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Are you 'like minded'

By *eliciouslady OP Woman over a year ago

Sometimes U.K

When I read 'respectful guy up for some fun with like minded people' on a profile, have no idea what kind of people they refer to

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By *ild-1Woman over a year ago

york

Me neither... waiting to be enlightened

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By *oiluvfunMan over a year ago

Penrith

As you're not looking for single guys, I wouldn't worry too much about it

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I would be 'like minded' if I identified something in his profile text that I agreed / liked.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"When I read 'respectful guy up for some fun with like minded people' on a profile, have no idea what kind of people they refer to

Yeah, i think men really need to make this clear, unless when they state their likes, maybe they want someone with the same likes, not a very broad search though granted

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm guessing that unless you ask you might be waiting a while

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Virgins wanting first time

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I have found like minded people on here but only after many messages exchanged. For me like minded means same outlook on life

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By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
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East Sussex

I often wonder this. I assume like minded on fab means having a similar attitude to sex but as you won't know that until you get chatting its difficult to tell. Maybe people mean like the same things then.

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By *ink Panther.Woman over a year ago

Preston

It means instashag

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By *abs..Woman over a year ago

"I have found like minded people on here but only after many messages exchanged. For me like minded means same outlook on life"

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By *eliciouslady OP Woman over a year ago

Sometimes U.K

"As you're not looking for single guys, I wouldn't worry too much about it

Can I not still be curious though?

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By *orum TrollWoman over a year ago

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"It means instashag

i think so as well.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I would be 'like minded' if I identified something in his profile text that I agreed / liked."

I like to breathe. How about you?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"When I read 'respectful guy up for some fun with like minded people' on a profile, have no idea what kind of people they refer to

Ah the fab buzz words

Discreet (usually spelt incorrectly)

Respectful

Genuine

Clean

There are lots more

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By *oiluvfunMan over a year ago

Penrith

"When I read 'respectful guy up for some fun with like minded people' on a profile, have no idea what kind of people they refer to

Ah the fab buzz words

Discreet (usually spelt incorrectly)

Respectful

Genuine

Clean

There are lots more

You missed 'fun', I bet there's not a single profile in Fab without 'fun' mentioned in it somewhere lol

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By *oiluvfunMan over a year ago

Penrith

"As you're not looking for single guys, I wouldn't worry too much about it

Can I not still be curious though?

Of course you can be curious about it, or maybe, a little intrigued.....

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By *eliciouslady OP Woman over a year ago

Sometimes U.K

Ah the fab buzz words

Discreet (usually spelt incorrectly)

Respectful

Genuine

Clean

You missed 'fun', I bet there's not a single profile in Fab without 'fun' mentioned in it somewhere lol

Can guarantee not on mine

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By *wiftieeMan over a year ago

near Glasgow

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By *wiftieeMan over a year ago

near Glasgow

I'd say my lady and I are like-minded.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Virgins wanting first time

so you are a virgin too?

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By *ophieslutTV/TS over a year ago

Central

It's an easy phrase to fill out a near blank profile.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Just a wild guess but being a swingers site, like minded would be someone who would like to meet for sex too.

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By *ngel n tedCouple over a year ago

maidstone

Does it mean "i'm ready to fuck at the drop of a hat" and wish to meet someone "ready to fuck at the drop of a hat"?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I see that a lot, they clearly know what they want but haven't managed to articulate it enough for? anyone else to know.

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By *risky_MareWoman over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

I hate it - it generally means 'up for it'.... as if that was enough to mean two people would necessarily get on

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I would be 'like minded' if I identified something in his profile text that I agreed / liked."

I like sex, or at least it says I do in my profile.

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By *rightonsteveMan over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"When I read 'respectful guy up for some fun with like minded people' on a profile, have no idea what kind of people they refer to

People who like the things I like I suppose and as I like a lot of things a lot of people like, it's not much of a barrier for me.

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By *igeiaWoman over a year ago

Bristol

I don't have it written on my profile (I don't think) but it might actually help me be more succinct. As stock phrases go there are far worse; it's really only shorthand for saying "I want to meet someone I can get on with rather than any port in a storm". I don't look for anything specific visually when it comes to meets; I have no specific preferences in that respect so for me like minded is what I'm looking for. That doesn't mean that everyone looking for like minded will suit me though since figuring that out only comes through messaging, getting to know someone and finding out we have a similar approach to things generally, get on and share some sexual peccadilloes.

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By *eliciouslady OP Woman over a year ago

Sometimes U.K

I like your thinking Ligeia, also for the new word to add to my vocabulary

peccadilloes:

a relatively minor fault or sin.

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By *uckOfTheBayMan over a year ago

Mold

What if you both were complete introverts .....

Would you sit at opposite ends of the coffee shop, occasionally looking up but neither daring to say a word ?

It would make for a very quiet meet