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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I don't understand why people state on their profile's... Only looking for a relationship or not into one night stands... Erm, would these people not be better suited to an actual dating site rather than a swingers site? Just a thought  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't understand why people state on their profile's... Only looking for a relationship or not into one night stands... Erm, would these people not be better suited to an actual dating site rather than a swingers site? Just a thought "
Could they mean a fb or fwb 'relationship' rather than one-off meets?
They may be interested in meeting someone with a positive attitude to swinging, so a swingers website is surely as good a place as a dating site?
There's also no right way to utilise the site. I don't understand why people get het up about how others choose to use it.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Ah it was simply a thought I expressed. I'm not het up, just wanted some feedback as I'm fairly new to the scene. Thanks for feedback, I now understand and can approach confidently knowing what they mean and what they desire. No negativity here |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ah it was simply a thought I expressed. I'm not het up, just wanted some feedback as I'm fairly new to the scene. Thanks for feedback, I now understand and can approach confidently knowing what they mean and what they desire. No negativity here "
Sorry, I didn't mean you specifically -- just many do get het up. Also, I've just given my opinions -- you'd have to ask each individual what they personally mean, I couldn't speak for them! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Think I shall remove this, as the last thing I wanted, was to come across judgemental or to be judged, but thanks for the education"
I don't think you did come across judgemental. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If I was looking for a relationship, I'd consider looking here if the other person wants to continue to swing. I love seeing a partner with others.
I'm looking for a buddy, but nothing serious, but you never know what's round the corner. Plenty of people have met their partners on here. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Both replies make perfect sense to me. Thanks, I can see how that works, and yes i would prefer a regular thing especially if it was a good thing."
Regular meets with the same person are preferred for me. I find one offs with a guy to be cold and not as fun, but oddly, I can meet couples and ladies for one offs. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't understand why people state on their profile's... Only looking for a relationship or not into one night stands... Erm, would these people not be better suited to an actual dating site rather than a swingers site? Just a thought "
Yes. No. Maybe? Ask them, only they would know. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's up to each of us what we take from this site and how we use it. Personally I'm a little bored of casual sex and Im kind of in the mood to meet someone again.
Trouble is I'm quite naughty and feel I need to find my equal, more likely on here than on plenty of fish. I don't want to invest all that time and effort only to find out the woman I'm falling for is a prude.
Fab is many things to many people.
Social networking
Casual meets
Romance
Fantasy
Resource
Time eater
Home to trolls |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Im looking for an fwb but if a relationship came along then i wouldnt say no, im not made to have normal vanilla style relationships so I need to meet someone who i genuinely naughty and wants to do the same things sexually as me, most vanilla type men would not want me having another cock in me at the same time as them! |
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"I'm always open to new relationships when I meet people. I have no preconceived ideas about how the future will go."
Exactly this, and there are plenty of men here who feel the same but are just using this site for sex meanwhile, so it's as good a place as any. I have found far better fb/fwb relationships on here than I ever did on dating sites.  |
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By *arlo82Couple
over a year ago
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"I don't understand why people state on their profile's... Only looking for a relationship or not into one night stands... Erm, would these people not be better suited to an actual dating site rather than a swingers site? Just a thought "
Maybe they don't want a vanilla monogamous relationship but want a swinging partner in crime.
I've dated off fab before - obviously not my intention but it happens. Similarly interests and all that |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't understand why people state on their profile's... Only looking for a relationship or not into one night stands... Erm, would these people not be better suited to an actual dating site rather than a swingers site? Just a thought
Yes. No. Maybe? Ask them, only they would know. "
Your responses are so thought provoking  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm always open to new relationships when I meet people. I have no preconceived ideas about how the future will go.
Exactly this, and there are plenty of men here who feel the same but are just using this site for sex meanwhile, so it's as good a place as any. I have found far better fb/fwb relationships on here than I ever did on dating sites. "
It's not even 'meanwhile' for me. If I engaged in a relationship with someone, I wouldn't expect to stop swinging and using sites like this as a single. |
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"I'm always open to new relationships when I meet people. I have no preconceived ideas about how the future will go.
Exactly this, and there are plenty of men here who feel the same but are just using this site for sex meanwhile, so it's as good a place as any. I have found far better fb/fwb relationships on here than I ever did on dating sites.
It's not even 'meanwhile' for me. If I engaged in a relationship with someone, I wouldn't expect to stop swinging and using sites like this as a single."
I realise - but many singles in here are not really into the lifestyle per se, just ended up here by default |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm always open to new relationships when I meet people. I have no preconceived ideas about how the future will go.
Exactly this, and there are plenty of men here who feel the same but are just using this site for sex meanwhile, so it's as good a place as any. I have found far better fb/fwb relationships on here than I ever did on dating sites.
It's not even 'meanwhile' for me. If I engaged in a relationship with someone, I wouldn't expect to stop swinging and using sites like this as a single.
I realise - but many singles in here are not really into the lifestyle per se, just ended up here by default "
Ah yes, those are the kinds of people I carefully try and out before it gets to the meeting stage. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As long as people are upfront about what they want I don't see an issue. I'd not be interested in meeting with someone who was looking for a relationship. |
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By *ild-1Woman
over a year ago
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"Im looking for an fwb but if a relationship came along then i wouldnt say no, im not made to have normal vanilla style relationships so I need to meet someone who i genuinely naughty and wants to do the same things sexually as me, most vanilla type men would not want me having another cock in me at the same time as them!"
I couldn't put this better myself ^^^^^^^ |
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"I'm always open to new relationships when I meet people. I have no preconceived ideas about how the future will go.
Exactly this, and there are plenty of men here who feel the same but are just using this site for sex meanwhile, so it's as good a place as any. I have found far better fb/fwb relationships on here than I ever did on dating sites.
It's not even 'meanwhile' for me. If I engaged in a relationship with someone, I wouldn't expect to stop swinging and using sites like this as a single.
I realise - but many singles in here are not really into the lifestyle per se, just ended up here by default
Ah yes, those are the kinds of people I carefully try and out before it gets to the meeting stage. "
All the more for me! I out the hardened swingers lol! |
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Having recently been dropped for being honest with someone I was seeing about swinging I think I would consider looking here for a relationship. At least you both have that starting point and that conversation doesn't need to be an awkward one. |
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"Having recently been dropped for being honest with someone I was seeing about swinging I think I would consider looking here for a relationship. At least you both have that starting point and that conversation doesn't need to be an awkward one. "
Good point - I heard some comments at a recent 'meet ups' meeting that reminded me how the rest of society views people that engage in casual sex.   |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Im looking for an fwb but if a relationship came along then i wouldnt say no, im not made to have normal vanilla style relationships so I need to meet someone who i genuinely naughty and wants to do the same things sexually as me, most vanilla type men would not want me having
another cock in me at the same time as them!"
That's kinda why I'm here lol
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I'm always open to new relationships when I meet people. I have no preconceived ideas about how the future will go.
Exactly this, and there are plenty of men here who feel the same but are just using this site for sex meanwhile,
so it's as good a place as any. I have found far better fb/fwb relationships on here than I ever did on dating sites. "
I love this site cause I can be myself and not be judged... A complete sex addict with an insatiable lust for women who are horny and proud |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I'm always open to new relationships when I meet people. I have no preconceived ideas about how the future will go.
A lot of people feel this way....  "
Myself included |
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"Having recently been dropped for being honest with someone I was seeing about swinging I think I would consider looking here for a relationship. At least you both have that starting point and that conversation doesn't need to be an awkward one. "
I want a relationship where I already know they will be into clubs and the potential for having someone join us occasionally rather than have to work out how to explain to someone "vanilla" what I do |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"As long as people are upfront about what they want I don't see an issue. I'd not be interested in meeting with someone who was looking for a relationship."
Hear hear |
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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago
ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL |
"It's up to each of us what we take from this site and how we use it. Personally I'm a little bored of casual sex and Im kind of in the mood to meet someone again.
Trouble is I'm quite naughty and feel I need to find my equal, more likely on here than on plenty of fish. I don't want to invest all that time and effort only to find out the woman I'm falling for is a prude.
Fab is many things to many people.
Social networking
Casual meets
Romance
Fantasy
Resource
Time eater
Home to trolls "
This.... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Having recently been dropped for being honest with someone I was seeing about swinging I think I would consider looking here for a relationship. At least you both have that starting point and that conversation doesn't need to be an awkward one. "
Its an open forum where we can release our inner natural sexual emotions and marvel in the pleasures |
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