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"Ok guys lets get constructive and informative. It's a none judgemental and no sweeping generalisations post thank you. So you've been chatting with a lovely lady, exchanged contacts and there seems to be a connection you're trying to arrange a meet.... suddenly for whatever reason you lost interest, like a switch was flicked. Put your top 4 reasons why you may or have suddenly lost interest. Ladies may I ask you to read and listen... your turn will come up tomorrow. "what's your reasons op? | |||
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"Just commenting to follow for educational purposes "Ditto!  | |||
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"If one of these were mentioned, I'd have to think twice. Mentioning cat allergies Not liking chocolate Telling me I'm ugly Dissing Stoke City" What about if she mentioned she's a Man U supporter, think you missed that one | |||
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"How am i or going to make a sweeping generalisation? Nothing makes me lose interest, I'm always up for a shag apparently. Call me? " Then why comment? As them in your updated status. | |||
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"How am i or going to make a sweeping generalisation? Nothing makes me lose interest, I'm always up for a shag apparently. Call me? " I did you didn't answer lol | |||
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"If one of these were mentioned, I'd have to think twice. Mentioning cat allergies Not liking chocolate Telling me I'm ugly Dissing Stoke City What about if she mentioned she's a Man U supporter, think you missed that one "That one could slide if she's hot | |||
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"If one of these were mentioned, I'd have to think twice. Mentioning cat allergies Not liking chocolate Telling me I'm ugly Dissing Stoke City What about if she mentioned she's a Man U supporter, think you missed that one "PP .. behave. .. you'll get your turn... listen will ya woman. 
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"No sense of humour for me would be the biggest put off. I'm not saying they have to have MY sense humour but if its like talking a plank of wood then I'm just not going to be interested" Splinters would be an issue with a plank of wood | |||
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"Psycho tendencies. You unintentionally say something they don't like and they go off on one. " An example please!! | |||
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"If one of these were mentioned, I'd have to think twice. Mentioning cat allergies Not liking chocolate Telling me I'm ugly Dissing Stoke City What about if she mentioned she's a Man U supporter, think you missed that one
PP .. behave. .. you'll get your turn... listen will ya woman.
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"If one of these were mentioned, I'd have to think twice. Mentioning cat allergies Not liking chocolate Telling me I'm ugly Dissing Stoke City" I'm not allergic to cats. It's not that I don't like chocolate, more I'm allergic to the nut content. You're not fugly. Stoke rock. End of conversation xxxxx Suzi | |||
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"Golden Vagina Syndrome. Facebook-esque status rants. Huge list of profile demands. No public face pics but demand you have them. Bore off "Golden vagina syndrome pmsl, mine's platinum I'll have you know | |||
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"If one of these were mentioned, I'd have to think twice. Mentioning cat allergies Not liking chocolate Telling me I'm ugly Dissing Stoke City What about if she mentioned she's a Man U supporter, think you missed that one
That one could slide if she's hot "AND whats wrong with being a Man U supporter!?!? Hmmmmmm! | |||
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"If one of these were mentioned, I'd have to think twice. Mentioning cat allergies Not liking chocolate Telling me I'm ugly Dissing Stoke City I'm not allergic to cats. It's not that I don't like chocolate, more I'm allergic to the nut content. You're not fugly. Stoke rock. End of conversation xxxxx Suzi " | |||
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"Golden Vagina Syndrome. Facebook-esque status rants. Huge list of profile demands. No public face pics but demand you have them. Bore off "what's golden vagina syndrome? | |||
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"If one of these were mentioned, I'd have to think twice. Mentioning cat allergies Not liking chocolate Telling me I'm ugly Dissing Stoke City What about if she mentioned she's a Man U supporter, think you missed that one
That one could slide if she's hot
AND whats wrong with being a Man U supporter!?!? Hmmmmmm!"Nothing at all, makes for easy for football bantz cos I support a shit team. | |||
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"Golden Vagina Syndrome. Facebook-esque status rants. Huge list of profile demands. No public face pics but demand you have them. Hit the nail on the head there bro. Bore off " | |||
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"Being on the receiving end of any mass generalisations and therefore being made accountable for others WA of living. For instance, single guys get a bad rep because there are so many idiots, if one pisses her off, I don't want to be lumped under the 'single guys are dickheads' banner. Any pic of her smoking whilst trying to be sexy and alluring, even if her profile said she was a smoker, it's not hot, to me. Being judged for how I go about my fab business, or her asking me to change my ways to fit her fab needs. I'm honest and open about what I like, if you want me to change, we're not compatible, I'm not asking you to. Finding out that we know each other away from fab. Whilst it could be fun, I think I'd rather still have you as a friend and not run the risk of fucking that up." Good points raised here.  | |||
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"If one of these were mentioned, I'd have to think twice. Mentioning cat allergies Not liking chocolate Telling me I'm ugly Dissing Stoke City What about if she mentioned she's a Man U supporter, think you missed that one
That one could slide if she's hot
AND whats wrong with being a Man U supporter!?!? Hmmmmmm!
Nothing at all, makes for easy for football bantz cos I support a shit team. "Best had Mr!  | |||
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"If one of these were mentioned, I'd have to think twice. Mentioning cat allergies Not liking chocolate Telling me I'm ugly Dissing Stoke City" I'm severely allergic to cats Adore chocolate (too much in fact  )
You're alright I suppose
I'll let the stoke city thing slide
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"How am i or going to make a sweeping generalisation? Nothing makes me lose interest, I'm always up for a shag apparently. Call me? Then why comment? As them in your updated status. "I did....They didn't. I thought I'd try here. I'm being sociable, something that makes me lose interest if the woman......ooohh. There's one.
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"If one of these were mentioned, I'd have to think twice. Mentioning cat allergies Not liking chocolate Telling me I'm ugly Dissing Stoke City What about if she mentioned she's a Man U supporter, think you missed that one
That one could slide if she's hot
AND whats wrong with being a Man U supporter!?!? Hmmmmmm!
Nothing at all, makes for easy for football bantz cos I support a shit team.
Best had Mr! "You're not allergic to cats? Like chocolate? Not gonna tell me I'm a fugly Cnut? Will exchange football team banter? | |||
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"Being on the receiving end of any mass generalisations and therefore being made accountable for others WA of living. For instance, single guys get a bad rep because there are so many idiots, if one pisses her off, I don't want to be lumped under the 'single guys are dickheads' banner. Any pic of her smoking whilst trying to be sexy and alluring, even if her profile said she was a smoker, it's not hot, to me. Being judged for how I go about my fab business, or her asking me to change my ways to fit her fab needs. I'm honest and open about what I like, if you want me to change, we're not compatible, I'm not asking you to. Finding out that we know each other away from fab. Whilst it could be fun, I think I'd rather still have you as a friend and not run the risk of fucking that up." Very insightful, thanks for sharing | |||
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"Boring messages 'how's the dog' ect... we arent mates" Sorry but I do think your dog is awesome and wonder how he's doing | |||
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"Ok, for me this is my top 4 that have happened so far.. 1 - One word or very short replies to messages. To me this makes it seem like you are totally uninterested and can't be bothered with me. 2 - Expecting me to lead the conversation. This can feel like I'm just throwing questions and you're answering. I'm not here to interview you and again you seem uninterested. 3 - Moaning about guys being dicks. I honestly don't care how other guys are. Unless you're complimenting me by saying I'm better then it's pretty pointless chat. 4 - Veris. Believe it or not I will look at your veris and the ones you've left for others. This can lead me to lose interest but the least likely out of the 4. " thanks...clear and constructive | |||
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"If one of these were mentioned, I'd have to think twice. Mentioning cat allergies Not liking chocolate Telling me I'm ugly Dissing Stoke City I'm severely allergic to cats *your place it is then?* Adore chocolate (too much in fact )
You're alright I suppose
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"Golden Vagina Syndrome. Facebook-esque status rants. Huge list of profile demands. No public face pics but demand you have them. Bore off
Golden vagina syndrome pmsl, mine's platinum I'll have you know "But of course it is dear  | |||
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"Ok guys lets get constructive and informative. It's a none judgemental and no sweeping generalisations post thank you. So you've been chatting with a lovely lady, exchanged contacts and there seems to be a connection you're trying to arrange a meet.... suddenly for whatever reason you lost interest, like a switch was flicked. Put your top 4 reasons why you may or have suddenly lost interest. Ladies may I ask you to read and listen... your turn will come up tomorrow. "Erm it's an open forum | |||
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"Being on the receiving end of any mass generalisations and therefore being made accountable for others WA of living. For instance, single guys get a bad rep because there are so many idiots, if one pisses her off, I don't want to be lumped under the 'single guys are dickheads' banner. Any pic of her smoking whilst trying to be sexy and alluring, even if her profile said she was a smoker, it's not hot, to me. Being judged for how I go about my fab business, or her asking me to change my ways to fit her fab needs. I'm honest and open about what I like, if you want me to change, we're not compatible, I'm not asking you to. Finding out that we know each other away from fab. Whilst it could be fun, I think I'd rather still have you as a friend and not run the risk of fucking that up." Thank you. Keep them rolling guys | |||
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"Ok guys lets get constructive and informative. It's a none judgemental and no sweeping generalisations post thank you. So you've been chatting with a lovely lady, exchanged contacts and there seems to be a connection you're trying to arrange a meet.... suddenly for whatever reason you lost interest, like a switch was flicked. Put your top 4 reasons why you may or have suddenly lost interest. Ladies may I ask you to read and listen... your turn will come up tomorrow.
Erm it's an open forum "Indeed... Respect works both ways.... | |||
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"Judging by many posts...It would seem that few of either sex can actually read and act accordingly lol. This might give an answer to the age long question...Can't people read the profile...hahahahaha So read and answer appropriately....pleeeeaaase. " Party pooper | |||
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"When I want to get rid of a guy without it looking deliberate, I just start talking about my kids "Ditto | |||
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"Judging by many posts...It would seem that few of either sex can actually read and act accordingly lol. This might give an answer to the age long question...Can't people read the profile...hahahahaha So read and answer appropriately....pleeeeaaase. Party pooper " | |||
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"Boring messages 'how's the dog' ect... we arent mates"  | |||
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"Boring messages 'how's the dog' ect... we arent mates" Think she was referring to your cock! | |||
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"1. Making no effort in conversations, one word answers. 2. No interest in me, answering questions but never asking any 3. The assumption that I'm a dick and like a lot of the others 4. No rejection at all, I'm ok with you're not my type replies" Thank you. | |||
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"What's golden / platinum vagina syndrome ?? Have to say very constructive. Thank you OP for posting a good topic. "I'll sort you later Red with some constructive moves. Your turn tomorrow. .. | |||
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"Boring messages 'how's the dog' ect... we arent mates" What if we want to be mates? PTU XXX | |||
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"Boring messages 'how's the dog' ect... we arent mates What if we want to be mates? PTU XXX " Then pm them... | |||
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"1. Making no effort in conversations, one word answers. 2. No interest in me, answering questions but never asking any 3. The assumption that I'm a dick and like a lot of the others 4. No rejection at all, I'm ok with you're not my type replies Thank you." Makes for interesting reading can't wait to put mine up tomorrow | |||
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"1. Making no effort in conversations, one word answers. 2. No interest in me, answering questions but never asking any 3. The assumption that I'm a dick and like a lot of the others 4. No rejection at all, I'm ok with you're not my type replies Thank you. Makes for interesting reading can't wait to put mine up tomorrow "
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"AND whats wrong with being a Man U supporter!?!? Hmmmmmm!" OMG ... Scarlett you look stunning! And a Man Utd supporter!
I don't watch football as much as I used to so don't chat about it on here. | |||
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"If one of these were mentioned, I'd have to think twice. Mentioning cat allergies Not liking chocolate Telling me I'm ugly Dissing Stoke City What about if she mentioned she's a Man U supporter, think you missed that one
That one could slide if she's hot
AND whats wrong with being a Man U supporter!?!? Hmmmmmm!
Nothing at all, makes for easy for football bantz cos I support a shit team.
Best had Mr!
You're not allergic to cats?
Like chocolate?
Not gonna tell me I'm a fugly Cnut?
Will exchange football team banter?
"Actually I am allergic to cats its why I have a dog! Chocolate is awesome Ermmmm no comment | |||
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"Golden Vagina Syndrome. Facebook-esque status rants. Huge list of profile demands. No public face pics but demand you have them. Bore off "Ha ha | |||
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"One word or very short answers, kills the conversation. I usually assume someone might be at work or busy but if it happens frequently with no reason it just bores me. People whose profile sound angry or demanding, if i've not read it, it does put me off. Poor grammar and spelling. Seriously I like smooth conversation and communication. If I have to translate a message it just bores and annoys me. I guess the next thing perhaps those who might d*unkenly message - there has been a few. No issue with people having a drink and being merry but being d*unk and d*unk regularly is a turn off." You sound like a Sapiosexual. Some good points | |||
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"Boring messages 'how's the dog' ect... we arent mates What if we want to be mates? PTU XXX " Take him for a walk | |||
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"One word or very short answers, kills the conversation. I usually assume someone might be at work or busy but if it happens frequently with no reason it just bores me. People whose profile sound angry or demanding, if i've not read it, it does put me off. Poor grammar and spelling. Seriously I like smooth conversation and communication. If I have to translate a message it just bores and annoys me. I guess the next thing perhaps those who might d*unkenly message - there has been a few. No issue with people having a drink and being merry but being d*unk and d*unk regularly is a turn off." Well said, couldn't have put it better myself. | |||
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"AND whats wrong with being a Man U supporter!?!? Hmmmmmm! OMG ... Scarlett you look stunning! And a Man Utd supporter!
I don't watch football as much as I used to so don't chat about it on here."*Curtesy's* thank you kindly | |||
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"1. Making no effort in conversations, one word answers. 2. No interest in me, answering questions but never asking any 3. The assumption that I'm a dick and like a lot of the others 4. No rejection at all, I'm ok with you're not my type replies Thank you. Makes for interesting reading can't wait to put mine up tomorrow
We'll see if the men behave badly or not... "We're not behaving badly, personally I'm just taking it all in and nodding in agreement for the most part. Oh and crying laughing at how true it all is what you guys are saying, comedy gold as shag would say | |||
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"Those that are constantly changing their tune. no time for that fake shit " On threads running simultaneously is always a good one | |||
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"Telling me about what sex they have been having.. I dont want to know that darren from the chippy spent a weekend with you"
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"Telling me about what sex they have been having.. I dont want to know that darren from the chippy spent a weekend with you" What about Simon from Selfridges? | |||
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"1. Making no effort in conversations, one word answers. 2. No interest in me, answering questions but never asking any 3. The assumption that I'm a dick and like a lot of the others 4. No rejection at all, I'm ok with you're not my type replies Thank you. Makes for interesting reading can't wait to put mine up tomorrow
We'll see if the men behave badly or not...
We're not behaving badly, personally I'm just taking it all in and nodding in agreement for the most part. Oh and crying laughing at how true it all is what you guys are saying, comedy gold as shag would say " | |||
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"A profile asking for lengthy messages and then the person replies with one word answers. Demanding princess behaviour. Face picture, demanding a face picture but never sending one. Not liking irish guys. " | |||
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"Telling me about what sex they have been having.. I dont want to know that darren from the chippy spent a weekend with you What about Simon from Selfridges? "abit upmarket you arent you | |||
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"Telling me about what sex they have been having.. I dont want to know that darren from the chippy spent a weekend with you" | |||
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"Telling me about what sex they have been having.. I dont want to know that darren from the chippy spent a weekend with you What about Simon from Selfridges? abit upmarket you arent you"Yes platinum pussy syndrome | |||
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"Golden Vagina Syndrome. Facebook-esque status rants. Huge list of profile demands. No public face pics but demand you have them. Completely agree Bore off " | |||
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"Some good points being shared here. I'm also aware some of you guys don't post much so thanks for the plunge. " Can I post my thanks too? See I'm asking permission | |||
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"One word answers are a big turn off. I'd rather my message was deleted if they're not interested. Arranging a meet then going offline for days, no explanation and then advertising for a new meet. Asking for face pics when they have no pics at all. Then saying they don't have any. And golden pussy syndrome even though it looks like a wizards sleeve. " Wizard's sleeve pmsl | |||
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"Short/one word responses.. if there's no flow to conversation then I'd expect the same to apply in other aspects too and move on. " Good point. | |||
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"Just commenting to follow for educational purposes "Yeah me too | |||
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"Some good points being shared here. I'm also aware some of you guys don't post much so thanks for the plunge. Can I post my thanks too? See I'm asking permission "You just did gorgeous. ... now be off with you...wait your turn
You ladies will all give us an unpleasant bollocking tomorrow I'm sure.. | |||
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"Just commenting to follow for educational purposes
Yeah me too "welcome x | |||
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"Loving this education boys. Funny how conversation flows with some and just not at all with others. Been guilty of the one word answer thing, subconsciously I think it's because the conversation is boring me and giving closed answers naturally shuts a conversation down. " shushshsh... guys might learn something tomorrow too... x | |||
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"Some good points being shared here. I'm also aware some of you guys don't post much so thanks for the plunge. Can I post my thanks too? See I'm asking permission
You just did gorgeous. ... now be off with you...wait your turn
You ladies will all give us an unpleasant bollocking tomorrow I'm sure.. "Will take easy on you ... No promise though ... | |||
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"Some good points being shared here. I'm also aware some of you guys don't post much so thanks for the plunge. Can I post my thanks too? See I'm asking permission
You just did gorgeous. ... now be off with you...wait your turn
You ladies will all give us an unpleasant bollocking tomorrow I'm sure.. "*Waiting impatiently, platinum pussy at the ready* | |||
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"Giving me your phone number before we've even got to know each other. I know the messaging on Fab is clunky but this makes me think that you're not too streetwise. Also don't ask for my cock measurement. I don't know and i'm not going to find out just for you or anyone. Let's have a conversation and maybe later you can find out for yourself. Also, inserting a word into my first message to prove that I've read your profile. It's a lazy way of filtering guys and makes me think that you are too. You will know if I've read your profile. If someone hasn't just block and delete. Or whatever." Thanks for that. | |||
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"Loving this education boys. Funny how conversation flows with some and just not at all with others. Been guilty of the one word answer thing, subconsciously I think it's because the conversation is boring me and giving closed answers naturally shuts a conversation down. shushshsh... guys might learn something tomorrow too... x" My finger is on my lips | |||
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"An interesting read. No one has mentioned the things I thought they would though. Looking forward to tomorrow "Probably because they are not actually an issue. | |||
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" And golden pussy syndrome even though it looks like a wizards sleeve. " GVS isn't about what it looks like, lets not go down road. | |||
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"An interesting read. No one has mentioned the things I thought they would though. Looking forward to tomorrow "I think tomorrow should be brought forward! It will be interesting to say the least. | |||
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" And golden pussy syndrome even though it looks like a wizards sleeve. GVS isn't about what it looks like, lets not go down road. " That* | |||
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"How am i or going to make a sweeping generalisation? Nothing makes me lose interest, I'm always up for a shag apparently. Call me? " what's your number | |||
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"An interesting read. No one has mentioned the things I thought they would though. Looking forward to tomorrow "It's good to read and listen. Got my respect quickly. Glad you're honest there. There are alot of theories brandished around...sometimes they are just that. ..theories. | |||
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"An interesting read. No one has mentioned the things I thought they would though. Looking forward to tomorrow
Probably because they are not actually an issue. "Could be right. Many of us project our thoughts into others answers and can easily Swiss what is being said. | |||
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"Ok guys lets get constructive and informative. It's a none judgemental and no sweeping generalisations post thank you. So you've been chatting with a lovely lady, exchanged contacts and there seems to be a connection you're trying to arrange a meet.... suddenly for whatever reason you lost interest, like a switch was flicked. Put your top 4 reasons why you may or have suddenly lost interest. Ladies may I ask you to read and listen... your turn will come up tomorrow.
Erm it's an open forum
Indeed... Respect works both ways...."Does it work three ways | |||
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"Looking forward to this tommorow, should be interesting "today's should be interesting for yousns....lol tomorrow could be tough. .. | |||
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Not having read my profile despite them messaging me first. "Oh, you're married!? Why didn't you say?" Er, you messaged me m'dear, and it's ALWAYS been in been there in black and white in my profile from the start!!
Had a couple get uppity that I can't meet 'on demand' in the past.
That's three. Um, struggling for the fourth, but in terms of not being intersted initially rather than losing interest, I bypass ranty "DON'T do this, you MUST be that.." type profiles (although I do understand why some people do this!) and any pictures which make me question the hygiene of the individual(s) involved including bomb-site bedrooms
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"Ok guys lets get constructive and informative. It's a none judgemental and no sweeping generalisations post thank you. So you've been chatting with a lovely lady, exchanged contacts and there seems to be a connection you're trying to arrange a meet.... suddenly for whatever reason you lost interest, like a switch was flicked. Put your top 4 reasons why you may or have suddenly lost interest. Ladies may I ask you to read and listen... your turn will come up tomorrow. "1) Those who feel they're above everyone else 2) The slow tactics on the message system 3) Overly tattooed 4) Shit personality | |||
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"As everyone else has said, one or two word replies in messages. If you can't be arsed, neither can I
Not having read my profile despite them messaging me first. "Oh, you're married!? Why didn't you say?" Er, you messaged me m'dear, and it's ALWAYS been in been there in black and white in my profile from the start!!
Had a couple get uppity that I can't meet 'on demand' in the past.
That's three. Um, struggling for the fourth, but in terms of not being intersted initially rather than losing interest, I bypass ranty "DON'T do this, you MUST be that.." type profiles (although I do understand why some people do this!) and any pictures which make me question the hygiene of the individual(s) involved including bomb-site bedrooms
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"As everyone else has said, one or two word replies in messages. If you can't be arsed, neither can I
Not having read my profile despite them messaging me first. "Oh, you're married!? Why didn't you say?" Er, you messaged me m'dear, and it's ALWAYS been in been there in black and white in my profile from the start!!
Had a couple get uppity that I can't meet 'on demand' in the past.
That's three. Um, struggling for the fourth, but in terms of not being intersted initially rather than losing interest, I bypass ranty "DON'T do this, you MUST be that.." type profiles (although I do understand why some people do this!) and any pictures which make me question the hygiene of the individual(s) involved including bomb-site bedrooms
A bomb site bedroom may be the result of a night of passion and they're trying to show you you'd be in for a good time "A good time with the Dettol perhaps! | |||
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"Ignorance No respect Stuck up themselves Fanny like a smashed crab ????" Thank you Lets try and keep it non inciting... Remember the ladies have their turn to respond tomorrow. | |||
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"Messages with over sharing of information. You don't need to give me a 'blow-by-blow' account of all your meets. Disinterest in the conversation, I like flowing conversation and a little intelligence or knowledge on the subject matter. Challenge my opinions, if you oppose, and it's likely we could get on. " Another Sapiosexual. .. | |||
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"As everyone else has said, one or two word replies in messages. If you can't be arsed, neither can I
Not having read my profile despite them messaging me first. "Oh, you're married!? Why didn't you say?" Er, you messaged me m'dear, and it's ALWAYS been in been there in black and white in my profile from the start!!
Had a couple get uppity that I can't meet 'on demand' in the past.
That's three. Um, struggling for the fourth, but in terms of not being intersted initially rather than losing interest, I bypass ranty "DON'T do this, you MUST be that.." type profiles (although I do understand why some people do this!) and any pictures which make me question the hygiene of the individual(s) involved including bomb-site bedrooms
A bomb site bedroom may be the result of a night of passion and they're trying to show you you'd be in for a good time
A good time with the Dettol perhaps! "Now you're on to something I need to change my profile | |||
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"An interesting read. No one has mentioned the things I thought they would though. Looking forward to tomorrow
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"An interesting read. No one has mentioned the things I thought they would though. Looking forward to tomorrow
I think tomorrow should be brought forward! It will be interesting to say the least.
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"As already said,convo where it's like pulling teeth....one word answers,ignoring your questions but wanting answers to hers,completely blanking you when you can't meet with 5 min notice. Also when they act like they're doing you a favour agreeing to meet....I prefer it when the lass wants me as much as I want her. Showing signs of possessiveness/jealousy is also a big turn off....we're free agents after all unless you both agree to be exclusive. When you get invited round n their place is a dive......my flat's far from being a palace but I always tidy up n clean the place n have fresh bedding whenever I'm expecting company." Mmmmmmm fresh bedding | |||
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"Conversation dying if I have been making the effort and getting nothing back Unreasonable demands that come out of nowhere Mixed messages " Where's no. 4 you must have one? | |||
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"An interesting read. No one has mentioned the things I thought they would though. Looking forward to tomorrow
I think tomorrow should be brought forward! It will be interesting to say the least.
Let me explain what a knee jerk reaction is......"I'm guessing not very dignified | |||
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"Conversation dying if I have been making the effort and getting nothing back Unreasonable demands that come out of nowhere Mixed messages Where's no. 4 you must have one? "Hey who's in charge here PP. | |||
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"Conversation dying if I have been making the effort and getting nothing back Unreasonable demands that come out of nowhere Mixed messages Where's no. 4 you must have one? "No - the power of 3 will do for me | |||
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"As already said,convo where it's like pulling teeth....one word answers,ignoring your questions but wanting answers to hers,completely blanking you when you can't meet with 5 min notice. Also when they act like they're doing you a favour agreeing to meet....I prefer it when the lass wants me as much as I want her. Showing signs of possessiveness/jealousy is also a big turn off....we're free agents after all unless you both agree to be exclusive. When you get invited round n their place is a dive......my flat's far from being a palace but I always tidy up n clean the place n have fresh bedding whenever I'm expecting company. Mmmmmmm fresh bedding "I say fresh bedding.....I just replace any straw that's stuck together n turn over the rest! | |||
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"Conversation dying if I have been making the effort and getting nothing back Unreasonable demands that come out of nowhere Mixed messages Where's no. 4 you must have one?
No - the power of 3 will do for me "Think 2 will be enough | |||
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"As already said,convo where it's like pulling teeth....one word answers,ignoring your questions but wanting answers to hers,completely blanking you when you can't meet with 5 min notice. Also when they act like they're doing you a favour agreeing to meet....I prefer it when the lass wants me as much as I want her. Showing signs of possessiveness/jealousy is also a big turn off....we're free agents after all unless you both agree to be exclusive. When you get invited round n their place is a dive......my flat's far from being a palace but I always tidy up n clean the place n have fresh bedding whenever I'm expecting company. Mmmmmmm fresh bedding
I say fresh bedding.....I just replace any straw that's stuck together n turn over the rest! "Stop it I can't breathe | |||
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"Conversation dying if I have been making the effort and getting nothing back Unreasonable demands that come out of nowhere Mixed messages Where's no. 4 you must have one?
No - the power of 3 will do for me
Think 2 will be enough "You have some unreasonable demands for me? | |||
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"Conversation dying if I have been making the effort and getting nothing back Unreasonable demands that come out of nowhere Mixed messages Where's no. 4 you must have one?
Hey who's in charge here PP. "Now that's a topic for another thread | |||
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"Conversation dying if I have been making the effort and getting nothing back Unreasonable demands that come out of nowhere Mixed messages Where's no. 4 you must have one?
No - the power of 3 will do for me
Think 2 will be enough
You have some unreasonable demands for me? "Not sure they'd be considered unreasonable | |||
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"Conversation dying if I have been making the effort and getting nothing back Unreasonable demands that come out of nowhere Mixed messages Where's no. 4 you must have one?
No - the power of 3 will do for me
Think 2 will be enough
You have some unreasonable demands for me?
Not sure they'd be considered unreasonable " curiouser and curiouser | |||
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"An interesting read. No one has mentioned the things I thought they would though. Looking forward to tomorrow
I think tomorrow should be brought forward! It will be interesting to say the least.
Let me explain what a knee jerk reaction is......
I'm guessing not very dignified "I guess the ladies could list at least ten reasons each. | |||
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"As already said,convo where it's like pulling teeth....one word answers,ignoring your questions but wanting answers to hers,completely blanking you when you can't meet with 5 min notice. Also when they act like they're doing you a favour agreeing to meet....I prefer it when the lass wants me as much as I want her. Showing signs of possessiveness/jealousy is also a big turn off....we're free agents after all unless you both agree to be exclusive. When you get invited round n their place is a dive......my flat's far from being a palace but I always tidy up n clean the place n have fresh bedding whenever I'm expecting company. Mmmmmmm fresh bedding
I say fresh bedding.....I just replace any straw that's stuck together n turn over the rest!
Stop it I can't breathe "Hay fever? I'll get you a dust mask if you like! | |||
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"An interesting read. No one has mentioned the things I thought they would though. Looking forward to tomorrow
I think tomorrow should be brought forward! It will be interesting to say the least.
Let me explain what a knee jerk reaction is......
I'm guessing not very dignified
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"Conversation dying if I have been making the effort and getting nothing back Unreasonable demands that come out of nowhere Mixed messages Where's no. 4 you must have one?
No - the power of 3 will do for me
Think 2 will be enough
You have some unreasonable demands for me?
Not sure they'd be considered unreasonable
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"An interesting read. No one has mentioned the things I thought they would though. Looking forward to tomorrow
I think tomorrow should be brought forward! It will be interesting to say the least.
Let me explain what a knee jerk reaction is......"No need for that!!!!  | |||
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"An interesting read. No one has mentioned the things I thought they would though. Looking forward to tomorrow
I think tomorrow should be brought forward! It will be interesting to say the least.
Let me explain what a knee jerk reaction is......"Off topic, but I had a knee jerk reaction the other day as a lovely lady pleased me with her mouth, caught her a bit off guard with it though and nearly sent her flying across the room, whoops | |||
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"An interesting read. No one has mentioned the things I thought they would though. Looking forward to tomorrow
I think tomorrow should be brought forward! It will be interesting to say the least.
Let me explain what a knee jerk reaction is......
Off topic, but I had a knee jerk reaction the other day as a lovely lady pleased me with her mouth, caught her a bit off guard with it though and nearly sent her flying across the room, whoops"Hmmmmm think maybe that wasn't your knee that caused that | |||
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"Conversation dying if I have been making the effort and getting nothing back Unreasonable demands that come out of nowhere Mixed messages Where's no. 4 you must have one?
No - the power of 3 will do for me
Think 2 will be enough
You have some unreasonable demands for me?
Not sure they'd be considered unreasonable
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I prefer Narnia to Wonderland "Centaur fetish? That explains a lot | |||
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"One word answers. Vague one liner messages. Gives me nothing to work with. Also, profiles that tell you nothing. Aggressive profiles. Delete and move on. " Yep. | |||
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"Some good points being shared here. I'm also aware some of you guys don't post much so thanks for the plunge. Can I post my thanks too? See I'm asking permission
You just did gorgeous. ... now be off with you...wait your turn
You ladies will all give us an unpleasant bollocking tomorrow I'm sure.. "Can't the forum handle the two threads simultaneously!?
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"Conversation dying if I have been making the effort and getting nothing back Unreasonable demands that come out of nowhere Mixed messages Where's no. 4 you must have one?
No - the power of 3 will do for me
Think 2 will be enough
You have some unreasonable demands for me?
Not sure they'd be considered unreasonable
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Centaur fetish? That explains a lot "No lol, have you seen the wardrobe imagine what you could fit in there!!! | |||
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"Ok. I better add my bit before it goes full time. Stop assuming he was so into you Stop assuming that he’s not interested in you now Stop thinking you have any idea what he feels because you don’t, and you won’t… if you accept that, you’ll be in a better spot. What you need to realize is whatyou do doesn’t matter, what matters is where your head is at. 1. I'm interested in you...that's far more than your boobs or foofoo. ..your mind and ability to think and question without being personal and defensive are far more attractive. Hold my mind and I most likely will follow. You'll be a better match in bed. 2. Too many demands and unrealistic expectations. This isn't a marriage contract. A simple coffee and 20 mins of good conversation, humour and a smile at parting if no connection. 3. Demanding arrogance by some , they often complain if someone has a different opinion or experience that theirs leaving no room for discussion. Its supposed to be fun. I have some great friends on here whom ill never meet and it's mutual but we respect each other and often disagree but full of respect. 4. Look at me look at me neediness on repetitive forum posts. Instant block. Most likely has very little to give other than a quick fuck. Ok for some but not for me. None of this it to be taken personally...its my observation and experience on being on fab. " Very insightful in my opinion | |||
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"Ok guys lets get constructive and informative. It's a none judgemental and no sweeping generalisations post thank you. So you've been chatting with a lovely lady, exchanged contacts and there seems to be a connection you're trying to arrange a meet.... suddenly for whatever reason you lost interest, like a switch was flicked. Put your top 4 reasons why you may or have suddenly lost interest. Ladies may I ask you to read and listen... your turn will come up tomorrow. "Why would you lose interest if you have a connection. I may be dense here but I don't understand. | |||
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"Right I've read the OP properly 1. Saying something that is counter to my core values e.g. Racist 2. If I start to feel I'm being played - 'gamey' communication 3. If I discover I'm not a good fit for their desires 4. If it gets too much like hard work and loses that the feeling of excited anticipation building" Great points. This is why I limited it to 4.... there's always a few more that one can say...but limiting it make one pause and think. I'm with you on the last one. | |||
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"Ok. I better add my bit before it goes full time. Stop assuming he was so into you Stop assuming that he’s not interested in you now Stop thinking you have any idea what he feels because you don’t, and you won’t… if you accept that, you’ll be in a better spot. What you need to realize is whatyou do doesn’t matter, what matters is where your head is at. 1. I'm interested in you...that's far more than your boobs or foofoo. ..your mind and ability to think and question without being personal and defensive are far more attractive. Hold my mind and I most likely will follow. You'll be a better match in bed. 2. Too many demands and unrealistic expectations. This isn't a marriage contract. A simple coffee and 20 mins of good conversation, humour and a smile at parting if no connection. 3. Demanding arrogance by some , they often complain if someone has a different opinion or experience that theirs leaving no room for discussion. Its supposed to be fun. I have some great friends on here whom ill never meet and it's mutual but we respect each other and often disagree but full of respect. 4. Look at me look at me neediness on repetitive forum posts. Instant block. Most likely has very little to give other than a quick fuck. Ok for some but not for me. None of this it to be taken personally...its my observation and experience on being on fab. " Just to clarify that was a marriage proposal right? | |||
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"Ok. I better add my bit before it goes full time. Stop assuming he was so into you Stop assuming that he’s not interested in you now Stop thinking you have any idea what he feels because you don’t, and you won’t… if you accept that, you’ll be in a better spot. What you need to realize is whatyou do doesn’t matter, what matters is where your head is at. 1. I'm interested in you...that's far more than your boobs or foofoo. ..your mind and ability to think and question without being personal and defensive are far more attractive. Hold my mind and I most likely will follow. You'll be a better match in bed. 2. Too many demands and unrealistic expectations. This isn't a marriage contract. A simple coffee and 20 mins of good conversation, humour and a smile at parting if no connection. 3. Demanding arrogance by some , they often complain if someone has a different opinion or experience that theirs leaving no room for discussion. Its supposed to be fun. I have some great friends on here whom ill never meet and it's mutual but we respect each other and often disagree but full of respect. 4. Look at me look at me neediness on repetitive forum posts. Instant block. Most likely has very little to give other than a quick fuck. Ok for some but not for me. None of this it to be taken personally...its my observation and experience on being on fab. Just to clarify that was a marriage proposal right? "She just wants you to look at her already! | |||
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"Ok. I better add my bit before it goes full time. Stop assuming he was so into you Stop assuming that he’s not interested in you now Stop thinking you have any idea what he feels because you don’t, and you won’t… if you accept that, you’ll be in a better spot. What you need to realize is whatyou do doesn’t matter, what matters is where your head is at. 1. I'm interested in you...that's far more than your boobs or foofoo. ..your mind and ability to think and question without being personal and defensive are far more attractive. Hold my mind and I most likely will follow. You'll be a better match in bed. 2. Too many demands and unrealistic expectations. This isn't a marriage contract. A simple coffee and 20 mins of good conversation, humour and a smile at parting if no connection. 3. Demanding arrogance by some , they often complain if someone has a different opinion or experience that theirs leaving no room for discussion. Its supposed to be fun. I have some great friends on here whom ill never meet and it's mutual but we respect each other and often disagree but full of respect. 4. Look at me look at me neediness on repetitive forum posts. Instant block. Most likely has very little to give other than a quick fuck. Ok for some but not for me. None of this it to be taken personally...its my observation and experience on being on fab. Just to clarify that was a marriage proposal right? "I'm skipping coffee... | |||
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"Ok. I better add my bit before it goes full time. Stop assuming he was so into you Stop assuming that he’s not interested in you now Stop thinking you have any idea what he feels because you don’t, and you won’t… if you accept that, you’ll be in a better spot. What you need to realize is whatyou do doesn’t matter, what matters is where your head is at. 1. I'm interested in you...that's far more than your boobs or foofoo. ..your mind and ability to think and question without being personal and defensive are far more attractive. Hold my mind and I most likely will follow. You'll be a better match in bed. 2. Too many demands and unrealistic expectations. This isn't a marriage contract. A simple coffee and 20 mins of good conversation, humour and a smile at parting if no connection. 3. Demanding arrogance by some , they often complain if someone has a different opinion or experience that theirs leaving no room for discussion. Its supposed to be fun. I have some great friends on here whom ill never meet and it's mutual but we respect each other and often disagree but full of respect. 4. Look at me look at me neediness on repetitive forum posts. Instant block. Most likely has very little to give other than a quick fuck. Ok for some but not for me. None of this it to be taken personally...its my observation and experience on being on fab. Just to clarify that was a marriage proposal right?
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I think tomorrow should be brought forward! It will be interesting to say the least.
Let me explain what a knee jerk reaction is......
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