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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"To me it's the way you act! Poise, manners, self-respect and attitude to/ respect for others!
To others in sure it means different! Xx"
Well said, very well put.
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A lady knows how to conduct herself in public, she has good manners, does not swear, has correct etiquette and yes there is a place for it in this society no matter what her background. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm interested to know what everyone's views are
A lady knows how to conduct herself in public, she has good manners, does not swear, has correct etiquette and yes there is a place for it in this society no matter what her background. "
Manners and etiquette are entirely dependent on class so I am not sure how you can claim a woman's background is immaterial. |
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By *ed wineMan
over a year ago
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Makeup and attire that enhance her female features...
Refined behavior and manners...
A sensible insight...
An innate coquetry...
And the certain knowledge of her femininity... 
But maybe, you don't agree with my description...
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Rejects Me
Shows class
Looks pretty
Thinks fast
FTFY
I'm sure you are nice but misguided. I blame the Internet
Right back at ya. "
I've seen both sides of that coin and think are both stupid
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm interested to know what everyone's views are
A lady knows how to conduct herself in public, she has good manners, does not swear, has correct etiquette and yes there is a place for it in this society no matter what her background.
Manners and etiquette are entirely dependent on class so I am not sure how you can claim a woman's background is immaterial."
That's a weird thing to say. There are beautiful souls and total shitheads from all walks of life. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm interested to know what everyone's views are
A lady knows how to conduct herself in public, she has good manners, does not swear, has correct etiquette and yes there is a place for it in this society no matter what her background.
Manners and etiquette are entirely dependent on class so I am not sure how you can claim a woman's background is immaterial.
That's a weird thing to say. There are beautiful souls and total shitheads from all walks of life. "
Personally I don't believe manners and etiquette make for a beautiful soul I didn't say what you thought I said. I did say that if manners and etiquette are a qualifying element of being a lady (like quoted post suggested), social background is a defining factor to being one. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"White blouse,black skirt,sexy glasses,and heals wow! 
That's my work attire seriously it is!! "
Snap as cindi my its my normal working outfit with a pinny |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Nah that's rubbish. Manners and etiquette are key components of a beautiful soul.
Is there some trick about where to put the fish knife the rule out the riff raff? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm interested to know what everyone's views are "
A woman with effortless class, and natural style. The ability to disarm a man, with a well timed smile, the mischievous glint in her eyes.
She glides through life, with confidence, and a killer smile.
When you encounter a woman, like that, you remember them forever. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm interested to know what everyone's views are
A woman with effortless class, and natural style. The ability to disarm a man, with a well timed smile, the mischievous glint in her eyes.
She glides through life, with confidence, and a killer smile.
When you encounter a woman, like that, you remember them forever. "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Nah that's rubbish. Manners and etiquette are key components of a beautiful soul.
Is there some trick about where to put the fish knife the rule out the riff raff? "
OK - you yourself, just like many others on this thread, said that part of a lady is "showing class". So tell me, does class have nothing to do with social background? What does it mean to be classy? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Nah that's rubbish. Manners and etiquette are key components of a beautiful soul.
Is there some trick about where to put the fish knife the rule out the riff raff?
OK - you yourself, just like many others on this thread, said that part of a lady is "showing class". So tell me, does class have nothing to do with social background? What does it mean to be classy?"
He lost me at rejects feminism.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Nah that's rubbish. Manners and etiquette are key components of a beautiful soul.
Is there some trick about where to put the fish knife the rule out the riff raff?
OK - you yourself, just like many others on this thread, said that part of a lady is "showing class". So tell me, does class have nothing to do with social background? What does it mean to be classy?"
When I use that word it's describe a certain style / look she has as opposed to someone's social class standing.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Nah that's rubbish. Manners and etiquette are key components of a beautiful soul.
Is there some trick about where to put the fish knife the rule out the riff raff?
OK - you yourself, just like many others on this thread, said that part of a lady is "showing class". So tell me, does class have nothing to do with social background? What does it mean to be classy?
He lost me at rejects feminism...."
Open your mind. It's not anti-equality. I'm just saying modern feminists tend to be a bit deranged on one end of the scale and painfully gullible on the other. Feminist is a confused lost cause (it started very well) and needs a restart if it's to be a change for good and a source of unity rather than division.
Anyway about class, it's to do with self confidence, how you carry yourself and how you act.
A little bit of nurture but mostly nature. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Nah that's rubbish. Manners and etiquette are key components of a beautiful soul.
Is there some trick about where to put the fish knife the rule out the riff raff?
OK - you yourself, just like many others on this thread, said that part of a lady is "showing class". So tell me, does class have nothing to do with social background? What does it mean to be classy?
He lost me at rejects feminism....
Open your mind. It's not anti-equality. I'm just saying modern feminists tend to be a bit deranged on one end of the scale and painfully gullible on the other. Feminist is a confused lost cause (it started very well) and needs a restart if it's to be a change for good and a source of unity rather than division.
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My mind is open -- by all means ask me a question about my issue with your post and I'll answer. I just prefer full clarity rather diminishing a phrase by leaving it so open to being misconstrued by others. I think that's harmful.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Nah that's rubbish. Manners and etiquette are key components of a beautiful soul.
Is there some trick about where to put the fish knife the rule out the riff raff?
OK - you yourself, just like many others on this thread, said that part of a lady is "showing class". So tell me, does class have nothing to do with social background? What does it mean to be classy?
He lost me at rejects feminism....
Open your mind. It's not anti-equality. I'm just saying modern feminists tend to be a bit deranged on one end of the scale and painfully gullible on the other. Feminist is a confused lost cause (it started very well) and needs a restart if it's to be a change for good and a source of unity rather than division.
My mind is open -- by all means ask me a question about my issue with your post and I'll answer. I just prefer full clarity rather diminishing a phrase by leaving it so open to being misconstrued by others. I think that's harmful.
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*than diminishing |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Nah that's rubbish. Manners and etiquette are key components of a beautiful soul.
Is there some trick about where to put the fish knife the rule out the riff raff?
OK - you yourself, just like many others on this thread, said that part of a lady is "showing class". So tell me, does class have nothing to do with social background? What does it mean to be classy?
He lost me at rejects feminism....
Open your mind. It's not anti-equality. I'm just saying modern feminists tend to be a bit deranged on one end of the scale and painfully gullible on the other. Feminist is a confused lost cause (it started very well) and needs a restart if it's to be a change for good and a source of unity rather than division.
My mind is open -- by all means ask me a question about my issue with your post and I'll answer. I just prefer full clarity rather diminishing a phrase by leaving it so open to being misconstrued by others. I think that's harmful.
*than diminishing"
You lost me at two word innanity |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Nah that's rubbish. Manners and etiquette are key components of a beautiful soul.
Is there some trick about where to put the fish knife the rule out the riff raff?
OK - you yourself, just like many others on this thread, said that part of a lady is "showing class". So tell me, does class have nothing to do with social background? What does it mean to be classy?
He lost me at rejects feminism....
Open your mind. It's not anti-equality. I'm just saying modern feminists tend to be a bit deranged on one end of the scale and painfully gullible on the other. Feminist is a confused lost cause (it started very well) and needs a restart if it's to be a change for good and a source of unity rather than division.
My mind is open -- by all means ask me a question about my issue with your post and I'll answer. I just prefer full clarity rather diminishing a phrase by leaving it so open to being misconstrued by others. I think that's harmful.
*than diminishing
You lost me at two word innanity "
Ah, well you're not up for a genuine discussion then. Okey-doke. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sorry I missed your first reply.
It's simple, Feminism has lost its way. Various factions disagree, and it's painfully illogical most of time.
Things like gender is just a social construct take no account for biochemistry specifically hormones...
The gender pay gap is an abuse of statistics and firmly debunked by economists everywhere.
Two basic examples of the madness. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Sorry I missed your first reply.
It's simple, Feminism has lost its way. Various factions disagree, and it's painfully illogical most of time.
Things like gender is just a social construct take no account for biochemistry specifically hormones...
The gender pay gap is an abuse of statistics and firmly debunked by economists everywhere.
Two basic examples of the madness. "
I hear what you're saying. But that's not what I'm challenging. Thank you for the apology, I was disappointed to think it was just going to be name calling. |
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By *osieWoman
over a year ago
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"Sorry I missed your first reply.
It's simple, Feminism has lost its way. Various factions disagree, and it's painfully illogical most of time.
Things like gender is just a social construct take no account for biochemistry specifically hormones... "
"The gender pay gap is an abuse of statistics and firmly debunked by economists everywhere."
Citation?
"Two basic examples of the madness. "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Sorry I missed your first reply.
It's simple, Feminism has lost its way. Various factions disagree, and it's painfully illogical most of time.
Things like gender is just a social construct take no account for biochemistry specifically hormones...
The gender pay gap is an abuse of statistics and firmly debunked by economists everywhere.
Two basic examples of the madness.
I hear what you're saying. But that's not what I'm challenging. Thank you for the apology, I was disappointed to think it was just going to be name calling. "
what are you challenging? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Sorry I missed your first reply.
It's simple, Feminism has lost its way. Various factions disagree, and it's painfully illogical most of time.
Things like gender is just a social construct take no account for biochemistry specifically hormones...
The gender pay gap is an abuse of statistics and firmly debunked by economists everywhere.
Two basic examples of the madness.
I hear what you're saying. But that's not what I'm challenging. Thank you for the apology, I was disappointed to think it was just going to be name calling.
what are you challenging? "
My query to you the other day was to understand what your issue with feminism is. You've expanded on that further now, I don't necessarily agree with everything you're saying but it's your opinion. I think it's harmful to just leave a phrase like 'reject feminism' without clarity as it's so open to misinterpretation and at a base level looks like you're positing a stance of being anti gender equality. I find that harmful. Thank you for asking, although I did explain this a post or so back. |
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"I'm interested to know what everyone's views are
A lady knows how to conduct herself in public, she has good manners, does not swear, has correct etiquette and yes there is a place for it in this society no matter what her background. "
Exactly this.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm interested to know what everyone's views are
A lady knows how to conduct herself in public, she has good manners, does not swear, has correct etiquette and yes there is a place for it in this society no matter what her background. "
So the key is *knowing*, right?
Because I *know* how some parts of society think they should conduct themselves in public (I even know which fork to use at dinner) but fuck me if I'm going to be constrained by what society thinks I should do.
But I'm still a lady, right, because I *know* how to conduct myself in public... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm interested to know what everyone's views are
A lady knows how to conduct herself in public, she has good manners, does not swear, has correct etiquette and yes there is a place for it in this society no matter what her background.
So the key is *knowing*, right?
Because I *know* how some parts of society think they should conduct themselves in public (I even know which fork to use at dinner) but fuck me if I'm going to be constrained by what society thinks I should do.
But I'm still a lady, right, because I *know* how to conduct myself in public..."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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BTW - 'ladies' (you know, those who know how to conduct themselves according to old fashioned and sexist societal values) don't fuck around on swingers sites. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Nah that's rubbish. Manners and etiquette are key components of a beautiful soul.
Is there some trick about where to put the fish knife the rule out the riff raff?
OK - you yourself, just like many others on this thread, said that part of a lady is "showing class". So tell me, does class have nothing to do with social background? What does it mean to be classy?
He lost me at rejects feminism....
Open your mind. It's not anti-equality. I'm just saying modern feminists tend to be a bit deranged on one end of the scale and painfully gullible on the other. Feminist is a confused lost cause (it started very well) and needs a restart if it's to be a change for good and a source of unity rather than division.
Anyway about class, it's to do with self confidence, how you carry yourself and how you act.
A little bit of nurture but mostly nature. "
Can a chav, or a traveller be a lady while they remain true to their culture? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"BTW - 'ladies' (you know, those who know how to conduct themselves according to old fashioned and sexist societal values) don't fuck around on swingers sites."
Thank you for pointing this out. Ladies are in control of themselves at all times and giving into promiscuity is not only self-indulgent but also undiscerning. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm interested to know what everyone's views are
A lady knows how to conduct herself in public, she has good manners, does not swear, has correct etiquette and yes there is a place for it in this society no matter what her background.
So the key is *knowing*, right?
Because I *know* how some parts of society think they should conduct themselves in public (I even know which fork to use at dinner) but fuck me if I'm going to be constrained by what society thinks I should do.
But I'm still a lady, right, because I *know* how to conduct myself in public..."
It's just one interpretation of the word, sometimes it's not so easy to explain via the written word, the person who wrote knows what they mean.
I don't use the word lady to describe myself but it doesn't bother me if others do because I know what I am. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"BTW - 'ladies' (you know, those who know how to conduct themselves according to old fashioned and sexist societal values) don't fuck around on swingers sites.
Thank you for pointing this out. Ladies are in control of themselves at all times and giving into promiscuity is not only self-indulgent but also undiscerning."
Probably means they've been overcome with a case of hysteria and should be locked up in an asylum for waifs and strays. |
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"BTW - 'ladies' (you know, those who know how to conduct themselves according to old fashioned and sexist societal values) don't fuck around on swingers sites."
Indeed. This thread is hilarious. I highly doubt anyone's definition of "lady" would include "fucks randoms she found on the interweb".
Just a thought, but perhaps this really isn't the site for finding people who fit into Victorian social categories. |
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By *osieWoman
over a year ago
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"BTW - 'ladies' (you know, those who know how to conduct themselves according to old fashioned and sexist societal values) don't fuck around on swingers sites.
Indeed. This thread is hilarious. I highly doubt anyone's definition of "lady" would include "fucks randoms she found on the interweb".
Just a thought, but perhaps this really isn't the site for finding people who fit into Victorian social categories. "
I don't f**k 'randoms'. I always first ask for their name  And if it is Tom, Dick or Harry, then it is a "No" |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Sorry I missed your first reply.
It's simple, Feminism has lost its way. Various factions disagree, and it's painfully illogical most of time.
Things like gender is just a social construct take no account for biochemistry specifically hormones...
The gender pay gap is an abuse of statistics and firmly debunked by economists everywhere.
Two basic examples of the madness.
I hear what you're saying. But that's not what I'm challenging. Thank you for the apology, I was disappointed to think it was just going to be name calling.
what are you challenging?
My query to you the other day was to understand what your issue with feminism is. You've expanded on that further now, I don't necessarily agree with everything you're saying but it's your opinion. I think it's harmful to just leave a phrase like 'reject feminism' without clarity as it's so open to misinterpretation and at a base level looks like you're positing a stance of being anti gender equality. I find that harmful. Thank you for asking, although I did explain this a post or so back. "
That's just part of the brainwashing...
To assume that anyone who casts doubts on Feminism is some anti-equality bigoted pig. It's not the case.
Why I linked it to ladies is because real ladies have a sort of self confidence that doesn't lead them down the path of needing a cause or someone to blame (men/patriarchy/social constructs... Choose your poison)
In a similar vain to how manosphere/men going there own way types tend to be on the losing end of life...
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Sorry I missed your first reply.
It's simple, Feminism has lost its way. Various factions disagree, and it's painfully illogical most of time.
Things like gender is just a social construct take no account for biochemistry specifically hormones...
The gender pay gap is an abuse of statistics and firmly debunked by economists everywhere.
Two basic examples of the madness. "
You're joking, right? Links? |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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Anyone who thinks ladies can't be feminists should have been around 100 years ago. Lots of ladies fought for equality (that's what feminism basically is - the right for women to be treated the same as men in all things), yet still managed to hold afternoon tea sessions, soirees, cocktail parties, and manage a household.
BTW, I aint a lady, and look askance at any bloke who says so. We're humans, and should be treated as such. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Deadly serious.
Just Google it, there's plenty of sense amongst the madness. "
Even though the assertion is yours, and therefore the onus on you to prove it, I have read a lot around the gender pay gap. You're wrong. I suspect you have picked articles that match your own bias. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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So I have so let's debate it then. Tell me where I'm wrong.
I'll start.... How reflective really is an average of all male income against all female income?
That's the basis for the "gap" which casually ignores the type of work for a start plus the other factors that contribute to earning potential
It's not done on a like for like job basis... It's a VERY crude average.
I won't get too in deep with this unless you can at least acknowledge that basic flaw.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Deadly serious.
Just Google it, there's plenty of sense amongst the madness.
Even though the assertion is yours, and therefore the onus on you to prove it, I have read a lot around the gender pay gap. You're wrong. I suspect you have picked articles that match your own bias. "
I formed my opinion primarily from common sense and looking around me and weirdly enough from Cheryl Sandbergs book. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Deadly serious.
Just Google it, there's plenty of sense amongst the madness.
Even though the assertion is yours, and therefore the onus on you to prove it, I have read a lot around the gender pay gap. You're wrong. I suspect you have picked articles that match your own bias.
I formed my opinion primarily from common sense and looking around me and weirdly enough from Cheryl Sandbergs book. "
There you go. I'm that, it seems your opinion is pretty superficially based. |
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"So I have so let's debate it then. Tell me where I'm wrong.
I'll start.... How reflective really is an average of all male income against all female income?
That's the basis for the "gap" which casually ignores the type of work for a start plus the other factors that contribute to earning potential
It's not done on a like for like job basis... It's a VERY crude average.
I won't get too in deep with this unless you can at least acknowledge that basic flaw.
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Why are you so sca_ed ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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That's the basis for the "gap" which casually ignores the type of work for a start plus the other factors that contribute to earning potential
It's not done on a like for like job basis... It's a VERY crude average.
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Read what you just typed out loud and see if you can spot the problem.
Specifically what I have just quoted above. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You lost me dark matter.
Come on elphi, if I said if I got it from articles you would have the same response.
How about you answer the question and show where I'm mistaken? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I always find it fascinating the lengths some men will go to in order to try and prove that men aren't treated more favourably by society.
I guess when you're on top, you'll do anything to defend your position - including pulling the drawbridge up after you've crossed. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"To me it's the way you act! Poise, manners, self-respect and attitude to/ respect for others!
To others in sure it means different! Xx"
This is how I view the definition as well. |
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By *arry247Couple
over a year ago
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Google's your friend!
The first of 10 traits of a Lady.
"A lady is generous with her time, wisdom, and resources. She is a woman of her word and follows through with her commitments, whatever the cost. She willingly serves others and extends a hand to those in need. She manages her priorities and time well – understanding that she can only serve others after she has taken care of herself."
Seems there are many Ladies on Fab.
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"To me it's the way you act! Poise, manners, self-respect and attitude to/ respect for others!
To others in sure it means different! Xx
This is how I view the definition as well. "
Hmmm. You mean like lady Thatcher? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"To me it's the way you act! Poise, manners, self-respect and attitude to/ respect for others!
To others in sure it means different! Xx"
Perfectly expressed!
My less well expressed version: Classy everywhere & all situations and wild and passionate in sex |
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over a year ago
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"I think its a skinny arse n fab shoes,,seems that's what guys love "
Well shit. I've got the fab shoes, but my ass is most certainly not skinny - it's done too many squats over the years for that! |
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over a year ago
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"I think its a skinny arse n fab shoes,,seems that's what guys love
Well shit. I've got the fab shoes, but my ass is most certainly not skinny - it's done too many squats over the years for that!"
id give up then,,n give me yer shoes,,lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think its a skinny arse n fab shoes,,seems that's what guys love
Well shit. I've got the fab shoes, but my ass is most certainly not skinny - it's done too many squats over the years for that!
id give up then,,n give me yer shoes,,lol "
I don't think you'd fit in size 3 shoes. |
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That's an interesting question. It's probably as subjective as what makes someone goodlooking. In the old days it was used to describe as woman of aristocratic background. However such women were expected to adhere to certain social rules and etiquette and dress in a certain way. Ironically sexual promiscuity didn't dictate whether someone was a lady, as there are many periods in history where swinging amongst the married gentry was not uncommon. To refer to a woman who was not from this background as a lady was often deemed as a huge compliment as she may have adopted the social etiquette or style of dress of those who were ladies. I think nowadays the term 'lady' is conside_ed a term of respect. But that's on the assumption that women aspire to these old fashioned values. The reality is that some might regard social ettiquetes as meaningless bollocks, and don't care for how one dresses etc. So it could be that referring to a woman as a 'lady' is not politically correct. I personally like the term. For me I like social etiquettes and dressing in a certain way and aspiring to the image of a 'lady'. Many times I fall short though and I'm sure my husband could think of many occasions when I was not axactly a lady lol.
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"Sorry I missed your first reply.
It's simple, Feminism has lost its way. Various factions disagree, and it's painfully illogical most of time.
Things like gender is just a social construct take no account for biochemistry specifically hormones...
The gender pay gap is an abuse of statistics and firmly debunked by economists everywhere.
Two basic examples of the madness.
I hear what you're saying. But that's not what I'm challenging. Thank you for the apology, I was disappointed to think it was just going to be name calling.
what are you challenging?
My query to you the other day was to understand what your issue with feminism is. You've expanded on that further now, I don't necessarily agree with everything you're saying but it's your opinion. I think it's harmful to just leave a phrase like 'reject feminism' without clarity as it's so open to misinterpretation and at a base level looks like you're positing a stance of being anti gender equality. I find that harmful. Thank you for asking, although I did explain this a post or so back.
That's just part of the brainwashing...
To assume that anyone who casts doubts on Feminism is some anti-equality bigoted pig. It's not the case.
Why I linked it to ladies is because real ladies have a sort of self confidence that doesn't lead them down the path of needing a cause or someone to blame (men/patriarchy/social constructs... Choose your poison)
In a similar vain to how manosphere/men going there own way types tend to be on the losing end of life...
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When he farts in bed and says "top that" all proud
Letting out one super silent that would fall under the topic of biological warfare go, give him a kiss good night, roll over and just let it waft.
I maybe a lady but anal does have its uses
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"Sorry I missed your first reply.
It's simple, Feminism has lost its way. Various factions disagree, and it's painfully illogical most of time.
Things like gender is just a social construct take no account for biochemistry specifically hormones...
The gender pay gap is an abuse of statistics and firmly debunked by economists everywhere.
Two basic examples of the madness.
I hear what you're saying. But that's not what I'm challenging. Thank you for the apology, I was disappointed to think it was just going to be name calling.
what are you challenging?
My query to you the other day was to understand what your issue with feminism is. You've expanded on that further now, I don't necessarily agree with everything you're saying but it's your opinion. I think it's harmful to just leave a phrase like 'reject feminism' without clarity as it's so open to misinterpretation and at a base level looks like you're positing a stance of being anti gender equality. I find that harmful. Thank you for asking, although I did explain this a post or so back.
That's just part of the brainwashing...
To assume that anyone who casts doubts on Feminism is some anti-equality bigoted pig. It's not the case.
Why I linked it to ladies is because real ladies have a sort of self confidence that doesn't lead them down the path of needing a cause or someone to blame (men/patriarchy/social constructs... Choose your poison)
In a similar vain to how manosphere/men going there own way types tend to be on the losing end of life...
Putting words in my mouth again, tut tut. "
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I'm trying to put sense in your brain
That only works when you talk sense in the first place AND can make a persuasive argument."
I made one... Refute it |
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"
I'm trying to put sense in your brain
That only works when you talk sense in the first place AND can make a persuasive argument."
Completely set on trying to argue a point I'm not even discussing!! Here's the wall, bang your head. It hurts, does it? Oh dear. |
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I'm trying to put sense in your brain
That only works when you talk sense in the first place AND can make a persuasive argument.
Completely set on trying to argue a point I'm not even discussing!! Here's the wall, bang your head. It hurts, does it? Oh dear. "
I made my point, then you questioned it and I answe_ed
I'll just comment that feminists always sidestep the point/question with a condesecending slur.. Because they can't defend the point raised
You have a friendly face so I mean no harm in all this |
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I'm trying to put sense in your brain
That only works when you talk sense in the first place AND can make a persuasive argument.
Completely set on trying to argue a point I'm not even discussing!! Here's the wall, bang your head. It hurts, does it? Oh dear.
I made my point, then you questioned it and I answe_ed
I'll just comment that feminists always sidestep the point/question with a condesecending slur.. Because they can't defend the point raised
You have a friendly face so I mean no harm in all this "
I asked you on another thread, you answe_ed, I asked a further question that you haven't answe_ed. On this thread I made a little tease, I've not asked you a question. You asked me one, after talking at me and having your tease back, I answe_ed you. You continue to talk at me. I'm not engaging in your diatribe on feminism because you're having a diatribe now, not a discussion on the specifics that I was engaging on. You still have no idea of my views on feminism yet feel you need to mansplain to me/argue with me on what they are. Hence me comparing it to you hitting your head against a brick wall.
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"What's your question, I'll answer it?
And what are your views on Feminism? forgive my rudeness "
Rudeness forgiven. I think best we don't hijack this thread further. My q was on t'other thread. |
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"Which other thread? 
https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/lounge/620356
That one is closed
What was the question? "
Brick wall. Head. Ouch.
Not on this thread. Enjoy fab! |
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Get yourself a 1980s computer, a barbie doll and some mummy bras to wear on your head, decide on her statistics and press enter.
Hey presto, Kelly le broc 
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