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By *risky_Mare OP Woman
over a year ago
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See how responsive I am lol! Here's mine.....
1 Great, clear pics to catch my attention
2 Interesting profile that really gives me a taste of a personality I want to know more of....
3 Engaging conversation that shows a man is really interested in me personally...
4 Consistency of honest communication that shows he really means what he says....
Simples!!   |
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over a year ago
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1. Read profile completely & be what I am after prior to messaging
2. Send a face pic with a smile, a good smile melts me
3. Be nice & polite, dont blow smoke up my arse telling me what you think I want to hear and just have a bit of a laugh
4. Actually be available to meet for a social sometime this century |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"See how responsive I am lol! Here's mine.....
1 Great, clear pics to catch my attention
2 Interesting profile that really gives me a taste of a personality I want to know more of....
3 Engaging conversation that shows a man is really interested in me personally...
4 Consistency of honest communication that shows he really means what he says....
Simples!! "
Sounds a bit datey  |
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By *risky_Mare OP Woman
over a year ago
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"Op. Why 4?
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You know I have noticed one negative thing common to nearly all the male replies on the 'woe' threads, and most of the female, and that is 'Failure to communicate enough interest in me'.
Number 4 for me is twofold - one it's to do with the ghosting thing. We women here get very used to men blowing smoke up our arses, being falsely complimentary, and then demonstrating the compliments were false by just forgetting to talk to us for weeks on end, popping up next time they are uberhorny with 'Hey how are you, fancy that meet yet?'
Thinking about it there is a point of 'critical mass' - a point where we have chatted to someone enough to know we genuinely like each other and both want to get together. At THAT point you know AND DEMONSTRATE that you both want to chat (maybe daily, maybe just weekly, maybe only monthly) to keep the friendship going regardless of when you can finally meet.
It's that genuine intent that I think many women here seek, and sadly often fail to find - hence probably their curt replies some of the time!!
I reckon there is probably a difference in the male and female perception of what communication is appropriate too. |
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By *risky_Mare OP Woman
over a year ago
...Up on the Downs |
"See how responsive I am lol! Here's mine.....
1 Great, clear pics to catch my attention
2 Interesting profile that really gives me a taste of a personality I want to know more of....
3 Engaging conversation that shows a man is really interested in me personally...
4 Consistency of honest communication that shows he really means what he says....
Simples!!
Sounds a bit datey "
Oh it is - my profile clearly states I am after fb/fwb at least. |
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By *risky_Mare OP Woman
over a year ago
...Up on the Downs |
"See how responsive I am lol! Here's mine.....
1 Great, clear pics to catch my attention
2 Interesting profile that really gives me a taste of a personality I want to know more of....
3 Engaging conversation that shows a man is really interested in me personally...
4 Consistency of honest communication that shows he really means what he says....
Simples!!
Sounds a bit datey
Oh it is - my profile clearly states I am after fb/fwb at least. "
But actually there are exceptions to the rule - I am primal prey - if a man convinces me in he desires me so intensely he cannot leave it alone, that can work for me too.....  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"See how responsive I am lol! Here's mine.....
1 Great, clear pics to catch my attention
2 Interesting profile that really gives me a taste of a personality I want to know more of....
3 Engaging conversation that shows a man is really interested in me personally...
4 Consistency of honest communication that shows he really means what he says....
Simples!! "
Pretty much sums it up for me too  |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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1) Wit. That's quite a biggie for me. It's a tad clichéd but I find myself attracted to different physical types but they are all quite witty.
2) Compatibility. Yeah, can't explain that one. I just can tell after reading a message or a profile if we might begin to get on. I can't fuck if we don't.
3) Sexually open minded and considerate. I like all sorts of things, if you're on board with even a few it's a good sign.
4) Just that 'thing' that makes me want to meet them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Op. Why 4?
You know I have noticed one negative thing common to nearly all the male replies on the 'woe' threads, and most of the female, and that is 'Failure to communicate enough interest in me'.
Number 4 for me is twofold - one it's to do with the ghosting thing. We women here get very used to men blowing smoke up our arses, being falsely complimentary, and then demonstrating the compliments were false by just forgetting to talk to us for weeks on end, popping up next time they are uberhorny with 'Hey how are you, fancy that meet yet?'
Thinking about it there is a point of 'critical mass' - a point where we have chatted to someone enough to know we genuinely like each other and both want to get together. At THAT point you know AND DEMONSTRATE that you both want to chat (maybe daily, maybe just weekly, maybe only monthly) to keep the friendship going regardless of when you can finally meet.
It's that genuine intent that I think many women here seek, and sadly often fail to find - hence probably their curt replies some of the time!!
I reckon there is probably a difference in the male and female perception of what communication is appropriate too."
Haha. I now understand what your fourth reason is and how strong you feel about it. Thank you. And I actually really Appreciate your reply.
But truthfully. My question was , why do we have to answer 4 reasons on these things ? The men's thread was 4 reasons loose interest etc
This is 4 reasons now. It's normally a standard 3 or top ten.
Sorry.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The Shallow Hal me says - someone who is fit as fuck gets my attention. 
The level-headed side of me needs the mental attraction to take it to the meeting level & beyond. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"1) Wit. That's quite a biggie for me. It's a tad clichéd but I find myself attracted to different physical types but they are all quite witty.
4) Just that 'thing' that makes me want to meet them."
These two for sure. |
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By *risky_Mare OP Woman
over a year ago
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"Op. Why 4?
You know I have noticed one negative thing common to nearly all the male replies on the 'woe' threads, and most of the female, and that is 'Failure to communicate enough interest in me'.
Number 4 for me is twofold - one it's to do with the ghosting thing. We women here get very used to men blowing smoke up our arses, being falsely complimentary, and then demonstrating the compliments were false by just forgetting to talk to us for weeks on end, popping up next time they are uberhorny with 'Hey how are you, fancy that meet yet?'
Thinking about it there is a point of 'critical mass' - a point where we have chatted to someone enough to know we genuinely like each other and both want to get together. At THAT point you know AND DEMONSTRATE that you both want to chat (maybe daily, maybe just weekly, maybe only monthly) to keep the friendship going regardless of when you can finally meet.
It's that genuine intent that I think many women here seek, and sadly often fail to find - hence probably their curt replies some of the time!!
I reckon there is probably a difference in the male and female perception of what communication is appropriate too.
Haha. I now understand what your fourth reason is and how strong you feel about it. Thank you. And I actually really Appreciate your reply.
But truthfully. My question was , why do we have to answer 4 reasons on these things ? The men's thread was 4 reasons loose interest etc
This is 4 reasons now. It's normally a standard 3 or top ten.
Sorry.
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Lol ah well, you'll have to ask 'Inthemiddle2' he started the theme, I'm just a follower!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The Shallow Hal me says - someone who is fit as fuck gets my attention.
The level-headed side of me needs the mental attraction to take it to the meeting level & beyond."
Not watched that film in ages. |
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By *risky_Mare OP Woman
over a year ago
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"This is more helpful than the lose interest thread from my perspective. Good advice on both threads though "
They are yin and yang - I was fascinated to see so many men upset at the 'one word answers' from the women. 'Why one word?' I ask myself? Are these just the evil entitled ratbags that populate the rest of fab outside the forums, or are the guys doing something that stop these normally verbose women saying more? After all - if they replied - they must be interested, we all know women who are not on fab do not reply at all!! |
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"See how responsive I am lol! Here's mine.....
1 Great, clear pics to catch my attention
2 Interesting profile that really gives me a taste of a personality I want to know more of....
3 Engaging conversation that shows a man is really interested in me personally...
4 Consistency of honest communication that shows he really means what he says....
Simples!!
Sounds a bit datey
Oh it is - my profile clearly states I am after fb/fwb at least. "
Maybe after being on fab so long some should realise that fab is for nsa sex mostly and that is happen why people are not finding what they want ot need from this site...so guess they stay and keep lookong for what is not around very very much on here or change and jpin dating sites.....just a thought. |
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By *risky_Mare OP Woman
over a year ago
...Up on the Downs |
"See how responsive I am lol! Here's mine.....
1 Great, clear pics to catch my attention
2 Interesting profile that really gives me a taste of a personality I want to know more of....
3 Engaging conversation that shows a man is really interested in me personally...
4 Consistency of honest communication that shows he really means what he says....
Simples!!
Sounds a bit datey
Oh it is - my profile clearly states I am after fb/fwb at least.
Maybe after being on fab so long some should realise that fab is for nsa sex mostly and that is happen why people are not finding what they want ot need from this site...so guess they stay and keep lookong for what is not around very very much on here or change and jpin dating sites.....just a thought."
But I am finding what I want here - whereas I found nothing but sheisters and fakes on dating sites.. |
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"See how responsive I am lol! Here's mine.....
1 Great, clear pics to catch my attention
2 Interesting profile that really gives me a taste of a personality I want to know more of....
3 Engaging conversation that shows a man is really interested in me personally...
4 Consistency of honest communication that shows he really means what he says....
Simples!!
Sounds a bit datey
Oh it is - my profile clearly states I am after fb/fwb at least.
Maybe after being on fab so long some should realise that fab is for nsa sex mostly and that is happen why people are not finding what they want ot need from this site...so guess they stay and keep lookong for what is not around very very much on here or change and jpin dating sites.....just a thought.
But I am finding what I want here - whereas I found nothing but sheisters and fakes on dating sites.. "
Thats good then |
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"Bookmarking for future reference. 
Will you be trying to fit as many women's want lists as possible or just honing in on one?  "
I have been trying to hone in on you for some time but I feared that ship had sailed.
I shall just be seeing if there is any rough edges I need to polish off to help me to appeal to all of you lovely ladies in FAB. |
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"Bookmarking for future reference.
Will you be trying to fit as many women's want lists as possible or just honing in on one?
I have been trying to hone in on you for some time but I feared that ship had sailed.
I shall just be seeing if there is any rough edges I need to polish off to help me to appeal to all of you lovely ladies in FAB. "
keeping your options open, you mean? |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
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"See how responsive I am lol! Here's mine.....
1 Great, clear pics to catch my attention
2 Interesting profile that really gives me a taste of a personality I want to know more of....
3 Engaging conversation that shows a man is really interested in me personally...
4 Consistency of honest communication that shows he really means what he says....
Simples!!
Sounds a bit datey "
I don't understand what is wrong with wanting this! 
Surely it's just about enjoying each others company without the commitment. Just not a cold fuck and go, if that is what people want, to me they should just pay for it  |
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"Bookmarking for future reference.
Will you be trying to fit as many women's want lists as possible or just honing in on one?
I have been trying to hone in on you for some time but I feared that ship had sailed.
I shall just be seeing if there is any rough edges I need to polish off to help me to appeal to all of you lovely ladies in FAB.
keeping your options open, you mean? "
I would not be as casual as that. Just checking if a couple of certain lovely ladies are posting as I want to check my approach is on the correct trajectory.
Why would you like to be one of those options? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I think that's fairly indicative of all profiles regardless of being M,couple or Friday.
Just a case of coordinating two profiles like that contacting eachother at the same time?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Bookmarking for future reference.
Will you be trying to fit as many women's want lists as possible or just honing in on one?
I have been trying to hone in on you for some time but I feared that ship had sailed.
I shall just be seeing if there is any rough edges I need to polish off to help me to appeal to all of you lovely ladies in FAB.
keeping your options open, you mean?
I would not be as casual as that. Just checking if a couple of certain lovely ladies are posting as I want to check my approach is on the correct trajectory.
Why would you like to be one of those options? "
good lord no
far too cringey for my liking |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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ok here's mine..
men over 6ft, with a sense of humour, who don't take swinging too seriously...and are able to hold a decent conversation, preferably about stuff I'm interested in too...(as having a chat beats lying there staring at the ceiling between fucks) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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1. Look delicious
2. Look delicious and good enough to eat
3. Look delicious, good enough to eat with an attractive cock
4. Look delicious, good enough to eat, with an attractive cock and a sexy bum
That's it! Winner |
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"1. Look delicious
2. Look delicious and good enough to eat
3. Look delicious, good enough to eat with an attractive cock
4. Look delicious, good enough to eat, with an attractive cock and a sexy bum
That's it! Winner "
Does it help if I smell delicious as well? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"This is more helpful than the lose interest thread from my perspective. Good advice on both threads though
They are yin and yang - I was fascinated to see so many men upset at the 'one word answers' from the women. 'Why one word?' I ask myself? Are these just the evil entitled ratbags that populate the rest of fab outside the forums, or are the guys doing something that stop these normally verbose women saying more? After all - if they replied - they must be interested, we all know women who are not on fab do not reply at all!!"
Is it a test to see if they remain keen - a 'treat them mean, keep them keen' game? Or maybe it is part of another game like every so often giving more, then reverting to one word/short answers? Maybe the woman is interested enough not to cut contact but on the lookout for better prospects? Maybe I'm barking completely up the wrong tree? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"1) Wit. That's quite a biggie for me. It's a tad clichéd but I find myself attracted to different physical types but they are all quite witty.
2) Compatibility. Yeah, can't explain that one. I just can tell after reading a message or a profile if we might begin to get on. I can't fuck if we don't.
3) Sexually open minded and considerate. I like all sorts of things, if you're on board with even a few it's a good sign.
4) Just that 'thing' that makes me want to meet them."
Yes, but what is that 'thing'? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"1. Look delicious
2. Look delicious and good enough to eat
3. Look delicious, good enough to eat with an attractive cock
4. Look delicious, good enough to eat, with an attractive cock and a sexy bum
That's it! Winner
Does it help if I smell delicious as well?"
Oh yes, and you did |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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"1) Wit. That's quite a biggie for me. It's a tad clichéd but I find myself attracted to different physical types but they are all quite witty.
2) Compatibility. Yeah, can't explain that one. I just can tell after reading a message or a profile if we might begin to get on. I can't fuck if we don't.
3) Sexually open minded and considerate. I like all sorts of things, if you're on board with even a few it's a good sign.
4) Just that 'thing' that makes me want to meet them.
Yes, but what is that 'thing'? "
I don't know. Well I do but I don't know how to put it into a concise form and not just a stream of consciousness thesis type thing. |
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"1) Wit. That's quite a biggie for me. It's a tad clichéd but I find myself attracted to different physical types but they are all quite witty.
2) Compatibility. Yeah, can't explain that one. I just can tell after reading a message or a profile if we might begin to get on. I can't fuck if we don't.
3) Sexually open minded and considerate. I like all sorts of things, if you're on board with even a few it's a good sign.
4) Just that 'thing' that makes me want to meet them.
Yes, but what is that 'thing'?
I don't know. Well I do but I don't know how to put it into a concise form and not just a stream of consciousness thesis type thing."
Fair enough, I was sort of teasing anyway. And while I would like to know I figured you'd have written it if you could |
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"Bookmarking for future reference.
Will you be trying to fit as many women's want lists as possible or just honing in on one?
I have been trying to hone in on you for some time but I feared that ship had sailed.
I shall just be seeing if there is any rough edges I need to polish off to help me to appeal to all of you lovely ladies in FAB. "
I'll remember that |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"See how responsive I am lol! Here's mine.....
1 Great, clear pics to catch my attention
2 Interesting profile that really gives me a taste of a personality I want to know more of....
3 Engaging conversation that shows a man is really interested in me personally...
4 Consistency of honest communication that shows he really means what he says....
Simples!!
Sounds a bit datey
I don't understand what is wrong with wanting this!
Surely it's just about enjoying each others company without the commitment. Just not a cold fuck and go, if that is what people want, to me they should just pay for it "
Yeah, exactly |
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"See how responsive I am lol! Here's mine.....
1 Great, clear pics to catch my attention
2 Interesting profile that really gives me a taste of a personality I want to know more of....
3 Engaging conversation that shows a man is really interested in me personally...
4 Consistency of honest communication that shows he really means what he says....
Simples!! "
Pretty much the same. I'd also add
1) Honesty
2) Honesty
3) Honesty
4) Honesty |
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By *risky_Mare OP Woman
over a year ago
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"This is more helpful than the lose interest thread from my perspective. Good advice on both threads though
They are yin and yang - I was fascinated to see so many men upset at the 'one word answers' from the women. 'Why one word?' I ask myself? Are these just the evil entitled ratbags that populate the rest of fab outside the forums, or are the guys doing something that stop these normally verbose women saying more? After all - if they replied - they must be interested, we all know women who are not on fab do not reply at all!!
Is it a test to see if they remain keen - a 'treat them mean, keep them keen' game? Or maybe it is part of another game like every so often giving more, then reverting to one word/short answers? Maybe the woman is interested enough not to cut contact but on the lookout for better prospects? Maybe I'm barking completely up the wrong tree?"
I don't know - I never play games and I think I would sooner stop talking rather than go to one word answers! It is difficult to answer a string of compliments though, you can only say 'Thank you' so many times |
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I don't know - I never play games and I think I would sooner stop talking rather than go to one word answers! It is difficult to answer a string of compliments though, you can only say 'Thank you' so many times "
Can I just wow I am loving your new photos. I have a real soft spot for dungarees and naked chests. You really have an eye for sexy pictures. But the rugby ball one still gets me everytime. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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4 things that make me want to meet women, and remember, this is before a meet,
1. Looks, there has to be some visual attraction, surely?
2. Local, who wants to drive for hours on UK roads these days?
3. Age, will meet 18-99 when they are in their fifties? Really?
4. Positive profile, not a one liner nor a university thesis of 50,000 words detailing everything they don't want. |
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By *risky_Mare OP Woman
over a year ago
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I don't know - I never play games and I think I would sooner stop talking rather than go to one word answers! It is difficult to answer a string of compliments though, you can only say 'Thank you' so many times
Can I just wow I am loving your new photos. I have a real soft spot for dungarees and naked chests. You really have an eye for sexy pictures. But the rugby ball one still gets me everytime. "
Why thank you! |
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"1. Read profile completely & be what I am after prior to messaging
2. Send a face pic with a smile, a good smile melts me
3. Be nice & polite, dont blow smoke up my arse telling me what you think I want to hear and just have a bit of a laugh
4. Actually be available to meet for a social sometime this century "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If I get a message from someone I'll look at the face pic first as there has to be an attraction.
Then I'll see if they can accommodate because I'm looking for someone regular and I'm not a fan of hotel meets.
After that, it just depends on how the conversation flows |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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1. Can spell...... seriously the amount of time spent deciphering a message, I feel well equipped to have worked on the Ignigma Code.
2. Is slightly artistic about his "cock" pictures. Recently contacted by what can only be described as an ode to Star Wars, hope his wife knows what he does in her black hooded dressing gown
3. Doesn't send a friends request before asking me my name. You will talking to my face long before you're having a conversation with my vagina
4. Stop the bathroom shots, I feel like sometimes I have bathroom envy rather than looking at you. However I just found the perfect tiles for my own bathroom, sorry for copying!! Can't remember who you are?! |
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1. Read profile n only message if u fit what Im looking for...ie Smokers!! No thanks
2. Dont assume women in couples n single women want the same thing! I dont have a partner working away or in a sexless relationship...I enjoy good company without sex too
3. Being able to meet in public without being paranoid youll be spotted in a pub/coffee shop having a nice chat with 'a friend' unless u got something to hide?
4. Able to engage in a normal convo without asking intimate questions about sex! We are not sex toys for ur convenience
I could go on...but these stand out, otherwise its delete cos tbey cant get passed 1. Haha |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"1. Look delicious
2. Look delicious and good enough to eat
3. Look delicious, good enough to eat with an attractive cock
4. Look delicious, good enough to eat, with an attractive cock and a sexy bum
That's it! Winner "
Damn it...
I was hoping one of your points would have been a headless suit!
I wish I was point 4 because that would make me feel like a winner with you |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"1. Look delicious
2. Look delicious and good enough to eat
3. Look delicious, good enough to eat with an attractive cock
4. Look delicious, good enough to eat, with an attractive cock and a sexy bum and no head
That's it! Winner
Damn it...
I was hoping one of your points would have been a headless suit!
I wish I was point 4 because that would make me feel like a winner with you "
Oh my darling Adam....you are the biggest winner of all...and you know it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hmmm I'm suprised no one has mentioned a Dinosaur Cock Shot® as a criteria yet. Weirdos.
They get me every time....
Phew! My faith has been restored!  "
The heart buns are back |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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1- Attractive face.
2- can hold a conversation without causing offense ha ha.
3- Has an attractive looking dick.
4- can be flexible with meets and is willing to plan in advance.
My 4.
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"Hmmm I'm suprised no one has mentioned a Dinosaur Cock Shot® as a criteria yet. Weirdos.
They get me every time....
Phew! My faith has been restored!
The heart buns are back
Cooey!  "
They are just begging to be bitten |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Op. Why 4?
You know I have noticed one negative thing common to nearly all the male replies on the 'woe' threads, and most of the female, and that is 'Failure to communicate enough interest in me'.
Number 4 for me is twofold - one it's to do with the ghosting thing. We women here get very used to men blowing smoke up our arses, being falsely complimentary, and then demonstrating the compliments were false by just forgetting to talk to us for weeks on end, popping up next time they are uberhorny with 'Hey how are you, fancy that meet yet?'
Thinking about it there is a point of 'critical mass' - a point where we have chatted to someone enough to know we genuinely like each other and both want to get together. At THAT point you know AND DEMONSTRATE that you both want to chat (maybe daily, maybe just weekly, maybe only monthly) to keep the friendship going regardless of when you can finally meet.
It's that genuine intent that I think many women here seek, and sadly often fail to find - hence probably their curt replies some of the time!!
I reckon there is probably a difference in the male and female perception of what communication is appropriate too."
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"Op. Why 4?
You know I have noticed one negative thing common to nearly all the male replies on the 'woe' threads, and most of the female, and that is 'Failure to communicate enough interest in me'.
Number 4 for me is twofold - one it's to do with the ghosting thing. We women here get very used to men blowing smoke up our arses, being falsely complimentary, and then demonstrating the compliments were false by just forgetting to talk to us for weeks on end, popping up next time they are uberhorny with 'Hey how are you, fancy that meet yet?'
Thinking about it there is a point of 'critical mass' - a point where we have chatted to someone enough to know we genuinely like each other and both want to get together. At THAT point you know AND DEMONSTRATE that you both want to chat (maybe daily, maybe just weekly, maybe only monthly) to keep the friendship going regardless of when you can finally meet.
It's that genuine intent that I think many women here seek, and sadly often fail to find - hence probably their curt replies some of the time!!
I reckon there is probably a difference in the male and female perception of what communication is appropriate too.
Absolutely this^ "
This this this!!!! For repeat meets i do expect some communication in between. Not every day (although this is fine too) but not just complete blanking until the next time they are horny. |
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The 4 things that make me meet someone are.
Humour and sarcasm
An attraction/connection
Non pushy
Good gut feeling.
My top reasoning for repeat meets are..
Orgasms . Whilst i do sometimes enjoy it without having an orgasm i wont meet them again. I have been 11 years having orgasm less sex. If it isnt amazing i wont meet again ( i do realise this is a lot of pressure so i dont say this to them obviously.)
Some communication inbetween as mentioned above. We got on enough to have sex. I dont want to hear nothing from them until the next time they are horny.
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"1. Have read my profile and think they 'fit my bill'
2. Happy to have a social
3. Nice pics, not just cock pics
4. They kiss me like they mean it! "
I always kiss like I mean it, it's my favourite bit |
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"See how responsive I am lol! Here's mine.....
1 Great, clear pics to catch my attention
2 Interesting profile that really gives me a taste of a personality I want to know more of....
3 Engaging conversation that shows a man is really interested in me personally...
4 Consistency of honest communication that shows he really means what he says....
Simples!! "
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"The 4 things that make me meet someone are.
Humour and sarcasm
An attraction/connection
Non pushy
Good gut feeling.
My top reasoning for repeat meets are..
Orgasms . Whilst i do sometimes enjoy it without having an orgasm i wont meet them again. I have been 11 years having orgasm less sex. If it isnt amazing i wont meet again ( i do realise this is a lot of pressure so i dont say this to them obviously.)
Some communication inbetween as mentioned above. We got on enough to have sex. I dont want to hear nothing from them until the next time they are horny.
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No you haven't told any men...and there's no pressure on any of them now...
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"The 4 things that make me meet someone are.
Humour and sarcasm
An attraction/connection
Non pushy
Good gut feeling.
My top reasoning for repeat meets are..
Orgasms . Whilst i do sometimes enjoy it without having an orgasm i wont meet them again. I have been 11 years having orgasm less sex. If it isnt amazing i wont meet again ( i do realise this is a lot of pressure so i dont say this to them obviously.)
Some communication inbetween as mentioned above. We got on enough to have sex. I dont want to hear nothing from them until the next time they are horny.
No you haven't told any men...and there's no pressure on any of them now...
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