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For the decent men - Diamonds
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I understand this site can bring all sorts of weird and wonderful people to it. However I do have to say I have had a couple of fantastic meets. Guys who were very respectful and in all honesty it was like a date but with sex lol.
I have been careful in selecting them and chatting with them for a while before meeting. My thought process being if they don't respect my boundaries and comfort zones then we won't get on. If they can't be bothered to find out a bit about me and me them, then again they aren't for me.
If they can't make any effort then not for me.
So anyway I want to thank the decent single men as you are there hiding and restoring my faith xx
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"There are plenty of decent men out there. I chat to a lot of great guys and so far I have had a very positive Fab experience. "
Aww that's brilliant  any more tips to share x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Indeed, a nice post to read and to balance the discussions. We've had lovely meets (both social and play) with several single men, whom were very polite and respectful. "
Aww that's good, I've read so many comments from couples saying they are struggling so again just goes to show the good meets can happen x |
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Balance is key. To be fair, there ARE a lot of decent men here. And women too! There are also a lot of pushy losers.
Like you, Betsy, I've met some fantastic guys, mostly because I also insist that I will only meet men who are respectful to me, first an foremost, online. If they are incapable of that, god only knows what they are like in person (most likely cowardly keyboard warriors, but I won't take the chance).
Another currently running post, though, also acknowledges that there are, sadly, people (of both genders, might I add) who are of the other mind where decency gets you nowhere.
Thank god for the good ones! I really enjoy my chats with them, and hope to meet more as it happens. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Balance is key. To be fair, there ARE a lot of decent men here. And women too! There are also a lot of pushy losers.
Like you, Betsy, I've met some fantastic guys, mostly because I also insist that I will only meet men who are respectful to me, first an foremost, online. If they are incapable of that, god only knows what they are like in person (most likely cowardly keyboard warriors, but I won't take the chance).
Another currently running post, though, also acknowledges that there are, sadly, people (of both genders, might I add) who are of the other mind where decency gets you nowhere.
Thank god for the good ones! I really enjoy my chats with them, and hope to meet more as it happens."
Aww great
Yes I posted on that too. I've had loads of losers message my block list must be 60+ lol and only a few decent but they are there
Here's to finding some more  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Nice post and thanks for taking the time to say something positive about guys
You're welcome x
Get your coat Betsy , you've pulled lol x"
Ooo where are you taking me?! Lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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nice positive post
there are lovely folk in all fabs demographics, i've met some great women, couples, guys and a very lovely t girl too in my time on here so hurrah for the lovely folk of fab  |
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"Nice post and thanks for taking the time to say something positive about guys
You're welcome x
Get your coat Betsy , you've pulled lol x
Ooo where are you taking me?! Lol "
I was thinking of taking you from behind ?  lol x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"There are plenty of decent men out there. I chat to a lot of great guys and so far I have had a very positive Fab experience. "
And you are so very splendidly lovely too |
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agree! not met a person of here that wasn't nice (yes, even after sex...). lots of nice banter as well as some really interesting conversations - not necessarily sex related either. and yes- all with men... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We don't meet single men, but been lucky in the fact that the ones that have contacted us have been very polite and not pushy. There does seem to be a lot of nice men on here, and in general nice people. Perhaps it's my age group that makes a difference. But there's as many couples that I wouldn't choose to meet because of attitudes. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Nice post and thanks for taking the time to say something positive about guys
You're welcome x
Get your coat Betsy , you've pulled lol x
Ooo where are you taking me?! Lol
I was thinking of taking you from behind ? lol x"
Oh playful!!!  lol |
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I don't like the way that single guys on here are always getting treated negatively. Yes there are some men who are horrible, but I've also been told that some women are horrible too.
Genuine lovely natured sexy men do exist, just takes a little time and patience to find them sometimes.
Mrs D |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I don't like the way that single guys on here are always getting treated negatively. Yes there are some men who are horrible, but I've also been told that some women are horrible too.
Genuine lovely natured sexy men do exist, just takes a little time and patience to find them sometimes.
Mrs D"
Exactly Mrs D |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I don't like the way that single guys on here are always getting treated negatively. Yes there are some men who are horrible, but I've also been told that some women are horrible too.
Genuine lovely natured sexy men do exist, just takes a little time and patience to find them sometimes.
Mrs D"
Finding non ranty genuine women is probably harder for single men. |
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Finding non ranty genuine women is probably harder for single men.
lol probably true also. The independent, easy going ones too "
I sometimes look at profiles of women and think that I would never want to meet them as it is all negative, don't like this don't like that. must be really dishartening for a lot of men on here I think... |
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"I don't like the way that single guys on here are always getting treated negatively. Yes there are some men who are horrible, but I've also been told that some women are horrible too.
Genuine lovely natured sexy men do exist, just takes a little time and patience to find them sometimes.
Mrs D"
Thank you we need more women like you to champion and defend the single guys, single guys in my opinion are great and they rock.
I told my girl friend I prefer swinging single and I would like her to do the same, I don't like swinging as a couple at parties its too slow for me and too difficult plus most ladies I noticed have too many cards on their chests.
If you have a beautiful girl , much more beautiful than them , they will always object even though both guys are happy to play, my girlfriend didn't like this and I said you know what lets play as singles and it worked instantly.
Single guys please don't let anyone put you down, I know everything seems like it's always against you, I assure you, you are very valuable  |
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By *s_macWoman
over a year ago
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"I understand this site can bring all sorts of weird and wonderful people to it. However I do have to say I have had a couple of fantastic meets. Guys who were very respectful and in all honesty it was like a date but with sex lol.
I have been careful in selecting them and chatting with them for a while before meeting. My thought process being if they don't respect my boundaries and comfort zones then we won't get on. If they can't be bothered to find out a bit about me and me them, then again they aren't for me.
If they can't make any effort then not for me.
So anyway I want to thank the decent single men as you are there hiding and restoring my faith xx
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I've met some really lovely men from here too and hope to continue.
And thank you for the comment about respecting boundaries, you have just helped with something that had been bothering me without even trying! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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I've met some really lovely men from here too and hope to continue.
And thank you for the comment about respecting boundaries, you have just helped with something that had been bothering me without even trying! "
For me it's important for a better experience and amazing sex. I'm also not looking for one offs and I've been clear about that. I want someone who will help me to explore things, so need a FB |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Finding non ranty genuine women is probably harder for single men.
lol probably true also. The independent, easy going ones too
I sometimes look at profiles of women and think that I would never want to meet them as it is all negative, don't like this don't like that. must be really dishartening for a lot of men on here I think..."
Negative profiles are such a turn off and completely unattractive. Profiles like that are definitely not for me. x |
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That's true, there are some real women here who are just swinging for the fun of it but there is also a lot of women who are unhappy about previous relationships these women give the guys a very hard time.
Guys we just need to differentiate , once you start seeing negativity just avoid |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I understand this site can bring all sorts of weird and wonderful people to it. However I do have to say I have had a couple of fantastic meets. Guys who were very respectful and in all honesty it was like a date but with sex lol.
I have been careful in selecting them and chatting with them for a while before meeting. My thought process being if they don't respect my boundaries and comfort zones then we won't get on. If they can't be bothered to find out a bit about me and me them, then again they aren't for me.
If they can't make any effort then not for me.
So anyway I want to thank the decent single men as you are there hiding and restoring my faith xx
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Touché, they are out there. I met WB on here |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I understand this site can bring all sorts of weird and wonderful people to it. However I do have to say I have had a couple of fantastic meets. Guys who were very respectful and in all honesty it was like a date but with sex lol.
I have been careful in selecting them and chatting with them for a while before meeting. My thought process being if they don't respect my boundaries and comfort zones then we won't get on. If they can't be bothered to find out a bit about me and me them, then again they aren't for me.
If they can't make any effort then not for me.
So anyway I want to thank the decent single men as you are there hiding and restoring my faith xx
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Awwwww fank you xx |
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