting the ladies have theirs at the same time now. What are those 4 top of your list things guys that drive you to want to meet her? I'll start it off. 1. POSITIVE attitude to things. 2. A Gentle spirit yet with deep passion. 3 . Clearly interested in me, listening, hearing and able to hold good conversation, willing to disagree without negative judgemental language. 4. Humour. Can laugh at themselves first, then with others. Positive satire or sarcasm tickles me. 4. Jeez... not this again.. It's getting almost as tedious as the fuck, snog, avoid threads ![]() ![]() So when do we fight now I've answered? ![]() | |||
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"Working in tandom with a friend so letting the ladies have theirs at the same time now. What are those 4 top of your list things guys that drive you to want to meet her? I'll start it off. 1. POSITIVE attitude to things. 2. A Gentle spirit yet with deep passion. 3 . Clearly interested in me, listening, hearing and able to hold good conversation, willing to disagree without negative judgemental language. 4. Humour. Can laugh at themselves first, then with others. Positive satire or sarcasm tickles me. 4. Jeez... not this again.. It's getting almost as tedious as the fuck, snog, avoid threads ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Working in tandom with a friend so letting the ladies have theirs at the same time now. What are those 4 top of your list things guys that drive you to want to meet her? I'll start it off. 1. POSITIVE attitude to things. 2. A Gentle spirit yet with deep passion. 3 . Clearly interested in me, listening, hearing and able to hold good conversation, willing to disagree without negative judgemental language. 4. Humour. Can laugh at themselves first, then with others. Positive satire or sarcasm tickles me. 4. Jeez... not this again.. It's getting almost as tedious as the fuck, snog, avoid threads ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Working in tandom with a friend so letting the ladies have theirs at the same time now. What are those 4 top of your list things guys that drive you to want to meet her? I'll start it off. 1. POSITIVE attitude to things. 2. A Gentle spirit yet with deep passion. 3 . Clearly interested in me, listening, hearing and able to hold good conversation, willing to disagree without negative judgemental language. 4. Humour. Can laugh at themselves first, then with others. Positive satire or sarcasm tickles me. 4. Jeez... not this again.. It's getting almost as tedious as the fuck, snog, avoid threads ![]() ![]() ![]() I don't understand your humour. | |||
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"God some days the 'misandry for sport' on this site gets really tedious too! ![]() You're entitled to your opinion FM. I certainly am not into misandry for sport. | |||
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"Working in tandom with a friend so letting the ladies have theirs at the same time now. What are those 4 top of your list things guys that drive you to want to meet her? I'll start it off. 1. POSITIVE attitude to things. 2. A Gentle spirit yet with deep passion. 3 . Clearly interested in me, listening, hearing and able to hold good conversation, willing to disagree without negative judgemental language. 4. Humour. Can laugh at themselves first, then with others. Positive satire or sarcasm tickles me. 4. Jeez... not this again.. It's getting almost as tedious as the fuck, snog, avoid threads ![]() ![]() ![]() That's been said before. ![]() | |||
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"God some days the 'misandry for sport' on this site gets really tedious too! ![]() Nor me... ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Working in tandom with a friend so letting the ladies have theirs at the same time now. What are those 4 top of your list things guys that drive you to want to meet her? I'll start it off. 1. POSITIVE attitude to things. 2. A Gentle spirit yet with deep passion. 3 . Clearly interested in me, listening, hearing and able to hold good conversation, willing to disagree without negative judgemental language. 4. Humour. Can laugh at themselves first, then with others. Positive satire or sarcasm tickles me. 4. Jeez... not this again.. It's getting almost as tedious as the fuck, snog, avoid threads ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() I didn't partake in the pulled thread. You've replied to me suggesting I'm looking for a fight...? | |||
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"Working in tandom with a friend so letting the ladies have theirs at the same time now. What are those 4 top of your list things guys that drive you to want to meet her? I'll start it off. 1. POSITIVE attitude to things. 2. A Gentle spirit yet with deep passion. 3 . Clearly interested in me, listening, hearing and able to hold good conversation, willing to disagree without negative judgemental language. 4. Humour. Can laugh at themselves first, then with others. Positive satire or sarcasm tickles me. 4. Good start OP, I'll humour you with my positivity ![]() Good... some can't handle that it. A little salt adds flavour, a pot needs thrown out. | |||
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"Working in tandom with a friend so letting the ladies have theirs at the same time now. What are those 4 top of your list things guys that drive you to want to meet her? I'll start it off. 1. POSITIVE attitude to things. 2. A Gentle spirit yet with deep passion. 3 . Clearly interested in me, listening, hearing and able to hold good conversation, willing to disagree without negative judgemental language. 4. Humour. Can laugh at themselves first, then with others. Positive satire or sarcasm tickles me. 4. Jeez... not this again.. It's getting almost as tedious as the fuck, snog, avoid threads ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() No i didn't. Your assuming 'we' meant you and I. ![]() | |||
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"Working in tandom with a friend so letting the ladies have theirs at the same time now. What are those 4 top of your list things guys that drive you to want to meet her? I'll start it off. 1. POSITIVE attitude to things. 2. A Gentle spirit yet with deep passion. 3 . Clearly interested in me, listening, hearing and able to hold good conversation, willing to disagree without negative judgemental language. 4. Humour. Can laugh at themselves first, then with others. Positive satire or sarcasm tickles me. 4. Jeez... not this again.. It's getting almost as tedious as the fuck, snog, avoid threads ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Please ignore the anst and anger. Let's keep it as it's intended. ..positive and helpful. | |||
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"Op. Why only four reasons? Why so specific? " stops people ranting and giving others opportunity. We can all name more but it also causes us to think. | |||
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"Working in tandom with a friend so letting the ladies have theirs at the same time now. What are those 4 top of your list things guys that drive you to want to meet her? I'll start it off. 1. POSITIVE attitude to things. 2. A Gentle spirit yet with deep passion. 3 . Clearly interested in me, listening, hearing and able to hold good conversation, willing to disagree without negative judgemental language. 4. Humour. Can laugh at themselves first, then with others. Positive satire or sarcasm tickles me. 4. Jeez... not this again.. It's getting almost as tedious as the fuck, snog, avoid threads ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Working in tandom with a friend so letting the ladies have theirs at the same time now. What are those 4 top of your list things guys that drive you to want to meet her? I'll start it off. 1. POSITIVE attitude to things. 2. A Gentle spirit yet with deep passion. 3 . Clearly interested in me, listening, hearing and able to hold good conversation, willing to disagree without negative judgemental language. 4. Humour. Can laugh at themselves first, then with others. Positive satire or sarcasm tickles me. 4. Jeez... not this again.. It's getting almost as tedious as the fuck, snog, avoid threads ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Angst and anger? ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Working in tandom with a friend so letting the ladies have theirs at the same time now. What are those 4 top of your list things guys that drive you to want to meet her? I'll start it off. 1. POSITIVE attitude to things. 2. A Gentle spirit yet with deep passion. 3 . Clearly interested in me, listening, hearing and able to hold good conversation, willing to disagree without negative judgemental language. 4. Humour. Can laugh at themselves first, then with others. Positive satire or sarcasm tickles me. 4. Jeez... not this again.. It's getting almost as tedious as the fuck, snog, avoid threads ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Thanks for clarifying, I did assume that as you used the reply option rather than a new post. Good to hear it wasn't your intention. I like to ask when I'm unclear. I think sweeping generalisations aren't helpful, and are likely to incite upset rather than prevent. People discussing things or asking direct questions to people or challenging comments that they disagree with is not something I find tedious. That was what I witnessed on the last threads. I wasn't on the thread that got pulled so can't comment on that as I hadn't read it. | |||
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"Op. Why only four reasons? Why so specific? " It's a control thing ![]() | |||
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"I don't think there's any need for this thread to turn negative with passive aggressive comments by the OP. A joke was made, misandry was inaccurately used, probably best to leave that there. I'm genuinely interested in reading what makes a man want to meet. " I concur. | |||
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"Working in tandom with a friend so letting the ladies have theirs at the same time now. What are those 4 top of your list things guys that drive you to want to meet her? I'll start it off. 1. POSITIVE attitude to things. 2. A Gentle spirit yet with deep passion. 3 . Clearly interested in me, listening, hearing and able to hold good conversation, willing to disagree without negative judgemental language. 4. Humour. Can laugh at themselves first, then with others. Positive satire or sarcasm tickles me. 4. Jeez... not this again.. It's getting almost as tedious as the fuck, snog, avoid threads ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"If you don't like the subject, find one you do like rather than spoil a thread ![]() Who? | |||
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"I don't think there's any need for this thread to turn negative with passive aggressive comments by the OP. A joke was made, misandry was inaccurately used, probably best to leave that there. I'm genuinely interested in reading what makes a man want to meet. I concur. " Then read and give guys an opportunity instead of scaring them away with antagonism. | |||
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"I don't think there's any need for this thread to turn negative with passive aggressive comments by the OP. A joke was made, misandry was inaccurately used, probably best to leave that there. I'm genuinely interested in reading what makes a man want to meet. " It seems just reading and absorbing isn't in your mandate. | |||
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"I don't think there's any need for this thread to turn negative with passive aggressive comments by the OP. A joke was made, misandry was inaccurately used, probably best to leave that there. I'm genuinely interested in reading what makes a man want to meet. I concur. " Inaccurately used? I'll leave it here then. ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Working in tandom with a friend so letting the ladies have theirs at the same time now. What are those 4 top of your list things guys that drive you to want to meet her? I'll start it off. 1. POSITIVE attitude to things. 2. A Gentle spirit yet with deep passion. 3 . Clearly interested in me, listening, hearing and able to hold good conversation, willing to disagree without negative judgemental language. 4. Humour. Can laugh at themselves first, then with others. Positive satire or sarcasm tickles me. 4. Jeez... not this again.. It's getting almost as tedious as the fuck, snog, avoid threads ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Why let things get heated or even suggest they are. There's been too much silliness the last few days at least. Can't we all just remember were here for fun. I don't know why it needed to be bought up again? | |||
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"Op. Why only four reasons? Why so specific? It's a control thing ![]() why... no control at all...read my reply and see. It's to allow others and encourage people to think rather than rant and follows on from the other day.....not control at all. | |||
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"If you don't like the subject, find one you do like rather than spoil a thread ![]() Anyone it applies to | |||
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"If I was meeting 1. I'm really into the way she expresses herself and we share sufficient values to be compatible 2. She makes my cock twitch when I think of her or look at her 3. She is clearly interested in similar things to me sexually 4. I can't wait to kiss her " Wow just wow ![]() | |||
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"Working in tandom with a friend so letting the ladies have theirs at the same time now." You're 'letting' us. | |||
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"Working in tandom with a friend so letting the ladies have theirs at the same time now. You're 'letting' us. " ![]() | |||
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"If I was meeting 1. I'm really into the way she expresses herself and we share sufficient values to be compatible 2. She makes my cock twitch when I think of her or look at her 3. She is clearly interested in similar things to me sexually 4. I can't wait to kiss her " ![]() | |||
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"Working in tandom with a friend so letting the ladies have theirs at the same time now. What are those 4 top of your list things guys that drive you to want to meet her? I'll start it off. 1. POSITIVE attitude to things. 2. A Gentle spirit yet with deep passion. 3 . Clearly interested in me, listening, hearing and able to hold good conversation, willing to disagree without negative judgemental language. 4. Humour. Can laugh at themselves first, then with others. Positive satire or sarcasm tickles me. 4. Jeez... not this again.. It's getting almost as tedious as the fuck, snog, avoid threads ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Find a hotel and don't break the walls. X | |||
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"1. Sense of humour - if she can make me grin or chuckle on a regular basis, she's pretty much in my knickers already 2. Doesn't take herself too seriously. 3. Has eyes that I want to get lost in 4. Has a naughty streak that gets me fired up" Yep they work for me too ![]() | |||
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"1. Sense of humour - if she can make me grin or chuckle on a regular basis, she's pretty much in my knickers already 2. Doesn't take herself too seriously. 3. Has eyes that I want to get lost in 4. Has a naughty streak that gets me fired up" You boys are on fire this morning ![]() | |||
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"Hard to find the actual responses here to the OP. I'll persevere with looking though as I'm genuinely interested ![]() Quite easy they're numbered 1-4 with the odd 5 thrown in by the more iconoclastic rule breakers ![]() | |||
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"1. Sense of humour - if she can make me grin or chuckle on a regular basis, she's pretty much in my knickers already 2. Doesn't take herself too seriously. 3. Has eyes that I want to get lost in 4. Has a naughty streak that gets me fired up" Great ones... ![]() | |||
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"1. Sense of humour - if she can make me grin or chuckle on a regular basis, she's pretty much in my knickers already 2. Doesn't take herself too seriously. 3. Has eyes that I want to get lost in 4. Has a naughty streak that gets me fired up" Interesting points ![]() | |||
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"Hard to find the actual responses here to the OP. I'll persevere with looking though as I'm genuinely interested ![]() It's worth persevering ![]() | |||
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"Hard to find the actual responses here to the OP. I'll persevere with looking though as I'm genuinely interested ![]() ![]() Without 'rules' there's little to break... ![]() | |||
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"Hard to find the actual responses here to the OP. I'll persevere with looking though as I'm genuinely interested ![]() ![]() ![]() I like rules they bring order to potentially chaotic situations, however I like breaking them too if there's no really negative consequence, especially if I find it funny ![]() | |||
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"Hard to find the actual responses here to the OP. I'll persevere with looking though as I'm genuinely interested ![]() ![]() ![]() Who is allowed to break your rules and who isn't, OP? ![]() | |||
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"If you don't like the subject, find one you do like rather than spoil a thread ![]() Isn't that a sweeping generalisation? ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Ok back to the OP please. " Don't goad the mods into using their ban button | |||
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"If you don't like the subject, find one you do like rather than spoil a thread ![]() ![]() ![]() Quite funny, but made better with the signpost ![]() | |||
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