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By *yrdwoman OP Woman
over a year ago
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I just booked a room at Chameleons......for October!! 
I am a single working mum with a very busy social life, on here and otherwise. I run two diaries and would be lost without them and my mobile. So I tend to book myself up in advance! I do like last minute meets, but they are rare for me.
How about you? |
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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago
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I prefer last minute meets with people Ive already 'vetted'....
I find that if I plan things in advance I usually just want to spend the night watching tv in my jamas rather than play out  |
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By *yrdwoman OP Woman
over a year ago
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"I find that if I plan things in advance I usually just want to spend the night watching tv in my jamas rather than play out "
Sometiems I get cancellations and think 'Thank GOD! I can eat chocolate all night instead'.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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last minute
if have found the more in advance the meet is made, the less chance of it actually happening is
luckily i don't have kids to consider and have agreed days when i see my othe half so i know what days i can play
my biggest problem is work going tits up so i tend to wait til all that is put to bed before agreeing to meet anyone. |
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By *yrdwoman OP Woman
over a year ago
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"It should only take you 45 mins from York to mine _yrdwoman. "
Good try!! If the buses and trains run right the shortest time I have done mine to a meet in Leeds is 1 hour!
But I have a meet in Leeds tonight so will let you know.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i've had people turn up before i've even got in the shower !
twice that's happened
i live on a main road & i swear they must be able to pick up my 'on heat' signals as they drive past |
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"I just booked a room at Chameleons......for October!!
I am a single working mum with a very busy social life, on here and otherwise. I run two diaries and would be lost without them and my mobile. So I tend to book myself up in advance! I do like last minute meets, but they are rare for me.
How about you?"
Depends...i know not helpful but true! 
Clubs we plan in advance, like you getting a sitter for a whole night is hard to organise.
Daytime meets, generally for mmf are usually decided the night before.
On one very memorable occasion my Master told me he would be arriving in 20 minutes!i fussed about my hair! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I bit of both given a choice but i will rarely drop things for a spur of the moment meet unless its someone i have met before. 
+ 1 "
+ 2 adding that an exception for me would be someone i am very interested in getting to know better  |
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Always have last minute meets but with people I have already decided to meet, that way I don't have to worry about running the risk of having to cancel.
Also I find the las minute meets even more exciting. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i have someone who always asks if im free.
but i prefer to get to know someone and not just do a quickie without knowing them first.
am i being silly here or just being safe?, i dont really know.
im sure shes a nice woman but i just cannot say yes to someone instantly without knowing them. |
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"i have someone who always asks if im free.
but i prefer to get to know someone and not just do a quickie without knowing them first.
am i being silly here or just being safe?, i dont really know.
im sure shes a nice woman but i just cannot say yes to someone instantly without knowing them."
You are just being safe, I always chat with guys for a while before I decide if I would meet them, I find this helps to ensure that you are all going to enjoy the meet and are looking for the same things from a meet. |
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By *yrdwoman OP Woman
over a year ago
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"i have someone who always asks if im free.
but i prefer to get to know someone and not just do a quickie without knowing them first.
am i being silly here or just being safe?, i dont really know.
im sure shes a nice woman but i just cannot say yes to someone instantly without knowing them."
Why don't you get to know her then? |
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We wont meet unless we have been speaking to that person for a while. Our 1st meet with them are always a social one 1st, as it can be hard for all 4 people to be happy with one another. The only way we would do a last minute meet is if we have previously meet the people before. |
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